Embracing Christ: Finding Freedom Amidst Life's Struggles

 

Summary

God is not only a promise maker, but a promise keeper. His faithfulness is not just a concept to be believed, but a reality to be experienced. Even when life feels heavy and brokenness seems overwhelming, the very fact that we are here is evidence that hope remains and God is still at work. Our circumstances, no matter how real or painful, are not the lord of our lives—Jesus Christ is. The challenge is not to deny our emotions or struggles, but to keep them in their proper place, refusing to let secondary emotions like fear, anger, or despair take the throne that belongs to Christ and His promises.

We are beginning a journey to understand how to keep “second dad emotions”—those secondary feelings and reactions—in their rightful place, so that Christ and His truth remain first. Galatians 5 is our foundation, reminding us that Christ has set us free for freedom, not for bondage. Legalism, self-righteousness, external compliance, fear, insecurity, and the performance trap are all forms of spiritual bondage that rob us of the abundant life Christ intends. True freedom comes not from our efforts, but from understanding our position in Christ, the promises He has made, and practicing those promises daily.

Salvation is a completed work—secured by Christ alone, not by our actions or rituals. We are declared righteous, not made righteous by our own efforts, and our ongoing sanctification is the result of Christ living through us. The Christian life is not about external compliance, but about heart transformation and intimacy with Jesus. We must invest in our relationship with Him, embrace grace, and walk by the Spirit. The fruit of the Spirit is not something we manufacture, but the natural result of abiding in Christ and keeping in step with the Spirit.

To break every chain, we must get our thinking straight, depend on Christ alone, invest in intimacy with Him, embrace grace, walk by the Spirit, and follow His leadership. The abundant life is not the absence of problems, but the presence of Christ reigning over every circumstance. When we keep Christ first, secondary emotions and circumstances lose their power, and we experience true freedom, joy, and victory.

Key Takeaways

- God’s faithfulness is the foundation for hope, even in brokenness. The fact that we are still here, still breathing, is evidence that God’s promises endure and that hope is never lost. When life feels overwhelming, holding onto even one promise of God can be the lifeline that keeps us anchored in faith. Our circumstances may be real, but they are not ultimate—God’s faithfulness is. [02:16]

- Spiritual bondage often comes from trying to earn God’s favor through legalism, self-righteousness, or external compliance. True freedom is found in understanding that salvation is a completed work by Christ alone, not by our own efforts. When we live in the performance trap, we lose our joy and miss out on the abundant life Christ offers. The key is to rest in our position in Christ and let His finished work define our identity. [12:46]

- The Christian life is not about suppressing emotions or pretending struggles don’t exist, but about refusing to let secondary emotions become primary. When we allow fear, anger, or despair to rule, we live as if our circumstances are lord. Instead, we are called to manage our emotions by keeping Christ and His promises first, letting His truth shape our responses and outlook. [06:32]

- Walking by the Spirit is not a suggestion, but a command and the only way to overcome the desires of the flesh. The fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, and more—are not achieved by self-effort, but are the natural result of intimacy with Christ and dependence on the Spirit. The process of spiritual growth requires ongoing investment in our relationship with God, not just a desire for the end result. [39:43]

- Embracing grace means recognizing that our standing with God is based on Christ’s actions, not our own. Justification is God declaring us righteous because of Jesus, not because we never sin again. When we truly grasp this, we are freed from insecurity, comparison, and the need to perform, and we can live with confidence, joy, and a heart to serve others in love. [32:38]

Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[02:16] - God’s Faithfulness and Our Hope
[03:26] - Introduction to “Second Dad Emotion”
[04:37] - The Battle of Secondary Emotions
[05:18] - Emotions: Real but Not Ruling
[06:32] - Christ as Lord Over Circumstances
[07:42] - Living the Abundant Life
[10:11] - Seven Examples of Spiritual Bondage
[12:46] - The Work of Christ and Our Identity
[14:13] - Living in Freedom, Not Bondage
[16:27] - The Structure of Galatians and the True Gospel
[18:31] - Living Free: The Key is in Your Hands
[19:45] - Straight Thinking: Renewing the Mind
[22:28] - Freedom from Legalism and the Law
[23:42] - Depending on Christ Alone
[26:02] - The Danger of Diluting Christ
[28:34] - Salvation: A Completed Transaction
[32:38] - Justification and Embracing Grace
[34:54] - Investing in Intimacy with Christ
[36:04] - The Subtlety of Sin and Losing Vitality
[39:43] - Walking by the Spirit: The Path to Victory
[41:32] - The Battle of the Flesh and the Spirit
[45:00] - Keeping in Step with the Spirit and Final Challenge

Study Guide

Small Group Bible Study Guide: “Breaking Every Chain—Keeping Christ First”

