Embracing Agape Love for a New School Year

Devotional

Day 1: The Aim of Our Charge is Love

The central calling for every believer is to live out a love that is not based on fleeting emotions or self-interest, but on the self-sacrificing, committed, agape love that reflects the very character of God. This love is not just a feeling, but a choice to put others first, to seek their good, and to mirror the love God has shown us through Christ. As we enter a new season, this is a moment to set a spiritual stake in the ground, committing ourselves to let love be the driving force in our homes, schools, and communities. [32:00]

1 Timothy 1:5 (ESV)
"The aim of our charge is love that issues from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith."

Reflection: Who in your life needs to experience God’s self-sacrificing love through you this week, and what is one specific way you can show it to them today?

Day 2: Loving God with All That We Are

To love God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength means surrendering every part of our lives to Him, not just in word but in action and obedience. This kind of love calls us to examine our priorities, our habits, and our daily routines, asking what needs to change so that God truly comes first. It’s a call to deeper devotion, to practical steps like renewing our commitment to prayer, worship, and community, and to honestly assess whether we are loving God above all else. [35:07]

Mark 12:30 (ESV)
"And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength."

Reflection: What is one area of your life where you are holding back from loving God fully, and what practical step can you take this week to surrender it to Him?

Day 3: Loving Others as Christ Loved Us

Jesus commands us to love one another with the same agape, self-sacrificing love He has shown us, making our love for others the visible mark of our discipleship. This love is practical and intentional—seeking out the lonely, caring for those who are overlooked, and showing kindness even when it costs us something. Whether you are a student, teacher, parent, or friend, you are called to reflect Christ’s love in your relationships, making the love of God tangible in your everyday interactions. [38:54]

John 13:34-35 (ESV)
"A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another."

Reflection: Who is someone in your daily environment that often goes unnoticed or feels left out, and how can you intentionally reach out to them with Christ’s love this week?

Day 4: Pursuing a Pure Heart and a Good Conscience

A pure heart and a good conscience are essential foundations for genuine love, requiring us to allow God’s Spirit to search and cleanse our motives and actions. In the busyness of life, it’s easy for our hearts to become cluttered with selfish desires or for our conscience to become dulled to what is right. Setting aside quiet time to let God reveal and purify our inner life is crucial, so that our love for others is sincere and not transactional or self-serving. [43:30]

Psalm 51:10 (ESV)
"Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me."

Reflection: When can you set aside a quiet moment this week to ask God to search your heart and reveal any motives or attitudes that need to be purified?

Day 5: Passing On a Sincere Faith

A sincere faith is not just about outward actions but a genuine, inner trust in Christ that transforms our identity and can impact generations. Whether you come from a long line of believers or are the first in your family to follow Jesus, you have the opportunity to set a new legacy of faith. A sincere faith changes how you see yourself—not defined by your job or achievements, but as a beloved child of God—and empowers you to live for an audience of One, passing on hope and truth to those who come after you. [49:59]

2 Timothy 1:5 (ESV)
"I am reminded of your sincere faith, a faith that dwelt first in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice and now, I am sure, dwells in you as well."

Reflection: What is one intentional way you can model and share your faith with the next generation—whether your own children, students, or others in your sphere of influence—this week?

Sermon Summary

As we gather for Back to School Sunday, it’s a moment to pause amid the busyness and set a spiritual stake in the ground for the year ahead. Whether you’re a student, teacher, administrator, parent, or simply part of our church family, this season is an opportunity for a fresh start—not just academically, but spiritually. The heart of today’s reflection centers on 1 Timothy 1:5: “The aim of our charge is love that issues from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith.” In a world full of distractions, shifting routines, and endless to-do lists, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. But God calls us to recalibrate, to focus on love—His kind of love, agape love—which is self-sacrificing, committed, and a reflection of His own character.

This love is not rooted in fleeting emotions or self-interest, but in a deep commitment to God and to others. It’s a love that first directs itself upward—to love God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength—and then outward, to love others as Christ has loved us. This means loving even those who are difficult, those who may be considered our enemies, and those who are often overlooked. For teachers, it’s seeing students as individuals to be loved, not just test scores. For students, it’s reaching out to the lonely. For parents and administrators, it’s showing Christ’s love in every interaction.

