Goodbyes are hard. Jesus makes the most important goodbye clear in Matthew 18: saying goodbye to the part that thinks it always knows best, needs control, and makes an idol out of its own abilities. Jesus calls His disciples to turn and become like children, because whoever humbles himself like a child is greatest in the kingdom of heaven. This turning means saying goodbye to the old sinful self.
The old Adam does not leave quietly. The old Adam clings to pride, self-reliance, and the desire to learn things the hard way. The world cannot understand why anyone would set self aside and trust Jesus first, but God’s children know that this goodbye is harder than it sounds. The church gathers because the Lord keeps bringing His people back to the reality that the old sinful self must be put to death.
Baptism ties this daily goodbye to God’s promise. Luther’s words name the old Adam as one who should, by daily contrition and repentance, drown and die with all sins and evil desires, while a new man emerges and arises to live before God in righteousness and purity forever. God gives water with His Word and command because His children need something physical to cling to. Baptism announces forgiveness, brings sinners into the Father’s family, and reminds them that they do not face sin alone.
Jesus does not go back on His promises. Christ receives the trust that sinful hearts cannot sustain in busy days, hard days, and even good days when Satan tempts hearts to trust themselves. Christ’s forgiveness lets His people look forward rather than backward, toward the full revelation of His promise. Eternity with Jesus will hold no sin, no death, and no final goodbyes among those who have gone before in faith.
Paul’s words in Romans 6 put this promise plainly: the old self was crucified with Christ so that sinners would no longer be slaves to sin. Christ’s death buries and drowns sin, and Christ’s resurrection paves the way for the resurrection of His baptized children. The Lord’s Supper gives this same forgiveness in Christ’s true body and blood. The communion rail goes on into eternity, joining those present with those who have gone before and those yet to come. Jesus remains the only way to life everlasting, and He never goes back on His promises.
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Key Takeaways
- 1. Say goodbye to the old Adam. Jesus does not call His children to manage their pride more carefully. Jesus calls them to turn from the self that needs control and believes it knows best. Humility is not weakness or self-hatred, but resting as a child rests in a faithful Father. [28:14]
- 2. Baptism makes repentance a daily reality. Baptism is not only a memory from long ago. God joins water, Word, and promise so that sinners can return again and again to forgiveness. The old Adam needs drowning daily because sin keeps reaching for life, but Christ keeps raising a new person to live before God. [31:17]
- 3. Jesus never breaks His promises. Christ remains trustworthy when life gets busy, difficult, or comfortable enough to tempt hearts into self-trust. His promise does not depend on how tightly a believer feels able to cling to Him. His forgiveness holds His children even when forgetfulness and weakness pull them back toward the old self. [35:16]
- 4. Christ’s resurrection ends every final goodbye. Paul grounds hope in union with Christ’s death and resurrection. Sin is buried with Christ, and death no longer gets the last word over those who belong to Him. Eternity will bring the day when there is no more sin to leave behind and no faithful loved one to lose. [40:18]
- 5. The communion rail reaches into eternity. Christ gives His body and blood as physical gifts for forgiven sinners to receive together. The rail joins the saints gathered now with those who have gone before in faith and those yet to come. The Lord’s Supper makes visible the lasting family Christ has made through His death and resurrection.
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Youtube Chapters
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [26:59] - Goodbyes Are Hard
- [27:56] - Jesus Calls for Childlike Humility
- [29:00] - Saying Goodbye to Pride
- [30:46] - The Old Adam Drowns Daily
- [31:35] - Baptism and God’s Forgiveness
- [34:00] - Trusting Jesus Over Self
- [35:16] - Jesus Never Breaks His Promises
- [35:58] - The Hope of No More Goodbyes
- [37:22] - United in Baptism and Communion
- [39:11] - Romans 6: Dead to Sin
- [41:28] - Buried With Christ, Raised With Him
- [42:34] - Life Everlasting in Jesus