Embracing Compassion: Love, Grace, and True Consideration

 

Summary

### Summary

In Luke 7:44-48, Jesus contrasts the actions of a sinful woman with those of Simon the Pharisee. The woman, despite her sins, shows deep love and reverence for Jesus by washing His feet with her tears and anointing them with perfume. Simon, on the other hand, fails to offer even basic hospitality. This passage highlights the theme of preparation for a special occasion, emphasizing that true preparation involves a heart of consideration, compassion, and conviction.

Jesus' willingness to attend Simon's dinner, despite knowing it was a setup, teaches us about seizing opportunities to share God's love, even in uncomfortable or imperfect situations. Simon's lack of consideration for both Jesus and the woman reveals a self-centeredness that can make us immune to the cries of the brokenhearted. True consideration goes beyond mere invitation; it involves making others feel genuinely welcome and valued.

Compassion is another key element. Simon's judgmental attitude towards the woman, based on her past, shows a lack of compassion. Jesus' parable of the two debtors illustrates that those who recognize the depth of their forgiveness will love more deeply. This challenges us to see others through the lens of compassion, understanding that everyone has a story and struggles that we may not fully grasp.

Finally, conviction about sin and forgiveness is crucial. Jesus' analogy of the debtors is not about the quantity of sin but about recognizing our own need for grace. Whether we see ourselves as having little or much sin, the truth is that we all need the same grace. This understanding should lead us to humility and a deeper love for God and others.

### Key Takeaways

1. Consideration Beyond Invitation: True consideration involves more than just inviting Jesus into our lives; it means making Him feel genuinely welcome. This extends to how we treat others, going above and beyond to show love and kindness. Consideration pushes us to act selflessly, reflecting the love of Jesus in our daily interactions. [10:58]

2. Compassion Over Judgment: Simon's judgmental attitude towards the sinful woman highlights the danger of self-righteousness. Compassion requires us to see beyond people's pasts and understand their struggles. By doing so, we reflect Jesus' love and grace, which can transform lives. [20:02]

3. Seizing Imperfect Opportunities: Jesus attended Simon's dinner despite knowing it was a setup, teaching us to seize opportunities to share God's love, even in imperfect situations. Sometimes, the perfect time to act is at an uncommon or uncomfortable moment. [06:09]

4. Humility Through Conviction: Recognizing our own need for grace should lead us to humility. Jesus' parable of the debtors shows that whether we have little or much sin, we all need the same grace. This understanding helps us avoid elevating others' faults above our own and fosters a heart of humility. [27:03]

5. Every Encounter is a Special Occasion: Every person we meet is a special occasion to show God's love. Whether it's a cashier at the store or a neighbor, seeing each interaction as an opportunity to reflect Jesus' love can have a profound impact. [34:21]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[01:35] - Opening Prayer
[03:13] - Introduction: Special Occasion
[04:33] - Jesus and the Pharisees
[06:09] - Seizing Imperfect Opportunities
[07:48] - The Woman's Act of Worship
[09:24] - Simon's Lack of Consideration
[10:58] - True Consideration
[12:49] - Proximity to Brokenness
[14:30] - Everyday Acts of Kindness
[16:17] - The Power of Kindness
[18:04] - Compassion Over Judgment
[20:02] - The Poison of Self-Righteousness
[21:49] - Information and Belief
[23:16] - Exposure to New Perspectives
[25:23] - Conviction About Sin
[27:03] - Leveling the Playing Field
[28:56] - Recognizing Our Need for Grace
[30:51] - The Right Conviction
[32:29] - Same Grace for All
[34:21] - Every Encounter is Special
[35:37] - The Life Jacket of Jesus
[36:31] - Invitation to Accept Jesus
[38:10] - Closing Prayer

