Covenant Marriage: Reflecting Christ's Love and Grace

Devotional

Day 1: Covenant Marriage Reflects Our Relationship with Christ

Covenant marriage is a divine institution that mirrors our relationship with Jesus Christ. Just as Christ loves the church, we are called to love and honor our spouses. This relationship transcends societal norms and points us to the unconditional, steadfast love of God. In a world where relationships are often seen as transactional, the covenant of marriage stands as a testament to God's unwavering commitment to us. This covenant is not just a legal contract but a sacred bond that reflects the eternal love and faithfulness of Christ to His church.

Understanding this profound truth can transform how we view and engage in our marriages. It calls us to a higher standard of love, one that is selfless, sacrificial, and enduring. As we embrace this divine perspective, we can better reflect Christ's love in our relationships, becoming living testimonies of His grace and mercy. [06:35]

Ephesians 5:25-27 (ESV): "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish."

Reflection: How can you demonstrate Christ-like love to your spouse or loved ones today, reflecting the covenant love of God in your actions and words?

Day 2: Cultivating an Inner Life in Christ

True beauty and strength come from cultivating an inner life in Christ. This involves abiding in Jesus, being aware of His presence, and allowing His love to transform us. This inner transformation equips us to live with a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in God's sight. In a culture that often values external appearances and achievements, the call to cultivate an inner life in Christ is countercultural and deeply transformative.

By focusing on our relationship with Jesus, we can develop a sense of peace and contentment that is not dependent on external circumstances. This inner life is nurtured through spiritual disciplines such as prayer, meditation on Scripture, and practicing the presence of God. As we grow in our awareness of His presence, we become more attuned to His voice and more responsive to His leading. [37:00]

Colossians 3:16 (ESV): "Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God."

Reflection: What steps can you take today to cultivate a deeper inner life in Christ, allowing His love and presence to transform you from the inside out?

Day 3: Living Honorably in Difficult Circumstances

Peter's exhortation to Christian wives married to unbelieving husbands is a call to live honorably and reflect Christ's love through their conduct. This is not about passive submission but about embodying the gospel in a transformative way that can win others to Christ. In the context of the early church, where women were often marginalized, this call was revolutionary and empowering.

Living honorably in difficult circumstances requires a deep trust in God's sovereignty and a commitment to reflect His love, even when it is challenging. It involves laying aside pride and embracing humility, knowing that our conduct can be a powerful witness to those around us. By embodying the gospel in our actions and attitudes, we can create opportunities for others to encounter the love and grace of Christ. [19:54]

1 Peter 3:1-2 (ESV): "Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, when they see your respectful and pure conduct."

Reflection: How can you reflect Christ's love and live honorably in a difficult relationship or situation you are currently facing?

Day 4: Mutual Respect and Honor in Marriage

Christian husbands are called to live with their wives in an understanding and honoring way. This mutual respect and love are essential for a healthy, God-glorifying marriage. When husbands honor their wives, their prayers are not hindered, reflecting the importance God places on this relationship. Mutual respect and honor create a foundation of trust and intimacy that allows both partners to thrive.

In a marriage that reflects God's design, both husband and wife are valued and cherished. This mutual respect fosters an environment where both can grow spiritually and emotionally. It also serves as a powerful testimony to the world of the transformative power of God's love. By honoring one another, couples can experience the fullness of God's blessing in their marriage. [52:58]

1 Peter 3:7 (ESV): "Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered."

Reflection: In what ways can you show greater understanding and honor to your spouse or loved ones, fostering a relationship that glorifies God?

Day 5: Trusting Christ as Our Ultimate Bridegroom

Earthly relationships may fall short, but Christ, our ultimate bridegroom, never will. Trusting in Him enables us to serve courageously as heirs of God's covenant, reflecting His love and grace in all our relationships. This trust is the foundation for a healthy, God-glorifying marriage and life. When we place our ultimate trust in Christ, we are freed from the pressure of expecting perfection from our earthly relationships.

This trust in Christ allows us to approach our relationships with grace and forgiveness, knowing that our ultimate fulfillment and security are found in Him. It also empowers us to serve others selflessly, reflecting the love and grace we have received from our heavenly bridegroom. By keeping our eyes fixed on Jesus, we can navigate the challenges of life with confidence and hope. [29:28]

Revelation 19:7-8 (ESV): "Let us rejoice and exult and give him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and his Bride has made herself ready; it was granted her to clothe herself with fine linen, bright and pure”—for the fine linen is the righteous deeds of the saints."

