Bible reading John 20:1–18 (ESV) Now on the first day of the week Mary Magdalene came to the tomb early, while it was still dark, and saw that the stone had been removed from the tomb. So she ran and went to Simon Peter and the other disciple, the one whom Jesus loved, and said to them, “They have taken the Lord out of the tomb, and we do not know where they have laid him.” So Peter went out with the other disciple, and they were going toward the tomb. Both of them were running together, but the other disciple outran Peter and reached the tomb first. And stooping to look in, he saw the linen cloths lying there, but he did not go in. Then Simon Peter came, following him, and went into the tomb. He saw the linen cloths lying there, and the face cloth, which had been on Jesus’ head, not lying with the linen cloths but folded up in a place by itself. Then the other disciple, who had reached the tomb first, also went in, and he saw and believed; for as yet they did not understand the Scripture, that he must rise from the dead. Then the disciples went back to their homes. But Mary stood weeping outside the tomb, and as she wept she stooped to look into the tomb. And she saw two angels in white, sitting where the body of Jesus had lain, one at the head and one at the feet. They said to her, “Woman, why are you weeping?” She said to them, “They have taken away my Lord, and I do not know where they have laid him.” Having said this, she turned around and saw Jesus standing, but she did not know that it was Jesus. Jesus said to her, “Woman, why are you weeping? Whom are you seeking?” Supposing him to be the gardener, she said to him, “Sir, if you have carried him away, tell me where you have laid him, and I will take him away.” Jesus said to her, “Mary.” She turned and said to him in Aramaic, “Rabboni!” (which means Teacher). Jesus said to her, “Do not cling to me, for I have not yet ascended to the Father; but go to my brothers and say to them, ‘I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to my God and your God.’” Mary Magdalene went and announced to the disciples, “I have seen the Lord”—and that he had said these things to her.
Observation questions - What details does John include about the condition of the tomb when Peter and the other disciple arrive?
- How does Mary initially respond to the empty tomb and the two figures she sees inside?
- What changes for Mary when Jesus speaks her name?
- What instruction does Jesus give Mary immediately after she recognizes him? [34:27]
Interpretation questions - Why do you think Mary didn’t recognize Jesus at first, even when he was standing right in front of her?
- What does it mean that the disciples “did not understand the Scripture, that he must rise from the dead,” even after seeing the empty tomb and folded grave clothes?
- Jesus tells Mary, “Do not cling to me.” What might he be indicating about the new kind of relationship and mission he’s inviting her into? [45:54]
- In what ways can prolonged grief or disappointment, like Mary’s, make it difficult to recognize hope or God’s presence when it appears?
Application questions - When have you experienced a “Good Friday” season in your life—a time defined by loss, fear, or disappointment? How did that affect the way you saw others and your circumstances? [40:13]
- Jesus called Mary by name, and her vision cleared. Who are the people in your life who “call you by name” and help you see God’s presence when you’re stuck in a place of spiritual or emotional darkness?
- Biblical hope is described as a choice and an action, not just a feeling. [47:49] What’s one practical way you can actively choose hope this week in a situation that feels heavy or broken?
- Mary was sent to tell others what she had seen. Who is one person you can share a story of God’s faithfulness with this week?
- The sermon described being a “midwife of hope” for others. What would it look like for you to help someone else recognize new life or resurrection in a difficult situation? [48:37]
- In what areas of your life are you most tempted to “settle for Good Friday”—to accept despair, cynicism, or injustice as normal? What would it look like to resist that settling? [35:46]
- The resurrection wasn’t just a one-time event—it’s an ongoing reality. Where do you see signs of new life or resurrection breaking out in your community or relationships right now?