Study Guide

### Bible Reading
- Luke 7:44-48

### Observation Questions
1. What actions did the sinful woman take to show her love and reverence for Jesus? ([07:48])
2. How did Simon the Pharisee fail to show basic hospitality to Jesus? ([09:24])
3. What parable did Jesus use to illustrate the concept of forgiveness and love? ([25:23])
4. How did Jesus respond to the woman's actions and what did He say about her sins? ([27:03])

### Interpretation Questions
1. Why do you think Jesus chose to attend Simon's dinner despite knowing it was a setup? What does this teach us about seizing opportunities to share God's love? ([06:09])
2. How does Simon's judgmental attitude towards the woman reflect a lack of compassion? What does this reveal about self-righteousness? ([20:02])
3. In the parable of the two debtors, what is the significance of recognizing our own need for grace, regardless of the quantity of our sins? ([27:03])
4. How does Jesus' analogy of the debtors challenge us to view others through the lens of compassion and humility? ([28:56])

### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you invited someone into your life but did not make them feel genuinely welcome. How can you improve your consideration for others in the future? ([10:58])
2. Think of a person you have judged based on their past. How can you shift your perspective to see them with compassion and understanding? ([20:02])
3. Have you ever missed an opportunity to share God's love because you were waiting for the "perfect" moment? How can you be more proactive in seizing imperfect opportunities? ([06:09])
4. In what ways can you demonstrate humility by recognizing your own need for grace? How can this understanding help you avoid elevating others' faults above your own? ([30:51])
5. Identify a recent encounter where you could have shown more love and kindness. How can you treat every interaction as a special occasion to reflect Jesus' love? ([34:21])
6. How can you cultivate a heart of consideration in your daily interactions, going above and beyond to show love and kindness to others? ([14:30])
7. What specific steps can you take to ensure that you are not immune to the cries of the brokenhearted around you? ([09:24])

Devotional

Day 1: Consideration Beyond Invitation
True consideration involves more than just inviting Jesus into our lives; it means making Him feel genuinely welcome. This extends to how we treat others, going above and beyond to show love and kindness. Consideration pushes us to act selflessly, reflecting the love of Jesus in our daily interactions. Simon the Pharisee invited Jesus to his home but failed to offer even basic hospitality, revealing a lack of genuine consideration. In contrast, the sinful woman showed deep love and reverence by washing Jesus' feet with her tears and anointing them with perfume. This act of worship demonstrated her heartfelt consideration and devotion. We are called to emulate this level of consideration in our own lives, ensuring that our actions reflect a genuine welcome and love for Jesus and others. [10:58]

Luke 7:44-46 (ESV): "Then turning toward the woman he said to Simon, 'Do you see this woman? I entered your house; you gave me no water for my feet, but she has wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. You gave me no kiss, but from the time I came in she has not ceased to kiss my feet. You did not anoint my head with oil, but she has anointed my feet with ointment.'"

Reflection: Think of someone in your life who may feel overlooked or undervalued. How can you show them genuine consideration and make them feel truly welcome and loved today?


Day 2: Compassion Over Judgment
Simon’s judgmental attitude towards the sinful woman highlights the danger of self-righteousness. Compassion requires us to see beyond people's pasts and understand their struggles. By doing so, we reflect Jesus' love and grace, which can transform lives. Jesus' parable of the two debtors illustrates that those who recognize the depth of their forgiveness will love more deeply. This challenges us to see others through the lens of compassion, understanding that everyone has a story and struggles that we may not fully grasp. [20:02]

Matthew 9:36 (ESV): "When he saw the crowds, he had compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd."

Reflection: Think of someone you have judged harshly in the past. How can you extend compassion to them today, understanding that they too have struggles and a story you may not fully know?


Day 3: Seizing Imperfect Opportunities
Jesus attended Simon's dinner despite knowing it was a setup, teaching us to seize opportunities to share God's love, even in imperfect situations. Sometimes, the perfect time to act is at an uncommon or uncomfortable moment. Jesus' willingness to engage in this setting shows that we should not wait for perfect conditions to share God's love and grace. Instead, we should be ready to act in any situation, trusting that God can work through us even in the most challenging circumstances. [06:09]

2 Timothy 4:2 (ESV): "Preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching."

Reflection: Identify an imperfect or uncomfortable situation you are currently facing. How can you seize this opportunity to share God's love and grace with those involved?