Reflection: How can you deepen your trust in Christ as your ultimate bridegroom, allowing His love and grace to shape your relationships and daily life?

Sermon Summary

### Summary

Today, we delved into the profound theme of covenant marriage as illustrated in 1 Peter and Revelation 19. We began by acknowledging the presence of the Holy Spirit and seeking divine guidance to understand the transcendent power of covenant marriage, which is deeply rooted in our relationship with Jesus Christ. This relationship is not just a metaphor but a reality that shapes our identity and status before God. We explored how both men and women are called to embrace the roles of sonship and the bride of Christ, highlighting the inclusive nature of God's covenant love.

We discussed the cultural context of the early church, particularly the oppressive Roman household codes that marginalized women. Peter's exhortation to Christian wives married to unbelieving husbands was to live in a way that reflects Christ's love, thereby winning their husbands through their conduct. This is not about passive submission but about embodying the gospel in a transformative way.

The sermon emphasized the importance of cultivating an inner life in Christ, drawing from the teachings of John Mark Comer and other theologians. This inner life is about abiding in Jesus, being aware of His presence, and allowing His love to transform us from the inside out. This transformation equips us to live with a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in God's sight.

We also touched on the role of Christian husbands, urging them to live with their wives in an understanding and honoring way. This mutual respect and love are essential for a healthy, God-glorifying marriage. The sermon concluded with a call to trust in Christ as our ultimate bridegroom, even when earthly relationships fall short. This trust enables us to serve courageously as heirs of God's covenant, reflecting His love and grace in all our relationships.

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Key Takeaways

1. glorifying marriage. When husbands honor their wives, their prayers are not hindered, reflecting the importance God places on this relationship. [52:58]
5. Trusting Christ as Our Ultimate Bridegroom: Earthly relationships may fall short, but Christ, our ultimate bridegroom, never will. Trusting in Him enables us to serve courageously as heirs of God's covenant, reflecting His love and grace in all our relationships. This trust is the foundation for a healthy, God-glorifying marriage and life.

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Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[01:48] - Opening Prayer
[03:15] - Introduction to Covenant Marriage
[06:35] - Sonship and Bride of Christ
[08:07] - Anticipating the Bridegroom's Return
[09:32] - Revelation 19: The Wedding Feast of the Lamb
[11:08] - The Beauty of Covenant Marriage
[12:34] - The Great Exchange in Marriage
[14:14] - Covenant vs. Contract
[15:51] - The Gospel and Covenant Love
[17:14] - Context of 1 Peter
[18:24] - Trusting Christ in Difficult Relationships
[19:54] - Lay Aside Pride to Win the Person
[21:16] - Roman Household Codes
[23:00] - Living Honorably in Oppressive Situations
[24:28] - The Impact of Twisted Roles
[26:05] - Finding Wholeness in Christ
[27:42] - Cultivating Identity in Christ
[29:28] - Trusting Christ as the Bridegroom
[31:01] - Cultivating Inner Life in Christ
[32:31] - Identity and Acceptance in Christ
[34:03] - True Beauty in Christ
[35:31] - The Temptation of Worldly Status
[37:00] - Practicing the Way of Jesus
[38:46] - Abiding in the Triune God
[40:26] - The Fruit of the Spirit
[41:57] - Paul's Prayer for the Church
[43:29] - Beholding God's Glory
[45:20] - The Church's Witness to the World
[46:52] - Christian Maturity and Inner Peace
[48:30] - Wisdom in Relationships
[49:57] - Sarah's Respectful Heart
[51:23] - Trusting God's Covenant
[52:58] - Christian Husbands: Honor Your Wives
[54:34] - Submission and Authority
[56:00] - Headship and Sacrificial Love
[57:31] - Conclusion and Prayer

Bible Study Guide

Observation Questions

According to 1 Peter 3:1-7, how are Christian wives instructed to win their unbelieving husbands to Christ?
What imagery is used in Revelation 19:6-8 to describe the relationship between Christ and the church?
In Matthew 25:1-13, what is the significance of the parable of the ten virgins in relation to anticipating the return of the bridegroom?

Interpretation Questions

How does the concept of covenant marriage in 1 Peter 3:1-7 reflect our relationship with Christ?
What does it mean to cultivate an inner life in Christ, as discussed in the sermon and supported by the passages?
How can the parable of the ten virgins in Matthew 25:1-13 be applied to our daily lives in terms of spiritual readiness and anticipation for Christ's return?
What are the implications of mutual respect and honor in marriage as described in 1 Peter 3:7, and how does this affect our prayers?

