COVID-10 Commandments for Emotional and Spiritual Health

 

Summary

In these challenging times of the COVID-19 pandemic, it's crucial to focus on maintaining emotional and mental health. Drawing from the Book of James, I have outlined ten commandments for emotional health, which I call the COVID-10 commandments. These principles are designed to help you navigate the emotional and relational challenges that arise during a crisis.

First, it's essential to show grace to yourself and others. Recognize that everyone is under stress, and it's okay not to operate at your usual efficiency. Treat yourself with the same kindness and forgiveness that God extends to you. Second, start and end each day by refueling your soul with God's word. This practice will provide emotional stability and spiritual nourishment. Third, establish and stick to a routine. Predictability can reduce stress and create a sense of stability amidst chaos.

Fourth, limit your media intake. Constant exposure to negative news can lead to discouragement and fatigue. Instead, focus on positive and uplifting content. Fifth, make a daily connection with loved ones. This will help refill your emotional reserves and provide much-needed support.

The sixth commandment is to share your feelings instead of stuffing them. Emotions are meant to be expressed, not suppressed. Find someone you trust to share your feelings with, as this can lead to healing and emotional health. Seventh, seek advice before making major decisions. Under stress, our decision-making abilities can be impaired, so it's wise to consult others.

Eighth, space renewal breaks throughout your day. Short, frequent breaks can be more beneficial than one long break. Use these moments to recharge emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Ninth, serve someone suffering more than you. Helping others can shift your focus away from your own struggles and bring emotional and spiritual refreshment.

Finally, control what's controllable and trust God for the rest. While there are many things beyond our control, we can choose how we respond to them. By practicing these principles, you can emerge from this crisis stronger, healthier, and more spiritually mature.

Key Takeaways:

- Show Grace to Yourself and Others: In times of crisis, it's vital to extend grace and kindness to yourself and those around you. Recognize that everyone is under stress, and it's okay not to meet your usual standards of efficiency. Treat yourself with the same compassion that God shows you. [02:07]

- Refuel Your Soul Daily: Begin and end each day with God's word to maintain emotional stability. This practice, known as "God's word first word, and God's word last word," provides spiritual nourishment and helps anchor your emotions during turbulent times. [03:35]

- Share Your Feelings: Emotions are meant to be expressed, not suppressed. Find a trusted person to share your feelings with, as this can lead to healing and emotional health. Remember, revealing your feelings is the beginning of healing. [09:50]

- Serve Others in Need: Shifting your focus from your own struggles to helping others can bring emotional and spiritual refreshment. Look for opportunities to serve those who are suffering more than you, and you'll find that your own burdens become lighter. [20:03]

- Control the Controllable: While many aspects of life are beyond your control, you can choose how you respond to them. Focus on what you can control, such as your daily habits and routines, and trust God to handle the rest. [20:39]

Youtube Chapters:

- [00:00] - Welcome
- [00:09] - Introduction to the Series
- [00:24] - Responding to Crisis
- [01:02] - Emotional Health in a Pandemic
- [01:39] - Review of First Five Commandments
- [02:07] - Show Grace to Yourself and Others
- [03:09] - Refuel Your Soul Daily
- [04:08] - Establish a Routine
- [04:43] - Limit Media Intake
- [05:09] - Connect with Loved Ones
- [05:41] - Share Your Feelings
- [11:26] - Seek Advice Before Decisions
- [13:29] - Space Renewal Breaks
- [17:53] - Serve Others in Need
- [20:39] - Control the Controllable
- [25:11] - Recommitment to Christ

Study Guide

Bible Study Discussion Guide: COVID-10 Commandments for Emotional Health

Bible Reading:
1. James 1:27 - "Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world."
2. Galatians 6:2 - "Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ."
3. Isaiah 40:31 - "But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint."

