Every day, we make countless choices—some small and seemingly insignificant, others weighty and life-altering. Over time, these choices shape the very grooves of our hearts and minds, forming habits and patterns that can either draw us closer to God and others or create chasms of separation. The parable of the rich man and Lazarus reminds us that ignoring those in need right at our doorstep, even when we know their names and stories, has lasting consequences. The chasms we dig through neglect, indifference, or self-absorption can become unbridgeable, not just in this life but in eternity. Let us be mindful of the daily decisions we make, for they build the bridges or the barriers that define our lives. [16:18]
Luke 16:19-31 (ESV)
“There was a rich man who was clothed in purple and fine linen and who feasted sumptuously every day. And at his gate was laid a poor man named Lazarus, covered with sores, who desired to be fed with what fell from the rich man's table. Moreover, even the dogs came and licked his sores. The poor man died and was carried by the angels to Abraham's side. The rich man also died and was buried, and in Hades, being in torment, he lifted up his eyes and saw Abraham far off and Lazarus at his side. And he called out, ‘Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus to dip the end of his finger in water and cool my tongue, for I am in anguish in this flame.’ But Abraham said, ‘Child, remember that you in your lifetime received your good things, and Lazarus in like manner bad things; but now he is comforted here, and you are in anguish. And besides all this, between us and you a great chasm has been fixed, in order that those who would pass from here to you may not be able, and none may cross from there to us.’ And he said, ‘Then I beg you, father, to send him to my father's house—for I have five brothers—so that he may warn them, lest they also come into this place of torment.’ But Abraham said, ‘They have Moses and the Prophets; let them hear them.’ And he said, ‘No, father Abraham, but if someone goes to them from the dead, they will repent.’ He said to him, ‘If they do not hear Moses and the Prophets, neither will they be convinced if someone should rise from the dead.’”
Reflection: Who is at your doorstep today—someone you know by name—whose needs you have overlooked? What is one step you can take to bridge that gap?
Chasms in our lives are not always dramatic or obvious; sometimes they are the slow result of busyness, distraction, or the subtle divisions of our culture—economic, political, racial, or personal. These separations can grow deeper with every unexamined choice, every moment we fail to be present to God or to one another. Yet, we are not powerless. We can choose to build bridges, to offer forgiveness, to seek reconciliation, and to mend what is broken. The call is to be awake and attentive, to notice where our feet are taking us, and to intentionally choose the path that leads to healing and unity. [25:02]
Ephesians 2:13-14 (ESV)
But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far off have been brought near by the blood of Christ. For he himself is our peace, who has made us both one and has broken down in his flesh the dividing wall of hostility.
Reflection: Is there a chasm—large or small—in your relationships or community that you have helped dig, even unintentionally? What is one practical way you can begin to build a bridge today?
In a world that values speed, efficiency, and constant productivity, we often find ourselves impoverished—not in material things, but in time, wisdom, and friendship. We rush past the beauty of creation, the needs of others, and even our own souls. True wisdom and connection require us to slow down, to be present, and to pay attention at a heart and spirit level. Being present is not just about stopping; it is about truly seeing, listening, and responding to God and those around us. How we do anything is how we do everything—let us choose to do even the smallest things with intention and presence. [29:24]
Psalm 46:10 (ESV)
“Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!”
Reflection: Where in your day can you intentionally pause, be still, and truly notice God’s presence or the needs of someone near you?
Eternal life is not just a distant promise but a present reality that we are invited to choose each day. Jesus calls us to wake up, to pay attention, and to embrace the life of God that is available to us right now. This means choosing forgiveness, grace, mercy, and justice—not just as abstract ideals, but as daily practices that shape our lives and communities. When we choose these things, we participate in God’s reign and help bring about a world where all are one. [27:31]
Deuteronomy 30:19-20 (ESV)
“I call heaven and earth to witness against you today, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and curse. Therefore choose life, that you and your offspring may live, loving the Lord your God, obeying his voice and holding fast to him, for he is your life and length of days, that you may dwell in the land that the Lord swore to your fathers, to Abraham, to Isaac, and to Jacob, to give them.”
Reflection: What is one specific way you can choose the life of God—grace, mercy, justice, or forgiveness—over indifference or self-interest today?
We are woven into the web of creation, called not to dominate or exploit, but to care for the earth and for one another as an act of love and worship. Our relationship with God is inseparable from how we treat the world and the people around us. Each act of care, each moment of listening, each effort to protect and nurture creation is a way of honoring the Creator. Let us be vigilant, attentive, and grateful, seeking to bring healing and unity to all of God’s creation. [47:30]
Genesis 2:15 (ESV)
The Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to work it and keep it.
Reflection: What is one tangible action you can take this week to care for God’s creation or to show compassion to someone in your community?
