Embodying Truth: Navigating Relationships with Integrity

Summary

### Summary

Today, we had the privilege of welcoming Chad and Katie to our church family. They bring a wealth of experience and a deep love for Jesus, and we are excited to see how God will use them in our community. We prayed over them, acknowledging that God has called and anointed them for this season.

We also discussed the importance of prayer and the upcoming sermon series, "Given the Circumstances" and "The Messy Middle," which will address how to navigate life's challenges and political divisions with a Christ-centered perspective.

The main focus of today's message was on the Ninth Commandment: "You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor." This commandment is not just about avoiding lies but about fostering relationships built on honor and honesty. We explored how falsehood can erode the fabric of relationships and society, and how God’s design for human flourishing involves truth and integrity.

We looked at the broader context of the Ten Commandments, understanding them as a revelation of God's character and a guide for living in right relationship with Him and others. The Ten Commandments are not merely a checklist of moral behaviors but a call to embody God's nature in our daily lives.

We also examined practical ways we might bear false witness, such as through reviling, flattery, silence, and misattribution. Each of these actions undermines trust and damages relationships. Instead, we are called to be people of truth, reflecting God's character in our interactions.

Finally, we were reminded that while we will fail in this area, God's grace is sufficient. We are encouraged to acknowledge our brokenness, bite our tongues, plug our ears to gossip, and put ourselves in others' shoes. By doing so, we can build a community that honors God and each other.

### Key Takeaways

1. The Importance of Truth in Relationships: Relationships are designed to run on the fuel of honor and honesty. When we lie or bear false witness, we erode the trust that holds relationships together. God calls us to be people of truth, reflecting His character in our interactions. [47:09]

2. The Broader Context of the Ten Commandments: The Ten Commandments are not just a set of rules but a revelation of God's character. They guide us in living in right relationship with God and others. Understanding this helps us see the commandments as a call to embody God's nature in our daily lives. [55:10]

3. Practical Ways We Bear False Witness: We can bear false witness through actions like reviling, flattery, silence, and misattribution. Each of these actions undermines trust and damages relationships. We are called to be mindful of our words and actions, ensuring they align with God's truth. [01:19:11]

4. God's Grace in Our Failures: We will inevitably fail in our efforts to live truthfully, but God's grace is sufficient. Acknowledging our brokenness and leaning towards Jesus allows us to receive forgiveness and the strength to live out His design for human flourishing. [01:26:16]

5. Practical Steps to Foster Truth: To live out the Ninth Commandment, we must acknowledge our broken nature, bite our tongues, plug our ears to gossip, and put ourselves in others' shoes. These steps help us build a community that honors God and each other, fostering relationships built on trust and integrity. [01:29:19]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[46:00] - Introduction of Chad and Katie
[47:09] - Prayer for New Team Members
[48:16] - Congregational Acknowledgment
[50:33] - Upcoming Sermon Series
[51:46] - The Messy Middle Series
[52:34] - Importance of Groups
[55:10] - Understanding the Ten Commandments
[56:07] - The Four Movements of Exodus
[57:39] - God's Covenant and Character
[59:08] - God's Rescue Plan
[01:00:38] - Faithfulness and Adultery
[01:02:07] - Bearing False Witness
[01:05:28] - The Fuel of Relationships
[01:09:29] - God's Design for Relationships
[01:13:02] - Testimony and Truth
[01:19:11] - Ways We Bear False Witness
[01:26:16] - Acknowledging Our Broken Nature
[01:29:19] - Practical Steps to Foster Truth
[01:35:19] - Closing Prayer and Reflection

Study Guide

### Bible Reading

1. Exodus 20:16 (ESV): "You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor."
2. Proverbs 12:18-19 (ESV): "There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing. Truthful lips endure forever, but a lying tongue is but for a moment."
3. Ephesians 4:25 (ESV): "Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another."

### Observation Questions

1. What does the Ninth Commandment, "You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor," specifically instruct us to avoid? ([01:02:07])
2. According to the sermon, what are some practical ways we might bear false witness? ([01:19:11])
3. How does the sermon describe the broader context and purpose of the Ten Commandments? ([55:10])
4. What are the two key elements that relationships are designed to run on, as mentioned in the sermon? ([01:08:30])

### Interpretation Questions

1. How does bearing false witness affect our relationships with others and with God, according to the sermon? ([01:04:30])
2. Why does the sermon emphasize the importance of understanding the Ten Commandments as a revelation of God's character rather than just a set of rules? ([55:10])
3. In what ways does the sermon suggest we can align our words and actions with God's truth? ([01:19:11])
4. How does the concept of God's grace play a role in our efforts to live truthfully, as discussed in the sermon? ([01:26:16])

