Embracing Costly Grace: The Transformative Power of Love
Summary
In today's gathering, we explored the profound and transformative nature of love as described in 1 Corinthians 13, often referred to as the "love chapter." This passage challenges us to examine the essence of true love and the cost of embodying it in our lives. Love, as depicted here, is not merely a sentimental feeling but an active choice that requires humility, patience, and a willingness to see others as God sees them. It is a love that transcends eloquence, knowledge, and even faith if it is not rooted in genuine care for others.
We reflected on the teachings of Dietrich Bonhoeffer, who distinguished between "cheap grace" and "costly grace." Cheap grace is the grace we desire without any personal transformation or sacrifice, while costly grace compels us to change, to love those we might prefer to judge, and to engage in the hard work of self-reflection and growth. This costly grace calls us to live out love in a way that challenges our prejudices and compels us to act with compassion and justice.
The story of Jesus in Luke 4, where He challenges the expectations of His hometown, serves as a reminder that God's grace is not limited by human boundaries or biases. Jesus' message was not just for the insiders but for the outsiders, the marginalized, and those often overlooked. This radical inclusivity often provokes discomfort and resistance, yet it is the very heart of the gospel.
As we navigate the complexities of our world, we are called to let love illuminate our hearts, relationships, and communities. This love is not passive but active, requiring us to engage with the world around us with grace and humility. It is a love that sees beyond the surface, recognizing the divine image in every person and responding with compassion and justice.
In our communal and individual lives, we are invited to embrace this costly grace, allowing it to transform us and guide us in our journey of faith. As we partake in the sacrament of communion, we remember the ultimate act of love and sacrifice, committing ourselves to live as instruments of God's grace in the world.
Key Takeaways:
1. The Nature of True Love: True love, as described in 1 Corinthians 13, is not a mere feeling but an active choice that requires humility and selflessness. It calls us to see others as God sees them, transcending eloquence and knowledge if not rooted in genuine care. [16:45]
2. Costly Grace vs. Cheap Grace: Dietrich Bonhoeffer's concept of costly grace challenges us to move beyond superficial grace that demands nothing of us. Costly grace compels us to love those we might prefer to judge, requiring personal transformation and sacrifice. [37:19]
3. Radical Inclusivity of God's Grace: Jesus' message in Luke 4 reminds us that God's grace is not limited by human boundaries or biases. It challenges our prejudices and calls us to extend love and compassion to the marginalized and overlooked. [42:07]
4. Active Love in Community: Love is not passive but requires active engagement with the world. It calls us to illuminate our hearts, relationships, and communities with grace and humility, recognizing the divine image in every person. [45:15]
5. Communal and Individual Transformation: Embracing costly grace involves both communal and individual transformation. As we partake in communion, we commit to living as instruments of God's grace, allowing it to guide us in our journey of faith. [48:33]
Youtube Chapters:
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [02:17] - Announcements and Community Events
- [16:45] - Introduction to Love and Grace
- [25:07] - Prayer and Reflection
- [32:21] - The Creaking Rusty Gate
- [33:35] - Love Beyond Sentimentality
- [34:36] - Seeing Others as God Sees Them
- [35:58] - Dietrich Bonhoeffer and Costly Grace
- [37:19] - Cheap Grace vs. Costly Grace
- [38:08] - The Challenge of Judgment
- [39:02] - Love as the Reflection of Grace
- [42:07] - Jesus' Radical Inclusivity
- [45:15] - Active Love in Community
- [48:33] - Embracing Costly Grace
- [54:04] - Communion and Confession
- [57:28] - The Great Mystery of Faith
Study Guide
Bible Study Discussion Guide
Bible Reading:
1. 1 Corinthians 13
2. Luke 4:16-30
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Observation Questions:
1. What characteristics of love are highlighted in 1 Corinthians 13, and how do they contrast with common perceptions of love? [16:45]
2. How does Jesus' message in Luke 4 challenge the expectations of His hometown, and what was their reaction? [42:07]
3. What does Dietrich Bonhoeffer mean by "cheap grace" and "costly grace," and how does this concept relate to the sermon? [37:19]
4. How does the sermon describe the role of love in community and individual transformation? [48:33]
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Interpretation Questions:
1. In what ways does 1 Corinthians 13 redefine the concept of love beyond mere sentimentality, and how might this impact one's understanding of relationships? [33:35]
2. How does the story of Jesus in Luke 4 illustrate the radical inclusivity of God's grace, and what implications does this have for modern believers? [42:07]
3. What are the potential challenges and rewards of embracing "costly grace" as described by Bonhoeffer, and how might this influence a person's spiritual journey? [37:19]
4. How does the sermon suggest that active love can illuminate and transform communities, and what might this look like in practice? [45:15]
