Embodying Christlikeness: Lessons from Dallas Willard
Summary
Dallas Willard's life and legacy offer profound lessons in spiritual formation and Christlikeness. Reflecting on his journey, we are reminded of the transformative power of God's presence in our lives. Dallas was not just a world-class philosopher but a man whose life was deeply rooted in the character of Jesus. His spiritual formation was evident in his graciousness, humility, and wit, qualities that were not just superficial traits but deeply ingrained in his being.
Dallas's graciousness was evident in his interactions, whether exploring the streets of Florence or engaging with others in conversation. His humility shone through in his ability to listen and learn, even when he had the knowledge to counter opposing views. His wit, always welcoming and affirming, was a testament to his ability to connect with people from all walks of life. These qualities were not just natural talents but the result of a life dedicated to spiritual discipline and growth.
Dallas's life challenges us to consider our own spiritual formation. Are we willing to undergo the transformation necessary to embody the character of Jesus? Are we prepared to love our enemies, bless those who curse us, and become people of no reputation? These are not easy questions, but they are essential for anyone seeking to live a life of deep spiritual significance.
In the end, Dallas's life reminds us that we are never alone. God's presence is a rock-solid reality that sustains us through life's challenges. As we remember Dallas, we are encouraged to keep busy in the work of the Lord, knowing that we will see each other again in the fullness of God's kingdom.
Key Takeaways
- The Power of Spiritual Formation: Dallas Willard's life exemplifies the profound transformation that comes from spiritual formation into Christlikeness. His character was marked by love, joy, peace, and other fruits of the Spirit, which were deeply ingrained in his life. This transformation is a testament to the purifying fires of heaven that shape us into the image of Christ. [03:49]
- Graciousness in Action: Dallas's graciousness was evident in his interactions with others, whether sharing insights in Florence or engaging in conversation. His ability to connect with people and share his knowledge with humility and kindness is a model for us all. This graciousness is a reflection of a life lived in the presence of God. [06:21]
- Profound Humility: Despite his intellectual prowess, Dallas demonstrated profound humility. He was willing to listen and learn, even when he had the knowledge to counter opposing views. This humility is a reminder that true wisdom comes from recognizing our limitations and being open to the insights of others. [11:08]
- Welcoming Wit: Dallas's wit was always welcoming and affirming, allowing him to connect with people from diverse backgrounds. His ability to use humor to bridge gaps and build relationships is a testament to his deep understanding of human nature and the power of connection. [12:25]
- The Assurance of God's Presence: In his final days, Dallas's assurance of God's presence was unwavering. His confidence in seeing his friends again in the fullness of God's kingdom is a reminder that we are never alone. God's presence is a rock-solid reality that sustains us through life's challenges. [14:59]
