Following Jesus requires that He holds the supreme place of devotion in our lives, above all other relationships and commitments. This is not a call to neglect our loved ones, but a reordering of our ultimate allegiance. Our love for family, while deep and God-given, must find its proper place beneath our love for the Savior. This foundational truth shapes every other aspect of our discipleship, ensuring that our lives are built upon the one relationship that truly defines us. [43:39]
“Anyone who loves their father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves their son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.” (Matthew 10:37 NIV)
Reflection: As you consider the various people and things you are devoted to, what specific loyalty or relationship might be competing with Christ for the primary place in your heart? What would it look like to lovingly reorder that commitment this week?
Choosing to follow Christ can create tension and even conflict, as the truth of the gospel divides belief from unbelief. This is not a failure of love but a natural consequence of holding fast to a transformative truth. Jesus Himself warned that His message would not always bring superficial peace, but would instead demand a decisive choice. Our calling is to stand firm in our identity as His followers, even when it is difficult. [52:28]
“Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword.” (Matthew 10:34 NIV)
Reflection: Where have you experienced relational tension or division because of your faith? How can you, in love and gentleness, continue to stand for truth while also demonstrating Christ's grace to those who disagree?
Genuine faith understands and accepts the cost associated with following Jesus. It is a call to die to our old selves, our personal ambitions, and anything we would cling to more tightly than Him. This is not a casual commitment but a whole-life surrender, picking up our cross daily. The promise is that in losing our lives for His sake, we ultimately find the life we were truly made for. [54:15]
Then he said to them all: “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.” (Luke 9:23 NIV)
Reflection: What is one specific aspect of your "old self" or a personal ambition that God might be inviting you to die to in this season? What practical step can you take this week to "pick up your cross" in that area?
Above every other label or relationship, our primary identity is found in being a child of the one true King. This truth redefines our worth, our purpose, and our security. When we grasp that we are loved and claimed by God, it empowers us to live with courage and faithfulness, no matter the cost. This identity is not earned but received as a gift of grace through Jesus Christ. [56:42]
See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! (1 John 3:1a NIV)
Reflection: How does remembering that your foremost identity is "child of God" change the way you view a current challenge or relationship? In what area of your life do you need to live more fully from this place of beloved security?
When we truly understand who Jesus is and what He has done, we see that He is worth more than everything else combined. This perspective transforms our sacrifices from burdens into privileges. The hardships we may face for His name pale in comparison to the eternal glory that awaits. This conviction allows us to follow Him with joy and perseverance, holding loosely to the things of this world. [01:01:19]
What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them garbage, that I may gain Christ. (Philippians 3:8 NIV)
Reflection: If someone looked at your calendar, your bank statement, and your conversations this month, what evidence would they find that Jesus is of surpassing worth to you? What is one tangible way you can express His supreme value in the coming week?
Infant baptism appears as a visible sign that God already works in a child's life and as a communal vow to raise that child in the faith. The church and parents commit together to equip children with the knowledge of Jesus so they can one day profess him as Lord. A simple jar of beads symbolizes the finite seasons of parenting—one bead for each week from birth to eighteen—urging intentional investment during those years. New members receive a public welcome and a mutual pledge to support the church through prayer, presence, gifts, service, and witness.
Matthew 10:34–38 confronts comfortable faith by insisting that allegiance to Jesus must outrank every other loyalty. Jesus’ words challenge believers to examine who truly occupies the throne of the heart and to accept that truth naturally creates division between those who follow and those who reject. Loving family, career, reputation, or possessions more than Christ disqualifies commitment; discipleship demands daily self-denial and willingness to take up the cross.
Historical examples sharpen that call. Stories of Richard Wurmbrand, Dietrich Bonhoeffer, and Perpetua illustrate how faith can cost everything—rank, freedom, relationships, even life—yet produce steadfast devotion and eternal perspective. Those examples do not glamorize suffering; they clarify what true devotion looks like when earthly comforts and ties compete with the kingdom.
Practical application lands in ordinary moments: holiday meals, workplace conversations, parenting choices, and everyday priorities. Truth will create tension in family systems; rather than silencing confession, faithful witness must risk honest proclamation. The promise that those who lose life for Christ’s sake will find it reframes present hurts beneath the hope of future glory. The congregation receives an urgent invitation to wrestle with difficult passages, make Jesus first, and live with the readiness to endure division for the sake of the gospel.
So if you were to take a bead out, by the time she turned 18, the jar would be empty. It's a reminder you don't have to take the beads out, but it's a reminder, put it in in her nursery, put it in her room, that we only really have eighteen years to pour into our children because then whether we like it or not, they can make decisions on their own and they will. And we hope that we've given them enough to where they know who Jesus is and they strive to follow him. And so let this be a great reminder to all of us and to you all.
[00:15:02]
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#EighteenYearsToPour
There are do the mass media would have you say there are things you don't talk about at work and things you don't talk about with your family, and Jesus is one of those. But Jesus said to do the opposite. He said proclaim who you are. He said stand firm on the fact that you follow me. It will cause division. It will cause conflict because what Jesus is saying is that truth brings division between belief and unbelief. Do you understand that? Truth brings division and conflict between those who believe and those who do not believe.
[00:51:45]
(43 seconds)
#ProclaimJesusTruth
And so I ask you then, who truly sits on the throne of your heart? Is it a spouse? Is it a parent? Is it a grandparent? Is it a child? Is it a grandchild? Is it something, a career? Is it material possessions? Who truly sits on the throne of your heart? Friends, following Jesus also means division. It means conflict.
[00:47:32]
(38 seconds)
#WhosOnYourThrone
Friends, I go back to the question, and actually I'll word it a different way. What is Jesus worth to you? Is Jesus worth more to you than everything else combined? And that's what Jesus challenges us with today. What is my worth to you, church? What is my worth to you day in and day out As you guide your family, am I taking a high place of honor in your home? As you go to the workplace, am I being honored in the workplace?
[01:01:09]
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#WhatIsJesusWorth
As you extend outside of your family and outside of the church to people you pass by in restaurants, your neighbors, maybe other coworkers. Is Jesus worth everything to you? And what are you doing? What are you doing in your life to show others that he means everything to you? Praise be to God for his tough words. May we wrestle with them. May we digest them, and more importantly, we commit to them, and may we live those out all of our days.
[01:01:59]
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#LiveFaithBoldly
For I have come to turn a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. I might could see that one. A man's enemies will be the members of his own household. Anyone who loves their father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and anyone who loves their son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. Whoever does not take up their cross and follow me is not worthy of me.
[00:37:25]
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#ChristOverAll
Jesus is speaking to us again today. And through the power of his holy spirit, he's trying to convict us all of the places where we fall short. And he's saying, hey. I need the most important place. I need to be the most important person. I need to be the most important thing. Deny yourself. Deny that important individual in your life. Deny that pet. Deny that material possession. Pick up your cross and follow me.
[01:03:23]
(44 seconds)
#DenySelfFollowChrist
And when Jesus bids us to come, we die to our old self. We die to what we feel is important. And we pick up that cross daily and we follow him. Jesus said this, he said, those who lose their life will for my sake will find it and those who endure suffering will be welcomed by my father in heaven.
[00:54:35]
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#LoseToFind
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