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Application Questions:
1. Reflect on a time when you struggled to see someone as God sees them. What steps can you take to change your perspective and approach them with love and humility? [34:36]
2. Consider the concept of "costly grace" in your life. What personal sacrifices might be necessary for you to embody this kind of grace in your relationships and community? [37:19]
3. How can you actively engage with your community to extend love and compassion to those who are marginalized or overlooked, as Jesus did in Luke 4? [42:07]
4. Identify a prejudice or bias you hold. What practical steps can you take to challenge and overcome it, allowing love to guide your actions and interactions? [42:07]
5. In what ways can you incorporate the characteristics of love from 1 Corinthians 13 into your daily life, especially in challenging situations? [16:45]
6. How can participating in communal activities, like the sacrament of communion, deepen your understanding and practice of love and grace in your faith journey? [48:33]
7. Think of a specific relationship or situation where you can apply the principles of active love and costly grace. What is one tangible action you can take this week to make a positive impact? [45:15]
Devotional
I'm ready to provide the 5-day devotional based on the steps outlined. Here it is:
Day 1: Love as an Active Choice
True love, as described in 1 Corinthians 13, is not merely a feeling but an active choice that requires humility and selflessness. It challenges individuals to see others as God sees them, transcending eloquence and knowledge if not rooted in genuine care. This love demands a commitment to act with patience and kindness, even when it is difficult. It is a call to embody love in every interaction, recognizing that love is the greatest of all virtues and the foundation of a life lived in faith. [16:45]
1 John 3:18 (ESV): "Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth."
Reflection: Think of a relationship where you struggle to show love. What is one practical step you can take today to demonstrate genuine care and humility in that relationship?
Day 2: Embracing Costly Grace
Dietrich Bonhoeffer's concept of costly grace challenges believers to move beyond superficial grace that demands nothing of them. Costly grace compels individuals to love those they might prefer to judge, requiring personal transformation and sacrifice. It is a grace that calls for a deep commitment to change, to engage in self-reflection, and to grow in love and compassion. This grace is not easy, but it is transformative, leading to a life that reflects the love and sacrifice of Christ. [37:19]
Titus 2:11-12 (ESV): "For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age."
Reflection: Identify a personal bias or judgment you hold. How can you begin to let go of this bias and extend grace to someone you might typically judge?
Day 3: Radical Inclusivity of God's Grace
Jesus' message in Luke 4 reminds us that God's grace is not limited by human boundaries or biases. It challenges prejudices and calls believers to extend love and compassion to the marginalized and overlooked. This radical inclusivity often provokes discomfort and resistance, yet it is the very heart of the gospel. It is a call to see every person as worthy of love and grace, regardless of their status or background. [42:07]
Galatians 3:28 (ESV): "There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus."
Reflection: Consider someone in your community who is often overlooked or marginalized. How can you extend God's love and grace to them in a tangible way this week?
Day 4: Active Love in Community
Love is not passive but requires active engagement with the world. It calls individuals to illuminate their hearts, relationships, and communities with grace and humility, recognizing the divine image in every person. This active love involves stepping out of comfort zones to serve others, to listen, and to act with compassion and justice. It is a love that transforms communities and reflects the heart of God. [45:15]
James 2:14-17 (ESV): "What good is it, my brothers, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can that faith save him? If a brother or sister is poorly clothed and lacking in daily food, and one of you says to them, 'Go in peace, be warmed and filled,' without giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that? So also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead."
Reflection: What is one specific way you can actively serve your community this week, demonstrating love and humility?
Day 5: Communal and Individual Transformation
Embracing costly grace involves both communal and individual transformation. As believers partake in communion, they commit to living as instruments of God's grace, allowing it to guide them in their journey of faith. This transformation is a continuous process, inviting individuals to grow in love, compassion, and justice. It is a call to be a living reflection of God's grace in the world, impacting both personal lives and the broader community. [48:33]
Colossians 3:12-14 (ESV): "Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony."
Reflection: Reflect on your personal journey of faith. What is one area where you feel called to grow in grace and love, and how can you take a step towards that growth today?
