Deepening Our Prayer Life: Stages and Practices
Summary
In Luke 11, we find Jesus teaching His disciples about prayer, emphasizing the importance of persistence and sincerity. The passage begins with the disciples asking Jesus to teach them to pray, leading to the well-known Lord's Prayer. This prayer serves as a foundational model, teaching us to address God as Father, seek His kingdom, and rely on Him for daily needs, forgiveness, and guidance. Jesus then shares a parable about a friend who persistently asks for bread at midnight, illustrating the power of "shameless audacity" in prayer. This parable is not about God being a reluctant giver but about His willingness to respond to our persistent prayers.
The sermon draws a parallel between learning to speak and learning to pray, highlighting four stages: talking to God, talking with God, listening to God, and being with God. These stages are not linear but represent different dimensions of a prayerful life. As we mature in our faith, our prayers should evolve from reciting pre-made prayers to having personal, heartfelt conversations with God.
Gratitude, lament, petition, and intercession are key components of talking with God. Gratitude is foundational, recognizing all of life as a gift from God. Lament allows us to bring our pain and struggles to God, transforming complaints into a form of theological protest. Petition and intercession involve asking God to act on our behalf and on behalf of others, reflecting a deep trust in His power and goodness.
Praying in Jesus' name means aligning our prayers with His nature and character, invoking our status as children of God. This alignment opens the door for God's miraculous power to flow through our prayers. The sermon challenges us to believe that our prayers can shape the future, emphasizing that prayer is a relational collaboration with God.
As we practice prayer, we are invited to develop daily rhythms, use our bodies in prayer, and engage in gratitude, lament, petition, and intercession. Ultimately, prayer is about surrendering our desires to God, trusting in His will, and allowing Him to transform us into the answer to our own prayers.
Key Takeaways:
1. The Stages of Prayer: Prayer is a journey that begins with learning the vocabulary and grammar of talking to God and progresses to a more intimate conversation with Him. This journey is not linear but involves different dimensions of prayer, including talking, listening, and being with God. [04:00]
2. The Power of Gratitude: Gratitude is the foundation of our relationship with God, recognizing all of life as a gift. It is not just a practice before meals but a posture of the heart that acknowledges God's goodness and grace in every aspect of life. [11:10]
3. Lament as Theological Protest: Lament is an honest expression of our pain and struggles, transforming complaints into a form of protest against evil and injustice. It is a way to process our emotions with God, moving from despair to hope and faith. [21:09]
4. The Role of Petition and Intercession: Petition and intercession are acts of love, asking God to act on our behalf and on behalf of others. They reflect a deep trust in God's power and goodness, believing that our prayers can shape the future. [23:09]
5. Praying in Jesus' Name: Praying in Jesus' name means aligning our prayers with His nature and character, invoking our status as children of God. This alignment opens the door for God's miraculous power to flow through our prayers. [29:12]
Youtube Chapters:
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [00:10] - Importance of Bringing a Bible
- [00:28] - Reading from Luke 11
- [01:04] - The Parable of the Persistent Friend
- [02:24] - Personal Story: Baby Ellis
- [03:14] - Learning to Speak and Pray
- [04:00] - Stages of Prayer
- [05:25] - Jesus' Teaching on Prayer
- [06:31] - The "How Much More" Teaching
- [07:52] - Ask, Seek, Knock
- [09:23] - Talking with God: Gratitude, Lament, Petition
- [11:10] - The Foundation of Gratitude
- [14:30] - The Role of Lament
- [21:09] - Lament as Theological Protest
- [23:09] - Petition and Intercession
- [29:12] - Praying in Jesus' Name
- [36:35] - Weekly Prayer Practice
- [42:43] - God Forms Us Through Prayer
Study Guide
### Bible Study Discussion Guide
#### Bible Reading
- Luke 11:1-13
#### Observation Questions
1. What request do the disciples make of Jesus in Luke 11:1, and how does Jesus respond? [00:44]
2. In the parable of the persistent friend, what is the reason given for the friend eventually providing bread? [01:30]
3. How does Jesus illustrate the concept of persistence in prayer through the actions of asking, seeking, and knocking? [07:20]