Today’s reflection centers on the choices we make—both the conscious and the automatic—and how these daily decisions shape not only our lives but the world around us. From our earliest days, we inherit values and assumptions from our families and culture, but as we grow, we are called to examine and sometimes realign these beliefs. Jesus’ parable of the rich man and Lazarus challenges the deeply held assumption that material wealth is a sign of God’s favor, and poverty a sign of sin. In the story, the rich man, though a son of Abraham, fails to care for Lazarus, a suffering man at his very doorstep. This neglect is not just a personal failing but a spiritual chasm, one that is deepened by repeated choices and habits.
The parable warns that these chasms—between rich and poor, between neighbor and neighbor—are not just societal but spiritual, and they have eternal consequences. Our culture’s busyness, our poverty of time, wisdom, and friendship, all contribute to a growing sense of isolation and loneliness. We are reminded that it is not enough to support distant causes or programs; we must also see and respond to the needs of those right in front of us, those “in our bundle.” The habits we form, the grooves we dig in our lives, can either build bridges or deepen divides.
Yet, there is hope. We are not trapped by our past choices. Jesus calls us to choose differently—to choose life, forgiveness, grace, and justice. Eternal life is not just a future promise but a present reality, available to us when we pay attention and act with compassion. The invitation is to be present, to notice where our feet take us, and to be awake to God’s presence in every moment. In doing so, we participate in the healing of the world, the mending of chasms, and the building of God’s community.
Luke 16:19-31 (ESV) – The Parable of the Rich Man and Lazarus —
> “There was a rich man who was clothed in purple and fine linen and who feasted sumptuously every day. And at his gate was laid a poor man named Lazarus, covered with sores, who desired to be fed with what fell from the rich man's table. Moreover, even the dogs came and licked his sores. The poor man died and was carried by the angels to Abraham's side. The rich man also died and was buried, and in Hades, being in torment, he lifted up his eyes and saw Abraham far off and Lazarus at his side. And he called out, ‘Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus to dip the end of his finger in water and cool my tongue, for I am in anguish in this flame.’ But Abraham said, ‘Child, remember that you in your lifetime received your good things, and Lazarus in like manner bad things; but now he is comforted here, and you are in anguish. And besides all this, between us and you a great chasm has been fixed, in order that those who would pass from here to you may not be able, and none may cross from there to us.’ And he said, ‘Then I beg you, father, to send him to my father's house—for I have five brothers—so that he may warn them, lest they also come into this place of torment.’ But Abraham said, ‘They have Moses and the Prophets; let them hear them.’ And he said, ‘No, father Abraham, but if someone goes to them from the dead, they will repent.’ He said to him, ‘If they do not hear Moses and the Prophets, neither will they be convinced if someone should rise from the dead.’”
Well, we make choices all day long, don't we? Some of them are conscious and we're aware of them, and some of them are just kind of automatic as we go through the day. A lot of these things are based on things that we were taught when we were very young. We caught perspective, assumptions, values, beliefs from our parents and our family and our culture where we lived. But when we became teenagers, we probably rebelled against some of those maybe, possibly. And when we went away to college, then there were all this amazing array of choices that we could make. And some of us were, some of them were good choices and some of them were maybe be not so good choices. That we made during those years, and maybe when we settled down to adult life we kind of realigned some of those values and choices and made them our own and kind of go through our days and in recent times I think we've all been challenged by some of the choices that collectively we've been making as we've going down some destructive paths, and we're going something's not working right here. We need a little wake-up call. We need a little jolt to get us back on the right track. [00:16:08]
It was a cultural assumption in those days that if you were rich you were blessed you were a godly person you god was blessing you and and just pouring out abundant life on you right now and it was going to be like that for ever and the corollary of that was that if you were poor, then you were obviously a sinner. Obviously you've done something to offend god. Obviously that's what's wrong with you and jesus had to confront this over and over and over again throughout his ministry because it was so prevalent in his society. And so he tells this parable again to people to try to wake up. There are consequences to the choices that you make and some of these assumptions are not necessarily true. [00:17:45]
Somehow this rich man was a son of abraham and he was stoked in the jewish covenant but somehow had forgotten about the part that said take care of the poor, the orphaned and the widows take care of you have a responsibility there for those people. And he was forgetting that all the way along the line. And we as christians know too that we are supposed to be taking care of the poor and the orphaned and the less privileged among us. And most of the time we're aware of that and we're thankful that there are programs there are food banks that we can serve at and maybe contribute to. There are homeless shelters that we can help out. The saint francis center the you know all the rest never rescue mission all these places where we can help out and yet it's the it's the audacity. And I think this is where jesus is really kind of pinning it down for us. Is saying this is a person that is at your doorstep. This is the person that is under your nose. This is someone who is quote in your bundle to take care of. And you even know his name. And you are not taking care of him. That's the big oops. [00:19:29]