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### Bible Reading

Galatians 5:1-6, 13-25
*(This was the main text for the sermon. Read these verses together as a group.)*

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### Observation Questions

1. According to Galatians 5:1, what has Christ set us free from, and what does Paul warn us not to do again?
2. In the sermon, what are some examples of “spiritual bondage” that were mentioned? ([10:11])
3. What does Paul say is the result of walking by the Spirit in Galatians 5:16 and 22-23?
4. The pastor talked about “secondary emotions” trying to take first place in our lives. What are some of these emotions, and what does he say should be their proper place? ([05:18])

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### Interpretation Questions

1. Why does Paul emphasize that salvation is a completed work by Christ alone, and not by our own efforts or rituals? How does this change the way we see ourselves? ([12:46])
2. The sermon says that “our circumstances may be real, but they are not ultimate—God’s faithfulness is.” What does it mean for Christ to be Lord over our circumstances, not our emotions or situations? ([06:32])
3. What does it look like to “walk by the Spirit” in everyday life? How is this different from just trying harder to be good? ([39:43])
4. The pastor said, “The Christian life is not about suppressing emotions or pretending struggles don’t exist, but about refusing to let secondary emotions become primary.” How does this perspective help us deal with fear, anger, or despair? ([05:18])

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### Application Questions

1. The sermon challenged us to “get our thinking straight.” Are there any lies or negative thought patterns you need to replace with God’s truth this week? What is one promise of God you can hold onto when life feels overwhelming? ([19:45])
2. The pastor listed legalism, self-righteousness, and the performance trap as forms of spiritual bondage. Do you ever find yourself trying to earn God’s favor or approval? What would it look like to rest in your position in Christ instead? ([10:11])
3. Think about a recent situation where a secondary emotion (like fear, anger, or despair) tried to take over. How did you respond? What could you do differently next time to keep Christ and His promises first? ([05:18])
4. The sermon said, “True freedom comes not from our efforts, but from understanding our position in Christ, the promises He has made, and practicing those promises daily.” What is one practical way you can invest in your relationship with Jesus this week? ([07:42])
5. Walking by the Spirit is described as a command, not a suggestion. What is one area of your life where you need to depend more on the Holy Spirit’s leadership? How can you take a step of faith in that area? ([39:43])
6. The pastor talked about embracing grace and letting go of insecurity, comparison, and the need to perform. Is there a specific area where you struggle with insecurity or comparison? How can you remind yourself that your standing with God is based on Christ’s actions, not your own? ([32:38])
7. The abundant life is not the absence of problems, but the presence of Christ reigning over every circumstance. What is one challenge you are facing right now, and how can you invite Christ to be Lord over it this week? ([07:42])

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Close in prayer, asking God to help each person keep Christ first and experience true freedom, joy, and victory.

Devotional

Day 1: Christ Has Set You Free—Live in That Freedom
True freedom in Christ means refusing to let secondary emotions or circumstances become the lord of your life. When you understand your position in Christ, you realize that bondage—whether to legalism, fear, insecurity, or performance—is not your inheritance. Christ has already set you free, and you are called to stand firm in that liberty, not submitting again to a yoke of slavery. The abundant life is not about perfect circumstances, but about knowing who you are in Christ, embracing His promises, and practicing them daily. Let your thinking be shaped by the truth that Christ’s work is complete and your freedom is secure. [07:42]

Galatians 5:1 (ESV)
For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery.

Reflection: What is one area of your life where you feel bound or stuck? How can you remind yourself today that Christ has already set you free in that area?


Day 2: Depend on Christ Alone, Not Your Own Efforts
Relying on your own works, rituals, or external actions for acceptance with God leads to spiritual exhaustion and bondage. Salvation and sanctification are not earned by what you do, but are gifts of grace through Christ alone. When you try to add anything to Christ—whether it’s religious rituals, self-righteousness, or human effort—you lose the benefit and joy of your relationship with Him. Depend fully on Christ and Christ alone, knowing that His finished work is sufficient for your salvation and your daily walk. [26:02]

Galatians 5:2-4 (ESV)
Look: I, Paul, say to you that if you accept circumcision, Christ will be of no advantage to you. I testify again to every man who accepts circumcision that he is obligated to keep the whole law. You are severed from Christ, you who would be justified by the law; you have fallen away from grace.

Reflection: In what ways are you tempted to add to Christ’s work—by relying on your own performance, rituals, or good deeds? How can you intentionally depend on Christ alone today?


Day 3: Invest in Intimacy with Christ
Having a relationship with Christ is not enough; you must also nurture and invest in that relationship to experience its full benefits. Just as marriages can grow cold without intentional connection, your walk with Christ can lose vitality if you neglect intimacy with Him. The fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control—are not produced by human effort, but by abiding in Christ and walking closely with Him. The more you invest in your relationship with Jesus, the more His life and character will be evident in you. [45:00]

Galatians 5:22-25 (ESV)
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit.

