Embracing Biblical Masculinity: Strength, Courage, and Responsibility
Summary
The sermon begins with the pastor discussing the importance of strength and wisdom in biblical masculinity, emphasizing that true strength goes beyond physical attributes and encompasses moral, spiritual, and rational fortitude. He references Ecclesiastes 8:1 and Ephesians 5:25, highlighting the connection between wisdom and glory, and the responsibility of men to love their wives as Christ loved the church. The pastor warns against making excuses, complaining, blame-shifting, or playing the victim, as these behaviors are seen as cowardly. Instead, men are encouraged to embrace their God-given vocation with gravitas, seriousness, dignity, and integrity, aligning their actions with God's glory.
The pastor then emphasizes the importance of courage in men and its impact on society. He acknowledges that men play a crucial role in providing for their families and creating homes, but without courage, they become emasculated and easily manipulated. The pastor prays for a revolution of masculinity, where strong and courageous men stand before kings and rulers, making them cower if they do not submit to the lordship of Christ. He asks for God's strength to be bestowed upon the men of the church and all churches who honor Him, so they can fulfill their God-ordained calling.
The pastor also addresses the modern sexual revolution and its roots in the discontentment with biblical masculinity and femininity. He emphasizes the need to recover the structure of God's order and reject the sexual frenzy that has resulted from this discontentment. The pastor then delves into the question of what exactly defines a man. It is not simply being a biologically adult male, but rather being an adult male who displays qualities such as courage, self-awareness, self-discipline, and the ability to manage one's affairs in a way that aligns with God's demands.
The pastor concludes by addressing the consequences of society's rejection of traditional family values. He highlights the negative impact of men and women abdicating their roles in leading and building their homes, resulting in open marriages, no-fault divorce, unfaithfulness, transgenderism, and homosexuality. The pastor emphasizes the importance of recognizing the sins that have led society to its current state and encourages self-evaluation for personal holiness. He also emphasizes the need to understand God's requirements for masculinity, femininity, and basic sexual ethics, as well as the responsibilities of parents and children.
Key Takeaways:
- True strength in biblical masculinity goes beyond physical attributes and encompasses moral, spiritual, and rational fortitude. Men are encouraged to embrace their God-given vocation with gravitas, seriousness, dignity, and integrity, aligning their actions with God's glory. ([1:15])
- Courage in men is crucial for society. Without courage, men become emasculated and easily manipulated. Strong and courageous men are needed to stand before kings and rulers, making them cower if they do not submit to the lordship of Christ. ([8:45])
- The modern sexual revolution has its roots in the discontentment with biblical masculinity and femininity. It is important to recover the structure of God's order and reject the sexual frenzy that has resulted from this discontentment. ([15:30])
- Being a man is not simply being a biologically adult male. It involves displaying qualities such as courage, self-awareness, self-discipline, and the ability to manage one's affairs in a way that aligns with God's demands. ([22:10])
- The rejection of traditional family values has led to negative societal consequences. Recognizing the sins that have led society to its current state and understanding God's requirements for masculinity, femininity, and basic sexual ethics is crucial for personal holiness and societal order. ([29:50])
Study Guide
Bible Reading:
1. Genesis 2:15: "Then the Lord God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it."
2. Proverbs 20:29: "The glory of young men is their strength, gray hair the splendor of the old."
3. Ephesians 5:25: "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her."
Observation Questions:
1. In Genesis 2:15, what responsibilities did God give to the man in the Garden of Eden?
2. What does Proverbs 20:29 suggest about the different stages of a man's life?
3. How does Ephesians 5:25 instruct husbands to love their wives?
Interpretation Questions:
1. How does the responsibility given to man in Genesis 2:15 reflect the concept of biblical masculinity?
2. In Proverbs 20:29, how does the glory of young men being their strength and the splendor of the old being gray hair relate to the different aspects of strength discussed in biblical masculinity?
3. How does the instruction in Ephesians 5:25 for husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church align with the responsibilities of men in biblical masculinity?
Application Questions:
1. Reflecting on Genesis 2:15, what is one area in your life where you can better fulfill your God-given responsibilities?
2. Considering Proverbs 20:29, how can you better utilize your current stage of life to glorify God and strengthen your biblical masculinity?
3. In light of Ephesians 5:25, what is one specific way you can demonstrate love to your wife (or future wife) as Christ loved the church this week?