So who I mean we can we can participate in food banks helping. We can and all that's wonderful and good. But who is in our bundle? Who is at our doorstep? Who do we know that is struggling? That's the one that we can't ignore. Or there's choices. Consequences for those choices. [00:21:03]
The consequences are what jesus is talking about here because in the parable the poor man dies and is carried away by the angels and the rich man dies and he ends up in torment and he must be quite surprised about ending up there because he was rich he was you know blessed by god right and this just doesn't compute for him and he's looking far off and he sees a lazarus up there with abraham and he says hey send lazarus down to give me a drink of water and he still doesn't get it oh my gosh he still thinks he can order lazarus around like a slave like a servant he doesn't understand at all what has happened so abraham has to explain to him there's this huge chasm between you and us and nobody can cross it nobody can cross it and it's a chasm that has been built by what the daily choices the daily choices. [00:21:31]
Brain science says that that if we start doing things over and over and over again we actually make like grooves in the neurons of our brain and we know this is true have you ever tried to break a bad habit it's really difficult to do isn't it and it takes a lot of effort and it takes a lot of time to break those bad habits and if it's an addiction it's even worse because we've dug that groove deeper and deeper into our psyche and we think that's what we need and we think that's the way to go and that chasm keeps getting deeper and broader and wider all the time. [00:22:46]
So what are the chasms of our lives today? It's interesting in our frenetic american dream cultural consumer cultural life that we get really really busy and want to go really really fast and even driving up here this morning my husband's going god everybody's in such a hurry today did you notice that it's like man everybody is in a big sweat i'm like why it's a beautiful day there's gorgeous mountains out there and some aspen peeking through the top man it's just incredible why are everybody in such a hurry and yet we miss what god is calling us to do right under our noses and those chasms grow big. [00:23:30]
Mother theresa says our frenetic and our busy life is causing us to have this pandemic of loneliness loneliness and mental health issues because we don't have time to be who we are franciscan priest richard roer talks about our poverty of time we never seem to have enough time and then he says and we have a poverty of wisdom we have a plethora of knowledge knowledge at our fingertips just google anything right but wisdom that you that takes experience, that takes time, that takes attention, that takes presence. That takes knowing at a heart level and a spirit level that is different. And he talks about our poverty of friendship, that isolation that our busyness causes, and all of that. [00:24:20]
So what are the chasms that we inadvertently dig? You know? We've got these chasms in our culture today. Economically, rich and poor, politically, right and left, religiously, all over the place, chasms here, there, and everywhere, race, creed, culture. I mean, it goes on and on, right? And we're sucked into it, sometimes subconsciously, subconsciously, without even realizing that we've just put another shovel full of that consequence, and dug another chasm. Or more personally, there may be chasms between people that we need to offer forgiveness, and mend the, build bridges, and do those things differently. Those chasms can be healed, because they have eternal consequences, what Jesus is talking about. Long, lasting, eternal consequences. But we can choose differently. [00:25:26]
Abraham is telling the rich man, the unnamed rich man, that Lazarus can't cross over. And so, the rich man says, Okay, well, if he can't do that, then at least go to my father's house, and warn my brothers, that, you know, this is not a good way to be, this is not a good way to live, so that they don't end up here, too. Because we all bought the, we all bought the, the rope, the lie. We thought, you know, if you were rich and blessed by God, you had it made. And that's not so. And, and Abraham says, they have access. To the truth about God. They're sons of Abraham, too. They have Moses. They have the prophets. They know better. If they listen to the whole thing, but if they're ignoring it, then even if somebody goes back from the dead, even if someone is raised from the dead, they're not going to believe that either. [00:26:38]
And that's kind of the pickle we're in, isn't it? And that's the pickle that Jesus was in as he was telling people to wake up. That eternal life, that resurrected life, is available to us all. Right here, right now, all the time. And if we, but we have to choose it. We can't ignore it and put it on the, on the side shelf. We have to pay attention to it. We have to choose that life. Or we will continue to inadvertently dig the chasms that we don't want to do. [00:27:44]
So, choose the eternal life of God. That's what Jesus is calling us to do. Choose to build bridges and fill in those chasms. Choose forgiveness. Choose grace. Choose mercy. Choose justice. Choose those things that will help us rebuild the people of God community. An alternate way of being and living that pays attention. [00:28:26]
Richard Rohr has a famous zinger line. He's got several. of them, but one of them that just drives me crazy because I'm so guilty. How you do anything is how you do everything. Well, I'm a planner, which means I'm always thinking about the next thing, right? So I'm not always present. And to be in the presence of God, you have to be present. And so it's a struggle to not just plan ahead or be efficient or multitask or do, you know, whatever it is your thing is. Watch where you're going. Be aware. Be awake. How you do anything is how you do everything. So scary how true that is. [00:28:58]
Frederick Buechner put it another way. Watch where your feet take you. Watch where your feet take you. My husband and I like to go walking. You know, we have several different routes. And every once in a while I say, we need to walk it backwards. And we notice different things when we walk it backwards. Watch where your feet take you and start to notice. Start to be aware. And so you aren't digging chasms. You're making choices for life. Eternal life. God's life. Amen. Amen. [00:29:58]
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