Embracing Brokenness: God's Beauty in Our Scars

 

Summary

Today’s gathering was a time to reflect on the journey from merely hearing about God to truly seeing Him at work in our lives, especially in our brokenness. After a season of deep exhaustion and spiritual dryness, I shared honestly about my own need for restoration—a need I didn’t fully recognize until I stepped away on sabbatical. This time away was not a holiday, but an intentional slowing down to listen, to be with God, and to allow Him to fill the empty places in my soul. Through travel, silence, and creative work, I learned that God’s healing is not about patching us up or hiding our cracks, but about redeeming our brokenness in ways that make His presence shine through us.

The image of Kintsugi—the Japanese art of repairing broken pottery with gold—became a powerful metaphor for God’s work in us. Rather than discarding what is damaged, God restores and even beautifies our scars, making them part of our testimony. Like Job, who moved from hearing about God to seeing Him with his own eyes, we are invited to bring our brokenness to God, trusting that He will not waste our pain but will use it to reveal His glory. The journey is not about perfection or hiding our struggles, but about living honestly and humbly, allowing God’s grace to be visible in our lives.

We all carry burdens—whether it’s caring for family, facing uncertainty, or wrestling with loss and loneliness. Some of us are open about our struggles, while others work hard to present a flawless exterior. Yet, the invitation is the same: to stop hiding, to let God’s light shine through our cracks, and to become a community where brokenness is not a source of shame but a place of redemption. Imagine a church where our scars are not hidden but are celebrated as places where God’s gold runs through our stories. This is the kind of love Jesus calls us to—a love that proves to the world that we are His disciples.

As we move forward, let’s ask God to show us where His restoring work is already happening in our lives. Let’s be courageous to share our stories with one another, trusting that what we see as broken may be the very place others see God’s beauty. May we live simply, walk humbly, and allow our lives to be a testimony to the God who redeems, not discards.

Key Takeaways

- True transformation comes not from merely hearing about God, but from encountering Him personally in our brokenness. Like Job, it is only when we move from secondhand knowledge to firsthand experience that we discover the depth of God’s healing and restoration. This journey often begins with honest admission of our need and a willingness to slow down and listen. [42:39]

- God does not discard our brokenness; He redeems it, making our scars places of beauty and testimony. The art of Kintsugi illustrates this truth: our cracks, when filled with God’s gold, become the very places where His glory shines most brightly. Embracing our imperfections allows God’s grace to be visible to others. [58:08]

- Carrying excess baggage—whether physical, emotional, or spiritual—can weigh us down and keep us from experiencing the freedom God intends. Traveling light, both in life and faith, requires discernment about what to hold onto and what to release. Vulnerability in this process opens us to God’s gentle restoration. [47:23]

- Our instinct is often to hide our cracks out of pride, shame, or cultural pressure, but God invites us to bring them into the light. When we stop pretending and allow others to see our struggles, we create space for authentic community and for God’s redemptive work to be witnessed by others. What we see as shameful may be the very place someone else encounters God’s beauty. [50:24]

- The call to love one another as Jesus loved us is rooted in seeing God’s heart for the broken. When we allow God to restore us, our lives become a testimony to His love, and our community becomes a place where brokenness is not hidden but redeemed. This kind of love is what proves to the world that we are truly His disciples. [01:04:30]

Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[00:30] - Announcements and Table at 399 Farewell
[06:45] - Reflections on Community and Generosity
[10:30] - Transition to Worship and Prayer
[23:24] - Introduction: From Hearing to Seeing God
[27:00] - Personal Confession: Exhaustion and Brokenness
[42:39] - The Difference Between Knowing and Experiencing God
[45:11] - Lessons from Traveling Light
[47:23] - The Weight of Invisible Baggage
[48:46] - Seasons of Brokenness in Our Lives
[51:32] - God’s Surprising Answer to Brokenness
[54:12] - Encountering God in Silence and Solitude
[57:00] - The Kintsugi Metaphor: Beauty in Brokenness
[58:58] - Biblical Images of Restoration
[01:00:55] - The Light in the Darkness: Christ With Us
[01:02:09] - Job’s Journey: From Rumor to Reality
[01:03:21] - Sharing Our Cracks and God’s Gold
[01:04:30] - Becoming a Community of Redeemed Brokenness
[01:06:11] - Looking Ahead: Living Simply and Walking Humbly
[01:07:00] - Closing Prayer and Blessing

Study Guide

Small Group Bible Study Guide: From Hearing to Seeing—God’s Redemption in Our Brokenness

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### Bible Reading

Job 42:5-6 (ESV)
> “I had heard of you by the hearing of the ear,
> but now my eye sees you;
> therefore I despise myself,
> and repent in dust and ashes.”

