Our natural inclination is to look out for ourselves first, a tendency amplified by the world around us. This self-centeredness often manifests in putting our own needs, desires, and ambitions above those of everyone else. Such behavior stands in direct opposition to the way of life we are called to as followers of Christ. It is a mindset that values personal gain over communal good and recognition over humility. Recognizing this inherent selfishness is the first step toward cultivating a spirit of genuine consideration for others. [51:16]
Do nothing from selfish ambition or empty conceit, but with humility consider one another as more important than yourselves.
Philippians 2:3 (NASB)
Reflection: In what specific situation this week did you recognize a desire to put your own needs or convenience firmly ahead of someone else’s? What would it have looked like to pause and choose a different, more considerate response in that moment?
The pursuit of personal advancement at the expense of others is a hollow endeavor. Selfish ambition is an intense, self-centered drive for power or recognition that ignores ethical standards and divine principles. This path leads away from the unity and love that should characterize the body of Christ. We are instead called to a higher standard, one that rejects the need to step over others to achieve our goals. This call is not a suggestion but a command for those who claim to follow Jesus. [53:13]
For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.
James 3:16 (NASB)
Reflection: Where in your life—perhaps in your career, relationships, or even ministry—have you subtly believed that you must promote yourself to be respected or successful? How does that belief conflict with trusting God to establish your path?
True humility is not about thinking less of yourself, but about thinking of yourself less. It requires intentionally emptying ourselves of vain conceit and self-importance to make room for considering others. This virtue is not an optional accessory for the Christian life but a fundamental requirement for healthy relationships with both God and people. Pride sets us in opposition to God, while humility positions us to receive His grace and reflect His character to the world. [01:08:29]
Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.
James 4:10 (NASB)
Reflection: When has God recently used an inconvenient circumstance or interruption to reveal an area of pride in your heart? What is one practical way you can “clothe yourself” with humility in your interactions today?
As believers, we are not left to strive for selflessness in our own weak power. The Holy Spirit, who lives within every follower of Christ, provides all we need to live this way. We have access to the very attributes of God, including His love and compassion. The choice to feed our spirit through God’s Word and prayer, rather than feeding our selfish desires, empowers us to make different, more godly decisions in the moment. There is no excuse for a Spirit-filled believer to consistently choose selfishness. [01:00:09]
I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.
Philippians 4:13 (NASB)
Reflection: What is one recurring situation where you typically feel you “can’t” choose a selfless response? How might inviting the Holy Spirit into that specific moment change your ability to act according to God’s strength instead of your own?
Jesus Christ is our perfect model of selfless consideration. He, being fully God, did not cling to His rights but willingly emptied Himself for our sake. His journey from the heights of glory to the depths of a criminal’s death on a cross exemplifies the ultimate act of putting others first. We are called to have this same mindset, which values obedience to the Father and service to others above all else. His sacrifice is the standard and the motivation for our own call to consider one another. [01:12:35]
Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness.
Philippians 2:5-7 (NASB)
Reflection: As you reflect on Christ’s incredible sacrifice, what is one area of your life where God might be inviting you to “empty yourself” or let go of a personal right for the benefit of someone else?
A call to genuine Christian community centers on the simple command: consider one another. The culture’s reflex toward self-preservation and personal ambition shows up everywhere—from online bystanders filming tragedy to daily impatience on the road—and that reflex corrodes church unity. Scripture exposes selfish ambition as an intense, self-centered pursuit of status and gain, and contrasts it with the gospel ethic of mutual care. Paul’s appeal in Philippians urges believers to pursue identical mindsets with Christ: reject vain conceit, embrace humility, and regard others as more important than personal interests.
This ethic depends on spiritual formation. The Holy Spirit equips every believer with affections and virtues like encouragement, love, compassion, and fellowship, but those gifts require feeding. When habitually nourished by the flesh, decisions default to self; when nourished by the Word and prayer, the Spirit reshapes motives toward selflessness. Historical example from Acts 2 models this reality: the early community sold possessions and shared so that no one lacked, demonstrating how shared focus on others prevents unmet needs.
