Embracing Brokenness: God's Power in Our Flaws

 

Summary

Brokenness is often seen as a sign of failure or disqualification, but in the kingdom of God, it is the very place where His power and grace are most clearly displayed. Throughout Scripture, God consistently chooses and uses people who are deeply flawed—Moses, Abraham, Peter, and so many others. Their stories remind us that our imperfections and struggles are not barriers to God’s calling, but rather the context in which His strength is made perfect. The internal voice that tells us we are too broken or unqualified is not the voice of God. When we filter these thoughts through Scripture, we find that God delights in using clay jars—ordinary, fragile, and imperfect vessels—to carry His extraordinary treasure.

Brokenness, then, is not a disqualifier but an invitation to deeper dependence on God. The struggles and weaknesses we experience are not signals that we have failed, but opportunities for God to reveal His sufficiency. Like the Japanese art of kintsugi, where broken pottery is mended with gold, our cracks and wounds become places where God’s beauty and healing shine through. The Christian life is not about achieving perfection by our own strength, but about surrendering our brokenness to God and allowing Him to fill the gaps. This is not an excuse for complacency or unrepentant sin, but a call to honest surrender and courageous steps of faith, even when we feel unready.

God’s compassion is rooted in His understanding of our frailty—He knows we are dust. He does not expect us to be Him; He expects us to trust Him. Our brokenness, when surrendered, becomes the very means by which God’s life is displayed in us. The afflictions and hardships we face, though heavy, are producing in us an eternal weight of glory that far outweighs our present pain. We are not alone in our brokenness; God is with us, and He promises to complete the good work He has begun in us. In Christian community, our broken pieces fit together, and God fills the gaps between us. We do not have to hide our brokenness, but can bring it to God and to one another, trusting that true healing and wholeness come only through Him.

Key Takeaways

- Brokenness is not a disqualifier but a prerequisite for God’s power to be displayed. Throughout Scripture, God uses people with significant flaws and failures, showing that our weaknesses are the very places where His strength is revealed. Rather than striving for perfection, we are called to surrender our imperfections and trust that God can use us as we are. [03:33]

- The internal critic that says “you’re too broken” is not the voice of God. When we filter these thoughts through the truth of Scripture, we realize that God’s calling is not diminished by our failures. If a thought is not true according to God’s Word, we are not obligated to live as if it is. [04:17]

- Our struggles and hardships are not evidence that we are off course, but are often the breeding ground for deeper dependence on God. Like clay jars holding treasure, our fragility highlights the extraordinary power of God working through us. The pain and affliction we experience are purposeful, shaping us into the likeness of Christ and producing an eternal glory. [16:16]

- God’s compassion is rooted in His understanding of our humanity. He knows we are dust, and He does not expect us to be more than human. Instead, He invites us to bring our brokenness to Him, trusting that He will heal, restore, and use us for His purposes. [22:11]

- True healing and wholeness come not from hiding our brokenness, but from surrendering it to God and sharing it within Christian community. Our broken pieces, when brought together, create a mosaic of grace where God fills the gaps. We are called to take courageous steps of faith, trusting that God will complete the good work He has begun in us. [28:50]

Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[01:00] - Brokenness and the Kingdom Paradox
[03:33] - The Hall of Faith: Broken Heroes
[05:15] - The “Poop in the Milkshake” Analogy
[06:43] - The Pressure to Be Perfect
[08:10] - Lessons from Star Wars: Calling and Imperfection
[10:50] - Taking Steps Despite Brokenness
[12:30] - God Only Uses Broken Things
[13:17] - Brokenness with Purpose
[15:24] - Clay Jars and God’s Power
[16:16] - Affliction and Eternal Glory
[19:19] - Hope in Broken Relationships
[22:11] - God’s Compassion for Our Frailty
[23:58] - Kintsugi: Beauty in Brokenness
[26:05] - God Will Complete His Work
[28:50] - Surrendering Brokenness and Community
[31:38] - Communion: Wholeness Through Christ

Study Guide

Bible Study Discussion Guide: Brokenness and the Power of God

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### Bible Reading

2 Corinthians 4:7-18 (ESV)
7 But we have this treasure in jars of clay, to show that the surpassing power belongs to God and not to us.
8 We are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair;
9 persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed;
10 always carrying in the body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be manifested in our bodies.
11 For we who live are always being given over to death for Jesus’ sake, so that the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our mortal flesh.
12 So death is at work in us, but life in you.
13 Since we have the same spirit of faith according to what has been written, “I believed, and so I spoke,” we also believe, and so we also speak,
14 knowing that he who raised the Lord Jesus will raise us also with Jesus and bring us with you into his presence.
15 For it is all for your sake, so that as grace extends to more and more people it may increase thanksgiving, to the glory of God.
16 So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day.
17 For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison,
18 as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.