4. How can you display courage in a situation you're currently facing, reflecting the importance of courage in biblical masculinity?
5. What is one step you can take this week to reject the sexual frenzy of the modern world and align your life more closely with God's order?
Devotional
Day 1: Embracing God's Design for Masculinity
True strength in biblical masculinity goes beyond physical attributes and encompasses moral, spiritual, and rational fortitude. Men are encouraged to embrace their God-given vocation with gravitas, seriousness, dignity, and integrity, aligning their actions with God's glory. [1:15]
1 Corinthians 16:13 - "Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong."
Reflection: Reflect on your understanding of biblical masculinity. How can you better align your actions with God's glory in your daily life?
Day 2: The Power of Courageous Men
Courage in men is crucial for society. Without courage, men become emasculated and easily manipulated. Strong and courageous men are needed to stand before kings and rulers, making them cower if they do not submit to the lordship of Christ. [8:45]
Joshua 1:9 - "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go."
Reflection: Consider a situation where you lacked courage. How can you rely on God's strength to be courageous in similar situations in the future?
Day 3: Rejecting the Sexual Revolution
The modern sexual revolution has its roots in the discontentment with biblical masculinity and femininity. It is important to recover the structure of God's order and reject the sexual frenzy that has resulted from this discontentment. [15:30]
1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 - "For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God."
Reflection: How can you actively reject the sexual revolution and uphold God's order in your personal life and relationships?
Day 4: Defining Biblical Manhood
Being a man is not simply being a biologically adult male. It involves displaying qualities such as courage, self-awareness, self-discipline, and the ability to manage one's affairs in a way that aligns with God's demands. [22:10]
1 Timothy 6:11 - "But as for you, O man of God, flee these things. Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, gentleness."
Reflection: Reflect on your own qualities. How can you cultivate more of the qualities that align with God's demands for biblical manhood?
Day 5: Upholding Traditional Family Values
The rejection of traditional family values has led to negative societal consequences. Recognizing the sins that have led society to its current state and understanding God's requirements for masculinity, femininity, and basic sexual ethics is crucial for personal holiness and societal order. [29:50]
Ephesians 5:22-25 - "Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her."
Reflection: How can you uphold traditional family values in your own family and community? What steps can you take to better understand and fulfill God's requirements for masculinity and femininity?
Quotes
"Strength requires true strength in the fullness of a biblical definition requires the moral physical spiritual and rational fortitude necessary to be the leaders God has called us to be." [19:18]
"Biblical masculinity means taking responsibility even if it wasn't your fault. Jesus took on the sins of the world none of which were his. Taking responsibility means that we do not make excuses, we do not complain, we do not blame shift and play the victim." [20:51]
"Courage is severely lacking in the world and as a result we have to bear the weight of this gravely important calling. Men without vocation, purpose, and courage are emasculated men easily manipulated and that's our nation right now." ([40:25])
"The modern sexual Devolution that's been happening for 50 plus years is the result of men and women being discontented with Biblical masculinity and femininity... they directed it into a sexual Frenzy and we need to recover it." [28:46]
"I've seen plenty of biologically adult males with wives and children who are utter cowards when it comes to doing hard things... they might be able to shave but they are weak unself-aware overly effeminate and incapable of managing their Affairs in a way that God demands." [29:25]
"What happens when men abdicate their Glory and honor in leading their homes and women abdicate their Glory and Honor in building their homes opting instead for open marriages, no marriages, no fault divorce, unfaithfulness to one another, transgenderism, and of course homosexuality? What happens to society when all of that goes away and I think we're reaping the benefits of that obviously now." ([03:58])
"Men are Lord protectors, they are cultivators. Deliverance and protection requires tempered anger, a meekness that knows when and where to use proper strength to be angry with the right things in the right way, with a measured response of justice. That is masculinity and it's Zeal with knowledge." #!!14:45!!#
"Prescriptions which means that masculinity if it is to be masculinity is god-centered therefore masculine men die for others... men do the dying... men go to war... they give themselves up... that's what it means to be a masculine man." #!!22:09!!#
"Adam's call was to build culture, to bring the rest of the world under the authority of the gardens God as a subordinate Lord... in the cultural mandate of Genesis 1 man was told to be fruitful and multiply, to conquer the world and subdue the world... that's what men do, men conquer." #!!08:25!!#