Youtube Chapters
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [00:26] - Never Alone
- [01:07] - Early Days in Ministry
- [02:13] - A Memorable Fellowship
- [03:02] - The Purifying Fires of Heaven
- [04:17] - Spiritual Formation in Christlikeness
- [05:26] - Embracing Transformation
- [06:21] - Enormous Graciousness
- [07:32] - Exploring Florence with Dallas
- [08:28] - Profound Humility
- [10:07] - Practicing New Disciplines
- [11:38] - Mischievous Wit
- [12:53] - Welcoming Emily
- [13:44] - Final Moments with Dallas
- [14:59] - Assurance of Reunion
- [16:15] - Closing Prayer
Study Guide
### Bible Study Discussion Guide
#### Bible Reading
1. Galatians 5:22-23 - "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control."
2. Matthew 5:44 - "But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you."
3. Philippians 2:3-4 - "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others."
#### Observation Questions
1. How did Dallas Willard's life exemplify the fruits of the Spirit as described in Galatians 5:22-23? Consider specific examples from the sermon. [04:17]
2. What were some of the ways Dallas demonstrated humility in his interactions with others, according to the sermon? [11:08]
3. How did Dallas use his wit to connect with people from different backgrounds? Provide examples from the sermon. [12:25]
4. In what ways did Dallas's assurance of God's presence impact his final days, as mentioned in the sermon? [14:59]
#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does the concept of spiritual formation into Christlikeness, as seen in Dallas's life, relate to the fruits of the Spirit in Galatians 5:22-23? [04:17]
2. What does it mean to love our enemies and bless those who curse us, as mentioned in Matthew 5:44, in the context of Dallas's life and teachings? [05:51]
3. How can Dallas's example of humility, as described in Philippians 2:3-4, challenge our understanding of wisdom and knowledge? [11:08]
4. How does the assurance of God's presence, as seen in Dallas's life, provide comfort and strength in times of difficulty? [14:59]
#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you had the opportunity to demonstrate graciousness in a challenging situation. How can you apply Dallas's example of graciousness in your daily interactions? [06:21]
2. Consider a situation where you might need to practice humility. How can Dallas's approach to not having the last word inspire you to respond differently? [11:08]
3. Think of a person in your life who comes from a different background. How can you use humor or wit to build a connection with them, as Dallas did? [12:25]
4. Identify an area in your life where you struggle to love your enemies. What steps can you take to embody the teachings of Matthew 5:44 in this situation? [05:51]
5. How can you cultivate a deeper awareness of God's presence in your life, especially during difficult times, as Dallas did in his final days? [14:59]
6. Choose one aspect of the fruit of the Spirit to focus on this month. What specific action could you take to cultivate it as part of your interactions with your family? [04:17]
7. Reflect on a time when you felt alone. How can the assurance of God's presence, as demonstrated in Dallas's life, provide comfort and hope in similar situations? [14:59]
Devotional
I'm ready to provide the 5-day devotional based on the steps outlined:
Day 1: The Transformative Power of Spiritual Formation
Dallas Willard's life exemplifies the profound transformation that comes from spiritual formation into Christlikeness. His character was marked by love, joy, peace, and other fruits of the Spirit, which were deeply ingrained in his life. This transformation is a testament to the purifying fires of heaven that shape us into the image of Christ. The journey of spiritual formation is not merely about acquiring knowledge or performing religious duties; it is about allowing God's presence to transform our innermost being. As we open ourselves to this process, we begin to reflect the character of Jesus in our daily lives, impacting those around us with His love and grace. [03:49]
2 Corinthians 3:18 (ESV): "And we all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another. For this comes from the Lord who is the Spirit."
Reflection: What specific area of your life do you feel God is calling you to transform? How can you invite His presence into this area today?
Day 2: Graciousness in Action
Dallas's graciousness was evident in his interactions with others, whether sharing insights in Florence or engaging in conversation. His ability to connect with people and share his knowledge with humility and kindness is a model for us all. This graciousness is a reflection of a life lived in the presence of God. It challenges us to consider how we interact with those around us, especially in moments of disagreement or tension. By embodying graciousness, we create spaces where others feel valued and heard, reflecting the love of Christ in our relationships. [06:21]
Colossians 4:6 (ESV): "Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person."
Reflection: Think of a recent conversation where you could have been more gracious. How can you approach similar situations differently in the future?
Day 3: Profound Humility
Despite his intellectual prowess, Dallas demonstrated profound humility. He was willing to listen and learn, even when he had the knowledge to counter opposing views. This humility is a reminder that true wisdom comes from recognizing our limitations and being open to the insights of others. In a world that often values assertiveness and self-promotion, humility invites us to a different way of being—one that prioritizes understanding and connection over winning arguments. By embracing humility, we open ourselves to growth and deeper relationships with others. [11:08]
James 3:13 (ESV): "Who is wise and understanding among you? By his good conduct let him show his works in the meekness of wisdom."
Reflection: In what areas of your life do you struggle with humility? How can you practice listening more and speaking less this week?
Day 4: Welcoming Wit
Dallas's wit was always welcoming and affirming, allowing him to connect with people from diverse backgrounds. His ability to use humor to bridge gaps and build relationships is a testament to his deep understanding of human nature and the power of connection. Humor, when used wisely, can be a powerful tool for breaking down barriers and fostering community. It invites us to see the lighter side of life and to approach others with warmth and openness. [12:25]
Proverbs 17:22 (ESV): "A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones."
Reflection: How can you use humor to bring joy and connection to your interactions this week? Is there someone who could use a light-hearted moment from you today?
Day 5: The Assurance of God's Presence
In his final days, Dallas's assurance of God's presence was unwavering. His confidence in seeing his friends again in the fullness of God's kingdom is a reminder that we are never alone. God's presence is a rock-solid reality that sustains us through life's challenges. This assurance invites us to live with hope and courage, knowing that we are held by a love that transcends our circumstances. It encourages us to remain steadfast in our faith, trusting that God's presence is with us in every moment. [14:59]
Isaiah 41:10 (ESV): "Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand."
Reflection: In what ways do you need to be reminded of God's presence in your life today? How can you cultivate an awareness of His presence throughout your day?