### Application Questions

1. Reflect on a recent situation where you might have borne false witness through reviling, flattery, silence, or misattribution. How can you address this and seek reconciliation? ([01:19:11])
2. The sermon mentions the importance of biting our tongues and plugging our ears to gossip. What practical steps can you take this week to avoid participating in or spreading gossip? ([01:29:19])
3. How can you put yourself in others' shoes to foster a community built on trust and integrity? Think of a specific relationship where this perspective could make a difference. ([01:33:50])
4. The sermon highlights the need to acknowledge our broken nature. How can you create a habit of self-reflection and confession to God about your shortcomings? ([01:26:44])
5. Consider the upcoming sermon series, "Given the Circumstances" and "The Messy Middle." How can you prepare your heart and mind to navigate life's challenges and political divisions with a Christ-centered perspective? ([51:46])
6. The sermon encourages us to lean towards Jesus when we fail. What are some specific ways you can lean on Jesus for strength and guidance in your daily life? ([01:26:16])
7. How can you actively contribute to building a community that honors God and each other, as discussed in the sermon? Identify one action you can take this week to foster truth and integrity in your interactions. ([01:29:19])

Devotional

Day 1: The Foundation of Truth in Relationships
Description: Relationships are designed to run on the fuel of honor and honesty. When we lie or bear false witness, we erode the trust that holds relationships together. God calls us to be people of truth, reflecting His character in our interactions. This means that our words and actions should consistently align with the truth, fostering an environment where trust can flourish. [47:09]

In a world where falsehoods can easily spread and distort reality, maintaining truth in our relationships is crucial. Lies, whether big or small, can create rifts and lead to misunderstandings that damage the very fabric of our connections with others. By committing to honesty, we not only honor God but also build stronger, more resilient relationships that can withstand challenges and grow deeper over time.

Ephesians 4:25 (ESV): "Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another."

Reflection: Think of a recent interaction where you were tempted to bend the truth. How could you have handled it differently to foster trust and honesty in that relationship?

Day 2: The Ten Commandments as a Revelation of God's Character
Description: The Ten Commandments are not just a set of rules but a revelation of God's character. They guide us in living in right relationship with God and others. Understanding this helps us see the commandments as a call to embody God's nature in our daily lives. [55:10]

The commandments are more than a checklist of dos and don'ts; they are a reflection of who God is and how He desires us to live. Each commandment reveals an aspect of God's nature, such as His faithfulness, justice, and love. By following these commandments, we align ourselves with God's character and His design for human flourishing. This perspective transforms our obedience from mere duty to a heartfelt response to God's love and holiness.

Deuteronomy 6:24-25 (ESV): "And the Lord commanded us to do all these statutes, to fear the Lord our God, for our good always, that he might preserve us alive, as we are this day. And it will be righteousness for us, if we are careful to do all this commandment before the Lord our God, as he has commanded us."

Reflection: Reflect on one of the Ten Commandments that you find challenging. How does understanding it as a reflection of God's character change your approach to obeying it?

Day 3: Recognizing and Avoiding False Witness
Description: We can bear false witness through actions like reviling, flattery, silence, and misattribution. Each of these actions undermines trust and damages relationships. We are called to be mindful of our words and actions, ensuring they align with God's truth. [01:19:11]

Bearing false witness isn't limited to outright lies; it includes any form of deception or misrepresentation. Reviling involves speaking abusively, while flattery is insincere praise. Silence can be complicit when truth needs to be spoken, and misattribution involves giving credit or blame incorrectly. Each of these actions can harm relationships and erode trust. As followers of Christ, we must strive to speak and act truthfully, reflecting God's integrity in all our interactions.

Proverbs 12:22 (ESV): "Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, but those who act faithfully are his delight."

Reflection: Consider a recent situation where you might have borne false witness, even unintentionally. What steps can you take to correct it and restore trust?

Day 4: Embracing God's Grace in Our Failures
Description: We will inevitably fail in our efforts to live truthfully, but God's grace is sufficient. Acknowledging our brokenness and leaning towards Jesus allows us to receive forgiveness and the strength to live out His design for human flourishing. [01:26:16]

Despite our best efforts, we will fall short of living perfectly truthful lives. However, God's grace covers our failures. When we acknowledge our brokenness and turn to Jesus, we find forgiveness and the strength to continue striving for truth. This grace is not a license to sin but a source of empowerment to live according to God's will. Embracing this grace helps us to be more compassionate towards ourselves and others, fostering a community of grace and truth.