Application Questions

Reflect on your own marriage or relationships. How can you better embody the gospel in a transformative way, as Peter exhorts in 1 Peter 3:1-2?
What specific steps can you take this week to cultivate an inner life in Christ, focusing on abiding in Him and being aware of His presence?
Think of a difficult circumstance you are currently facing. How can you live honorably and reflect Christ's love through your conduct in this situation?
For those who are married, how can you show mutual respect and honor to your spouse in a practical way this week? If you are not married, how can you apply this principle in your other relationships?
Earthly relationships may fall short, but Christ never will. How can you deepen your trust in Christ as your ultimate bridegroom, especially when facing disappointments in your relationships?
Identify one area in your life where you need to lay aside pride to win the person. What practical steps can you take to embody humility and Christ-like love in this situation?
How can you serve courageously as an heir of God's covenant in your daily interactions, reflecting His love and grace in all your relationships?

Sermon Clips

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "Now, the way that we live on earth, is like preparing ourselves for our wedding day. It's like saying yes to the dress when you say yes to Jesus in every sphere of life. And yes, I did just call upon some, I don't even know what that was on, like HGTV or something. I don't know. But that is, that's what that is. That's what you're saying. And you're saying yes. And there's a delight that Jesus has for the bride in her adornment. And what's she adorned in? Obedience, love, trust, faithfulness." [09:32] (40 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "This is the gospel. That God became a man and he lived the life we couldn't live and he died the death that we deserve to die. And he conquered sin and death and the grave and the eternal condemnation that we deserve. He paid for it in full with the most glorious life in eternity. And he covered it. And he conquered death and the grave through the resurrection and he paved the way to eternal life." [15:51] (28 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "Receiving Christ as Lord and Savior is what makes you whole. He is the Prince of Peace, and that word peace is the word shalom. It means wholeness, restoration. Knowing him as ultimate provider, protector, lover of your soul, Savior, and Lord, that's the only way that inflamed ego and wounded pride can let it go and cover an offense and forgive and reconcile." [29:28] (25 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "Christian maturity looks like people of inner peace, security and grace who trust in Christ even in the midst of difficulty. It's relationship with Jesus that equips you to honor instead of resent, to bless when cursed, to love rather than revile, to forgive. As you've been forgiven rather than blame and hold that grudge. To love boldly without fear even when it's not returned. To live free even in the midst of a world in bondage to their own insecurities." [46:52] (37 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "Like that spark that's faded isn't ultimately rekindled by another vacation. Praise God for vacations, amen? Amen? They're great. But that spark is rekindled by falling more in love with Jesus Christ and finding all you need in him and now falling in love with your spouse through the way he sees them. Through his eyes like life and true beauty always become more vivid and clear through the gospel or through gospel glasses always to see others as he sees them." [48:30] (34 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

### Quotes for Members

1. "So the same thing is being articulated through the image of marriage or covenant marriage. Just like when a woman, a woman, you, ladies, if you are in Christ, you have a sonship in him. So the way that God the Father feels about the son, Jesus Christ, the approval, the acceptance, the love, this is my son in whom I'm well pleased. He says that about you. If you are in Christ, that's powerful. You're heirs to the kingdom." [06:35] (32 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "Trust in Christ to be your bridegroom, even if your earthly spouse lets you down. And I'll tell you what, in some ways, I want to put even when they let you down. And that's coming from someone who's married to the most amazing woman on the planet, right? Do you see that? I'm giving you guys marriage pointers already. Just kidding. All right. She's like, move on quickly." [18:24] (31 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "The Apostle Peter says, you live in such an honorable and respectful way that you win your husband, which means winning him to the Lord, by your conduct. That's interesting. Here's the thing. It would be easy, again, for women to experience this freedom they found by being born again in Christ and then react fully to any and every human institution with absolute animosity. And then just throw the institutions out entirely." [23:00] (32 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "The only way that gentle, that gentle and quiet spirit can be cultivated is when you found all you need in Christ as your bridegroom. Abiding in Christ and growing closer to him, that cultivates this deep identity and security that then unleashes strength and grace in your life and our world, even when you're not quite sure whether you trust the person or the authority that you are around. You can still operate with honor and love and respect." [45:20] (29 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "So last week's points were, number one, trust in Christ to be your good king, even if earthly kings persecute you. Number two, trust in Christ to be your good master, even if earthly masters oppress you. And then finally, today, this is going to be our main point this morning. So if you get nothing else, get this. This is our main idea. Trust in Christ to be your bridegroom, even if your earthly spouse lets you down." [18:24] (33 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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