But this kind of love doesn’t come from sheer willpower. It flows from a heart that is pure, a conscience that is clean, and a faith that is sincere. A pure heart requires honest self-examination and time alone with God, allowing Him to reveal and cleanse our motives. A good conscience means living in such a way that we could put not just our own name, but the name of Jesus, to our actions. And a sincere faith is one that is authentic, not just outwardly religious, but deeply rooted and generational—something we can pass on to our children and those around us.

As we begin this new school year, let’s commit to making room for God, to letting Him purify our hearts, renew our faith, and empower us to love as He loves. May our identity be found not in what we do, but in being beloved children of God, living for an audience of One.

Key Takeaways

1. Love as the Central Aim: The call to love is not about sentimentality or self-fulfillment, but about embodying God’s agape love—a love that is sacrificial, steadfast, and rooted in commitment rather than emotion. This love is the true mark of spiritual maturity and the foundation for all Christian living. It challenges us to move beyond cultural definitions of love and to reflect God’s character in every relationship. [32:00]
2. A Pure Heart Requires Intentional Surrender: Our hearts are naturally drawn to self-interest and distraction, especially in busy seasons. Purity of heart comes through honest prayer and quiet moments with God, allowing Him to reveal and cleanse our hidden motives. Only when we make space for God to work in us can we truly love others without agenda or expectation. [43:30]
3. A Good Conscience Reflects Christ to the World: The way we live and the choices we make are not just personal—they reflect on our community and, more importantly, on the name of Jesus. A good conscience means living with integrity, so that we could confidently associate Christ’s name with our actions. This calls for continual self-examination: can I put Jesus’ name to what I’m doing? [47:08]
4. Sincere Faith is Generational and Transformative: Authentic faith is not just a private matter; it shapes families and communities for generations. Whether you come from a long line of believers or are starting a new legacy, sincere faith can be passed on and multiplied. It’s never too late to begin, and God delights in using even imperfect faith to transform lives and futures. [49:09]
5. Identity Rooted in Christ Brings Freedom: When our identity is anchored in being children of God, rather than in our roles or achievements, we are freed from the pressure to perform for others. This shift allows us to live for God’s approval alone, bringing peace and purpose. God doesn’t erase who we are; He redeems and empowers us to use our unique gifts for His kingdom. [51:25]
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[00:00] - Welcome
[01:10] - Connection and Prayer Cards
[03:00] - Small Groups and Upcoming Series
[05:00] - Mission Trip Prayer for Brian and Tina
[08:00] - Back to School Sunday Introduction
[12:00] - The Significance of a Fresh Start
[15:00] - Focusing Amidst Busyness
[18:00] - Prayer for Spiritual Focus
[20:00] - 1 Timothy 1:5 in Context
[23:00] - The Aim: Agape Love
[26:00] - Loving God with All We Are
[29:00] - Loving Others Practically
[32:00] - Love from a Pure Heart
[35:00] - The Role of a Good Conscience
[38:00] - Sincere, Generational Faith
[41:00] - Identity in Christ
[44:00] - Invitation and Prayer for Renewal
[48:00] - Blessing for Students, Teachers, and Parents
[64:19] - Dismissal and Closing

Bible Study Guide

Bible Reading

1 Timothy 1:3-7 (ESV) — > As I urged you when I was going to Macedonia, remain at Ephesus so that you may charge certain persons not to teach any different doctrine, nor to devote themselves to myths and endless genealogies, which promote speculations rather than the stewardship from God that is by faith. The aim of our charge is love that issues from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith. Certain persons, by swerving from these, have wandered away into vain discussion, desiring to be teachers of the law, without understanding either what they are saying or the things about which they make confident assertions.

Observation Questions

According to 1 Timothy 1:5, what three qualities does Paul say true love flows from?
In the sermon, what are some examples given of how love can look different for teachers, students, parents, and administrators? [[39:48]]
What does the pastor say is the difference between the world’s definition of love and the “agape” love Paul is talking about? [[32:00]]
What does the pastor say about the connection between a sincere faith and the legacy we leave for the next generation? [[49:09]]

Interpretation Questions

Why do you think Paul emphasizes that love must come from a pure heart, a good conscience, and a sincere faith, instead of just telling us to “love”? What might happen if one of these is missing? [[41:35]]
The sermon mentions that our actions reflect not just on ourselves, but on Jesus and our church community. Why is this important, and how might it affect the way we make decisions? [[45:17]]
The pastor says that a sincere faith is “generational.” What does it mean for faith to be passed down, and why might that matter for families and communities? [[49:09]]
The sermon talks about identity being rooted in Christ rather than in what we do. How does this change the way someone might approach their work, school, or relationships? [[51:25]]

