Grace meets you right where the real world intrudes. We confess that we have not loved God with our whole heart or our neighbors as ourselves, and yet Christmas declares that Jesus was given for us and that God forgives all our sin. The Christ candle reminds us that His light shines in our hearts and homes, not because our plans went perfectly, but because His mercy is steadfast. When expectations crumble, the gift remains: undeserved grace, restoring communion with God and one another. Receive that peace today and let it steady you in this season. [08:53]
Romans 5:8–11
God shows His love by sending the Messiah to die on our behalf while we were still in our sins. Now that we’ve been set right by His blood, we will be rescued from judgment through Him. If, while we were opposed to God, we were reconciled through His Son’s death, how much more will we be saved by His life now that we are reconciled. So we rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.
Reflection: Where did your Christmas not meet expectations, and how can you invite Jesus’ forgiving light into that exact disappointment this week?
Sometimes the season doesn’t go as planned—illness changes plans, conflicts surface, the weather cancels what you hoped for. Take heart: Mary and Joseph also had their plans turned upside down as they fled at night to protect their newborn from Herod’s rage. God met them in the disruption with clear guidance and steady protection. He still does, leading step by step when fear rises and options narrow. You can trust that the same Father who guarded them is present to guard you, even in the dark. [21:14]
Matthew 2:13–15
After the visitors left, Joseph was warned in a dream to get up immediately, take the child and His mother, and go to Egypt, remaining there until further direction, because Herod would seek the child to kill Him. Joseph obeyed that very night, gathered his family, and departed for Egypt. They stayed until Herod died, fulfilling the word spoken by the prophet that God would call His Son out of Egypt.
Reflection: What present disruption in your life might be an invitation to listen for God’s next step, and what is one small act of obedience you could take today?
Joseph models a quiet strength that listens to God and moves decisively for the good of his family. He does the hard, uncomfortable thing because love compels him to act. In his courage we glimpse the heart of God, the true protective Father who guides, warns, and makes a way through danger. This is the Father who walks with His children in dark valleys and brings them safely through. Let that assurance steady your own vocation to protect, provide, and pray for those entrusted to you. [26:59]
Psalm 23:4
Even when I pass through the darkest valley, I won’t be overcome by fear, because You are with me; Your rod and Your staff steady and defend me.
Reflection: Who has God entrusted to your care right now, and what is one brave, loving action you can take this week to protect or provide for them?
Jesus began life as a vulnerable child, carried across borders, without the safety net of hometown or extended family. That early exile seems woven through His ministry as He sought the forgotten—the foreigner, the poor, the sick, the tormented, and children pushed to the margins. He did not keep His distance; He touched, healed, and restored people to community. His way counters fear with welcome and power with mercy. Follow Him into the lives of those who feel unseen, offering presence and practical care that say, “You belong.” [30:10]
Mark 10:13–16
People were bringing little ones to Jesus for a blessing, but the disciples tried to stop them. Jesus was displeased and said, “Let the children come; don’t stand in their way, for God’s kingdom belongs to such as these.” He gathered the children in His arms, laid His hands on them, and spoke blessing over them.
Reflection: Who in your neighborhood or workplace feels like an outsider, and how could you take one concrete step to welcome them this week?
There are always two ways before us: the way of Herod—control, fear, and force—or the way of Jesus—gentleness, humility, and love. Jesus did not play by the world’s rules; He laid down power, refused retaliation, healed enemies, and went to the cross in self-giving love. This is a hard way, but it is the way that brings peace and real change. As a new year dawns, choose His path again and again in your relationships, your words, your decisions. Small acts of mercy practiced daily become a life that points to the Light. [34:44]
Matthew 5:38–45
You’ve heard the rule, “Eye for eye,” but I tell you not to answer wrong with more wrong: if someone insults you with a slap, don’t repay in kind; if someone forces you to go one mile, go further; give freely to those in need. You’ve also heard, “Love your neighbor and hate your enemy,” but I say: love your enemies and pray for those who oppose you, so that you may resemble your Father in heaven.
Reflection: Looking at a specific conflict you’re facing, what is one measurable step of gentleness or generosity you can choose that resists the cycle of retaliation?
