Embracing Correction: A Path to Spiritual Growth

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David King David a man walking intimately with the Lord he clearly recognized his present and future need for righteous people to rebuke him he recognized that need what is what is rebuke what is reproof reproof is the process which brings something to the light and exposes it right and what are we trying to bring to the light things that are not according to what to God's character to the Word of God right that's our concern as Christians our concern as Christians is I want my life lining up with God's standard. [00:03:59]

David recognizes his stability today could shift and he could be unstable and crooked in an area in a week and he recognizes I need people to come to me and point things out in order to keep me straight and on the straight and narrow road to the heavenly City why would a man pray this a man would pray this prayer because he has a heart that wants to be like Christ right why would we say in a song I asked the Lord that I might grow you want to be like Christ you want to set your feet on higher ground you want to have growth in your life because there's a discontentment that I want to know the Lord more. [00:06:10]

David by acknowledging his need for rebuke by acknowledging the need to even need someone to come and correct him what is David acknowledging that's in his life there could be in his life David acknowledging that he has blind spots is something you can't see I don't see what's behind me it's a blind spot you guys can see very well what's behind me I can't so David here is acknowledging he's got blind spots you see the proud man thinks I don't have anything wrong everything is good with me. [00:11:03]

David recognizes righteous people correcting him is a means of him being kept from doing what unrighteousness from sinning this man does not want to sin and he recognizes it's not just up to me I need input from righteous people in my life that means I need to be a person who takes the verses seriously about in the abundance of counselors there is safety where there is no guidance of people perishes that's what the Proverbs say David recognized if the righteous don't strike me I could fall into eating the delicacies of sin. [00:14:06]

David prays for the righteous to strike him as opposed to who the righteous compared to who yeah the unrighteous the wicked right as Christians how often the wicked might bring something to us not that we shouldn't take the grain of salt of truth that might be in their correction but Christians we're going to get ran over by unbelievers and they're going to mock us and malign us when we do not join them in their flood of debauchery as Peter says David wants the righteous those who are keeping God's standard and know God's standard in a way David wants someone like Ezra who studied the law of God who taught it and did it he wants that type of man to come to him and say hey you look at this in your life. [00:15:27]

David recognizes it's gonna hurt he's praying for something that will actually bring about pain but he's realizes that's not what it's gonna bring about the pain of discipline Hebrews 12 says is what momentary right but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it so David doesn't care strike me on the face that's fine because it's gonna get the ultimate goal of knowing the Lord more and pressing on so I want that so he likens the rebuke as you can see in verse 5 to a strike and he says it in two ways let it righteous man strike me and then he says let him rebuke me it's the same idea the striking in rebuking and he says it's kindness it is oil for my head. [00:17:54]

David views it as kindness and in the Holman Christian it's worded this way instead of it is a kindness he says this it is an act of faithful love Wow then coming to rebuke me is an act of faithful look who wants faithful friends I do I want faithful friends yeah and my wife is the one who lives with me and is able to see the most glaring things and bring them to my attention and I've got to make sure as a husband I'm leading her in a way where she can approach me and bring those concerns forward and not does not feel shut down or shut off so David recognizes when they come to rebuke me they are being faithful to me this is a kindness. [00:19:57]

David is praying to the Lord to do the sending of the righteous man so the righteous man who comes to do the correcting it's not just the man if he's of God doing it in his own initiative the Lord has sent him the Lord has sent him and he says that right there let a righteous man strike me he's praying for God to allow it to happen God allows it to happen it's the Lord think of this it's the Lord who gives another believer discernment an awareness to see your blind spot and we have to be good stewards of that knowledge to deal with it appropriately it's the Lord who then presses that individual to bring it to you. [00:29:38]

David recognizes I could have the ability to be a defensive and proud person and refuse this oil and kindness that is going to be poured on me I could say no to it and this is what happens all of us think we would never refuse the rebuke right I mean you hear the sermon right now and you're sitting there saying yeah yeah I'll receive the rebuke oh yeah I'll take it it's oil this is the problem the rebuke we have yet to receive we imagine we're going to get rebuked about something different than the thing that's actually going to be brought to our attention if the person brought the thing we assume they're going to bring we'd be ready to receive it but they bring something we're totally blind to so that makes it difficult. [00:33:20]

David wants the righteous those who are keeping God's standard and know God's standard in a way David wants someone like Ezra who studied the law of God who taught it and did it he wants that type of man to come to him and say hey you look at this in your life the righteous you know when we rebuke people how important is it that what we're bringing to them is scriptural it's what I'm going to bring to them can I defend it from principles and verses in the Bible is this a scriptural idea or is this my own personal conviction and I realize one issue we face is a lot of times their sayings that are greater than we would like and so it's more difficult to discern but David's praying for the righteous to strike him not the unrighteous. [00:16:04]

David prays for the righteous to strike him as opposed to who the righteous compared to who yeah the unrighteous the wicked right as Christians how often the wicked might bring something to us not that we shouldn't take the grain of salt of truth that might be in their correction but Christians we're going to get ran over by unbelievers and they're going to mock us and malign us when we do not join them in their flood of debauchery as Peter says David wants the righteous those who are keeping God's standard and know God's standard in a way David wants someone like Ezra who studied the law of God who taught it and did it he wants that type of man to come to him and say hey you look at this in your life. [00:15:27]

David recognizes it's gonna hurt he's praying for something that will actually bring about pain but he's realizes that's not what it's gonna bring about the pain of discipline Hebrews 12 says is what momentary right but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it so David doesn't care strike me on the face that's fine because it's gonna get the ultimate goal of knowing the Lord more and pressing on so I want that so he likens the rebuke as you can see in verse 5 to a strike and he says it in two ways let it righteous man strike me and then he says let him rebuke me it's the same idea the striking in rebuking and he says it's kindness it is oil for my head. [00:17:54]

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