Embracing an Others-Focused Life: Lessons from David

 

Summary

In today's sermon, I explored the profound impact of living an others-focused life, drawing inspiration from the biblical story of David and the city of Keilah. I began by setting the stage with a personal anecdote about the vibrant growth and spirit within our church community, highlighting the flourishing youth and children's ministries. This led into a deeper discussion about the essence of our gathering: not just to grow numerically, but to truly embody the heartbeat of God.

I shared insights into the challenges and rewards of stepping into God's purpose, even when it feels like that purpose is meant for someone else. I recounted my own hesitation years ago when called to lead a small group, emphasizing that God often calls us out of comfort to serve in unexpected ways.

The core of the message centered around the story of David saving the city of Keilah from the Philistines, as detailed in 1 Samuel 23. Despite being hunted by King Saul, David chose to live an others-focused life, responding to God's call to save Keilah, which was under siege. This act of bravery and faith was not without cost, as I discussed the potential for criticism and the reality that sometimes, in serving others, we give more than we receive in the short term.

I highlighted the joys of living an others-focused life, which include having people join you in your mission, witnessing victories and mountaintops that you would not experience alone, and most importantly, enjoying the presence of God. These joys are not without their challenges, but they are integral to a fulfilling and purpose-driven life.

As we moved towards the conclusion, I encouraged everyone to recommit to living an others-focused life, to consider what it means to serve not for recognition, but as an act of worship to God. I shared a touching story about my daughter, who, despite feeling left out at her new school, chose to reach out to another lonely child, exemplifying the values we hold dear.

### Key Takeaways:

1. Living an Others-Focused Life Brings Community - When you choose to live for others, you attract a community. This was evident when David, despite his fears and the risks, was joined by 600 men in his mission to save Keilah. This shows that leadership and dedication to others' welfare inspire loyalty and companionship. [59:25]

2. The Presence of God in Service - Engaging in service beyond ourselves assures us of God's presence. As David acted on God’s direction to save Keilah, he was not only successful but also experienced God's presence. This teaches us that when we move in obedience to God’s call to serve others, we operate under His guidance and assurance. [01:05:02]

3. Service Transcends Personal Gain - The story of David rescuing Keilah, even when he himself was a fugitive, underscores that true service often requires us to look beyond our immediate challenges and discomforts. This selflessness is a powerful testament to living a life that echoes the love of Christ. [56:36]

4. The Cost of Living an Others-Focused Life - While the benefits of living an others-focused life are many, the costs are real and can be challenging. Criticism and giving more than you receive, as David experienced, are common. However, these are not in vain but are investments into eternal rewards and the betterment of others' lives. [01:08:27]

5. Impact on Future Generations - The influence of our actions on others, especially the younger generation, is profound. My personal story about my daughter reaching out to a lonely peer illustrates how our actions can inspire others to extend kindness and create inclusive communities. This ripple effect can transform societies. [01:15:31]

### Chapters:
0:00 - Welcome
44:21 - Church Growth and Challenges
45:27 - Vision for the Church's Future
46:12 - Celebrating Ministry Successes
47:05 - Personal Testimony and Call to Action
48:07 - Honoring Leadership and Personal Reflections
49:12 - Illustrative Anecdote: The Unfinished Pillow Fight
51:06 - The Joy of an Others-Focused Life
52:12 - Biblical Story of David and Keilah
54:26 - Discerning God's Call in Service
56:36 - The Cost of Service During Personal Challenges
58:00 - Encouragement to Join the Mission
59:25 - Three Joys of Living an Others-Focused Life
01:05:02 - God's Presence in Service
01:06:31 - The Costs of an Others-Focused Life
01:08:27 - Real-life Challenges and Spiritual Insights
01:10:15 - The Long-term Impact of Service
01:11:34 - Closing Remarks and Call to Commitment
01:12:59 - Prayer and Benediction

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1 Samuel 23:1-10

#### Observation Questions
1. What was the situation in the city of Keilah that prompted David to take action? ([52:48])
2. How did David respond when he heard about the need in Keilah? What was his first step? ([54:26])
3. How did David's men initially react to the idea of going to Keilah, and what changed their minds? ([01:00:47])
4. What was the outcome of David's mission to save Keilah? ([01:02:04])

#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why do you think David inquired of the Lord before deciding to help Keilah, even though the need was urgent? ([54:26])
2. How does David's willingness to help Keilah, despite his own troubles, reflect the concept of living an others-focused life? ([56:36])
3. What can we learn from the reaction of David's men who decided to follow him despite their fears? ([01:00:47])
4. How does the story of David and Keilah illustrate the presence of God in acts of service? ([01:05:02])