Observation Questions:
1. What are the key principles outlined in the COVID-10 commandments for maintaining emotional health during a crisis? [01:21]
2. How does the sermon suggest we should handle our emotions during the pandemic? [06:03]
3. What role does serving others play in our emotional and spiritual health according to the sermon? [18:07]
4. How does the sermon describe the balance between controlling what we can and trusting God for the rest? [20:39]

Interpretation Questions:
1. How might the practice of showing grace to oneself and others reflect the way God treats us, as mentioned in the sermon? [02:07]
2. In what ways can refueling our soul with God's word provide emotional stability during challenging times? [03:35]
3. How does sharing our feelings with others contribute to emotional healing, according to the sermon? [09:50]
4. What does it mean to control the controllable and trust God for the rest, and how can this principle be applied in daily life? [20:39]

Application Questions:
1. Reflect on a recent situation where you were hard on yourself. How can you show yourself the same grace that God extends to you? [02:07]
2. What specific routine can you establish to ensure you start and end your day with God's word? How might this impact your emotional health? [03:35]
3. Identify a trusted person in your life with whom you can share your feelings. How can you initiate a conversation with them this week? [09:50]
4. Think of someone in your community who is suffering more than you. What practical steps can you take to serve them this week? [18:07]
5. What are some aspects of your life that you can control? How can you focus on these while trusting God with the uncontrollable? [20:39]
6. Consider your current media consumption. How can you limit negative news and replace it with positive content? [04:43]
7. What are some short, frequent breaks you can incorporate into your day to recharge emotionally, physically, and spiritually? [13:29]

Devotional

Day 1: Embrace Grace in Crisis
In times of crisis, it is vital to extend grace and kindness to yourself and those around you. Recognize that everyone is under stress, and it's okay not to meet your usual standards of efficiency. Treat yourself with the same compassion that God shows you. This involves acknowledging your limitations and understanding that it's normal to feel overwhelmed. By showing grace, you create a space for healing and growth, both for yourself and others. Remember, grace is not just a gift you receive but also one you can give. [02:07]

"For the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation for all people, training us to renounce ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in the present age." (Titus 2:11-12, ESV)

Reflection: Think of a recent situation where you were hard on yourself or others. How can you extend grace in that situation today?


Day 2: Nourish Your Soul with Scripture
Begin and end each day with God's word to maintain emotional stability. This practice, known as "God's word first word, and God's word last word," provides spiritual nourishment and helps anchor your emotions during turbulent times. By immersing yourself in scripture, you allow God's truth to shape your perspective and guide your actions. This daily habit can transform your outlook, providing peace and clarity amidst uncertainty. [03:35]

"Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God." (Colossians 3:16, ESV)

Reflection: What specific time in your daily routine can you dedicate to reading and reflecting on God's word? How can this practice become a non-negotiable part of your day?


Day 3: Express Your Emotions
Emotions are meant to be expressed, not suppressed. Find a trusted person to share your feelings with, as this can lead to healing and emotional health. Remember, revealing your feelings is the beginning of healing. By opening up, you allow others to support you and gain a deeper understanding of your own emotions. This practice not only fosters personal growth but also strengthens relationships, creating a community of mutual support and empathy. [09:50]

"Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ." (Galatians 6:2, ESV)

Reflection: Identify someone you trust who you can share your current struggles with. What steps can you take today to initiate a conversation with them?


Day 4: Serve Others to Lighten Your Load
Shifting your focus from your own struggles to helping others can bring emotional and spiritual refreshment. Look for opportunities to serve those who are suffering more than you, and you'll find that your own burdens become lighter. Serving others not only benefits them but also enriches your own life, providing a sense of purpose and fulfillment. It is a powerful reminder that even in difficult times, you have the capacity to make a positive impact. [20:03]

"Do not neglect to do good and to share what you have, for such sacrifices are pleasing to God." (Hebrews 13:16, ESV)

Reflection: Who in your community is in need of support today? How can you practically serve them in a way that reflects God's love?


Day 5: Focus on What You Can Control
While many aspects of life are beyond your control, you can choose how you respond to them. Focus on what you can control, such as your daily habits and routines, and trust God to handle the rest. By concentrating on the controllable, you reduce anxiety and create a sense of stability. This mindset empowers you to take proactive steps in your life, fostering resilience and adaptability in the face of uncertainty. [20:39]

"Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established." (Proverbs 16:3, ESV)

Reflection: Identify one area of your life where you feel overwhelmed by things beyond your control. What practical steps can you take today to focus on what you can manage?

