Embracing a Culture of Honor and Unity
Summary
In today's message, we explored the profound concept of honor and how it shapes the culture within our communities and our lives. We began by acknowledging God's perfect timing and faithfulness, reminding ourselves that even when we feel too far gone or imperfect, God sees the end as a new beginning. This sets the stage for understanding the culture of honor, which is rooted in love and unity, as described in 1 Corinthians 12.
Honor is not merely a superficial respect but a deep recognition of the intrinsic value in every person. It is about seeing others through the lens of God's love, acknowledging that each individual is a valuable part of the body of Christ. This perspective challenges the worldly view that often values status and power, instead calling us to elevate those who seem weaker or less honorable.
We delved into the practical aspects of honor, emphasizing that it begins with recognizing the value in others. This recognition is not earned but owed, as every person is made in the image of God. Honor also involves serving others, following the example of Jesus, who came not to be served but to serve. By serving, we elevate others, creating a culture where everyone is uplifted.
Furthermore, honor means accepting others' imperfections, offering grace and forgiveness, and covering weaknesses rather than exposing them. This acceptance fosters unity and diversity, celebrating differences as strengths rather than obstacles. We are called to outdo one another in showing honor, creating a community that reflects the love and humility of Christ.
As we honor others, we honor God, recognizing His image in every person. This is especially significant as we enter a month dedicated to honoring the contributions and experiences of our brothers and sisters of color. Let us commit to living with honor, not just in words but in actions, reflecting God's love in every aspect of our lives.
Key Takeaways:
1. God's Timing and New Beginnings: God's timing is perfect, and what we perceive as an end is often a new beginning in His eyes. This perspective encourages us to trust in His faithfulness and embrace the opportunities for renewal and growth that He provides. [00:00]
2. Recognizing Intrinsic Value: Honor begins with recognizing the intrinsic value in every person, as each individual is a unique creation of God. This recognition is not something that is earned but is owed to one another as part of the body of Christ. [25:11]
3. Serving Others as Jesus Did: Following Jesus' example, honor involves serving others selflessly. By serving, we elevate those around us, creating a culture of mutual upliftment and support. [33:32]
4. Accepting Imperfections with Grace: Honor means accepting others' imperfections, offering grace, and covering weaknesses rather than exposing them. This acceptance fosters unity and allows us to grow together in love. [43:12]
5. Celebrating Diversity and Unity: Honor welcomes differences, celebrating diversity as a strength that enriches the body of Christ. By valuing each unique contribution, we create a unified community that reflects God's love and creativity. [46:10]
Youtube Chapters:
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [18:21] - Culture of Winning
- [20:23] - Understanding Honor
- [22:12] - The Way of Honor
- [23:48] - Unity in Diversity
- [25:11] - Recognizing Value
- [27:43] - Value is Owed
- [29:00] - Honoring Sacrifice
- [29:54] - Feeling Dishonored
- [31:30] - Importance of Every Part
- [32:33] - The Role of Gravity
- [33:32] - Serving Others
- [37:05] - Elevating Others
- [38:56] - Most Valuable Player
- [40:20] - Thermostat vs. Thermometer
- [41:58] - Accepting Imperfections
- [43:12] - Covering Weakness
- [44:59] - Welcoming Differences
- [46:10] - Unity in Diversity
- [48:57] - Outdoing in Honor
- [49:44] - Honoring Differences
- [50:49] - Honoring Martin Luther King Jr.
