Embracing Anxiety: A Journey to Peace in God

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Anxiety has a strategy for you. Anxiety will tell you the way that you deal with all that is you worry about it, you brood about it, you think about it constantly, you allow it to preoccupy you, and if this problem goes away, another problem will pop up. It's like playing, and that somehow if you just keep them in your mind all the time, if you live with this obsessive sense of preoccupation, like a magic bubble of worry that will somehow protect you, that will somehow keep things at bay. [00:02:11]

Be anxious for nothing, but then he doesn't stop there. He doesn't say try really hard not to be anxious, but in everything in prayer and supplication with Thanksgiving, thank you God that you're real and you care, let your requests, whatever it is that you want, whatever it is that's going on inside of you, be known to God. Bring them before God, and the peace of God that passes all human understanding will guard your heart and your mind in Christ Jesus. [00:03:36]

Observe. We begin now not by trying to control our mind through willpower but just actually observing what's going on in our mind, and most people never actually do this. Somebody told me not long ago about a book called The Untethered Soul, and the first chapter is called The Voice Inside Your Head. The author starts with a typical train of thought in our minds: shoot, I can't remember her name, what is her name, darn, here she comes, Sally Sue, she just told me yesterday, what's the matter with me, this is going to be embarrassing. [00:04:56]

If you're smart, you will step back and learn to recognize this voice and come to understand it, and that's the first step is simply beginning to observe what goes on in your mind because so often we're so close up to it, we are so preoccupied with it that we never have the distance to simply become aware of it, and God invites us to be aware of our mind. It's a first step in the transformation of our minds, of owning and not enthroning. [00:05:47]

The W stands for welcome. All right, come on in anxiety, come on in worry, I already know you're there, and the irony is, the paradox is, if I try to stop worrying through willpower and resistance and pushing it away, I give my mind an impossible job. I try to make my mind do what a finite human mind cannot do, and so we torture our own minds. [00:06:18]

Instead of overburdening our mind with what our mind cannot do and pushing away and resisting thoughts and feelings, I simply acknowledge to myself and before God I'm just human. Welcome fear, welcome anxiety, you are not me, and this leads to the end. The end is to name it, whatever that fear is, whatever that negative emotion is, whatever that negative thought is. [00:08:32]

An amazing thing happens when we name it. It gives me a little distance from that feeling. It reminds me I am not what I'm feeling right now, so my feeling does not get to be on the throne. It's quite fascinating. There's a researcher at UCLA that did a study not long ago where they had subjects come in contact with a big fat hairy tarantula that was in a glass jar. [00:09:03]

What happened was simply naming the fear created a kind of distance that keeps the fear from being on the throne, and God has made our minds that way, and he invites us when anxieties come and attack us, instead of trying to deal with them on our own or make our minds take care of them by ourselves, to bring them to him. [00:10:23]

The Bible says we live in a great Kingdom, and it's the kingdom of God, the range of God's effective will, and I get to bring my Little Kingdom into his great big wonderful Kingdom. That's the only way to live in the Kingdom of Peace under the prince of peace, and so I learn how to grow towards a life beyond anxiety precisely by living, learning to live with anxiety. [00:10:55]

When it comes today, just observe it. What's that little maniac inside your head saying, and then welcome it. It's okay, be very gentle. Fear, anxiety, it's okay, and then naming it together with God. I own it, but I don't enthrone it. I enthrone him. [00:11:49]

The process of managing anxiety can be encapsulated in the acronym "OWN": Observe, Welcome, and Name. First, we observe our thoughts without judgment, simply becoming aware of the mental dialogue that constantly runs through our minds. This awareness is the first step in transforming our minds and not allowing anxiety to take the throne. [00:04:23]

By simply observing, you create a space for God to work in your mind. Welcome anxiety, acknowledging its presence without resistance. By doing so, we avoid overburdening our minds with the impossible task of controlling every thought and emotion. Finally, we name our fears and anxieties, which creates a healthy distance from them and prevents them from ruling over us. [00:06:02]

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