Courage in the Current - Soul Care | Week 4 | Jeff Gokee

Jul 20, 2026

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41s
#honesthumanity
“It's so human. Do you know this? God is not offended by your humanity. God is not offended by your questions and by your hurt and your pain. He is fully aware of it. He just wants you to be honest about it. He wants me to be honest about it. God's like, tell me what you feel. Tell me how you're hurting. Tell me what's frustrating with you. And David's like, are you even listening? We were doing so good and then something shifts in the narrative and we're like, what is happening? The same thing happens to you and to me. So then what does David do? Does he just go, okay, shake it off, get that out of your system, let's move back. And I think that's lazy Christianity.”
56s
#waitonGod
“Waiting is relational. Waiting is humility. Waiting is going, it's your way, not my way. It's your time, not my time. It's your life. I just want you and I wanna be with you. I wanna be in pace with where you're going. We need to wait on the lord. Wherever you are right now in your pace with him, he knows and understands and he's with you and he's near to you. He just wants you to be with him. You know, some of us are so busy trying to get out of the valley of the shadow of death or the green fields that we miss that he's in both. His presence is what Psalms 23 is about. His presence is about what Psalms 27 sometimes, we're so moving busy moving towards trying to solve problems that we won't wait for him.”
30s
#faithisnteasy
“Who told you that being a Christian was easy? If they did, they lied to you. If you'll remind yourself, Joseph and Mary's life got exponentially harder when Jesus showed up on the scene. Why do you think it'll be any different than you? And all of scripture keeps telling you and yet we're still bummed anytime it does because our perspective is off, it's skewed. We're thinking of earthly things as opposed to heavenly things and we're missing out.”
32s
#knowandbehold
“Jesus doesn't wanna just have a relationship with you. He wants all of you. Doesn't want you to just follow him. He wants you to intimately know him, and he wants to intimately know you. And then he says, I I wanna just gaze your beauty. This is to behold the Lord, not just to know about him because you can know a lot about the ocean. But it's not until you sit on a beach and you hear the waves crash that you recognize how glorious it actually is.”
41s
#petitionwithcourage
“David says this, hide not, turn not, cast me not off, teach me, leave me Lord, give me not up. He's petitioning God. You know you can petition God. He wants you to. Many of you feel like you're demanding God or you're pointing your finger at God. Oftentimes, that's not the case. Oftentimes, there's this posture of heart going, I know you're God but I got some things. And he's like, bring it on. Why is David a man after God's own heart? I am under the conviction that the reason why he's a man after God's own heart is because he's not afraid to petition God, which means this, he's not afraid to be human.”
36s
#hopefromresurrection
“Have you imagined what your life would look like without the reassurance that the king of kings and the lord of lords became human, dying on a cross for you and I and didn't stay in the grave. And it's prepared a place for you and I to live in intimacy with him for the rest of eternity. Can you imagine your life in the can you just reflect on that? There's this hope that comes from reflecting on the goodness of God in the midst of the hardest things in life.”
52s
#grieveandtrust
“He's inviting us into the real truth that covers the pain and the hurt and all the questions you have, all the hurts and pains. And I'm grieving right now. I'm grieving alongside of my friends, and I don't understand it, and I don't have the answer to the questions. I want them. I want God to explain to me how he could allow something like that to happen, and I don't get that. But I get him. And I think the psalmist is trying to invite us into our humanity and trying to say, see how hard it is and he's okay with it, but could you just be honest and relationally engage with him and trust him? Because in that moment, you don't have to be afraid anymore. We walk through this life going, even though I walk through the valley of death, I will fear no evil. Why? Because you're with me.”
46s
#theologyandhumanness
“I think a lot of Christians do that. Look, theologically, I know this. God is sovereign, no doubt in my mind. God is providential, no doubt in my mind. He's omnipresent, no doubt in my mind. So here's how I handle pain and hurt in this world. God's good. He's in charge. Everything's gonna be okay. That's theologically, that's true. It's not human. It's not human. And I think some of us are trying to outhuman Jesus. Because if you remember, he said, take away from me. I don't want to do it. He says, Eli, Eli, lama shaboxani. My God, my God. What? We're trying to out human Jesus.”
42s
#surrendercontrol
“because you're not in control and you want to and I get it. So many of us have gone through really traumatic things, really hard things, and we are obsessed with the fact that we think we can control. Once you come to understand you are weak and he is strong, you will take a beat. You will go and he says, wait. He bookends it because he's like, you're gonna forget because we're human and he understands our human. And it says in Hebrews four that he empathizes, sympathizes with our humanity. He understands. He's not asking you to not be human, but he's asking you to take your humanity and bring it at the foot of the cross and going, actually, it's all about you and always has been.”
41s
#dontwastepain
“And it is the counsel of our family that would come before him and say, don't waste the pain. Don't be a victim to the pain. Do you know the victimization is trending and it's killing people. It's making people real sick because you become self obsessed with whatever's happening to you and I get it, it's hard and it's human. But here's what David said, lift your chin up, lift your head up to the mountains. Where does your help come from? Your help comes from the maker of heaven and earth. David's like in the midst of all that's going on, he's covering me, he's holding me, he's keeping me safe, and as a result of that, my chin's up.”
51s
#lordisstronghold
“David is saying the Lord is your safe place. David's like, I know what it it's like to feel that way and then find a stronghold, a fortress and be tucked away and to take a breath? How many of your nervous systems are just firing on all cylinders? You're just like, right? It's trying to tell your nervous system, bro, it's okay. You're gonna be alright. The Lord is your stronghold. He's just calm down. Your nervous system's freaking out because you're obsessed with this other this other fear as opposed to fearing the Lord. And so David says, if we're able to walk ourselves through this, here's what we figure out. Whom shall I fear? Don't be afraid.”
