Embracing Community, Gratitude, and Hope in Christ
Summary
In today's gathering, we celebrated the joy of being in the house of God, welcoming both familiar faces and first-time visitors. Our church, known for its caring nature, aims to minister to the whole person, helping individuals love God, build relationships, and improve their lives. We hope that today's service will inspire those without a church family to consider joining us, as we strive to create a warm and welcoming environment for all.
We took a moment to reflect on the wonderful time we had during our recent Christmas celebration, which was filled with music, laughter, and fellowship. It was a testament to the vibrant community we have here at Bella Vista, and we are grateful for everyone who contributed to making it a success. As we look forward to the new year, we are excited to share the vision God has given us for 2023 and beyond. We invite everyone to stay after the service for a brief meeting where we will discuss this vision and how we can move forward together as a church.
As we prepare to celebrate Christmas, we are reminded of the importance of maximizing moments with our families, especially our children. This season is not just about receiving gifts but also about giving and instilling the true meaning of Christmas in our loved ones. We encourage everyone to join us for our Christmas worship service next Sunday at 10 a.m. to celebrate the birth of Christ.
During our time of giving, we reflected on the progress we've made in our Beautiful Vision Capital Stewardship Campaign. Thanks to the sacrificial and collective giving of our congregation, we have made significant strides in paying off our loan for church renovations. We are grateful for the generosity of our members, which has allowed us to double our payments and expedite this process.
Finally, we concluded with a powerful message on choosing gratitude over grief. In this season of joy, we acknowledge that some may be struggling with loss and pain. We are reminded that in Christ, we have hope and a Savior who has conquered death. We encourage those who are grieving to lean on their church family for support and to choose gratitude for the time they had with their loved ones. As we continue to navigate life's challenges, we hold onto the hope and joy that Christ brings.
Key Takeaways:
1. The Importance of Community: Being part of a church family provides spiritual reinforcement and support during times of grief and loss. We are not meant to journey alone, and God has given us a community to walk alongside us. [01:38:22]
2. Maximizing Moments: As parents, it's crucial to seize opportunities to teach our children the true meaning of Christmas. This season is about more than receiving gifts; it's about giving and understanding the significance of Christ's birth. [45:30]
3. Generosity and Stewardship: Our collective giving has allowed us to make significant progress in our church's financial goals. This demonstrates the power of sacrificial giving and the impact it can have on our community and ministry efforts. [49:12]
4. Choosing Gratitude Over Grief: In times of loss, we have the choice to focus on gratitude rather than grief. While acknowledging our pain, we can find strength in thanking God for the time we had with our loved ones and the hope we have in Christ. [01:44:30]
5. Hope in Christ: Our faith in Christ provides us with hope, even in the face of death and loss. Jesus has conquered the grave, and in Him, we find comfort and assurance that we are not alone in our struggles. [01:36:43]
Youtube Chapters:
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [30:02] - Youth Leading Worship
- [31:35] - Choir Performance
- [43:06] - Christmas Celebration Recap
- [45:30] - Upcoming Christmas Service
- [49:12] - Stewardship Campaign Update
- [51:01] - Giving Affirmation
- [51:45] - Generosity and Ministry
- [01:31:54] - Praise Dance Ministry
- [01:35:13] - Choosing Gratitude Over Grief
- [01:36:43] - Hope in Christ
- [01:38:22] - Importance of Church Community
- [01:44:30] - Gratitude in Grief
- [01:46:05] - Benediction and Closing Remarks
Study Guide
Bible Study Discussion Guide
Bible Reading:
1. 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18
2. Malachi 3:10
3. 2 Corinthians 9:7
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Observation Questions:
1. What are some of the key elements that make Bella Vista a "church that cares," as mentioned in the sermon? [00:00]
2. How did the church's recent Christmas celebration reflect the community's vibrancy and commitment to fellowship? [43:06]
3. What progress has been made in the Beautiful Vision Capital Stewardship Campaign, and how has the congregation contributed to this success? [49:12]
4. How does the sermon describe the choice between gratitude and grief, especially during the holiday season? [01:35:13]
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Interpretation Questions:
1. In what ways does being part of a church community provide support during times of grief and loss, as discussed in the sermon? [01:38:22]
2. How can parents maximize moments with their children to teach the true meaning of Christmas, according to the sermon? [45:30]
3. What does the sermon suggest about the relationship between generosity and the church's ability to fulfill its mission? [51:01]
4. How does the sermon encourage individuals to find hope in Christ amidst personal struggles and loss? [01:36:43]
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Application Questions:
1. Reflect on your own experience with church communities. How have they supported you during difficult times, and how can you contribute to supporting others? [01:38:22]
2. As a parent or mentor, what specific actions can you take this Christmas season to instill the true meaning of Christmas in the children around you? [45:30]
3. Consider your current approach to giving. How can you practice radical generosity in your church and community, and what impact do you hope it will have? [51:01]
4. Think about a recent time of grief or loss in your life. How can you choose gratitude over grief, and what steps can you take to focus on the positive memories? [01:44:30]
5. Identify a specific area in your life where you need hope. How can your faith in Christ provide comfort and assurance in this situation? [01:36:43]
6. How can you actively participate in the church's vision for 2023 and beyond, and what role do you see yourself playing in its realization? [43:06]
7. What are some practical ways you can engage with and support the church's financial goals, such as the Beautiful Vision Capital Stewardship Campaign? [49:12]
Devotional
I'm ready to provide the 5-day devotional based on the steps outlined. Here it is:
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Day 1: The Power of Spiritual Community
In times of grief and loss, being part of a church community offers invaluable support and spiritual reinforcement. The church is not just a place of worship but a family that walks alongside you through life's challenges. This community is a gift from God, designed to help you navigate both joyful and difficult seasons. By engaging with your church family, you find strength and encouragement, knowing you are not alone in your journey. [01:38:22]
Hebrews 10:24-25 (ESV): "And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near."
