Embracing Desperation: Finding Growth in Difficult Times

Summary

In today's message, we explored the profound truth that our spiritual growth often occurs in times of desperation and difficulty. It's in these moments, when the seas of life are not smooth, that we find ourselves reaching out to God with a fervent plea for help. This "gift of desperation" is not something we naturally desire, yet it is a fertile ground for growth. We began by acknowledging the courage of those who braved the cold to join us today, and we extended a warm welcome to those watching online. This month, we focus on our mission statement: "Roosevelt Lighthouse is a family of believers growing deeper in God's love and reaching out in Christ Jesus."

We delved into the story of Abram, later known as Abraham, from Genesis 12 and 13. Abram's journey is a testament to God's unwavering faithfulness, even when we falter. Despite receiving God's promises, Abram made questionable decisions, such as lying about his wife Sarai being his sister out of fear for his life. Yet, God continued to bless him, demonstrating that His love and grace are not contingent on our perfection. This narrative reminds us that God uses flawed individuals to fulfill His purposes, offering hope to all of us who have made mistakes.

We also discussed the importance of discerning the voices we listen to. While the enemy seeks to convince us of our unworthiness, God's voice speaks truth, love, and purpose into our lives. Ephesians 1:3-14 reassures us of our identity in Christ, chosen and redeemed, blessed with every spiritual blessing. It's crucial to replace the negative voices with the truth of God's Word, which affirms our worth and purpose.

In closing, we were encouraged to embrace the gift of desperation, seeking God's guidance and forgiveness. By admitting our struggles and failures, we open ourselves to His transformative power. God's love is not based on our merit but on His grace, and He desires to change our lives, language, and eternal destination. Let us be honest about our brokenness and lean into His love and forgiveness.

Key Takeaways:

1. The Gift of Desperation: Spiritual growth often occurs in times of desperation. When life is challenging, we are more likely to reach out to God, seeking His help and guidance. These moments, though uncomfortable, are opportunities for profound growth and transformation. [00:00]

2. God's Faithfulness Despite Our Failures: Abram's story illustrates that God's faithfulness is not dependent on our perfection. Despite Abram's fear-driven decisions, God continued to bless him. This reassures us that God uses flawed individuals to fulfill His purposes, offering hope to all who have made mistakes. [11:56]

3. Discerning the Voices We Hear: It's crucial to discern the voices we listen to. The enemy seeks to convince us of our unworthiness, but God's voice speaks truth, love, and purpose into our lives. Replacing negative voices with the truth of God's Word affirms our worth and purpose. [17:39]

4. Our Identity in Christ: Ephesians 1:3-14 reminds us of our identity in Christ. We are chosen, redeemed, and blessed with every spiritual blessing. Understanding and embracing this identity helps us overcome feelings of unworthiness and live out our God-given purpose. [22:11]

5. Embracing Transformation: By admitting our struggles and failures, we open ourselves to God's transformative power. His love is not based on our merit but on His grace. He desires to change our lives, language, and eternal destination, offering forgiveness and a new beginning. [26:25]

Youtube Chapters:

- [00:00] - Welcome
- [01:21] - Mission Statement
- [03:15] - The Gift of Desperation
- [04:01] - Voices Series Recap
- [05:48] - Abram's Journey Begins
- [06:46] - God's Promises to Abram
- [07:33] - Abram's Praise and Altar
- [09:00] - Abram's Fear and Deception
- [10:22] - Consequences in Egypt
- [11:56] - God's Continued Blessing
- [15:45] - God's Unwavering Love
- [17:39] - The Voice of Truth
- [22:11] - Our Identity in Christ
- [23:26] - Embracing Desperation
- [26:25] - Transformation and New Beginnings

Study Guide

Bible Study Discussion Guide

Bible Reading:
1. Genesis 12:1-9
2. Genesis 12:10-20
3. Ephesians 1:3-14

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Observation Questions:

1. What specific promises did God make to Abram in Genesis 12:1-9, and how did Abram initially respond to these promises? [05:48]

2. In Genesis 12:10-20, what decision did Abram make out of fear, and what were the consequences of that decision? [09:00]

3. According to Ephesians 1:3-14, what are some of the spiritual blessings that believers have in Christ? [22:11]

4. How does the sermon describe the "gift of desperation," and why is it considered a fertile ground for spiritual growth? [03:15]

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Interpretation Questions:

1. How does Abram's story in Genesis 12 illustrate the concept of God's faithfulness despite human failure? What does this reveal about God's character? [11:56]

2. In what ways does the sermon suggest that the voices we listen to can impact our perception of worth and purpose? How does this relate to the message in Ephesians 1? [17:39]

3. What does the sermon imply about the relationship between admitting our struggles and experiencing God's transformative power? How does this connect to the idea of embracing desperation? [26:25]

4. How does the sermon use Abram's story to convey the message that God uses flawed individuals to fulfill His purposes? What hope does this offer to believers today? [15:45]

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Application Questions:

1. Reflect on a time when you experienced the "gift of desperation." How did it impact your spiritual growth, and how can you embrace such moments in the future? [03:15]

2. Consider the voices you listen to daily. Are there any negative voices that you need to replace with the truth of God's Word? How can you actively do this? [17:39]

3. Abram made decisions out of fear that led to negative consequences. Are there areas in your life where fear is influencing your decisions? How can you seek God's guidance to overcome this? [09:00]

4. Ephesians 1:3-14 speaks of our identity in Christ. How can understanding and embracing this identity help you overcome feelings of unworthiness? [22:11]

5. The sermon encourages admitting struggles to experience transformation. What specific struggles do you need to bring before God, and how can you open yourself to His transformative power? [26:25]

6. Reflect on the idea that God uses flawed individuals for His purposes. How does this truth encourage you in your personal walk with God, especially when you feel inadequate? [15:45]

7. How can you actively participate in your church's mission statement of "growing deeper in God's love and reaching out in Christ Jesus"? What steps can you take this week to live out this mission? [01:21]

Devotional

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Day 1: Embracing Desperation as a Catalyst for Growth
In times of desperation, we often find ourselves reaching out to God with a fervent plea for help. These moments, though uncomfortable, are fertile ground for spiritual growth and transformation. When life is challenging, we are more likely to seek God's guidance, opening ourselves to His transformative power. This "gift of desperation" is not something we naturally desire, yet it is a profound opportunity for growth. By embracing these difficult times, we allow God to work in our lives in ways we might not have imagined. [00:00]

Isaiah 41:10 (ESV): "Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand."

Reflection: Think of a current challenge you are facing. How can you invite God into this situation and allow it to be a catalyst for your spiritual growth today?

Day 2: God's Faithfulness Amidst Our Imperfections
The story of Abram, later known as Abraham, illustrates that God's faithfulness is not dependent on our perfection. Despite Abram's fear-driven decisions, such as lying about his wife Sarai, God continued to bless him. This narrative reassures us that God uses flawed individuals to fulfill His purposes, offering hope to all who have made mistakes. God's unwavering love and grace are not contingent on our actions but are a testament to His character. We are reminded that our failures do not disqualify us from His plans. [11:56]

2 Timothy 2:13 (ESV): "If we are faithless, he remains faithful—for he cannot deny himself."

Reflection: Reflect on a time when you felt unworthy of God's love due to a mistake. How can you embrace His faithfulness and grace in your life today, despite your imperfections?

Day 3: Tuning into the Voice of Truth
In a world filled with competing voices, it's crucial to discern which ones we listen to. The enemy seeks to convince us of our unworthiness, but God's voice speaks truth, love, and purpose into our lives. Ephesians 1:3-14 reassures us of our identity in Christ, chosen and redeemed, blessed with every spiritual blessing. By replacing negative voices with the truth of God's Word, we affirm our worth and purpose. Listening to God's voice helps us navigate life's challenges with confidence and clarity. [17:39]

John 10:27 (ESV): "My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me."

