Commitment: A Journey of Faith and Perseverance

 

Summary

Commitment is not just a word or a feeling—it is a decision, an act of the will, and a journey that requires perseverance. The call to offer our bodies as living sacrifices, as Paul writes in Romans 12:1-2, is a call to a deep and ongoing commitment. This means dedicating ourselves fully to God, not just in moments of inspiration, but in the daily choices and sacrifices that define our lives. True commitment is not about convenience or comfort; it is about being willing to give up what we want for what God desires.

In relationships, especially marriage, the real question is not “Do you love me?” but “Are you committed?” Love can be fleeting, but commitment endures through challenges, disagreements, and even failures. Commitment is a conscious decision, like Joshua’s declaration, “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” It is not something that can be made for someone else, nor is it something that can be entered into lightly or out of habit. It must be intentional and personal.

There are many things that can get in the way of full commitment to Christ—career ambitions, cultural expectations, the desire for control, and the pursuit of comfort. These distractions can subtly take priority over our relationship with God. It is important to recognize when our decisions are being driven by wants rather than needs, and to ensure that our choices align with God’s will, not just our own preferences or what seems easiest.

Commitment also requires humility and the willingness to seek wisdom from others. God places people in our lives to help guide us, and we must be open to their counsel, recognizing that we do not have all the answers. Perseverance is essential; commitment will be tested, and there will be times when it would be easier to give up. But as seen in the lives of Daniel, Paul, and even Peter, true commitment is proven in the willingness to obey and remain faithful, even under pressure or after failure.

Ultimately, God honors a heart that is fully devoted to Him. Commitment is not about perfection, but about returning to God when we fall short, seeking His help to obey, trust, and finish the race. The journey of commitment is marked by continual renewal, honest reflection, and a reliance on God’s strength to persevere.

Key Takeaways

- Commitment Begins with a Decision
True commitment starts with a deliberate, personal choice. Like Joshua, each person must decide for themselves whom they will serve, recognizing that no one else can make this decision on their behalf. This intentionality is the foundation of a lasting relationship with God, and without it, commitment cannot truly take root. [06:43]

- Distractions and Priorities Shape Our Commitment
Career, culture, and comfort can easily become obstacles to wholehearted devotion. When decisions are made based on what brings the most money, fits cultural norms, or offers the most comfort, we risk allowing these things to take precedence over our relationship with God. It is crucial to examine our motivations and ensure that nothing supersedes our allegiance to Christ. [11:40]

- Humility Means Surrendering Control
True commitment involves letting go of the need to control every aspect of our lives. God often speaks through the wisdom of others, and we must be willing to listen and seek counsel. Surrendering control is not weakness, but an act of trust that God’s guidance—sometimes delivered through others—will lead us in the right direction. [12:47]

- Perseverance is the Mark of Genuine Commitment
Commitment is not proven in easy times, but in the willingness to persevere through difficulty, disappointment, and even failure. The examples of Daniel, Paul, and Peter show that faithfulness under pressure and the courage to keep going, even after mistakes, are what define a truly committed life. Perseverance is the daily choice to keep pressing on toward the prize God has promised. [27:55]

- Commitment is a Journey, Not a Destination
No one is perfect, and commitment does not mean we will never falter. What matters is the willingness to return to God, to apologize, to seek forgiveness, and to renew our dedication. God honors those who, like David, continually come back to Him with a humble heart, seeking His help to obey, trust, and finish well. [30:55]

Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[00:29] - The Call to Commitment: Romans 12:1-2
[01:35] - Defining Commitment
[03:33] - Commitment in Marriage
[05:35] - The Real Question: Are You Ready to Commit?
[06:43] - Commitment Begins with a Decision
[08:18] - Distractions to Commitment
[10:36] - The Danger of Chasing Comfort and Money
[11:40] - When Culture Overrides Faith
[12:47] - Surrendering Control and Seeking Wisdom
[14:15] - Wants vs. Needs in Decision-Making
[16:11] - Faith and Financial Choices
[18:04] - Commitment Tested: Abraham, Peter, and Perseverance
[25:56] - Daniel’s Example of Faithfulness
[27:55] - Paul’s Perseverance and Finishing the Race
[30:55] - Pressing On for the Prize
[33:29] - Reflection and Prayer of Commitment

Study Guide

Small Group Bible Study Guide: The Journey of Commitment

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### Bible Reading

Romans 12:1-2 (ESV)
> I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

Joshua 24:15 (ESV)
> And if it is evil in your eyes to serve the Lord, choose this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your fathers served in the region beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.