Psalm 34:18 (ESV)
> “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted
> and saves the crushed in spirit.”

2 Corinthians 4:6-7 (ESV)
> “For God, who said, ‘Let light shine out of darkness,’ has shone in our hearts to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ. But we have this treasure in jars of clay, to show that the surpassing power belongs to God and not to us.”

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### Observation Questions

1. In Job 42:5-6, what is the difference between Job’s previous knowledge of God and his new experience?
2. According to Psalm 34:18, who does God draw near to, and what does He do for them?
3. In 2 Corinthians 4:7, what does Paul mean by describing believers as “jars of clay,” and what is the treasure inside?
4. The sermon used the image of Kintsugi, the Japanese art of repairing broken pottery with gold. What does this metaphor represent in the context of our spiritual lives? [[57:00]]

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### Interpretation Questions

1. Why is it significant that Job moves from “hearing” about God to “seeing” Him? How does this shift affect his response to suffering? [[42:39]]
2. The pastor shared about carrying “invisible baggage” and the need to slow down and listen to God. What does it look like to honestly admit our need for restoration? [[27:00]]
3. The Kintsugi metaphor suggests that God doesn’t hide our cracks but redeems them. How does this challenge the way we think about our weaknesses or failures? [[58:08]]
4. The sermon mentioned that our instinct is often to hide our brokenness out of pride or shame. What are some reasons people might feel pressure to appear “put together” in church or in life? [[50:24]]

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### Application Questions

1. The pastor described a season of exhaustion and spiritual dryness that he didn’t fully recognize until he slowed down. Are there signs in your own life that you might be carrying invisible burdens or spiritual exhaustion? What would it look like for you to intentionally slow down and listen to God this week? [[27:00]]
2. The image of Kintsugi shows that our scars can become places of beauty when God redeems them. Is there a “crack” or area of brokenness in your life that you have tried to hide? What would it look like to let God’s “gold” fill that place? [[58:08]]
3. The sermon encouraged us to share our stories of brokenness and restoration with others. Is there a trusted friend or group member you could share a part of your story with this week? What might hold you back from doing so? [[01:03:21]]
4. The idea of “traveling light” was used as a metaphor for letting go of unnecessary baggage. Are there things—habits, expectations, or even relationships—that you sense God is inviting you to release in order to experience more freedom? [[47:23]]
5. The pastor challenged the church to become a community where brokenness is not hidden but redeemed. What practical steps could our group take to create a culture where it’s safe to be honest about struggles? [[01:04:30]]
6. Jesus said that loving one another as He loved us is what proves to the world that we are His disciples (John 13:34-35). How can you show this kind of love to someone in your life who is struggling or feeling broken right now? [[01:04:30]]
7. Looking ahead, the pastor invited us to “live simply and walk humbly.” What is one area of your life where you could practice greater simplicity or humility this week? [[01:06:11]]

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Closing Prayer Suggestion:
Invite the group to pray for courage to bring their brokenness to God, for eyes to see His restoring work, and for the grace to love one another as Jesus loves us.

Devotional

Day 1: Moving from Hearing About God to Seeing Him
There is a profound difference between merely hearing about God and truly seeing Him at work in your life. Many people live off secondhand stories, rumors, or teachings about God, but transformation comes when you encounter Him personally—when His presence becomes real and tangible in your journey. Like Job, who after a season of suffering declared, “I had only heard about you before, but now I have seen you with my own eyes,” we are invited to move beyond hearsay and experience God’s reality for ourselves. This shift brings humility, repentance, and a deeper relationship with God that changes how we live and see the world. [54:12]

Job 42:5-6 (ESV)
"I had heard of you by the hearing of the ear, but now my eye sees you; therefore I despise myself, and repent in dust and ashes."

Reflection: In what area of your life have you been living off secondhand knowledge of God, and how can you intentionally seek a firsthand encounter with Him this week?