Practically, consideration often demands inconvenience and sacrifice—lessons learned in family life or when plans are interrupted for another’s welfare. True humility does not merely perform modesty for approval; it changes relational posture so that service becomes primary, not optional. Biblical commentary and C. S. Lewis clarify that humility means thinking of oneself less, not thinking poorly of oneself. The ultimate pattern for this posture stands in Christ, who emptied divine privilege, took servant form, and obeyed to the point of death on a cross—an act that both humbles humanity and vindicates sacrificial love through resurrection and exaltation.
Believers receive clear application: cultivate first love through scripture and prayer, let spiritual gifts be outward-facing, and ask how to serve others as the practical way to honor God. Living out consideration stores heavenly reward and reveals God’s goodness among the living. Communion functions as a liturgical reminder of the cost of that love and the call to mirror it in daily relationships.
When we consider others above ourselves, we store rewards in heaven as well as seeing the goodness of God in the land of the living. Being humble and selfless is the way of anyone who professes to be a follower of Christ. We are to model what selfless living is by putting the needs of others above our own, and we have the power to do so because we have the holy spirit. There is nothing that should stop you from living the way that God has called you to.
[01:15:25]
(27 seconds)
#ConsiderOthersFirst
Remember what said there. When the body is operating like it's supposed to, nobody's missed. The next person is caring for the next person is caring for the next person is caring for the next person, and no one's missed. Acts two forty four to 45. And all the believers were together and had all things in common, and they would sell their property and possessions and share them with all to the extent that anyone had need. So they sold possessions because if anybody had a need, they can help meet the need.
[01:00:34]
(32 seconds)
#CommunityCareInAction
So we have to consider one another. We have to think about the person next to me. What need can I help meet? Our prayer should be, Lord, how can I serve you best by serving your people? What can I do to honor you, Lord God, to show honor to your people? Spiritual gifts, as Tang is preaching on, the spiritual gifts are outward. They're not inward. They're for us to use to serve others. A spiritual gift in itself is built in consideration for another person because I have to use my gift to help other people.
[01:15:53]
(35 seconds)
#ServeWithSpiritualGifts
even death on the cross. The cross was cruel, horrendous, brutal, denigrating, and torturous. This was the punishment that we deserved, and God loved us so much that he considered us and laid down his life even for the people who would deny him to his face to this day. But he did it anyway. He didn't look at the cross as an inconvenience. He didn't look at the cross as, man, I gotta do this for but they don't even deserve it. He came and died for us. That is the ultimate consideration.
[01:14:31]
(38 seconds)
#UltimateSacrificeJesus
Followers of Christ, we have all we need to live this way. There is no excuse. There is no excuse. I'm so often here, and y'all y'all y'all hear me say it, I'm not there yet. You because you choose not to be. If I hear that come out of the mouth of a Christian, you choose not to be. You are a follower of Christ. You have every ability to do exactly what he's saying. But in the moment, because it suits you out of selfish ambition, you wanna do what suits you. Make a different choice.
[00:59:51]
(31 seconds)
#NoExcusesLiveHumbly
Jesus Christ is the ultimate example. He is the ultimate example when considering others and humility. No one has ever given up more than Jesus. We make sacrifices, sure, for our friends, sometimes family, and whatnot. But would you make a sacrifice to save people in this world? Would you give up your son, your daughter, to save the world? The whole world, especially the ones that that we despise. Because he considered all of us before himself, and then he died for us.
[01:11:56]
(34 seconds)
#JesusModelOfHumility
And it takes it takes so much humility to consider other people, furthermore, to consider them above yourself. That takes a lot of humility. And that's part of the problem, man. Sometimes we we treat humility like it's an on and off switch. You know, when it serves us, we're all for it. If it makes me look good, fills my ego, we may appear to be humble to those around us. The scriptures call it empty glory, vain conceit, self righteousness that Paul speaks of.
[01:06:59]
(30 seconds)
#HumilityTakesCourage
These are the attributes that exist in the body, and the holy spirit gives us the ability to carry this out. So if you are a believer in Christ, filled with the holy spirit, indwelled with the holy spirit, then you have access to every attribute that God has. But you have to be building a relationship with him in order to access these attributes. So the one that you feed is the one that's going to inform you. So if you're feeding your flesh, it's giving you the information, and that's what you live off of. If you're feeding your spirit, it's giving you the correct information, and that's how you are supposed to live.
[00:58:29]
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#SpiritEmpoweredAttributes
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