2 Timothy 4:7 (ESV)
> I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.

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### Observation Questions

1. In Romans 12:1-2, what does Paul mean when he says to “offer your bodies as a living sacrifice”? How is this different from a one-time decision? ([00:29])
2. According to Joshua 24:15, what kind of decision did Joshua make for himself and his household? What does this show us about personal commitment? ([06:43])
3. In 2 Timothy 4:7, what three things does Paul say he has done? What do these actions reveal about his journey of faith? ([27:55])
4. The sermon mentioned that many people come to church out of habit but are not truly committed to Christ. What examples were given to show the difference between habit and real commitment? ([08:18])

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### Interpretation Questions

1. Why does Paul use the language of “living sacrifice” in Romans 12:1-2? What does this suggest about the nature of Christian commitment? ([00:29])
2. The sermon says that commitment is not about convenience or comfort. Why do you think God asks for commitment that sometimes requires sacrifice or discomfort? ([10:36])
3. The pastor shared that distractions like career, culture, and comfort can get in the way of our commitment to Christ. How do these things become obstacles, and what does it look like when they take priority over God? ([11:40])
4. The examples of Daniel, Paul, and Peter were used to show perseverance. What do their stories teach us about staying committed even after failure or under pressure? ([25:56])

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### Application Questions

1. The sermon said commitment begins with a decision, like Joshua’s choice to serve the Lord. Have you made a personal, intentional decision to follow Christ, or has your faith mostly been shaped by habit or family tradition? What would it look like to make that decision for yourself today? ([06:43])
2. Are there areas in your life—such as career ambitions, cultural expectations, or the desire for comfort—where you find it hard to put God first? Can you name one specific area where you feel challenged to choose God’s will over your own preference? ([11:40])
3. The pastor talked about the importance of seeking wisdom from others and surrendering control. Is there a decision you’re facing where you need to ask for godly counsel or let go of control? Who could you invite to speak into your life this week? ([12:47])
4. Think about a time when your commitment to God or to someone else was tested. How did you respond? What helped you persevere, or what made you want to give up? ([27:55])
5. The sermon said that commitment is a journey, not a destination, and that God honors those who return to Him after failure. Is there an area where you need to seek forgiveness or renew your commitment to God? What’s one step you can take this week to do that? ([30:55])
6. The difference between “wants” and “needs” was discussed in the context of decision-making. Can you think of a recent decision where you chose what you wanted over what you needed? How might you approach a similar decision differently in light of this teaching? ([16:11])
7. The pastor closed with a simple prayer: “Lord, I renew my commitment to you. Help me obey, help me trust, help me to finish strong in the faith.” What would you add to this prayer for your own life right now? ([33:29])

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Closing Prayer:
Invite someone to close in prayer, asking God for strength to persevere, humility to seek wisdom, and hearts that are fully devoted to Him.

Devotional

Day 1: Commitment as a Living Sacrifice

True commitment to God means offering your whole self, not just your words or intentions, but your daily actions and desires, even when it requires real sacrifice. This kind of commitment goes beyond habit or tradition; it is a conscious, ongoing choice to put God first, even when it means letting go of comfort or personal preference. Many people may attend church out of routine, but God calls each person to a deeper allegiance—a willingness to surrender what is most precious for the sake of following Him. Consider what it means to be a "living sacrifice" and whether your commitment to God is reflected in your willingness to let go of what you want for what He desires. [00:29]

Romans 12:1-2 (ESV)
"I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect."

Reflection: What is one area of your life where you are holding back from fully surrendering to God, and what would it look like to offer that area to Him as a living sacrifice today?


Day 2: Commitment Begins with a Decision

Every true commitment starts with a clear, personal decision—one that cannot be made for you by family, tradition, or culture. Like Joshua, each person must choose for themselves whom they will serve, recognizing that commitment to Christ is not about age or background but about a deliberate, intentional choice to follow Him. This decision is deeply personal and cannot be made on someone else’s behalf; it is the foundation of a genuine relationship with God. Reflect on whether your commitment to Christ is rooted in your own decision or simply inherited from others, and consider what it means to choose Him today. [06:43]

Joshua 24:15 (ESV)
"And if it is evil in your eyes to serve the Lord, choose this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your fathers served in the region beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord."

Reflection: Have you made a personal, intentional decision to serve the Lord, or are you relying on someone else’s faith or expectations? What step can you take today to make your commitment your own?


Day 3: Perseverance in Commitment

Commitment is not proven in easy times but in perseverance through challenges, disappointments, and even failures. Like Daniel, who remained faithful under pressure and persecution, and like Peter, who learned the true meaning of commitment after his denial, real commitment is a journey that requires endurance and the humility to admit mistakes and keep going. It is not about perfection but about staying the course, apologizing when necessary, and refusing to let setbacks define your faithfulness. God honors those who persevere, even when it is difficult or unpopular. [25:56]

Daniel 6:10 (ESV)
"When Daniel knew that the document had been signed, he went to his house where he had windows in his upper chamber open toward Jerusalem. He got down on his knees three times a day and prayed and gave thanks before his God, as he had done previously."