Quotes
Dallas possessed in his person a spiritual formation into Christlikeness that was simply astonishing profound character formation transpired in his body and mind and spirit until love and joy and peace and patience and kindness and goodness and faithfulness and gentleness and self-control was at the very center of the deep habit structures of his life even in those final days when his body was struggling his spirit continued to radiate life and power and peace. [00:04:02]
However, are we just as prepared to take up his overall life of far-reaching human transformation? Are we prepared to absorb into ourselves the character of Jesus like Dallas did? Are we prepared to go through what it takes to become the kind of persons who can freely love our enemies, who can bless those who curse us, who can become persons of no reputation? [00:05:14]
The first was his enormous graciousness. Dallas and Jane and Carolyn and I were once traveling together in Florence, Italy. Now to explore the streets of Florence with Dallas is like traveling with a walking encyclopedia. Oh my, I mean just because Dallas knew of my keen interest in the medieval preacher dinner amo Savonarola, Dallas took me to the Piazza where Savonarola was executed and pointed me to that small inconspicuous plaque smack in the middle of the cobblestone streets which marked the spot of his execution. [00:06:21]
I was once introducing him to a group assembled to hear us teach together and I wanted to broaden folks understanding just a bit of the person who was about to speak to them so briefly I mentioned Alice's day job especially his work in phenomenology and I referenced his book logic and the objectivity of knowledge and I told the people you know I actually own a copy of that book and I have even read in that book and I even understood it all the way through the acknowledgments. [00:08:28]
Marty thought to herself oh boy here it comes Dallas is going to slice and dice this student into tiny pieces but instead Dallas simply thanked the young man for his comments and went on to the next question after the meeting Marty went up to Dallas and asked why did you let those comments go unchallenged I know you could have demolished his ideas if you had wanted to Dallas answered simply oh I'm practicing a new spiritual discipline I'm learning not to have the last word profound humility. [00:10:07]
Dallas shared this story as a way of welcoming her and affirming her as a member of our team. Many years later Emily beamed with joy as she shared that incident with me mischievous wit by God's providential grace I was able to be with Dallas the Friday before he died I had come to say goodbye to a dear friend of many years I of course wanted to pray for his healing but I had to prepare for his dying there is no contradiction in this it is a simple recognition that we are not in charge of the issues of life and death. [00:12:53]
Finally with trembling voice I said you know Dallas we may not see each other again and then our conversation was interrupted as we needed to take Dallas to the hospital and once at the hospital the customary flurry of doctors and nurses and medical staff went on so that we were not alone again until the evening back at his house and as I was preparing to leave Dallas took my hand and spoke as if to continue the conversation of the morning he smiled and he said ever so tenderly and ever so firmly we will see each other again. [00:13:44]
Dallas looked at Bob and said with that serious wit of his give me a thousand of them. Well Dallas must have devoured every one of those thousand peppers because over the years the hell had indeed been burnt out of him or to put it in the affirmative heaven had been burnt into Dallas Willard more fully than just about anyone I have ever met and you understand that the purifying fires of heaven are hotter than the fires of hell. [00:03:02]
Dallas's wit was always so welcoming and affirming in the fifth or sixth year of our rena Very's existence we brought onto our team a wonderful writer and speaker Emily Griffin Emily is Roman Catholic and I was a little concerned how she might fare in this sea of Protestants and years later she told me how that at the very first team retreat she attended that Dallas pulled her aside and shared a humorous a fictitious of an apocryphal story really about Martin Luther. [00:11:38]
Dallas took me to the Piazza where Savonarola was executed and pointed me to that small inconspicuous plaque smack in the middle of the cobblestone streets which marked the spot of his execution I can't imagine that one person in 10,000 would know where that plaque is located then we were walking through one of the many art galleries in Florence and Dallas had some special insight or pearl of wisdom about every painting I mean every single page and all I could say was why ask her I knew that. [00:06:21]
Dallas possessed in his person a spiritual formation into Christlikeness that was simply astonishing profound character formation transpired in his body and mind and spirit until love and joy and peace and patience and kindness and goodness and faithfulness and gentleness and self-control was at the very center of the deep habit structures of his life even in those final days when his body was struggling his spirit continued to radiate life and power and peace. [00:04:02]
Dallas's graciousness was evident in his interactions with others, whether sharing insights in Florence or engaging in conversation. His ability to connect with people and share his knowledge with humility and kindness is a model for us all. This graciousness is a reflection of a life lived in the presence of God. [00:06:21]