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you felt called to serve others despite your own challenges. How did you respond, and what was the outcome? ([56:36])
2. David's men followed him because he had previously shown up for them in their time of need. How can you build trust and community by being there for others? ([01:00:47])
3. The sermon mentioned the cost of living an others-focused life, including criticism and giving more than you receive. Have you experienced these costs? How did you handle them? ([01:08:27])
4. The pastor shared a story about his daughter reaching out to a lonely child at school. How can you create inclusive communities in your own life, whether at work, church, or in your neighborhood? ([01:15:31])
5. The sermon emphasized the importance of serving not for recognition but as an act of worship to God. How can you shift your mindset to serve with this intention? ([01:10:15])
6. David's inquiry to God before acting teaches us to seek divine guidance in our decisions. How can you incorporate this practice into your daily life? ([54:26])
7. The presence of God was a key joy mentioned in the sermon. How have you experienced God's presence in your acts of service, and how can you seek it more intentionally? ([01:05:02])

Devotional

Day 1: Community Flourishes in Selflessness
Living an others-focused life not only enriches one's own spiritual journey but also fosters a sense of community. When individuals prioritize the needs and well-being of others, they naturally attract companionship and loyalty, much like David did when he was joined by 600 men in his mission to save Keilah. This act of selflessness, despite personal risks and fears, serves as a powerful example of how leadership and dedication to the welfare of others can inspire and strengthen community bonds. The presence of a supportive community can significantly amplify the impact of one's mission, providing both encouragement and practical help along the way. [59:25]

"Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!" - Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

Reflection: Who in your community could use your support today, and how can you show them they are not alone?

Day 2: Divine Assurance in Service
Engaging in service beyond oneself is not only an act of obedience but also a pathway to experiencing God's presence. As demonstrated by David's obedience to God's direction to save Keilah, such actions are met with divine success and assurance. This teaches us that when we move in obedience to serve others, we are not operating alone; we are guided and supported by God's presence, which provides both comfort and courage in the face of challenges. This divine companionship confirms that our efforts are aligned with a higher purpose and are underpinned by heavenly support. [01:05:02]

"And the LORD said to Paul one night in a vision, 'Do not be afraid, but go on speaking and do not be silent, for I am with you, and no one will attack you to harm you, for I have many in this city who are my people.'" - Acts 18:9-10

Reflection: In what area of your life do you need to trust that God is with you as you serve others?

Day 3: The True Nature of Service
True service requires looking beyond our immediate challenges and discomforts, focusing instead on the needs of others. This selflessness, exemplified by David when he rescued Keilah while being a fugitive himself, highlights that service is not about personal gain but about reflecting Christ's love. Such acts of service can be demanding and may require significant personal sacrifices; however, they are profound demonstrations of faith and love that resonate with the teachings of Jesus. [56:36]

"For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another." - Galatians 5:13

Reflection: What personal comfort might you need to sacrifice to help someone in need this week?

Day 4: Counting the Cost of Compassion
While the joys of living an others-focused life are abundant, the costs are real and can be challenging. Facing criticism and giving more than receiving, as experienced by David, are common aspects of serving others. However, these challenges should be viewed not as losses but as investments into eternal rewards and the betterment of others' lives. This perspective shift is crucial for sustaining long-term commitment to serving others despite the immediate costs. [01:08:27]

"By this we know love, that he laid down his life for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for the brothers." - 1 John 3:16

Reflection: What criticism or personal cost are you facing in your service to others, and how can you view it as an investment in God's kingdom?

Day 5: Legacy of Kindness
Our actions have a powerful impact on others, particularly on younger generations. The story shared about a child reaching out to a lonely peer at school illustrates how acts of kindness are not only transformative for the individuals involved but also serve as a beacon of hope and a model for others to emulate. This ripple effect of kindness can lead to significant societal transformations, creating communities that are inclusive and compassionate. [01:15:31]

"Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity." - 1 Timothy 4:12

Reflection: How can you model kindness to someone younger this week, potentially influencing their perspective on compassion and community?

Quotes

"Cost number one of living another's focused life is the cost of criticism. How did Saul get an army of people that had just a few chapters before been singing songs about David, like David has killed his tens of thousands? They were cheering He's going to bring us the cup this year, Edmonton. I mean, David was the Gretzky of this town. How did Saul get people to want to kill him? He lied about him." [01:08:27]( | | )

"Sometimes in the short run, when you live in other's focused life, you will give more than you got. That's only a problem if we were serving in the first place to get something ourselves anyways. I don't know if you noticed, but verse five told us that when David saved the inhabitants of Keilah, it said, so David saved the inhabitants of Keilah. 600 guys didn't even get a shout out." [01:10:15]( | | )

"Every day on the way to school, we turn a certain corner. And as soon as we turn the corner, we pray. God, I pray they'd be in awe of you. I know it's cloudy in Vancouver right now, but Lord, I pray that they would be in awe of you, that they'd have a big perspective of you, a perspective of you that goes beyond what they can see in this moment." [01:12:59]( | | )

"My baby girl decided that rather than getting angry that she couldn't get into the circle, she just decided to build another circle. I want to evolve church. It's time to graduate. Some of y'all feel like you're a kid at the table. That evolved church exists to put food on the table for you at breakfast time. And today God's saying it's time to graduate." [01:15:31]( | | )

"David hears that there's a need and he goes to God and he says God, is this a need that you want me to meet? And here's the principle that we need to pull out of this, come on, you are not the answer to everybody's need, but you are the answer to someone's need. In your seat today, every single person in this room, you are the answer to someone's need." [55:07]( | | )

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