Reflection: When faced with pressure or setbacks, do you tend to give up or press on in your commitment to God? What is one practical way you can persevere in your faith this week?


Day 4: Pressing On for the Prize

The Christian life is a race that requires focus, discipline, and a continual pressing forward toward the goal that Christ has set before us. Paul’s example reminds us that the prize is not given to those who start well but to those who finish faithfully, keeping their eyes on Jesus and refusing to be distracted or discouraged by obstacles. The reward God promises is worth every effort, but it can only be received by those who keep pressing on, even when the way is hard or the finish line seems far away. [29:28]

Philippians 3:14 (ESV)
"I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus."

Reflection: What is one distraction or obstacle that is keeping you from pressing on toward God’s calling, and how can you refocus your heart on the prize Christ offers?


Day 5: Letting God Lead Your Decisions

True commitment to Christ means letting go of the need to control every outcome and allowing God to guide your decisions, even when it challenges your comfort, culture, or personal desires. God often places wise people in your life to help you discern His will, and He calls you to trust Him rather than relying solely on your own understanding or what seems most comfortable or profitable. Faith sometimes means choosing what is right over what is easy or familiar, trusting that God’s way leads to true fulfillment and peace. [14:15]

Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV)
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths."

Reflection: Think of a decision you are facing right now—are you seeking God’s guidance and the wisdom of others, or are you relying on your own preferences? What would it look like to let God lead in this area today?

Quotes

Making a commitment involves dedicating yourself to something like a person or a cause. Before you make a commitment, a commitment obligates you to do something. [00:01:37] (15 seconds)  #CommitmentIsObligation Edit Clip

It's interesting when you talk to me about why you're getting married. No one ever says, because I'm ready to commit. You know, they'll say, well, mama said that I'm old enough, I need to get married now. Mama said, I'm too old enough to be married. Okay? All right, those are the kinds of things that come up, rather than commitment. So, are you ready to commit? [00:05:23] (35 seconds)  #ReadyToCommit Edit Clip

It's not that their age is the issue to get baptized. What is it? They're not able to make a decision. And until they're able to make a decision, a definitive decision, they shouldn't be baptized. They can't commit to something that they don't understand. It doesn't work that way. [00:06:52] (27 seconds)  #DecisionBeforeBaptism Edit Clip

We need to be very careful of that because running after money is never the right answer. Never, ever is the right answer, all right, so that comfort culture. [00:10:46] (19 seconds)  #RejectComfortCulture Edit Clip

The scripture here talks about Abraham, talks about faith. The one-bedroom house, do you have faith that God prepared for you, it's okay or do you say, no, I'm going to walk away for the three-bedroom? That's not faith, that's sin. That's not faith, that's sin. And again, I'm not saying anything is wrong with walking to the three-bedroom, I'm not saying anything is wrong with that, but what I am saying is that you've got to be careful that you don't let that get in between you and God so you start making decisions that are not proper. [00:18:08] (42 seconds)  #FaithOverDesire Edit Clip

It goes back to what happens the first time you have an argument. You walk out? You don't walk out. You don't walk out. You go through it. It's a journey. Every time something comes up, you deal with it and you deal with and do it until you get to where you can do it. [00:20:05] (37 seconds)  #CommitmentIsAJourney Edit Clip

It's a journey of commitment. Okay? And Peter said, yes. Peter said, yes. I imagine, and I know how I am. If my wife says, you love me and I said yes, yes honey, and then she said do you love me and I said yes honey, she said do you love me, I can tell you I love you, don't be asking me again, okay, but Christ needs to be sure. Christ needed, not that Christ needed to be sure, Christ wanted to make sure that Peter was sure, that Peter understood what was going to happen when he said that. That's the commitment part. [00:22:35] (53 seconds)  #AssuredCommitment Edit Clip

Apology is not based upon whether you're right or wrong. Apology is that I don't like where we are right now. Okay? Okay. And whatever I did, it caused us to get here. I don't want to do that because I don't like this, so I'm apologize, I'm saying I'm sorry. It's okay to say I'm sorry, doesn't say that, doesn't mean you're wrong. [00:24:10] (29 seconds)  #ApologyIsPeace Edit Clip

How many times we have started doing something that we found a reason to stop? We found a reason to stop. And it's usually not a very good reason. But we stopped. And the victory is right around the corner. The victory is right around the corner. [00:28:09] (24 seconds)  #VictoryIsNear Edit Clip

Christ has a prize for each one of us. But we can't get it if we don't keep pressing on. We can't get it if we don't keep pressing on. We've got to keep, we've got to keep on pressing on. [00:30:55] (16 seconds)  #KeepPressingOn Edit Clip

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