Embracing Christ's Sacrificial Love in Our Lives

 

Summary

In today's sermon, we explored the profound nature of love as depicted through the lens of Christian doctrine, particularly focusing on the sacrificial love demonstrated by Jesus Christ. We began by reflecting on the Good Shepherd Sunday, a time when we are led by the Holy Spirit to hear the voice of our Shepherd through the liturgical readings, including the 23rd Psalm. This Psalm reminds us that even as we reside in the valley of the shadow of death, the Good Shepherd lays down His life for us, embodying true love.

We delved into the nature of love, contrasting the self-serving love prevalent in our culture with the selfless love of Christ. We discussed how our society, and indeed all societies since the time of Adam, have been obsessed with finding love. Yet, as John articulates, true love is found in believing in Jesus Christ and loving one another as He commanded. This love is not a mere feeling but an active choice, a commitment demonstrated supremely in Jesus' sacrifice on the cross.

We examined the pitfalls of self-love through the story of Cain and Abel, where Cain's love for himself led to jealousy and murder. This narrative was juxtaposed with the selfless love of Jesus, who, unlike the hired hands who flee at the sight of danger, laid down His life for His sheep. This act of ultimate love is not just an example for us but the very means by which we come to understand and experience love.

The sermon also addressed the moral crises of our times, questioning whether we stand firm in our faith and defend the defenseless or whether we succumb to fear and self-preservation. It challenged us to reflect on our own failures in loving as Christ loves, urging us to move beyond a love that seeks return to a love that gives freely without expecting anything in return.

We concluded with a call to embrace the love that Christ offers, a love that is pure, unconditional, and transformative. This love compels us to act, to love others not because of what they can do for us, but because we are first loved by Christ. This understanding of love is crucial, not only for our personal faith but for our collective witness as a community of believers.

### Key Takeaways

1. The Nature of True Love
True love is not found in the fulfillment of self-desires but in the sacrificial actions we take for others, mirroring the love Christ showed us. Just as the Good Shepherd lays down His life for His sheep, we are called to lay down our lives for one another in acts of love and service. This love is proactive and fearless, driven by a commitment to the welfare of others rather than oneself. [06:48]

2. The Failure of Self-Love
The story of Cain and Abel teaches us about the destructive nature of self-love. Cain's love was directed inward, leading to jealousy and murder. This self-love contrasts sharply with the love of Christ, who loved us to the extent of giving up His life. We must examine our own lives for traces of self-love that prioritize our needs and desires over the well-being of others. [03:29]

3. Love as a Reflection of Faith
Our ability to love truly is a reflection of our faith in Jesus Christ. As believers, we understand love through the lens of Christ's sacrifice. This love is not an abstract concept but a lived reality that should permeate every aspect of our lives, influencing how we interact with others and understand our purpose in the world. [07:22]

4. The Challenge of Loving in a Fallen World
Living in a world marred by sin and selfishness, we are constantly challenged to love as Jesus loved. The moral crises of our times test our commitment to love unconditionally and sacrificially. However, it is precisely in these challenges that the power of Christ's love is most clearly demonstrated through our lives. [05:33]

5. Receiving and Giving Love
Every time we participate in the sacraments, we are reminded of the love that Christ has for us—a love that is unearned and freely given. This divine love empowers us to love others not because of what we might receive in return, but simply because we are loved by God. This understanding transforms how we view relationships and compels us to act in love. [11:36]

### Chapters

0:00 - Welcome
00:34 - Reflecting on Good Shepherd Sunday
01:09 - Understanding True Love through Scripture
02:22 - The Cultural Obsession with Love
03:00 - The Destructive Nature of Self-Love
04:04 - Contrasting Self-Love with Christ's Sacrificial Love
05:33 - Addressing Moral Crises with Christ's Love
06:48 - The Example of the Good Shepherd
07:22 - The Depth of Christ's Love in Believer's Lives
08:02 - Personal Reflections on Love
09:05 - The Unconditional Nature of Christ's Love
10:59 - The Transformative Power of Divine Love
11:36 - Receiving and Sharing Christ's Love in Community

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1. 1 John 3:16 - "By this we know love, that he laid down his life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers."
2. Psalm 23 - "The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me."
3. Romans 5:8 - "But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us."

#### Observation Questions
1. According to 1 John 3:16, how do we know what true love is? ([07:22])
2. What does Psalm 23 tell us about the nature of the Good Shepherd? ([00:34])
3. How does Romans 5:8 describe the timing and nature of God's love for us? ([11:36])
4. In the sermon, what examples were given to illustrate the failure of self-love? ([03:29])

#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does the sacrificial love of Jesus contrast with the self-love demonstrated by Cain? ([03:29])
2. What does it mean to love one another as Jesus commanded, according to 1 John 3:16? ([01:09])
3. How does the Good Shepherd's willingness to lay down His life for the sheep challenge our understanding of love in today's culture? ([06:48])
4. In what ways does the sermon suggest that our society's obsession with self-love leads to moral crises? ([05:33])

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you prioritized your own needs over the well-being of others. How can you shift your focus to a more Christ-like, sacrificial love in similar situations? ([03:29])
2. The sermon challenges us to love without expecting anything in return. Identify a relationship in your life where you can practice this kind of unconditional love. ([09:05])
3. How can you actively defend the defenseless and be a voice for the voiceless in your community, as the sermon suggests? ([05:33])
4. Think about a recent moral crisis you observed. How can you apply the love of Christ to address such issues in your own life and community? ([05:33])
5. The sermon mentions that Jesus loves us without a "because." How can you show this kind of love to someone who may not be able to reciprocate? ([09:05])
6. How does participating in the sacraments remind you of Christ's love, and how can this understanding transform your daily interactions with others? ([11:36])
7. Reflect on the statement, "Love is all we need." How can you make love the central focus of your actions and decisions this week? ([12:27])