Quotes

"Show grace to myself and to others. In other words, to make it through this crisis, you need to treat yourself and everybody else the way God treats you. How does God treat you? He's gracious. He shows you mercy. He shows you forgiveness. He cuts you slack. And in the first part of this message, I talked to you about being kind to yourself and not expecting to be able to operate at the same level of efficiency and energy that you did before this crisis." [00:02:00]

"Then the second commandment for mental and emotional health, is to start and end each day by refueling your soul. And I talked about how your soul is your mind, and it's your will, and it's your emotions. You're not just a body, you have a soul. You are a soul with a body. How do you do that? How do you recharge, renew, refuel your soul? Well, you do it by getting into this book. This is soul food. This is God's word." [00:03:01]

"Share your feelings instead of stuffing them. Share your feelings instead of stuffing them. I'm talking about all the negative ones that you've been bound to have felt during this pandemic. Anxiety, fear, boredom, frustration. Now, we talked about this in an earlier message, but I need to reemphasize it again because it's so important. Feelings are meant to be felt. You hear that? Feelings are meant to be stuffed, feelings are meant to be felt." [00:05:41]

"Seek advice before making major decisions. Seek advice, form other people, before making major decisions. That's the seventh commandment, COVID commandment, for mental, and spiritual, and social, and emotional health. You see, under stress, I don't have time to go into this in detail, but under stress, your brain drops to lower levels. And when you're under chronic stress, you're not thinking your best. You're not giving your best thinking." [00:11:20]

"Space renewal breaks throughout my day. Space renewal breaks throughout my day. That's times when I recharge. I intentionally refuel, recharge, renew, refresh. And you need to space them throughout your day. Now this is another break through that brain science is teaching us. And it is this. Instead of, for instance, a long hour break, and you think okay, I had my break today, your productivity will actually go up if you instead of taking one long break, take several five minute breaks during your day." [00:13:16]

"Serve someone suffering more than you. I need to serve someone suffering more than me. Look around and you'll find somebody in a worse situation than you are. For your own mental and emotional health, you need to get the attention off yourself and you need to focus on somebody else who's hurting more than you are. You need to give back. You need to make a difference with your life. It's not about you. You need to get out of your self-centeredness." [00:17:53]

"Control what's controllable and trust God for the rest. Control what's controllable and trust God for the rest. Now, both of these are important. God has a part in your mental, and spiritual, and emotional health, and you have a part. Now, God isn't gonna control the things that He's already given you control of. God gave you a lot of His will when He gave you a brain. And he gave your brain the ability to make good choices and He gave you a will to choose." [00:20:39]

"Revealing your feeling is the beginning of healing. Revealing your feeling is the beginning of healing. Now, if all you want is forgiveness, all you need to do is confess your faults to God. But if you wanna be healed of them, the Bible says you gotta share it with somebody else. This is the power of celebrate recovery. This is the power of honesty in our support groups. Now, let me give you a suggestion. You need to be aware, during this time, of unexpressed grief in your life." [00:09:50]

"Proverbs 15:22 says this. Our plans often fail because we don't seek advice. But listening to good counsel will bring success. Do you wanna be successful in life? Do you wanna be successful through this Covina, I mean Corona Virus and COVID-19 crisis? He says, 'Listening to good advice will bring success.' If you ignore advice, he says, 'You're not gonna make good decisions.' You see, when you're fearful or when you're upset, you can't access the smartest part of your brain." [00:12:06]

"Proverbs 11:25 promises the generous prosper and are satisfied. And those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed. You wanna be refreshed yourself? Start refreshing somebody else. Look for somebody to help. Be a servant to others. Important 10 commandments, COVID commandments. Finally, number 10. The tenth commandment is this. Control what's controllable and trust God for the rest." [00:20:03]

"Instead of, for instance, a long hour break, and you think okay, I had my break today, your productivity will actually go up if you instead of taking one long break, take several five minute breaks during your day. Study has shows this now that the way our brain works is that we don't need a long time to recharge, but what we do need is more frequency in recharging emotionally, physically, spiritually." [00:13:29]

"James 5:16. 'Confess your faults one to another.' Notice he doesn't say confess them to God. He says, 'Confess your faults one to another and pray for one another so that you may be healed.' Circle that word healed. You wanna be healed physically, you wanna be healed emotionally, you wanna be healed relationally. It says this, share your faults, okay? Now, if you're gonna share your faults, that means you can also share your frustrations." [00:09:50]

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