Reflection: Who in your church community can you reach out to this week to offer support or encouragement? How can you be more intentional about building relationships within your church family?
Day 2: Teaching the True Meaning of Christmas
As parents and guardians, it is essential to seize opportunities to teach children the true meaning of Christmas. This season is not merely about receiving gifts but about giving and understanding the significance of Christ's birth. By focusing on the spiritual aspects of Christmas, you can instill lasting values in your children, helping them appreciate the deeper meaning of the holiday. This approach encourages a spirit of generosity and gratitude, shaping their understanding of what it means to celebrate Christmas. [45:30]
Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (ESV): "And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise."
Reflection: What specific traditions or activities can you incorporate into your family's Christmas celebration to emphasize the birth of Christ and the spirit of giving?
Day 3: The Impact of Generosity and Stewardship
Generosity and stewardship are powerful tools that can significantly impact a community. Through collective giving, the church has made remarkable progress in achieving its financial goals, demonstrating the power of sacrificial giving. This progress is a testament to the congregation's commitment to supporting the church's mission and ministry efforts. By prioritizing stewardship, you contribute to the growth and sustainability of your church, enabling it to serve and minister effectively. [49:12]
2 Corinthians 9:6-7 (ESV): "The point is this: whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows bountifully will also reap bountifully. Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver."
Reflection: How can you practice generosity in your daily life, not just financially but also with your time and talents? What steps can you take to become a better steward of the resources God has entrusted to you?
Day 4: Embracing Gratitude in Times of Grief
In moments of loss, choosing gratitude over grief can be a powerful way to find healing and hope. While acknowledging the pain of loss, you can focus on the blessings and memories shared with loved ones. Gratitude allows you to shift your perspective, finding strength in the hope that Christ offers. By leaning on your church family and embracing gratitude, you can navigate the complexities of grief with a sense of peace and assurance. [01:44:30]
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 (ESV): "Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you."
Reflection: In what ways can you practice gratitude today, even in the midst of difficult circumstances? How can you support someone else who may be experiencing grief or loss?
Day 5: Finding Hope in Christ
Faith in Christ provides a profound sense of hope, even in the face of death and loss. Jesus has conquered the grave, offering comfort and assurance that you are not alone in your struggles. This hope is a cornerstone of the Christian faith, reminding you that there is more to life than the present challenges. By holding onto this hope, you can face life's uncertainties with confidence, knowing that Christ walks with you every step of the way. [01:36:43]
1 Peter 1:3-4 (ESV): "Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! According to his great mercy, he has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, to an inheritance that is imperishable, undefiled, and unfading, kept in heaven for you."
Reflection: How does the hope you have in Christ influence your daily life and decisions? What specific area of your life do you need to surrender to Him to experience His peace and assurance more fully?
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Quotes
"What a joy it is to be in the house of God with the people of God this morning. We want to welcome each and every one of you, especially any first-time friends or guests who may be worshiping with us in this place or online." [00:26:57] (12 seconds)
"As parents, especially those of us who have younger children, you've got to learn how to maximize moments. Learn how to maximize a moment. Amen? And this is a moment. This is a good moment. This is a good moment right here where you have to have an opportunity to instill in your children the importance of what this season is all about. Not just what they get, but what they give." [00:45:30] (21 seconds)
"We're going to recite our giving affirmation in just a moment, but let me update you on what we did in our Beautiful Vision Capital Stewardship Campaign, our grace giving above, our sacrificial giving, and our grace giving above our tithes and our offerings in the month of November. We took up a grand total collectively of $4,030.22. Amen." [00:48:10] (18 seconds)
"We are merely managers and stewards of the resources and gifts that he has given to us. We also give it with a mature understanding of kingdom ministry. And a mature understanding of kingdom ministry is this. You cannot make a difference in the lives of people without the resources to be able to do it." [00:51:01] (25 seconds)
"And what we believe as Christians is that in Christ, no matter the loss, how painful it may be, how hurtful it may be, in Christ we live and have. This thing called hope. Christ is our hope. We have hope in Christ. It does not dismiss the reality of our pain. But we have a God and a Savior that we can look to." [01:36:43] (31 seconds)
"God has given to us in his church, a family, a community. Well, we don't walk alone. We don't journey alone. Not to say that God replaces. But God will give you some spiritual reinforcement. Through the brothers and sisters that he has placed in your life. The family members that he places in your life." [01:38:22] (27 seconds)
"God, I pray. for every person this day myself included that during this season during this week and each and every day that while we may experience those acute moments of grief we would then have the presence of mind to choose gratitude over grief. Even with tearful eyes God, help us to muster up the strength to say thank you." [01:44:30] (38 seconds)
"Thank you not only for giving us your son Jesus Christ but for whatever time that we had brief or lengthy to have with those that we have lost. God, help us to even say thank you for the time and for those moments and then God will you bring forth healing for those moments I know we like to say that time heals all and the reality is that some hurts we will go to eternity with but I pray that you will increase strength each and every day you will give what is needed to help us keep putting one foot in front of the other to help us get out of bed when we just want to draw the shades and stay laying down." [01:45:55] (54 seconds)
"And gave us joy in your resurrection. In Jesus' name, amen. Praise the Lord. Come on, give God praise right there. That's our benediction. Listen, the Lord bless you and keep you. Have a great week. We'll see you next Sunday. We're going to take about 10 minutes. We'll take about a 10-minute remission if you need to use the facilities. And then I'm going to ask you if you can and if you will, if you will come back so that we can have our business meeting. God bless you. Thank you for those of you watching online. Have a great week and go in peace. Amen." [01:46:05] (38 seconds)