4. What comparison does Jesus make between earthly fathers and our Father in heaven in terms of giving good gifts? [08:31]
#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does the Lord's Prayer serve as a foundational model for our own prayers, and what key elements does it include? [09:05]
2. What does the sermon suggest about the relationship between gratitude and our overall posture towards God? [11:27]
3. How does the concept of lament as a form of theological protest challenge or expand one's understanding of prayer? [21:09]
4. What does it mean to pray in Jesus' name, and how does this align our prayers with God's will and character? [29:12]
#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your current prayer life. Which stage of prayer—talking to God, talking with God, listening to God, or being with God—do you find yourself in most often, and why? [04:00]
2. How can you incorporate more gratitude into your daily routine, and what impact might this have on your relationship with God? [11:10]
3. Think of a situation in your life or the world that causes you pain or anger. How can you transform this into a prayer of lament, bringing it honestly before God? [21:09]
4. Identify a specific need or concern for yourself or someone else. How can you practice petition and intercession this week to bring this before God? [23:09]
5. Consider a recent prayer you made. How can you ensure that your prayers are aligned with Jesus' nature and character, invoking your status as a child of God? [29:12]
6. What daily rhythms or practices can you establish to deepen your prayer life and make it a more integral part of your day? [36:35]
7. Reflect on a time when you felt your prayers were answered. How did this experience shape your understanding of prayer as a relational collaboration with God? [33:58]
Devotional
Day 1: The Journey of Prayer
Prayer is a dynamic journey that involves learning to communicate with God in various ways. It begins with understanding the basic vocabulary and grammar of prayer, which is akin to learning a new language. As one progresses, prayer becomes more than just speaking to God; it evolves into a deeper, more intimate conversation with Him. This journey is not linear but encompasses different dimensions, including talking, listening, and simply being in God's presence. Each stage of prayer reflects a growing relationship with God, where one moves from reciting pre-made prayers to engaging in personal, heartfelt dialogues with the Creator. [04:00]
"Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving. At the same time, pray also for us, that God may open to us a door for the word, to declare the mystery of Christ, on account of which I am in prison." (Colossians 4:2-3, ESV)
Reflection: How can you incorporate moments of silence and listening into your prayer life this week, allowing God to speak to you in new ways?
Day 2: Gratitude as a Heart Posture
Gratitude is the foundation of a relationship with God, recognizing that all of life is a gift from Him. It is not merely a practice reserved for specific moments, such as before meals, but a continual posture of the heart. This posture acknowledges God's goodness and grace in every aspect of life, transforming how one perceives daily experiences. By cultivating gratitude, individuals open themselves to a deeper awareness of God's presence and blessings, fostering a spirit of thankfulness that permeates their entire being. [11:10]
"Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you." (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, ESV)
Reflection: Identify three things you are grateful for today, and take a moment to thank God for each one. How does this practice shift your perspective on your current circumstances?
Day 3: Lament as a Path to Hope
Lament is an honest expression of pain and struggles, transforming complaints into a form of theological protest against evil and injustice. It is a way to process emotions with God, moving from despair to hope and faith. Through lament, individuals bring their deepest hurts and questions to God, trusting that He hears and cares. This practice allows believers to confront the brokenness of the world while holding onto the promise of God's redemption and restoration. Lament is not the end but a pathway to renewed hope and trust in God's faithfulness. [21:09]
"Out of the depths I cry to you, O Lord! O Lord, hear my voice! Let your ears be attentive to the voice of my pleas for mercy!" (Psalm 130:1-2, ESV)
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you feel overwhelmed or in pain? How can you bring this to God in lament, trusting Him to transform your despair into hope?