Psalm 103:13-14 (ESV)
13 As a father shows compassion to his children, so the Lord shows compassion to those who fear him.
14 For he knows our frame; he remembers that we are dust.

Philippians 1:6 (ESV)
6 And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.

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### Observation Questions

1. In 2 Corinthians 4:7, what does Paul mean by describing believers as “jars of clay”? What is the “treasure” inside?
2. According to the sermon, what are some examples from the Bible of people God used who were deeply flawed or broken? [03:33]
3. In Psalm 103:13-14, how does God’s compassion relate to our human weakness?
4. What does Philippians 1:6 promise about God’s work in us, even when we feel broken or unfinished? [26:05]

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### Interpretation Questions

1. Why do you think God chooses to display His power through our weaknesses and not through our strengths? How does this challenge the way we view our own brokenness? [15:24]
2. The sermon compared our brokenness to the Japanese art of kintsugi, where cracks are filled with gold. What does this analogy suggest about how God views and uses our wounds and failures? [23:58]
3. The internal voice that says “you’re too broken” is described as not being from God. How can someone practically filter these thoughts through Scripture? [04:17]
4. How does Christian community play a role in the process of healing and wholeness, according to the sermon? [27:57]

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### Application Questions

1. The sermon said, “Brokenness is not a disqualifier but an invitation to deeper dependence on God.” Where in your life do you feel most broken or unqualified right now? How might God want to use that area for His glory? [03:33]
2. When you hear the internal critic telling you that you’re not enough or too flawed, what is one practical way you can respond differently this week? [04:17]
3. Think about a time when you felt like you had to be perfect before you could serve or step out in faith. What held you back, and what would it look like to take a step anyway, trusting God to fill the gaps? [10:50]
4. The sermon mentioned that our struggles and hardships are “breeding ground for God-dependence.” Is there a current struggle you’re facing that you can surrender to God instead of hiding or trying to fix on your own? What would surrender look like? [16:16]
5. The kintsugi analogy shows that our cracks can become places of beauty when God heals them. Is there a “crack” or wound in your life that you’ve been hiding? What would it look like to bring it into the light with God or with trusted Christian friends? [23:58]
6. In what ways can you help create a community where people feel safe to share their brokenness, rather than feeling pressure to hide it? [28:50]
7. Philippians 1:6 says God will complete the good work He started in you. How does this promise encourage you in areas where you feel unfinished or stuck? What step of faith can you take this week, trusting God with the outcome? [26:05]

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Closing Prayer Suggestion:
Invite the group to pray for courage to surrender their brokenness to God and to trust Him to fill the gaps, both individually and as a community.

Devotional

Day 1: God Uses Broken People for His Purposes
Throughout Scripture, God consistently chooses and uses people who are flawed, messy, and broken to accomplish His purposes. From Moses, who struggled with anger and self-doubt, to Abraham, who lied out of fear, to the many others listed in Hebrews 11, the so-called "Hall of Faith," we see that brokenness is not a disqualifier in God's kingdom. Instead, it is often the very thing that makes us dependent on Him and open to His transforming power. Rather than believing the lie that you must have it all together before God can use you, recognize that your weakness is the very place where God can display His strength. [03:33]

Hebrews 11:32-34 (ESV)
"And what more shall I say? For time would fail me to tell of Gideon, Barak, Samson, Jephthah, of David and Samuel and the prophets— who through faith conquered kingdoms, enforced justice, obtained promises, stopped the mouths of lions, quenched the power of fire, escaped the edge of the sword, were made strong out of weakness, became mighty in war, put foreign armies to flight."

Reflection: Where in your life do you feel too broken or unqualified for God to use you, and how might you take a step of faith in that area today, trusting Him to work through your weakness?