39s
#tablewithmyenemy
“But he's talking about this God who prepares a table in the presence of our enemy. Have you ever thought to think about that? Like you're sitting at the table with the Lord all like this courtroom, all the heart, all the pain is all around you and you're like, could you pass the bread? Like, I'm hungry. And everyone's like, don't you understand how scary it is out there? And you're like, I don't know, but I'm with him and we're having chicken wings and I like chicken wings. We're eating because I'm good, because I'm with the Lord. This is what David's trying to help get into our system.”
39s
#oneessentialthing
“You know, in the in the in in the distraction of all that is out in there in the world, all these different pathways, the writers of scripture come to us and they're trying to help us see the one things, the primary things. You know, if you remember Jesus in the rich young ruler, the rich young ruler has a lot of things, but Jesus says you're only missing how many things? One thing. You lack one thing. Now he lacked way more than just one thing but Jesus is like that one thing is affecting all the things. David here says, one thing I ask. This is a single focus in the chaos of life.”
54s
#jesusmylight
“So David is confessing this out loud and prophetically pointing us to Jesus. You thought you could do this on your own? You need Jesus. He's your salvation. In him is light. And when you experience the light, you start to expose the darkness. You're not afraid. Then he says you are my stronghold. Again, the personal pronouns here are so important. You are my stronghold, my salvation, my light. You are my stronghold. This comes from David's lived experience. He knows what it feels like to be exposed, to be in the wilderness and have the threats all around him. How many of you feel this often in your life? There's these outside forces that are coming to take you down and as a result of that, it's making you nervous and overwhelmed.”
50s
#liftedhead
“And see what happens as a result in verses five through six is there's protection that follows this proximity to God's presence in our lives. This protection follows this proximity to this internal work that's happening, and he says this, and now my head shall be lifted up above my enemies all around me. You know, so many Christians have their head down. So many humans have their head down, situationally obsessed about what's in front of them, and it's drowning you. If you you're thinking like if I could just fix this thing, if I just solve this thing, everything will be better. And David's like, hey, listen. In the presence of God, in the presence of this reality of who he is, my head is up.”
44s
#chinupfaith
“And I can face down what's ever in front of me. Do you know there's nothing more vulnerable if you're in the middle of a war if your head's down? That's how you die. He's like, get your chin up, but do it as a result of who you know the Lord to be in your life. And so many Christians have their heads down, obsessed about the pain and hurt and how you've been wrong. David's like, don't do it because when you can't finally intimately take the Lord on as your light, as your salvation, as your stronghold, your chin's up. You're like, he's got me.”
77s
#riversandbridges
“Rivers, on the other end, are very unpredictable. You don't know if they're deep. You don't know if they're shallow, left or right. You don't know if you're gonna go off a waterfall at the end of it. You hope not, but you don't know. And I think rivers and bridges are a great analogy for what we experience, the human condition. Because I think we go through seasons of our life where we feel very bridge y. Like, it feels safe, it feels secure, everything feels great. And then there's others of us or other seasons of life that feel a lot like rivers. Like, what is gonna happen? Where are we going? It feels calm right now, but I'm just waiting for the current to pick up, and I'm pretty sure there's a waterfall at the end of this and I die. Right? And here's what we struggle with. Here's the great paradox of the Christian life. Like, God is in both, but we have been taught to some degree that he only hangs out on bridges. And that when we're on those bridges and we feel secure and we feel happy and whole and full that everything is great and God is great. But in the rivers, it feels oftentimes like he's abandoned us. The Psalms wanna come and invite us into a God who is present and faithful in both.”
42s
#cryandbeheard
“Verse seven is a massive shift because we're like, yes, we're doing it. Way to go. And then he says, hear o lord, when I cry aloud, be gracious to me and answer me. This is a massive shift in tone to the point that the scholars are going, wait, maybe these are two separate letters because you were jamming over here. Like you were cruising and you were like, yes, and we were all like, we're with you. It feels kinda jarring though. We're like, wait, I thought you were good to go. Life feels like this at times. Right? You're like, got it. I'm doing good. Feels like you're walking on solid ground and all of a sudden something takes your legs out from underneath you and you're like, God, you even listening to me?”
72s
#disappointedbutintimate
“This is what David's inviting the Lord into and inviting us to have the permission to be able to do. Like, stuff doesn't make sense. It's hard and I'm frustrated. But here's when I'm petitioning you God. This is what I'm desiring. This is what I long for. And God's like, let's go. Thank you. Because you're diving into the deep waters of intimacy of relationship. You are willing to be disappointed by God because you can understand he is God and you are not. Gosh, we wanna be God, don't we? Oh. If only he would just do what we wanted to do. But as we do this deep dive into intimacy, we allow ourselves to be disappointed, and that's what relationship is all about. That's where deep intimacy grows. I believe you are who you say you are, but I'm also disappointed when my petitions don't happen and he he's okay with it. But I want you to know, he's okay. he's okay. Read the bible. It's okay. He's gonna be okay. You know who's not okay? We're not. And he knows that. So he's like, tell me about it. Help me understand.”
35s
#dwellwithGod
“So he's pointing us back to this internal thing that we need to be aware of and he goes, I just this one thing and I just want to dwell with you. That means I just wanna take up residence in you. I wanna fight this battle, but I wanna do it with you. John 15, Jesus says, abide in me, and I'll abide in you, and you'll do what? You'll bear much fruit. Without me, you can do what? Nothing. David's like, but I wanna do some stuff. There's lots to go on and it it but I need to dwell with him. You need to make space.”
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