2 Corinthians 12:9 (ESV): "But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me."

Reflection: Think of a time when you failed to live truthfully. How can you embrace God's grace in that situation and seek to make amends?

Day 5: Practical Steps to Foster Truth
Description: To live out the Ninth Commandment, we must acknowledge our broken nature, bite our tongues, plug our ears to gossip, and put ourselves in others' shoes. These steps help us build a community that honors God and each other, fostering relationships built on trust and integrity. [01:29:19]

Living truthfully requires intentional effort and practical steps. Acknowledging our broken nature reminds us of our need for God's grace. Biting our tongues helps us avoid speaking harmfully or deceitfully. Plugging our ears to gossip prevents us from participating in or spreading falsehoods. Putting ourselves in others' shoes fosters empathy and understanding, reducing the likelihood of misrepresentation. By practicing these steps, we create a community where truth and integrity thrive, reflecting God's character.

James 1:19 (ESV): "Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger."

Reflection: Identify one practical step you can take today to foster truth in your relationships. How will you implement it in your daily interactions?

Quotes

1. "And so, pastors and leaders are to be those who, we're not perfect, right? But we are examples. We are hungry and pursuing Jesus and being an example to others. We believe that God places pastors and leaders into faith and into the image of Christ. And we want to be families like this to help us grow to be more like Jesus." [47:42] (19 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "And so, Father, we, Father, bless them and receive them into this family. And, Father, we acknowledge the gifts and the anointing and the calling of God that is upon them. And, Father, we want to be those who receive from them. Father God, we're going to bless and give to them and encourage them. And, Lord, they're in turn going to strengthen and encourage and build us up and help us to become more like you." [49:13] (23 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "And so, essentially, the Ten Commandments are a revealing of God's character and nature. It's work that we are to do. It's the preparation of our hearts, our lives, so that we can be with him. That as he wants to be with us, we're reflecting that desire and wanting to be with him. And so we rid ourselves. In the New Testament, Paul talked a lot about putting off and putting on." [58:09] (29 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "The Christian life is not a life then of me being just okay I got saved and so someday I'm going to make it to heaven if I do the right things. That's not the Christian life. Like what God did through his son Jesus wasn't just rescue us from the penalty and the burden and the oppression of sin. He brings us to himself and he reminds us of what he has always wanted for humanity, which is to be with." [59:38] (28 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "And so the reason why we're taking a look at this is because God's invited you and invited me into that kind of relationship. And there's work that we have to do. There's a responsibility on our part as we begin to understand more of who God is. Our lives reflect that. And so even a couple of weeks ago when Pastor Aaron was talking about adultery, he's essentially talking about faithfulness." [01:00:08] (24 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

6. "And so today I want to look at something that on the surface maybe even feels like it doesn't fit. Like today's commandment is simply this. It's found in Exodus 20 and 15. You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor. Well, first of all, what's false witness anyway? And what does that mean, right? Like, you know, and how is that relevant?" [01:02:07] (23 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

7. "And so sometimes we can kind of excuse ourselves and say, well, everybody's lying and you just have to. It's a lie to kind of get ahead, right? And so what's the difference? In fact, it got so much like there were new words that have been introduced over the last ten fifteen years. You may have heard of it. It was actually the word of the year in 2006. Truthiness, right, which is the belief to believe in what you feel to be true rather than what the facts actually support." [01:12:00] (27 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

8. "And so we've got to be the kind of people that say I'm not doing that stuff. I'm not going to listen to that stuff. I value that. I value them as a brother and sister in Christ. I value them as an image bearer of God. Even if they're not a Christian, I value my coworker. I value my classmate. I value my neighbor as an image bearer of God himself. I'm going to value my relationship with them over the gossip that essentially is designed to trash them." [01:33:18] (33 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

9. "And so here's what I want us to do as we close. No song, just a simple prayer. That as we're in this moment and in this place, we've all failed. Me too. I've failed in this area. But I'm here today recognizing that there is a God in heaven who sent his son Jesus so that I could be not just forgiven, but I could be redeemed and made into a new kind of person, a new kind of human being that lives the way God actually designed us to live." [01:35:19] (38 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

10. "And so, Father, this morning, as we close our service, Lord Jesus, we want to be mindful of what you've invited us into because of the relationship that you have with us. Help us be those kinds of people in this season. That, Lord Jesus, we are honorable and honest. We are loving. Lord, we don't concern our things with things that are too... Occupy our mind with things that are too high for us. Lord, we'll be involved and encourage and strengthen and play our part." [01:39:21] (33 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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Transcript

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