Quotes
"If I speak with human eloquence and angelic ecstasy, but not with the love of God, don't have love i'm nothing but a creaking of a rusty gate if i speak god's word with power revealing all of his mysteries and making everything plain as day and if i have faith that says to a mountain jump and it jumps but i don't have love i am nothing if i give everything i own to the poor and even go to the stake to be burned as a martyr but i don't have love i've gotten nowhere so no matter what i say what i believe or what i do i am bankrupt without love love never gives up love cares more for others than for self love doesn't want what it doesn't have love doesn't strut love doesn't have a swelled head doesn't force itself on others isn't always me first doesn't fly off the handle doesn't keep score of the intervention of others doesn't revel when others grovel takes pleasure in the flowering of the truth puts up with everything trust god always always looks for the best never looks back but keeps going to the end love never dies inspired speech will be over someday praying in tongues will end understanding will reach its limit we know only a portion of the truth and what we say about god is always incomplete but when the complete arrives for our incompleteness will be canceled canceled when i was an infant at my mother's breast i gurgled and cooed like an infant and when i grew up i left those infant ways for good we don't see things clearly we're squinting in a fog peering through the through a mist but it won't be long before the weather clears and the sun shines bright we'll see it all then we'll see it all clearly as god sees us knowing god directly just as god knows us but for right now until that completeness we have three things to do to lead us toward consummation trust steadily in god hope unswervingly love extravagantly" [00:11:02]
"you may have seen a theme in our verses today and in our songs today that maybe we're going to talk a bit about love i don't know maybe that's not clear to everyone but maybe it is so we're gonna we're gonna explore a little bit about the connection between love and grace and the transformative challenge of following jesus in our text that you heard earlier from first corinthians 13 where it calls us to examine the nature of true love and what is the cost of embodying it you've likely heard these words that i read earlier today at weddings maybe um they are often read at weddings which i think is is a misuse of the words right i myself like to use them a lot at funerals because i find that frequently people have some sort of love that they have shown throughout their life that really you can speak about this person through the love that they show if i speak of with human eloquence and of angelic ecstasy but don't love i am nothing but a creaking rusty gate it's first one from the message and i love this image of this creaking rusty gate i grew up in the country y 'all A creaking, rusty gate, like I can imagine what that is like, right?" [00:30:18]
"that that is exactly what the scripture is talking about. If we can do all kinds of great things, but we don't do them with love, if we don't do them with love as the basis of what we're doing, we're really... doing nothing. We're a rusty" [00:32:37]
"Love requires humility. It requires a willingness to see. see others" [00:33:52]
"And in it, they're asked, like, what are challenges that you've overcome? And one young man in his video said, I'm a gay black boy in middle school. I've overcome a lot of challenges. And that was his example of how he had overcome challenges and how he dealt with challenges. But he ended his video by saying, I hope that you see me as God sees me." [00:34:15]
"Isn't that what we really need is to be willing to see others as God sees them?" [00:35:08]
"That there's cheap grace and there's costly grace. And that we often want cheap grace. Cheap grace is the grace that we want for ourselves. Where we don't have to do anything, grace just abounds upon us. We all like that cheap grace, right? We don't have to do anything to get it. God just gives us grace." [00:37:24]
"Judgment blinds us to our faults and diminishes our ability to love freely." [00:38:06]
"It's easier to be the critic to point out all of their flaws to point out all of their wrong doings to point out all the ways that they didn't get it right than it is to see them as God sees them." [00:38:46]
"In Luke chapter four which is the follow up to last weeks where Jesus preaches in his own hometown right Jesus stands in the synagogue and he quotes Isaiah the spirit is upon me he has chosen me to preach the message of good news to the poor sent me to announce the pardon of prisoners and recover the sight to the blind to set the burden and battered free and this is" [00:39:18]
"it's a grace that transforms us that calls us into repentance that compels us to love those that we would rather just judge because it's easier to judge them than it is to love them the people in the synagogue wouldn't accept this of Jesus they wanted a messiah who would affirm their prejudices they wanted a messiah who wouldn't challenge them to do something different to be something different and I think if we're honest maybe we'd like that too it's easier to draw lines between us and them than it is to let love illuminate the places where we need to grow than it is to let love shine and show us where we need to change where we need to do something different so what does that mean" [00:42:18]
"you see the love that is described in in first Corinthians 13 is not a passive feeling kind of love it's an active choice" [00:45:15]
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