Reflection: What is one practical way you can invest in your intimacy with Christ today—through prayer, worship, or time in His Word?


Day 4: Embrace Grace, Not Legalism
God’s favor and acceptance are not based on your external actions or your ability to keep the rules, but on His grace and your faith in Christ. Legalism and self-righteousness only lead to frustration and comparison, while grace brings freedom, joy, and transformation. Remember that you are justified—not because you never sin, but because God has declared you righteous through faith in Jesus. Embracing grace means letting go of the need to measure up and instead resting in the finished work of Christ. [34:54]

Romans 5:1 (ESV)
Therefore, since we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.

Reflection: Are you holding yourself or others to a standard of legalism or performance? How can you choose to embrace and extend God’s grace today?


Day 5: Walk by the Spirit, Not the Flesh
Victory over the desires of the flesh and secondary emotions comes not by willpower, but by walking in step with the Holy Spirit. The Spirit empowers you to overcome envy, bitterness, jealousy, and every other work of the flesh, producing His fruit in your life as you yield to Him. This is not a one-time event, but a daily, moment-by-moment dependence on God’s presence and guidance. When you walk by the Spirit, you keep Christ first and experience true breakthrough and transformation. [40:22]

Galatians 5:16 (ESV)
But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.

Reflection: What is one area where you are struggling with the desires of the flesh or secondary emotions? How can you invite the Holy Spirit to lead and empower you in that area today?

Quotes

My goal is not to argue that emotions are not real. My goal is not to argue that your Christianity is defective if you experience certain emotions like anger and bitterness and frustration and despair and depression, discouragement. I'm not trying to say that those are not legitimate emotions. What I'm trying to argue is that those emotions should not rule the day. [00:05:14] (23 seconds) Edit Clip

Ladies and gentlemen, it does not get any more significant than that. Number one, you understand your status in Christ, your position in Christ, you understand the promises of Christ, and then you practice the promises of Christ on a daily basis. Ladies and gentlemen, that's the summary of how to live a victorious Christian life. [00:08:42] (21 seconds) Edit Clip

You live in bondage when you're always trying to measure up. You live in bondage when you're trying to earn God's salvation. You live in bondage when you're trying to earn the favor of God. So we can call for this thing called the performance trap. And that's bondage. I'm going to perform so Christ loves me. It becomes a work -based salvation. [00:12:16] (20 seconds) Edit Clip

The only reason we are bound is because we are not living out the principles that God has given to us. It's like being locked in a cell with the key hanging on the wall. Are we tracking together? You don't have to be bound. You don't have to stay bound up. You don't have to be shackled down. God has set you free. [00:18:31] (20 seconds) Edit Clip

Why are you bound if Christ has already set you free? I want to suggest that you are bound because you are living by secondary emotions and you're not living by primary emotions. Living by your circumstances rather than by your savior. [00:19:09] (18 seconds) Edit Clip

No, something happens to you, you say, ouch, that hurt me, that messed me up, but I refuse to allow this pain to become Lord in my life. I refuse by the circumstances of my life. God says, watch this now. He's the head, the tail, the top, not the bottom. He's able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we can ask or think. Greater is he that is in us than he that is in the world. [00:21:01] (22 seconds) Edit Clip

The law was to teach us that, boy, God wants us to be dependent upon him. The law was to teach us we were in need of a savior. The law never saved people. The law never got people to heaven. But what happened was it taught people they were in need of a savior. [00:22:43] (17 seconds) Edit Clip

If you accept circumcision, in other words, if you endorse and embrace circumcision as a system of salvation, then Christ is of no advantage to you. For those who are believers in Jesus Christ, if you, um, accept circumcision, external human rights, you rely upon the flesh, you rely upon what you can do for sanctification in Jesus Christ, it's going to be Christ plus water, then Christ is of no advantage to you. [00:25:04] (28 seconds) Edit Clip

The reason we're not experiencing greater joy, greater peace, greater righteousness in Jesus Christ is because we're not benefiting from the relationship of Jesus. Watch this now. It don't mean you don't have circumstances. It don't mean you don't have challenges. What it means is, are you trusting Christ in the midst of it? [00:29:14] (19 seconds) Edit Clip

Justification says that God has declared you righteous. Well, Pastor, if he declares us righteous, that means we should not sin again. That's not what justification means. That's not what declaration of righteousness means. Declaration of righteousness means that God has declared you righteous in spite of your actions because you believe in the actions of his son. [00:32:38] (27 seconds) Edit Clip

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