Choosing Intimacy Over Busyness: The Heart of Service
Summary
In the story of Mary and Martha from Luke 10:38-42, Jesus visits the home of two sisters, each responding to His presence in different ways. Martha is busy with preparations, wanting everything to be perfect for her honored guest, while Mary chooses to sit at Jesus’ feet, listening to His words. The heart of this passage is not a condemnation of service or busyness, but a gentle correction: Jesus lovingly tells Martha that while her efforts are good, she is “worried and upset about many things,” and that “only one thing is needed.” Mary has chosen what is better—being present with Jesus—and it will not be taken from her.
This encounter is a call to examine our own lives. In a culture that prizes productivity and constant motion, it’s easy to become so busy doing things for God that we neglect simply being with Him. The Lord desires our intimacy more than our activity. Our service, no matter how noble, cannot replace the quiet, attentive posture of sitting at His feet. The presence of the Lord is always better than the preparations for the Lord.
Throughout Scripture, God’s invitation is consistent: “Follow me,” “Press on,” and “Dwell with me.” Jesus’ words to the rich young ruler in Luke 18:22, Paul’s exhortation in Philippians 3:13 to forget the past and press on, and David’s longing in Psalm 27:4 to dwell in the house of the Lord all point to this singular focus. The “one thing” needed is a heart that seeks God above all else—a heart that listens, follows, and abides.
It’s not that our work or service is unimportant, but it must flow from a place of intimacy with Christ. When we are distracted, worried, or weary, Jesus invites us to lay aside our busyness and simply be with Him. He knows our hearts, our burdens, and our exhaustion. He calls us to rest in His presence, to listen to His voice, and to let our service be an overflow of our relationship with Him. In doing so, we find the peace, strength, and joy that can only come from time spent at the feet of Jesus.
Key Takeaways
- Intimacy with Christ must precede service for Christ. It’s possible to be so busy doing good things—even for God—that we neglect the most important thing: being with Him. Our effectiveness in ministry and life flows from the depth of our relationship with Jesus, not the volume of our activity. [03:35]
- The presence of the Lord is always better than preparations for the Lord. God desires our hearts more than our sacrifices or accomplishments. Like Hosea 6:6 reminds us, He wants us to know Him more than He wants our offerings; our greatest calling is to sit at His feet and listen. [19:49]
- Jesus addresses the deeper issues beneath our busyness and frustration. When Martha vents to Jesus, He gently reveals that her anxiety is about more than just chores—it’s about her heart. Our outward frustrations often point to inner needs that only Christ can satisfy, and He invites us to bring those to Him. [10:33]
- The “one thing” Jesus calls us to is a singular focus on Him. Whether it’s following (Luke 18:22), pressing on (Philippians 3:13), or dwelling (Psalm 27:4), the common thread is a heart that seeks God above all else. Everything else—service, sacrifice, preparation—finds its proper place when our eyes are fixed on Jesus. [24:11]
- True rest and renewal are found at the feet of Jesus. In seasons of weariness, busyness, or distraction, the Lord’s invitation is to stop, be still, and listen. When we prioritize His presence, we are refreshed, strengthened, and equipped to serve from a place of overflow rather than exhaustion. [37:31]
Youtube Chapters
[00:00] - Welcome
[00:26] - Setting the Scene: Mary, Martha, and Jesus
[01:41] - Martha’s Hospitality and Mary’s Posture
[04:12] - The Busyness of Life and the Call to Pause
[05:34] - Contrasting Siblings: Distraction vs. Devotion
[08:02] - Martha’s Complaint and Jesus’ Tender Response
[10:33] - The Deeper Issue: Worry and Upset
[12:28] - Being Busy for God vs. Being With God
[14:14] - Personal Reflections on Service and Rest
[17:22] - The Danger of Distraction in Good Works
[19:49] - The Presence of the Lord Over Preparations
[22:21] - Only One Thing is Needed
[24:11] - The “One Thing” in Scripture: Follow, Press On, Dwell
[32:38] - David’s Desire: To Dwell in God’s House
[35:09] - The Lord’s Invitation: Sit, Listen, and Be Still
[38:47] - Closing Prayer and Final Encouragement
Study Guide
Small Group Bible Study Guide: “This One Thing” (Luke 10:38-42)
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### Bible Reading
Luke 10:38-42 (ESV)
> 38 Now as they went on their way, Jesus entered a village. And a woman named Martha welcomed him into her house.
> 39 And she had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to his teaching.
> 40 But Martha was distracted with much serving. And she went up to him and said, “Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to help me.”
> 41 But the Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things,
> 42 but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her.”
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### Observation Questions
1. What are the two different ways Mary and Martha respond to Jesus’ visit in this story? ([01:41])
2. According to Jesus, what is Martha “worried and upset” about, and what does He say is the “one thing” that is needed? ([10:33])
3. What does the passage say Mary is doing while Martha is busy with preparations? ([05:34])
4. How does Jesus respond to Martha’s complaint about her sister? What is His tone and message? ([09:51])
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### Interpretation Questions
1. Why does Jesus say that Mary’s choice “will not be taken away from her”? What does this reveal about what Jesus values most? ([11:14])
2. The sermon mentions that Martha’s frustration points to a deeper issue in her heart. What might be some of the deeper issues behind our own busyness or frustration? ([10:33])
3. How does the story challenge the idea that serving God is always the most important thing we can do? ([12:28])
4. The pastor referenced Hosea 6:6, where God says He desires us to know Him more than our offerings. How does this Old Testament idea connect to what Jesus says to Martha? ([19:49])
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### Application Questions
1. The sermon said, “Being busy for the Lord can lead us to being too busy for Him.” Can you think of a time when you were so busy serving or doing good things that you neglected your relationship with Jesus? What did that look like for you? ([12:28])
2. Is there an area of your life right now where you feel “worried and upset about many things” like Martha? What is one step you could take this week to sit at Jesus’ feet instead? ([10:33])
3. The pastor shared about his own exhaustion from ministry and how God asked him, “When was the last time you just sat with me?” When was the last time you truly sat quietly with God, not to get something done, but just to be with Him? ([19:17])
4. Jesus told Martha that “only one thing is needed.” What might it look like for you to make time for that “one thing” in your daily or weekly routine? ([22:21])
5. The sermon highlighted that our service should flow from intimacy with Christ, not replace it. How can you tell when your service is coming from overflow versus when it’s coming from exhaustion? ([36:19])
6. The story of Mary and Martha is not about condemning service, but about priorities. What practical changes could you make to ensure that being with Jesus comes before doing things for Jesus? ([20:29])
7. The pastor encouraged us to “be still and know that I am God.” What is one distraction you could set aside this week to make space for stillness and listening to God? ([36:57])
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Closing Prayer Suggestion:
Invite the group to pray for hearts that seek Jesus above all else, for the ability to lay aside distractions, and for renewed intimacy with Christ that overflows into joyful service.
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