Bible Reading1 Peter 5:1-4 “So I exhort the elders among you, as a fellow elder and a witness of the sufferings of Christ, as well as a partaker in the glory that is going to be revealed: shepherd the flock of God that is among you, exercising oversight, not under compulsion, but willingly, as God would have you; not for shameful gain, but eagerly; not domineering over those in your charge, but being examples to the flock. And when the chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the unfading crown of glory.”
[10:47]1 Timothy 3:1-7 “The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task. Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God's church? He must not be a recent convert, or he may become puffed up with conceit and fall into the condemnation of the devil. Moreover, he must be well thought of by outsiders, so that he may not fall into disgrace, into a snare of the devil.”
[21:01]Titus 1:5-9 “This is why I left you in Crete, so that you might put what remained into order, and appoint elders in every town as I directed you— if anyone is above reproach, the husband of one wife, and his children are believers and not open to the charge of debauchery or insubordination. For an overseer, as God's steward, must be above reproach. He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered or a drunkard or violent or greedy for gain, but hospitable, a lover of good, self-controlled, upright, holy, and disciplined. He must hold firm to the trustworthy word as taught, so that he may be able to give instruction in sound doctrine and also to rebuke those who contradict it.”
Hebrews 13:17-18 “Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls, as those who will have to give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with groaning, for that would be of no advantage to you. Pray for us, for we are sure that we have a clear conscience, desiring to act honorably in all things.”
[07:38]Psalm 23:1-6 “The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the LORD forever.”
[12:42]Observation questions- In 1 Peter 5:1-4, what are elders told to do, and what are they specifically told not to do as they care for the flock? [15:49]
- Looking at Psalm 23, what pictures show a shepherd feeding, leading, and protecting sheep? [12:42]
- In 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1, which repeated qualities stand out most in the lists for elders, and which kinds of behaviors are clearly forbidden? [32:11]
- According to Hebrews 13:17-18, what two responsibilities do leaders have, and what two responses are believers called to give? [08:08]
Interpretation questions- If the flock is called “the flock of God” in 1 Peter 5, how should that shape the way an elder thinks about authority, leadership, and the people under his care? [12:22]
- Psalm 23 includes both comfort and correction. Why is that important for understanding shepherding in the church, especially when help does not always feel gentle at first? [14:07]
- Hebrews 13 says leaders keep watch over souls and will give an account. What does that suggest about why the qualifications in 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1 are so serious? [33:36]
- The lists in Timothy and Titus focus heavily on character more than giftedness. Why is character such a protection for the church, and what dangers arise when giftedness is admired more than holiness? [31:34]
Application questions- Hebrews 13 says leaders keep watch over souls and will give an account. How regularly does this group pray for elders and pastors by name, and what would it look like to do that more deliberately this week? [20:47]
- Shepherding includes feeding, leading, and protecting. Which of those forms of care has been easiest for this person to receive from church leadership, and which has been hardest to receive? Why? [15:35]
- The rod and staff in Psalm 23 remind believers that correction can also be love. When correction, warning, or rebuke comes from God’s Word, is the first response usually humility, defensiveness, or avoidance? What tends to reveal that? [14:21]
- Elders are told not to lead for shameful gain or by lording it over others. Where does this group see the temptation to use influence, position, or spiritual responsibility in a self-serving way, whether in church, home, or work? [16:03]
- Scripture says a leader must be above reproach, self-controlled, gentle, and not quarrelsome. Which of those character areas feels especially needed in this season of life, even apart from church office? [29:31]
- Character matters more than giftedness. Is there a tendency to be more impressed by confidence, talent, or platform presence than by holiness and steadiness? How can the group learn to value what Scripture values? [31:48]
- Scripture warns against laying hands on anyone hastily. How can a church be both loving and careful when affirming leaders, and why does patience in that process protect everyone involved? [25:40]