Embracing Divine Purpose: The Impact of Mothers

 

Summary

Today, I shared some principles from the Bible on how mothers can impact and influence those around them. We began by honoring all women, not just mothers, emphasizing that everyone's role is significant in our community and in the eyes of God. I shared a humorous anecdote about a misunderstanding involving texting acronyms to lighten the mood and connect on a personal level with the congregation.

We delved into the importance of being where God has placed us, emphasizing that each person is exactly where they need to be for a reason. This theme of divine placement was illustrated through the story of Esther, who was positioned by God to save her people at a crucial time. Her courage to act, despite the potential personal cost, was highlighted as a model of faith and purpose.

I also addressed the pressures and unrealistic portrayals of family life on social media, urging everyone to appreciate their own life and family without falling into the trap of comparison. This led into a discussion on the value of genuine self-assessment and the importance of measuring ourselves not against others, but against the faith and life of Jesus Christ.

The sermon included a poignant reminder of the influence mothers and all women have, not just within their families but across generations. I shared stories from the Bible, including those of Hannah and Mary, to illustrate the powerful roles women have played throughout history. These stories underscored the theme of legacy and the enduring impact of maternal influence.

Finally, I encouraged everyone to be the biggest, most Christ-like influence they can be, not just within their families but in all spheres of life. This call to action was aimed at inspiring our congregation to live out their faith boldly and consistently, ensuring that their influence would be felt for generations to come.

Key Takeaways:

1. Divine Placement and Purpose: Just like Esther, you are placed by God in your current circumstances for a purpose that might be bigger than you can see right now. Whether at home, work, or in the community, your presence and actions are significant. Embrace where you are as part of God’s plan. [57:43]

2. Resisting Social Media Pressures: In a world saturated with curated images of perfection, it's vital to ground your self-worth and family life in reality and Christ, not comparison. Remember, social media often highlights the best moments while omitting everyday struggles. Focus on what truly matters. [01:00:45]

3. Legacy of Faith: Your influence as a parent or mentor extends beyond your immediate family. Like Timothy, who was influenced by the faith of his mother and grandmother, your spiritual legacy can bless future generations. Invest deeply in those God has placed in your life. [01:02:23]

4. The Power of a Praying Woman: The stories of Hannah and Mary remind us that prayerful dependence on God in all circumstances sets a powerful example for those around us. Your prayers can shape the lives of your children and those you mentor. [53:50]

5. Being Christ-like Everywhere: Consistency in your Christian walk speaks volumes. Whether you are behind the sacred desk, at home, or in public, strive to reflect Christ in all you do. This consistent testimony is powerful and impacts everyone you encounter. [01:03:00]

Youtube Chapters:
- [0:00] - Welcome
- [06:54] - Opening Prayer and Worship Introduction
- [42:48] - Sharing a Personal Anecdote
- [43:52] - Introduction to Mother's Day Message
- [48:24] - Discussing the Challenges Mothers Face
- [53:18] - Highlighting Biblical Examples of Influential Women
- [56:03] - Emphasizing Being Where God Wants You
- [01:01:19] - Legacy and Influence Through Generations
- [01:03:30] - Conclusion and Final Encouragement

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
- Proverbs 31:27-31: "She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: 'Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.' Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate."

#### Observation Questions
1. What qualities are highlighted in Proverbs 31:27-31 about a virtuous woman?
2. How did the pastor use the story of Esther to illustrate the theme of divine placement and purpose? ([57:43])
3. What examples did the pastor give to show the unrealistic portrayals of family life on social media? ([59:41])
4. How did the pastor describe the influence of mothers and women across generations, using the example of Timothy's family? ([01:01:19])

#### Interpretation Questions
1. What does it mean to "watch over the affairs of her household" in the context of Proverbs 31:27-31, and how can this be applied today?
2. How can Esther's courage and divine placement inspire individuals in their current circumstances? ([57:43])
3. Why is it important to resist the pressures of social media, and how can focusing on Christ help in this regard? ([01:00:45])
4. How does the legacy of faith, as seen in Timothy's family, impact future generations, and what can we learn from this? ([01:01:19])

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your current circumstances. How can you embrace where you are as part of God's plan, similar to Esther's story? ([57:43])
2. Have you ever felt pressured by social media to present a perfect image of your family or life? How can you ground your self-worth in Christ instead? ([01:00:45])
3. Think about the influence you have on those around you. How can you be a more Christ-like influence in your family and community? ([01:03:00])
4. In what ways can you invest in the spiritual growth of the next generation, similar to how Timothy's mother and grandmother influenced him? ([01:01:19])
5. How can you incorporate prayer more deeply into your daily life, following the examples of Hannah and Mary? ([53:50])
6. Identify one area in your life where you can be more consistent in reflecting Christ. What steps will you take to improve in this area? ([01:03:00])
7. How can you support and encourage other women in your community to embrace their roles and influence as part of God's plan? ([56:03])

Devotional

Day 1: Embrace Your Divine Placement
God has positioned you purposefully; recognize and embrace this divine placement in your life. Understanding that you are where you are for a reason can transform how you view your daily activities and interactions. Just as Esther was placed by God in a pivotal role for such a time as this, you too are positioned in your current circumstances with a purpose that might be bigger than you can see right now. Whether you are at home, work, or in your community, your presence and actions have significant implications. Embrace your role as part of God’s grand design, and consider how you can act faithfully in your given environment. [57:43]

Esther 4:14: "For if you keep silent at this time, relief and deliverance will rise for the Jews from another place, but you and your father's house will perish. And who knows whether you have not come to the kingdom for such a time as this?”