- [51:42] - Prayer and Commitment
Study Guide
Bible Study Discussion Guide: The Culture of Honor
Bible Reading:
- 1 Corinthians 12:20-27
- Romans 13:7
- Philippians 2:3
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Observation Questions:
1. In 1 Corinthians 12:20-27, how does Paul describe the relationship between different parts of the body, and what does this imply about the church community? [23:48]
2. According to Romans 13:7, what are the different things that Paul says are owed to others, and how does this relate to the concept of honor? [27:43]
3. How does Philippians 2:3 describe the attitude we should have towards others, and how does this contrast with worldly views of status and power? [37:05]
4. In the sermon, what examples were given to illustrate the concept of honoring those who seem weaker or less honorable? [23:48]
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Interpretation Questions:
1. What does it mean to recognize the intrinsic value in every person as described in 1 Corinthians 12, and how does this recognition challenge societal norms? [25:11]
2. How does the sermon suggest that serving others, as Jesus did, creates a culture of honor, and what might this look like in practical terms? [33:32]
3. In what ways does accepting others' imperfections with grace contribute to unity within the church, according to the sermon? [43:12]
4. How does the sermon explain the importance of celebrating diversity and unity, and what role does honor play in this process? [46:10]
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Application Questions:
1. Reflect on a time when you felt dishonored or undervalued. How did that experience affect you, and how can it inform the way you honor others? [29:54]
2. Identify someone in your life who you find difficult to honor. What steps can you take to recognize their intrinsic value and serve them as Jesus did? [33:32]
3. Consider the imperfections of those around you. How can you offer grace and forgiveness in a way that fosters unity and strengthens relationships? [43:12]
4. Think about the diversity within your community or church. How can you actively celebrate and honor the differences that exist among its members? [46:10]
5. The sermon challenges us to outdo one another in showing honor. What is one specific action you can take this week to elevate someone else, and how will you ensure it is done with genuine love and humility? [49:44]
6. As we enter a month dedicated to honoring the contributions of people of color, what are some practical ways you can engage in this celebration and show honor in your community? [50:49]
7. Reflect on the concept of being a "thermostat" rather than a "thermometer" in your environment. How can you set a culture of honor in your workplace, family, or social circles? [40:20]
Devotional
Day 1: Trusting in God's Perfect Timing
In life, we often encounter moments that feel like endings, but in God's eyes, these are opportunities for new beginnings. His timing is perfect, and His faithfulness is unwavering. When we trust in His timing, we open ourselves to the renewal and growth He has planned for us. This perspective encourages us to embrace change and uncertainty with hope, knowing that God sees the bigger picture. By aligning our lives with His timing, we can experience the fullness of His promises and the joy of new beginnings. [00:00]
"For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted." (Ecclesiastes 3:1-2, ESV)
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you need to trust God's timing more fully? How can you actively embrace this season as a new beginning?
Day 2: Recognizing the Value in Every Person
Honor begins with the recognition of the intrinsic value in every individual, as each person is a unique creation of God. This value is not something that is earned but is owed to one another as members of the body of Christ. By seeing others through the lens of God's love, we challenge the worldly view that often values status and power. Instead, we are called to elevate those who seem weaker or less honorable, acknowledging their worth and contributions. This perspective fosters a culture of love and unity, where everyone is valued and respected. [25:11]
"So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them." (Genesis 1:27, ESV)
Reflection: Think of someone you encounter regularly who may feel undervalued. How can you intentionally recognize and affirm their intrinsic worth today?
Day 3: Serving Others Selflessly
Following Jesus' example, honor involves serving others selflessly. Jesus came not to be served but to serve, and by doing so, He elevated those around Him. When we serve others, we create a culture of mutual upliftment and support, where everyone is encouraged and empowered. This selfless service is a reflection of God's love and humility, and it challenges us to put others' needs before our own. By serving, we not only honor others but also honor God, who calls us to love and serve one another. [33:32]
"For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another." (Galatians 5:13, ESV)
Reflection: Identify one practical way you can serve someone in your community this week. How can this act of service reflect the love and humility of Christ?
Day 4: Embracing Imperfections with Grace
Honor means accepting others' imperfections, offering grace, and covering weaknesses rather than exposing them. This acceptance fosters unity and allows us to grow together in love. By embracing imperfections, we create an environment where people feel safe to be themselves and are encouraged to grow. This perspective challenges us to offer grace and forgiveness, recognizing that we are all imperfect and in need of God's mercy. By covering weaknesses, we reflect the love and compassion of Christ, who calls us to love one another as He has loved us. [43:12]
"Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins." (1 Peter 4:8, ESV)
Reflection: Consider someone whose imperfections you find challenging. How can you extend grace and love to them in a way that covers their weaknesses?