Devotional

Day 1: Sacrificial Love Transcends Self-Interest
True love is not about fulfilling our own desires but about the sacrifices we make for others, reflecting the love Christ showed us. This love is proactive, fearless, and driven by a commitment to the welfare of others rather than oneself. It challenges us to look beyond our immediate gratifications and consider how our actions affect those around us. In a world that often celebrates self-promotion and personal gain, the call to sacrificial love is both radical and transformative. It invites us to live in a manner that echoes the selflessness of Christ, who laid down His life for us, setting the ultimate example of love in action. This kind of love is not passive; it is active and engaging, compelling us to make significant, sometimes costly, choices in order to benefit others. [06:48]

1 John 3:16-18 ESV
"By this we know love, that he laid down his life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers. But if anyone has the world's goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God's love abide in him? Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth."

Reflection: How can you demonstrate sacrificial love in a practical way to someone in your community this week?

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Day 2: The Dangers of Self-Centered Love
The story of Cain and Abel teaches us about the destructive nature of self-love, where Cain's inward-directed love led to jealousy and ultimately murder. This narrative starkly contrasts with the selfless love of Christ, who, instead of clinging to His own life, freely gave it up for the sake of humanity. Our challenge is to examine our lives for traces of self-love that prioritize our needs and desires over the well-being of others. This reflection is crucial as it helps us identify areas where our love may be more about self-benefit than about genuine care for others. By recognizing and addressing these tendencies, we can begin to cultivate a love that mirrors the love of Christ—a love that is generous, outward-looking, and life-giving. [03:29]

Philippians 2:3-4 ESV
"Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others."

Reflection: In what ways might you be prioritizing your desires over the needs of others, and how can you begin to change this?

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Day 3: Faith Manifested Through Love
Our ability to love authentically is a direct reflection of our faith in Jesus Christ. Understanding love through the lens of Christ's sacrifice not only deepens our relationship with Him but also reshapes how we interact with the world. This love is not abstract; it is a lived reality that influences every decision and interaction. As believers, we are called to embody this love, allowing it to guide our actions and relationships. This transformative power of love serves as a witness to our faith, demonstrating the depth of Christ's love in our lives and inviting others to experience the same profound connection. [07:22]

1 John 4:11-12 ESV
"Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us."

Reflection: How does your love for others reflect the depth of your faith in Christ?

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Day 4: Love Amidst a Fallen World
Living in a world marred by sin and selfishness, we are constantly challenged to love as Jesus loved. The moral crises of our times test our commitment to love unconditionally and sacrificially. However, it is precisely in these challenges that the power of Christ's love is most clearly demonstrated through our lives. By choosing to love in difficult circumstances, we not only adhere to Christ's example but also become beacons of hope and light in a darkened world. This commitment to divine love calls us to stand firm in our faith and act courageously, regardless of the personal cost. [05:33]

Hebrews 13:1-3 ESV
"Let brotherly love continue. Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares. Remember those who are in prison, as though in prison with them, and those who are mistreated, since you also are in the body."

Reflection: What is one difficult situation where you can show Christ-like love this week?

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Day 5: The Cycle of Receiving and Giving Love
Every time we participate in the sacraments, we are reminded of the unearned and freely given love that Christ has for us. This divine love empowers us to love others not because of what we might receive in return, but simply because we are loved by God. This understanding transforms how we view relationships and compels us to act in love, fostering a community where love is freely given and received. As we embrace and share this love, we not only enrich our own lives but also contribute to the spiritual growth and unity of our community. [11:36]

Colossians 3:12-14 ESV
"Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony."

Reflection: How can you more actively participate in the cycle of receiving and giving love within your community?

Quotes

1) "Love of self does no one any good. It separates us from the love of God and eventually into loneliness and despair. We need much more than love of self. We've heard from the beginning, love one another, and we fail at loving as we should. But then there's Easter, and it changes, revealing a whole different kind of love." [06:48]( | | )

2) "By this we know love. That He laid down His life for us. See, this isn't just an example of love. This is not a how-to. This is the only way we as believers can know love. Because apart from life, death, and resurrection of our Lord, our Shepherd, true, pure love cannot be found." [07:22](Download clip | | )

3) "He doesn't love us because we're good. He doesn't love us because he can count on us. He just loves us. And even in that love that we try to return, when we say we love Jesus, we add a word, because he first loved us. See, it's hard for me to grasp this idea that this pure, unadulterated, blemish-free love that Jesus has for me and for you is because, and there is no because." [09:05]( | | )

4) "He laid down his life for us. This love God has revealed is so different from anything that we've ever had. We understand. Romans reveals it this way. This is how the Holy Spirit revealed it in the letter to the Romans. God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been freely given to us." [11:36]( | | )

5) "Cain loved alright, but the object of that love was Cain. Abel responded, receive praise from God for doing the right thing, which angered Cain. And out of jealousy and love of self, Cain killed his brother. In this letter, 1 John, John has repeatedly encouraged that we should love one another." [03:29]( | | )

6) "That is why Jesus taught that he who is a hired hand and not a shepherd, who does not own the sheep, sees the wolf coming and leaves the sheep and flees. And the wolf snatches them and scatters them. He flees because he's a hired hand and cares nothing really for the sheep." [04:04]( | | )

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