Day 2: God Redeems Our Brokenness with Beauty
God does not discard us because of our brokenness; instead, He redeems and restores us, making our cracks places where His glory shines even brighter. Just as the Japanese art of Kintsugi repairs broken pottery with gold, highlighting rather than hiding the cracks, God takes our wounds, disappointments, and failures and transforms them into testimonies of His grace. Our imperfections become part of the design, not something to be ashamed of, but something through which God’s beauty and restoration are displayed to the world. [58:08]

Psalm 34:18 (ESV)
"The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit."

Reflection: What is one area of brokenness in your life that you have tried to hide, and how might you invite God to redeem it and reveal His beauty through it?


Day 3: Embracing Simplicity and Traveling Light
Life often tempts us to carry excess baggage—both physically and emotionally—out of fear, pride, or the “what ifs” of life. Yet, there is freedom in choosing to travel light, letting go of unnecessary burdens and trusting God to provide for what we truly need. Embracing simplicity is not just about possessions, but about releasing the invisible baggage of past hurts, disappointments, and the need to appear perfect. When we travel light, we make space for God’s presence and experience the joy and peace that come from depending on Him. [47:23]

Hebrews 12:1 (ESV)
"Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us."

Reflection: What is one “weight” or unnecessary burden you are carrying right now that you can lay down before God today?


Day 4: Letting God’s Light Shine Through Our Cracks
Our cracks and weaknesses are not meant to be hidden, but to become places where God’s light and presence are made visible. Just as a torch in the darkness guides the way, Christ’s light shines through our vulnerabilities, leading us and others toward hope. When we stop pretending to be perfect and allow God to work through our imperfections, we become living testimonies of His grace, guiding others who are walking through their own darkness. [01:00:55]

2 Corinthians 4:6-7 (ESV)
"For God, who said, 'Let light shine out of darkness,' has shone in our hearts to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ. But we have this treasure in jars of clay, to show that the surpassing power belongs to God and not to us."

Reflection: How can you allow God’s light to shine through a specific area of weakness or vulnerability in your life this week, so that others may see His glory?


Day 5: Loving Others as Christ Has Loved Us
When we experience God’s restoration and see His heart for our brokenness, it transforms how we relate to others. Jesus calls us to love one another as He has loved us—sacrificially, graciously, and without pretense. Our willingness to share our stories of redemption and to love others in their brokenness becomes a powerful witness to the world. As we live out this commandment, our community becomes a place where brokenness is not hidden but redeemed, and where God’s love is made visible to all. [01:04:30]

John 13:34-35 (ESV)
"A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another."

Reflection: Who is one person in your life you can intentionally show Christ-like love to this week, especially in a way that acknowledges and embraces both your own and their imperfections?

Quotes

That hearing about God is not the same as seeing him. And when we actually truly see God, we discover his healing towards our brokenness and that we are invited to actually to live simply and to walk humbly. [00:41:03] (18 seconds)  #SeeingGodHealsBrokenness Edit Clip

Before my sabbatical, I was tired. Not just physically tired, but I mean actually soul. Really cool. So tired. You know, 15 plus years of leadership in local church and in other, and at our state level and dealing with conflict and other things had really taken its toll. And here's the thing, here's the worst part of it all, is that I actually didn't realize and didn't really comprehend, fully comprehend the weight and the challenges that I had carried in the season that I had gone through. [00:41:28] (40 seconds)  #SoulWearinessUnseen Edit Clip

Today, I return to you with these hands that have worked with broken pottery and golden repair, that this heart has learned the difference between knowing about God's restoration, and actually experiencing it. [00:43:08] (19 seconds)  #HandsOfRestoration Edit Clip

It's an intentional time to slow down, to listen, to be filled up again, to think, to pray, to reflect, and to receive the love, the grace, the forgiveness, and the blessings as a child of God. [00:45:11] (16 seconds)  #IntentionalRefill Edit Clip

I realized that on this sabbatical, I carried cracks. I carried heartbreak. I carried disappointments and wounds and more. You know, the kind that you can't just pack away in the bottom of a drawer or in the back of the closet. [00:48:29] (17 seconds)  #CarryingUnseenCracks Edit Clip

Seeing God's heart towards our brokenness changes how we live. It's changed how I live. When Job saw God clearly, he didn't just say, yeah, thanks God and just move on. He lived differently. He lived lighter. He lives freer. He lived humbler. [01:05:48] (23 seconds) Edit Clip

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