Day 2: Our Weakness Displays God’s Power
We are like clay jars—fragile, imperfect, and easily broken—yet God chooses to place His treasure within us so that His extraordinary power is made evident. The hardships, afflictions, and brokenness we experience are not signs that we are disqualified or abandoned; rather, they are opportunities for God’s life to be displayed in us. When we feel afflicted, perplexed, or struck down, we are reminded that our strength is not our own, and that God’s power is made perfect in our weakness. [16:16]

2 Corinthians 4:7-10 (ESV)
"But we have this treasure in jars of clay, to show that the surpassing power belongs to God and not to us. We are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed; always carrying in the body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be manifested in our bodies."

Reflection: What is one area of weakness or hardship in your life where you can invite God to display His power and presence today?


Day 3: God’s Compassion Meets Us in Our Brokenness
God knows our frame; He remembers that we are dust. He is not surprised by our weakness or brokenness, and He meets us with compassion and healing. Rather than seeing our brokenness as something to hide or be ashamed of, we can bring it to God, trusting that He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Like the art of kintsugi, where broken pottery is mended with gold, God fills our cracks with His beauty and grace, making our stories a testimony to His love. [25:12]

Psalm 103:13-14 (ESV)
"As a father shows compassion to his children, so the Lord shows compassion to those who fear him. For he knows our frame; he remembers that we are dust."

Reflection: What is one area of brokenness or pain you have been hiding from God or others, and how can you bring it into the light of His compassion today?


Day 4: God Will Complete the Good Work in You
No matter how unfinished, tired, or broken you feel, God promises to carry on the good work He began in you until it is complete. Our journey toward wholeness is not about achieving perfection on our own, but about trusting God’s faithfulness to finish what He started. Even when you feel like you can’t do it on your own, remember that you are not alone—God is with you, filling the gaps and working in your life for His glory. [26:05]

Philippians 1:6 (ESV)
"And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ."

Reflection: In what area of your life do you need to trust that God is still at work, even if you can’t see the progress right now?


Day 5: Surrendering Brokenness Leads to Wholeness
True healing and wholeness come not from hiding our brokenness, but from surrendering it to God and inviting Him to fill the gaps. When we acknowledge our need for Him and for Christian community, we open ourselves to the mending work of Jesus, who was broken so that we could be made whole. Don’t let shame or fear keep you from taking a step toward healing—bring your broken pieces to God, and let Him transform them into something beautiful. [29:34]

Psalm 147:3 (ESV)
"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."

Reflection: What is one practical step you can take today to surrender a broken area of your life to God, trusting Him to begin the process of healing and restoration?

Quotes

What I see a lot in my own life, in the life that I do life with, it's a lot of lives, is we see this brokenness or this testing and this hardship as a bad thing. Because it feels bad, right, when you're in it. Like, let's amen to that. That's true, right? Okay. But the reality is, if we read, I don't have a Bible up here with me. Again, another fail. If we read this thing, this Bible, brokenness, hardship, strife, they all have a purpose. And that purpose is to make us more like Christ. [00:13:34] (46 seconds)  #PurposeInHardship Edit Clip

So many times in this Christian life, just like what I said, is these hardships, this death that we're carrying around in our body. It feels like a signal that we've gone the wrong way. It feels like a signal that this is too hard. What if that was purposeful? I cannot do it on my own. [00:16:28] (24 seconds)  #PurposeInPain Edit Clip

``Brokenness doesn't equal bad. We're taught that broken means dirty, disqualified, but in reality, what brokenness means is, brokenness means we need a Savior. Amen. It means we need healing. And it means we're human. The kingdom reality is that brokenness plus God's presence and power equals beauty. [00:23:42] (28 seconds)  #BrokenNeedsSavior Edit Clip

It's broken, but the cracks are filled with gold. It's broken, but the cracks are filled with something beautiful. Which I think is what brokenness looks like in the kingdom. This is what brokenness looks like in God's eyes. [00:25:03] (19 seconds)  #CracksFilledWithGold Edit Clip

What that means for me, that in my situation, no matter how tiring, broken, beaten I feel, that God is with me. I am not alone in my own brokenness. I am not alone in this broken situation. And neither are you. If we trust God, God is all-powerful, God is compassionate, God is loving, which he is all of those things. Then whatever situation we find ourselves in, there's, there's, there's a hope in that. [00:26:27] (40 seconds)  #NotAloneInBrokenness Edit Clip

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