Grace opens the gathering, and the light of the Christ candle reframes Christmas as more than sentiment: it names the truth that God’s love enters a world of sin, fear, and unmet expectations. From Matthew’s account of the flight to Egypt, the narrative lingers on the hard edge of the season. Families know the letdown after the festivities, the intrusion of illness, conflict, and disrupted plans. Scripture does not hide from this. In the wake of angels and shepherds comes the rage of Herod and the midnight run to safety—Christmas in the real world.
Joseph emerges as a model of steady, faithful masculinity. He listens to God in the night, rises without hesitation, and does the hard, necessary thing to shield his family. That protective posture mirrors the Father’s care, guiding and guarding the child who will fulfill promises spoken long before: Bethlehem, Egypt, Nazareth. Protection here is not an escape from the world, but safe passage through it, until the mission can unfold.
This mission will not mirror Herod’s way. Power in the kingdom comes clothed in weakness, compassion, and self-giving love. Jesus’ earliest memory is vulnerability—an outsider, a refugee, far from kin and safety nets. That beginning seems to echo in a ministry aimed toward outsiders: the foreigner, the poor, the sick, the demon-tormented, the socially cut off. Where fear isolates, Jesus moves toward; where law becomes a weapon, he restores the law’s purpose as gift; where enemies invite retaliation, he teaches the cheek turned, the sword sheathed, the cross embraced.
The contrast is stark: Herod’s anxious violence versus Jesus’ courageous peace. One guards power by wounding the weak; the other lays down power to heal the weak. One demands control at any cost; the other bears a cross to bring life. Standing at the threshold of a new year, the choice remains—again and again—between these two ways. The invitation is to choose gentleness over grasping, humility over self-assertion, love over fear. This, too, is Christmas: God with us in the real world, leading a people who will embody a different way.
They have to scoop up baby Jesus, escape from Bethlehem to Egypt in the middle of the night about a 12-hour hike to save his life. The silent night, the stars and the angels, the adoring shepherds are all forgotten. And turns out the real world, the world of hardship and changed plans and threats and fear are part of Christmas too.
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#ChristmasNotAsPlanned
There is also God, protecting his son, Jesus, protecting his children, Joseph and Mary, too, sending the dream and the angel and giving the instructions to move to Egypt. God has been a protective father throughout the ages, protecting his children, looking to provide safe passage for us back home to heaven.
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#FatherAsProtector
The second image is when I was a kid, the hill behind our house caught fire. And my dad had trained a little bit with firefighters, and so he joined the firefighters and manned the hose as they were putting out the fire to keep our house safe. I counted on his strength. I knew he would do whatever it took to keep his family safe. It's a good, protected father, like Joseph, like God.
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#ProtectLikeJoseph
Christmas is about a savior coming to rescue us from a world, a real world, of threat and violence. Jesus is born to save this world, but he will not do it with violence and the use of power like the kings and the emperors do. Jesus comes to show us a different way. He will save the world through weakness. He will save the world through compassion, through love.
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#SaveThroughLove
And I wonder if that's part of why Jesus always had compassion on the outsider, always gave his attention to the foreigner, always healed people who didn't have systems of support, who weren't part of the in crowd. Jesus went about his ministry looking for Gentiles and the poor and the ones possessed by demons and the ones separated from community because of their illness. I mean, I wonder if he welcomed children into his arms because he knew what it was like to be a child threatened by adults.
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#GodOurRefuge
Jesus came into a world ruled by people like that. He was willing to be vulnerable, to be a target of people like that. But he grew up and he offered us a different way, a way of peace, a way of empathy, a way of love. He taught us not to attack and destroy our enemies, but to turn the other cheek, to love our enemies.
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#PeaceOverPower
Instead of putting the sick in quarantine and separating them out from community, what did Jesus do? He reached out to heal and touch the sick. Instead of shackling the possessed, being fearful of them and avoiding them, Jesus taught us to go and set people free and bring peace at risk to himself.
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#LoveTheOutsider
And when they came at Jesus in the garden with clubs and swords and Peter, following the rules of the world, cut off the guard's ear, what did Jesus do? Put your sword away. It's not my way. He healed the man and he went willingly to the cross because that's the different way. It's a way of submission. It's a way of weakness. It's a way of self-sacrifice, service to others. It's a way of peace.
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#ReachOutToHeal
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