Day 4: Humility Through Conviction
Recognizing our own need for grace should lead us to humility. Jesus' parable of the debtors shows that whether we have little or much sin, we all need the same grace. This understanding helps us avoid elevating others' faults above our own and fosters a heart of humility. By acknowledging our own shortcomings and the grace we have received, we can approach others with a spirit of humility and love, rather than judgment and self-righteousness. [27:03]

James 4:6 (ESV): "But he gives more grace. Therefore it says, 'God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.'"

Reflection: Reflect on a time when you have been judgmental towards someone else. How can recognizing your own need for grace help you approach them with humility and love?


Day 5: Every Encounter is a Special Occasion
Every person we meet is a special occasion to show God's love. Whether it's a cashier at the store or a neighbor, seeing each interaction as an opportunity to reflect Jesus' love can have a profound impact. By treating every encounter as a divine appointment, we can make a significant difference in the lives of those we meet, showing them the love and grace of Jesus in tangible ways. [34:21]

Colossians 4:5-6 (ESV): "Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time. Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person."

Reflection: Think about your daily interactions. How can you intentionally show God's love in a specific encounter today, treating it as a special occasion?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "Sometimes the perfect time is at an uncommon time. Sometimes the perfect time is at an unpopular time. Sometimes the perfect time is at, is at an uncomfortable time. Sometimes it's the perfect, the perfect time is at a time that just don't seem to be perfect." [06:09] (17 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "Consideration says I'm willing to go above and beyond. Consideration doesn't just stop at what you have to do. Consideration says I'll do it just because. I'll do it just because Jesus says you ain't do nothing for me." [10:58] (16 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "Sometimes the greatest sermon preached is just you being kind to people. It's me being showing love to people even those who don't even want to be loved." [18:04] (9 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "The special occasion is simply this. Every single person that God places in your path, it's a special occasion. Uh-uh, some of y'all went too deep already. Let me bring it back. When you go to the store today, it's a special occasion. Whoever's ringing the food up, a special occasion." [34:21] (33 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "When the boat goes down, the only thing that holds us up is because we got a life jacket and his name is Jesus. Is anybody grateful that because of the blood, you got a life jacket and you're going to be looking like, no, you still up? You still up? It wasn't me. It's the grace of God holding me up." [35:37] (23 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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### Quotes for Members

1. "Consideration says I'm willing to go above and beyond. Consideration doesn't just stop at what you have to do. Consideration says I'll do it just because. I'll do it just because Jesus says you ain't do nothing for me pastor Randy I learned this that just because you invite God in don't mean he feels welcome." [10:58] (24 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "We gotta watch out for people who claim to be close to God but create distance with broken people. You and I can't talk about how close we are to God distance ourselves from the brokenness of other people. If I really want to know how close I am to God, I got to ask the question, how close am I to those who are hurting and broken and downcast and outcast?" [12:49] (34 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "Self-righteousness will allow you to see everybody else's stuff, but be blinded to your own stuff. Self-righteousness will have you prescribing everybody else their medicine and never taking your own. He didn't realize that while you calling her a sinner, sir, you judging. Sir, you deal with self-righteousness. What about yours?" [20:02] (29 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "If you had the right conviction about sin and understood how messed up you were in r2 there will be a greater level of brokenness but because you have the wrong conviction and the wrong belief about sin there's an entitlement and pride that allows you to elevate theirs above your own." [30:51] (24 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "The truth is we all need the same grace because we all in the same boat. Somebody say same boat. And that boat is called a boat. On the outside, I would call it a boat of sinners. Boat full of sinners. Scripture says all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God." [35:37] (22 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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