Reflection: What specific situation in your life right now might be your "Esther moment," where you are uniquely positioned to make a difference?

Day 2: Ground Your Identity Beyond Social Media
In a world saturated with curated images of perfection, it's vital to ground your self-worth and family life in reality and Christ, not comparison. Social media often highlights the best moments while omitting everyday struggles, which can skew our perception of reality. This day encourages you to focus on what truly matters—your real-life interactions and the unfiltered moments that bring true joy. Remember, your value does not decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth. [01:00:45]

James 3:14-16: "But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast and be false to the truth. This is not the wisdom that comes down from above, but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice."

Reflection: How can you actively remind yourself to appreciate your real life rather than the highlight reels of others on social media today?

Day 3: Cultivate a Legacy of Faith
Your influence as a parent or mentor extends beyond your immediate family. Like Timothy, who was influenced by the faith of his mother and grandmother, your spiritual legacy can bless future generations. This day focuses on the importance of investing deeply in those God has placed in your life, nurturing them not just through words, but through living out a faithful, Christ-centered life. Your actions and decisions today are the seeds of the faith that will grow in your family and community. [01:02:23]

2 Timothy 1:5: "I am reminded of your sincere faith, a faith that dwelt first in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice and now, I am sure, dwells in you as well."

Reflection: What are practical ways you can strengthen your spiritual legacy within your family this week?

Day 4: The Power of a Praying Woman
The stories of Hannah and Mary remind us that prayerful dependence on God in all circumstances sets a powerful example for those around us. Your prayers can shape the lives of your children and those you mentor. This day encourages you to embrace prayer not just as a routine but as a profound way to influence and guide the lives of those in your care. Through prayer, you connect with God’s power, which can transform both your life and the lives of others around you. [53:50]

1 Samuel 1:27-28: "For this child I prayed, and the Lord has granted me my petition that I made to him. Therefore I have lent him to the Lord. As long as he lives, he is lent to the Lord."

Reflection: What specific concerns for your children or mentees can you bring to God in prayer today?

Day 5: Reflect Christ in All You Do
Consistency in your Christian walk speaks volumes. Whether you are behind the sacred desk, at home, or in public, strive to reflect Christ in all you do. This consistent testimony is powerful and impacts everyone you encounter. Today, consider how each action, word, and decision can reflect Christ’s love and truth. By living out your faith boldly and consistently, you ensure that your influence will be felt for generations to come. [01:03:00]

Colossians 3:17: "And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him."

Reflection: How can you demonstrate Christ-like behavior in a challenging situation you might face today?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "Don't believe social media. Here's a secret you might not know. There is no family that is perfect. And if they tell you they are, they're lying. Social media is littered with highlights of someone's life. Not the everyday, not the ordinary moments. Mom, don't compare yourself or your kids to other people. You're where you're supposed to be for a reason." [59:41]( | | )

2. "Paul tells the church in Rome, I give each of you this warning. Don't think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves, measuring yourselves by the faith God has given us. Social media is not honest. It typically shows the highs and not the lows of someone's day. Don't believe the hype." [01:00:45]( | | )

3. "Because Jesus already died for you. He gave you value. And finally, be the biggest influence you can. Remember your genuine faith, for you share the faith that first filled your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice. And I know that same faith continues strong in you." [01:01:19]( | | )

4. "Be Christ-like. Be a Christ-like influence in your children's lives. Build a legacy into your children's lives that will impact generations after you. Be the biggest influence you can be. Don't settle for the cool mom. Settle for the Christ-like mom. Be an example at home, at church, at work." [01:03:00]( | | )

### Quotes for Members

1. "It's where God wants you to be. The kids you have been blessed with, and they are a blessing, it's where God wants you to be. The family you have, the friends you have, you have in place with the right people at the right time. And know that you are loved here." [58:55]( | | )

2. "You probably know the story of Esther. She's one of the greatest women in the Bible. She's now faced with a decision. Protecting her people or remaining silent. Her cousin Mordecai inspires her to approach the king. Who knows? If perhaps you were made queen just for such a time as this." [57:43]( | | )

3. "Hannah, the mother of Samuel, a woman of prayer. Naomi, the mother-in-law of Ruth. Mary, the mother of Jesus. Pregnant as a teenager. Big problem at the time. She could have been stoned but she and Joseph chose to protect that child. That's a pretty good resume. Gave birth to the Savior of the world." [53:50]( | | )

4. "So wherever you're planted, that's where you're supposed to be. So don't murmur or complain about where the grass is greener here. Because you're where you're supposed to be doing the will of God, and there is nothing more important than that." [56:03]( | | )

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