Reflection: Identify a negative voice or thought that has been influencing you. How can you replace it with the truth of God's Word today?

Day 4: Understanding Our Identity in Christ
Ephesians 1:3-14 reminds us of our identity in Christ. We are chosen, redeemed, and blessed with every spiritual blessing. Understanding and embracing this identity helps us overcome feelings of unworthiness and live out our God-given purpose. When we know who we are in Christ, we can stand firm against the lies of the enemy and walk confidently in our calling. This identity is not based on our merit but on God's grace and love for us. [22:11]

1 Peter 2:9 (ESV): "But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light."

Reflection: How does understanding your identity in Christ change the way you view yourself and your purpose today?

Day 5: Opening Ourselves to Transformation
By admitting our struggles and failures, we open ourselves to God's transformative power. His love is not based on our merit but on His grace. He desires to change our lives, language, and eternal destination, offering forgiveness and a new beginning. Embracing this transformation requires honesty about our brokenness and a willingness to lean into His love and forgiveness. As we do so, we experience the profound change that only God can bring. [26:25]

2 Corinthians 5:17 (ESV): "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come."

Reflection: What is one area of your life where you need God's transformative power? How can you invite Him to bring change and new beginnings in this area today?

Quotes

"about how we don't really grow closer to God when the sea's smooth, you know, when things are easy, when things are going our way, we don't tend to plead with God to help us in those moments. It is when, it was, the phrase was taught to me, the gift of desperation. When he gives us a gift of desperation. Desperation doesn't feel good. It's not where we want to be, but there sure is a lot of growth that happens right there, isn't there?" [00:00:00]

"This seemed like a good idea to Abram to make up this big lie to protect himself. And really, he won from it in terms of getting all these animals that Scripture tells us that he's got. But this same guy, the same guy that God is making these promises to, that he's making this covenant with, he makes an even stronger covenant a little later, but this lying, scheming, sorry excuse of a husband did all that right after he heard what God promised him. So, my belief is God uses all these broken, lying, scheming." [00:10:54]

"i mean the voices he was listening to it made perfect sense matter of fact not only did it make perfect sense he felt like he needed to do that so not only was it a ridiculous plan he was convinced that it was the right thing for him to do now if you study the rest of that scripture it doesn't look like there's any repentance they tell him to leave egypt i can't see where he said oh lord i'm sorry for my behavior at least not here i can't see where he's like boy i've made some terrible choices i can't see any of that in him but just from reading the story i could picture my life and how many times i've made those stupid decisions god's like here's a wife take her and love her here's your kids take them and be a good father here's some finances take them and take care of it and i'm like i almost wasted it all i almost gave it all away because of my stupid plan so i can relate to this guy i can relate to abram as a matter of fact i still believe that and there's so many examples of it this is why god uses these broken people so that we can have hope i mean if god can still love abram if god can still speak to abram if god can" [00:12:14]

"still be with abram after he's such a scheming lying fearful what he did it that was on there too right fear he did it out of fear because he didn't want the egyptians to kill him and take house just think about that for a minute he didn't want the egyptians to kill him and take his wife so what does he do he gives her away how ridiculous not a brain surgeon abraham is not a brain surgeon but god is with him matter of fact let's go on to the next scripture actually let me read you this one i don't think i made a slide for it it's it's 13 1 and 2." [00:13:35]

"God's still giving him. God's still blessing him. God's saying, go take a look. All this is yours. Of course, or will be. After he just pulled what he just pulled in Egypt. I mean, sometimes you scratch your head and go, what kind of God would do that? What kind of God would love someone who would make those decisions? Well, it's the kind of God that our God is." [00:15:45]