Application Questions

The start of a new school year is described as a chance for a “fresh start” spiritually. Is there a specific area in your life where you want to set a new spiritual tone this year? What would that look like for you? [[27:59]]
The pastor challenges us to love not just those who are easy to love, but also our “enemies” or those who are overlooked. Who is one person in your life right now that is hard for you to love? What is one practical step you could take to show them agape love this week? [[36:49]]
The sermon says a pure heart comes from honest self-examination and quiet time with God. When and how could you set aside time this week to let God search your heart and reveal your motives? [[43:30]]
The idea of a “good conscience” is tied to being able to put Jesus’ name to our actions. Is there an area of your life where you would hesitate to say, “Jesus would do this with me”? What needs to change? [[47:08]]
The pastor shares about faith being passed down through generations. If you have children or influence over younger people, what is one way you can intentionally model sincere faith to them this month? If you didn’t come from a family of faith, what kind of legacy do you want to start? [[49:09]]
The sermon says our identity is not in our job, role, or achievements, but in being a beloved child of God. What is one area where you feel pressure to “perform” for others? How can you remind yourself this week that you are living for an audience of One? [[51:25]]
The pastor encourages making room for God in our busy schedules. What is one practical boundary or change you could make to create more space for God in your daily or weekly routine? [[56:37]]

Sermon Clips

The Bible would say love is based on commitment. You catch that? Not feelings. A commitment. Self -sacrifice. It's to be permanent. It's to be a reflection of God's character. It is persevering. So we have to understand this, right? [00:33:01] (18 seconds) #AgapeLoveCommitment

If the aim of our charge is to love God, do we really love him with our entire being? Or do we just love self a little bit more? Where are we at? Jesus says, if you obey my commands, or if you love me, you'll obey my commands. So if we're, if we've got that self kind of, that self -sacrificing kind of love towards God, that means we're going to put our desires down in order to follow his plan for our life, that we're going to obey his commands for us. [00:35:07] (36 seconds) #PracticalFaithChange

A sincere faith can be generational. Here, in this text right here, Timothy's grandmother, then his mother, both had sincere faith and they passed it on to Timothy. I think about my own family. Very blessed to come from a family of faith and think about the faith my grandfather had. And when he passed away and we went to his funeral, people came up, I mean, time after time again, say, you'll never know what your grandfather did for me. You'll never know when he, he was a teacher and other teachers would come up and say, he covered for me. I was an alcoholic and I missed class and he covered for me and he never told a soul. Other people would come up and say, he gave me money to help me through a hard time. And all these different stories of the evidence of his faith passed on to my dad. My dad is a pastor, if you don't know, and his faith goes beyond just the stage that he preaches on. Every morning, when I'd get up early, I'd find him reading his Bible, or sometimes he'd be down on the couch on his knees in fervent prayer. That faith has been passed on to me, and my earnest hope and prayer is that I will pass it on to my daughter, and that she will pass it on to her kids. A sincere faith can be generational. [00:48:17] (75 seconds) #ChooseASincereFaith

So here's the thing. The faith has to be sincere. It can't just be about our outward actions if there's no interchange in our heart. And what happens is when our faith is sincere, it really fuels everything else. When our faith is sincere, then our conscience is clean. And we'll know the difference in right and wrong and choose right. When our faith is sincere, we're going to allow the Holy Spirit to do the work to clean our hearts. When our faith is sincere, then we have that self kind of self -sacrificing love, that agape, God kind of love, where we love God and love others well. [00:50:22] (44 seconds) #ChildOfGodIdentity

A sincere faith changes your identity. When we ask the question, who you are, like, who are you? Most of the time we leave, well, hey, my name is Sam, I'm a teacher. Or hi, I'm Sarah, I'm a principal. Or my name is Stephen, I'm a sales guy for this company. And we lead, the question is who you are, not what do you do, but we lead with what we do. When our faith is sincere, when our hope is in Jesus, our identity is changed. Our identity is not in what we do. Our identity is being a child of God. [00:51:11] (43 seconds) #SincereFaithTransforms

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