Day 4: The Power of Petition and Intercession
Petition and intercession are acts of love, asking God to act on one's behalf and on behalf of others. These prayers reflect a deep trust in God's power and goodness, believing that He is capable of shaping the future. Through petition, individuals present their needs and desires to God, while intercession involves standing in the gap for others, lifting their concerns to the Lord. This practice not only strengthens one's faith but also fosters a sense of community and compassion, as believers join together in prayer for the world around them. [23:09]
"First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people, for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a peaceful and quiet life, godly and dignified in every way." (1 Timothy 2:1-2, ESV)
Reflection: Who is someone in your life that you can intercede for today? Spend a few moments praying specifically for their needs and asking God to work in their situation.
Day 5: Aligning with Jesus in Prayer
Praying in Jesus' name means aligning one's prayers with His nature and character, invoking the status as children of God. This alignment opens the door for God's miraculous power to flow through prayers, as believers seek to reflect Christ's heart and will in their requests. By praying in Jesus' name, individuals acknowledge their identity in Him and the authority that comes with it. This practice encourages believers to approach God with confidence, knowing that their prayers are heard and that they have the privilege of partnering with Him in His work on earth. [29:12]
"And this is the confidence that we have toward him, that if we ask anything according to his will he hears us. And if we know that he hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests that we have asked of him." (1 John 5:14-15, ESV)
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you need to align your desires with Jesus' character and will? How can you begin to pray in His name, seeking His guidance and transformation in that area?
Quotes
In a similar way we are working through four stages in the life of prayer talking to God talking with God listening to God and being with God of course as I said last week when we kick this off stages is more than a little misleading because the spiritual journey is not linear. [00:03:56]
Gratitude talking with God about what is good in your life and World lament talking with God about what is evil in your life and world and petition and intercession asking God to fulfill his promises to overcome evil with good a short word on each first off gratitude. [00:09:27]
Ignatius of lyola the founder of the Jesuit order said the beginning point for this type of more interactive prayer and kind of dynamic Rel relationship to God is to quote give thanks to God our lord for the benefits received he called ingratitude the failure to recognize the good things. [00:09:49]
Lament is a cry of belief in a good god even when you're venting your doubt a God who has his ear to our hearts a God who transfigures the ugly into Beauty which is why another way of thinking about lament is as theological protest Our Generation mine in particular is all about protest. [00:22:03]
Petition is when we ask God to do something on our behalf God I need a job I need to make rent I need help I need wisdom intercession is when we ask God to do something on someone else's behalf intercession is Priestly work where we stand before God on behalf of people. [00:23:00]
To pray in jesus' name means that we enter into Jesus status in God's favor and invoke Jesus standing with God imagine the richest person you can possibly think of Imagine in this hypothetical scenario they're a good person and they have a great relationship with their son or their daughter. [00:27:44]
We ask in jesus' name when we pray for God to do the the kinds of things that he wants and desires to do that are in alignment with his nature when we ask not against his nature but in alignment that's the sacred alignment through which the miraculous power of God flows. [00:29:22]
Intercessory prayer praying for other people is spiritual Defiance of what is in the way of what God has promised intercession visualizes an alternative future to the one apparently fading by the momentum of current forces prayer infuses the air of a time yet to be into the suffocating atmosphere. [00:31:05]
Prayer is a way that we ask God to act and do things that only he can do in the world and it is a way of giving God the time and the space to do what only he can do in us and again I think I said this last week. [00:43:00]
Prayer life with Jesus is yes it's not just an idea it's not even just a habit or a way of life or a set of practices it is ultimately a relational way of being and so you can hear you can read a book about marriage but in or about conflict resolution. [00:37:16]
The best way to learn how to pray is not by listening to me for four weeks talk at you it's by praying with all of Christian spirituality and prayer in particular information alone is not enough you have a bunch of new ideas now in your head and those idea ideas have power. [00:36:48]
When we talk with God God is forming us into the answer to our own prayers this is one of the things that will sneak up on you often the way your prayers will get answered as God will do something in you prayer is a way that we ask God to act. [00:42:43]
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