The call to put away falsehood is a call to embrace a new identity in Christ. This new self is created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. Speaking truth is not merely about avoiding lies; it is about actively building up the body of Christ. When we speak truth, we honor our connection to one another and protect the unity that Christ died to create. Our words have the power to either foster fellowship or fracture it. [35:36]
Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another. (Ephesians 4:25, ESV)
Reflection: Consider a relationship where avoiding a difficult truth has created distance. How might speaking the truth in love, with the goal of unity, begin to restore that connection?
Anger itself is not the sin; it is a natural emotion that can be channeled for God's purposes. Righteous anger is stirred by what offends God's character, such as injustice or sin that destroys lives. The crucial distinction is that this anger must not be self-centered or allowed to fester. We are instructed to deal with our anger quickly, whether through confession or loving confrontation, to prevent giving the devil a foothold and to preserve unity within the body. [40:12]
Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil. (Ephesians 4:26-27, ESV)
Reflection: When you feel anger rising, what practical step can you take in the moment to discern if it is self-centered or righteous, and how will you resolve it before the day ends?
Sanctification is a process of profound transformation, moving us from a life of self-centered taking to a life of Christ-centered giving. The old self, like a thief, seeks only to acquire. The new self labors honestly not just to provide for itself, but to have something to share with those in need. This shift from selfishness to generosity reflects the very heart of God and is a powerful testimony to the work of Christ within us. Our productivity finds its ultimate purpose in giving. [44:44]
Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need. (Ephesians 4:28, ESV)
Reflection: In what specific area of your life—finances, time, or talent—is God inviting you to move from simply being honest to being intentionally generous?
Our words are a direct reflection of the condition of our hearts. Corrupt talk, which includes gossip, slander, and vulgarity, tears down others and disrupts unity. The call is to replace such speech with words that are good for building up, that fit the occasion, and that give grace to those who hear. This requires a renewal of our minds, filling ourselves with God's truth so that our speech naturally overflows with encouragement and life, actively participating in the strengthening of the community. [48:09]
Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. (Ephesians 4:29, ESV)
Reflection: What is one conversation from this past week where your words did not build up? How could you approach a similar conversation differently to extend grace?
We are called to a life of kindness, tenderheartedness, and forgiveness because we have been sealed by the Holy Spirit. Our unforgiveness, bitterness, and malice grieve the Spirit who dwells within us. The power to forgive does not come from ourselves but from the profound reality that we have been completely forgiven through Christ's sacrifice. We forgive others not merely for our benefit or theirs, but as a response to the overwhelming grace we have received, thus maintaining the unity of the Spirit. [52:54]
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. (Ephesians 4:32, ESV)
Reflection: Is there a person you struggle to forgive? How does reflecting on the depth of Christ's forgiveness for you change your perspective on offering forgiveness to them?
Ephesians 4:25–32 calls the church to live out a visibly renewed life that guards unity, practices generosity, and reflects Christ from the heart. The passage demands putting off the old self—falsehood, theft, corrupt speech, and bitter anger—and putting on the new self shaped by righteousness, holiness, and love. Speaking truth among members functions as a remedy to gossip and discord; truth-telling grows from knowing Scripture, holding hard conversations with grace, and refusing to let sin fester. Anger that arises over sin or injustice can be righteous, but it must never become a driving, self-centered force; prompt confession and repentance remove the foothold the devil seeks.
Sanctification shows itself in work and speech: the thief becomes a laborer who produces and shares, and mouths that once tore down now build up and give grace. The change runs deeper than behavior modification; it reorients desires so productivity serves neighborly generosity rather than personal gain. Renewed speech flows from a renewed heart—what fills the mind shapes the mouth—and believers are urged to train attention on what is true, honorable, pure, and praise-worthy.
Refusing to grieve the Holy Spirit forms the moral backbone of communal life. Bitterness, wrath, clamor, slander, and malice fracture fellowship and wound the Spirit who seals believers for the day of redemption. The seal stands as assurance: salvation has been secured and the Spirit’s presence calls for life that increasingly mirrors Christ. Forgiveness and kindness function not merely as social niceties but as the Spirit-empowered means by which the church remains coherent and credible to the world.
Finally, confession of the Nicene Creed appears as a unifying reminder of core truths—God’s triune nature, the incarnation, atonement, and the hope of resurrection—that bind the universal church across time and culture. The ethical demands of Ephesians flow from those doctrines: identity in Christ produces truthfulness, generosity, and forgiving love that leave no opportunity for disunity.
Let me close with this. We are called to walk in a manner worthy of our calling, to live in unity by putting off falsehood, that old self, and by speaking the truth, by not lying, by knowing the truth, and having hard conversations. We will deal with our anger in a timely manner, confessing it, asking for forgiveness, and repenting and changing our ways. We are to live to give by transforming our lives from takers and destroyers to givers to those who build up and encourage. We are to take our eyes off of ourselves and place them on others.
[00:53:24]
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#WalkWorthy
Live in him, verses thirty and thirty two. Do not grieve the holy spirit of God by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness and wrath and anger, clamor, slander be put away from you along with all malice.
[00:48:51]
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#HonorTheSpirit
That's past tense. That means it's already been done for you. So remember that you are sealed, that you always will be sealed, that it has been done forever for the day of redemption. See, Jesus has lived a perfect and sinless life for you. He has died the perfect sinless, substitutional death for you, and your debt has been paid in full. So if you feel the spirit working in your heart and drawing you to be more and more like Christ, and less and less like you, then this is a sign that you have been sealed for that day.
[00:50:57]
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#SealedForRedemption
These verses show us the transformation of what happens to us during sanctification. The process over time moving from the thief, the taker, to being generous and giving. From tearing down to building up the old self, the thief, was was driven by self centeredness and saying, what's in this for me? What can I get out of this relationship? What can I take from this job?
[00:43:08]
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#FromTakerToGiver
It replaces them with meaning and purpose. The thief goes from stealing to honest labor, to being productive and contributing, and then to giving to those in need. When we put on the new selves, we go from harming to care, from self centered to others focused, from taking to giving. And don't miss this. We can change our lives, turn from our old ways, live within the boundaries of goodness, and still miss the mark.
[00:44:21]
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#TransformationJourney
We don't forgive for our benefit. We really don't forgive for the other's benefit. We forgive because Christ first forgave us and what he has done for us. Because we are clothed in his righteousness and the spirit lives in us, we can forgive those who have wronged us through him and his power, and this gives no opportunity for disunity.
[00:52:51]
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#ForgiveBecauseChrist
Lying is a part of our old self. Jesus tells us that the father of all lies is the devil. And when we hand our anger and our tongues inappropriately, this leaves an opportunity for the devil to work in our lives. Satan's only desire is to kill, steal, and destroy man's relationship with God. He uses our our old self to harm the fellowship and destroy unity, which destroys the body of Christ.
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#RootOutLies
When we lie or are angry at one of our brothers and sisters, it makes it difficult for the church to operate as it should. When we lie or harbor or speak a little gossip towards somebody, we find it hard to pray for them. We find it hard to care for them. We find it hard to walk through a hard situation with them, to build them up, to encourage them, and most of all, hard to love them.
[00:41:40]
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#NoMoreGossip
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