Day 5: Celebrating Diversity and Unity
Honor welcomes differences, celebrating diversity as a strength that enriches the body of Christ. By valuing each unique contribution, we create a unified community that reflects God's love and creativity. This perspective challenges us to see diversity not as an obstacle but as an opportunity for growth and enrichment. By celebrating differences, we foster an environment of inclusion and acceptance, where everyone feels valued and respected. This unity in diversity is a testament to the love and creativity of God, who has made each of us unique and valuable. [46:10]
"For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ." (1 Corinthians 12:12, ESV)
Reflection: Reflect on a time when you felt enriched by someone different from you. How can you actively celebrate and embrace diversity in your community today?
Quotes
And in our world, our culture, we often say what we value, the people that we value are the powerful, those with status, those who might be able to do something for me, not in God's kingdom. Everyone is valuable. We just had children, babies up here, and to them, we say the next generation, valuable, not a distraction, a valued part of our body. The elderly, not done, not finished, valuable. The ugly like me, valuable, right? These are things our culture would say, no, here are the people that are valuable. [00:26:37] (48 seconds)
Romans 13, verse 7, actually says that honor means recognizing value in every person, but also it goes a little bit further. That value is not earned. It is owed. Pay to all what is owed to them. Taxes to whom taxes are owed. Revenue to whom revenue is owed. Respect to whom respect is owed. Honor to whom honor is owed. It is a debt that is owed to each other. When we recognize that there is value in one another, value in every person. [00:27:43] (44 seconds)
Honor means elevating others. 1 Corinthians 12, verse 21 to 23 puts it this way, the eye cannot say to the hand, we read this already, I have no need of you, nor again the head to the feet, I have no need of you. I hope that you're catching the ridiculousness of this image, right? Hand saying to eye, like, yeah, you're not like me. I don't need you. It's meant to be ridiculous. On the contrary, the part of the body that seemed to be weaker are indispensable. [00:37:18] (27 seconds)
Honor means elevating others, but it also means accepting others' imperfection. And this is where we start to get it wrong. Remember, at the beginning, we said honor is something that's owed. It's recognizing value in others. Others, 1 Corinthians 12, 24, 25, says it this way, but God has so composed the body, giving greater honor to the part that lacked it, that there may be no division in the body, but the members may have the same care for one another. If one member suffers, all suffer together. [00:41:19] (33 seconds)
Many times, especially when it comes to honor, we'll put a standard on people and then treat them as if honor is something that must be earned instead of something that is just owed. It's just owed. You don't have to like it. You don't have to leave it alone, but it is something that we give, and we give freely. We give grace. Our culture is quick to dishonor. It's quick to expose. We're quick to cancel, especially when it's somebody from the other political team, right? Aha! We got them. They said it. We're going to take them down now, right? [00:43:12] (36 seconds)
Honor's not fast to point out and accuse and expose and cancel. Honor says, I will cover you in your weakness. I accept you. I have grace for it, and I will cover you. We might have a discussion about it. Maybe there was a talk. I had breakfast the next day. Hey, dad, can we talk? Honor covers. It accepts others in their imperfection. We honor by giving forgiveness, by giving grace, by giving room to grow. And here's the final thing. Honor welcomes differences. [00:44:59] (34 seconds)
It means welcoming others in their difference. 1 Corinthians 12, verses 12 and 13 says, just as one body, just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many are one body, so it is one body. It is with Christ. For in one spirit, we were all baptized into one body, Jews and Greeks. Slaves or free, and all were made to drink of one spirit. Jews and Greeks, not the same body. Slaves and free, not the same person. But through Jesus, we all are baptized into one body. [00:46:10] (35 seconds)
Love one another with brotherly affection. If you're brothers, Caleb and Connor, those Volpe boys, they look similar. They're not the same. They're not. Even identical twins aren't the same. They're different. There's diversity there. But they have a brotherly affection, a brotherly unity that we're all called to. Love one another with brotherly affection. And here's this. It's a holy competition. Outdo one another in showing honor. You want to be the best? Elevate everybody else to be the best. [00:49:44] (34 seconds)