"seek to follow it's the one that we're studying about it's the voice that we're trying to hear the voice of truth the voice of truth you know the there's some things that I that we're going to go through this morning after we close the service but but one of the things I want to head us that direction now do you believe that Abraham that Abram do you believe Abram made some bad choices do you believe he was acting out of fear do you believe he was a liar there's a lot of things that we can say about Abram but God's still with them isn't he this guy this is the guy that we call father Abra Abraham so his name does get changed as much as I'm trying to change it before it actually gets changed Abraham the father of many nations the beginning of the world and the beginning of the world and the beginning of the nation of Israel it actually gets Jacob's name gets changed to Israel but Abraham is where it starts with the promise with the covenant that he made with Abram and so this is the guy that God's gonna bless and give and lead and trust and protect and prosper yeah Wow really yeah" [00:16:18]

"really so no matter what stupid choices i've made i could probably include you in there whatever stupid choices you've made whatever lies you've told whatever you thought was manipulating the situation to come out in your favor that was really against what god had intended for you to do he's still with you now you can't really tell it from what we shared with abram so far this morning but one of the things that comes along with that for us is another voice the voice that's either you or satan that tells you you're just no good you've made too many mistakes how could you be so worthless and stupid do you really think god could use someone like you do you really think that you are worthy to serve a perfect god do you really think that how could you have that in your mind you have screwed up way too many times and you're useless in god's kingdom that's not the voice of truth that's the voice of the enemy that's the one trying to convince you" [00:17:39]

"that you're not worthy that you're not good enough that you'll never be used by God as a matter of fact you're probably going to hell that's the voice that's telling you that because why would God save someone like you well let me tell you it's not because of you it's because of him it's because of him and now now that I've got you thinking about all these things that you've done and said and thought and all those things let me tell you what God says about you just just a snippet of it I mean I'm just going to read you like five verses hold on a minute you ready for this you ready for some good news I've already told you some bad news haven't I now I'm going to share with you some good news so Ephesians chapter 1 that says verses 3 through 14 but I'm not even going to use all that this morning so listen to the verse 3 through 14 and I'm going to tell you what God says about you and it's also about the reason these things are true so it starts out with this praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ so all the things" [00:19:01]

"you've done all the mistakes you've made all the all that stuff this is what he says spiritual blessings in christ for he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight in love he predestined us for adoption to sonship through christ jesus in accordance with his pleasure and will to the praise of his glorious grace which he has freely given us in the one he loves in him we have redemption through his blood and forgiveness of sins plural sins not sin sins plural in accordance with the riches of god's grace that he lavished on us" [00:20:21]

"I want to keep swapping the one voice I hear that tells me I'm no good for the other voice that says He loves me and He forgives me and He wants to spend time with me and He wants to use me. That He has things that He's made before the beginning of the earth for me to do. He's crafted me for a purpose. And He has... He has you too." [00:22:27]

"Let's do our part of removing what's in the way between us and God by admitting where we are struggling with our value, our lifestyle, our performance. I don't know what your struggle is, but I bet you got some because it is in the rain that we grow. It is in the trouble that He calls us. It is when we are going through these storms that we get the gift of desperation." [00:23:46]

"a humble and contrite heart oh lord you will not despise that's what david says so let's go there talk to him for a minute while i take care of some business here you are worthy of god's love he says it not me you can be forgiven of all your sins he says it not me he made you for a purpose he says it not me i'm just reiterating what he says you are loved i can tell you that my experience is there have been times when i wouldn't love me and some of them haven't been all that long ago he loves us anyway he forgives us anyway not because of how great you are but because of how wonderful he is if you have something you need to confess join the join the crowd join us just go ahead and just admit you know i've screwed up a bunch of i've been lying scheming cheating terrible husband he'll take all that away not only will he take that sin and guilt away he'll help me be a better person to stop the lion that's one there's some crazy things that he's done in my life that i can't stand to lie anymore even if i tell myself i'm doing it to help somebody not feel bad or help so i can't stand a lot" [00:24:43]

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