Choosing Integrity Over Appetites: A Cautionary Tale

Devotional

Day 1: The Influence of Appetites on Our Lives

Our appetites, whether for acceptance, recognition, or material possessions, can significantly influence the direction and quality of our lives. These desires often pose a threat to our integrity, leading us to act in ways that contradict our beliefs and values. When we allow our appetites to dominate, we may find ourselves making irrational decisions that are easily predicted by others. Recognizing the power of these appetites is crucial in maintaining our integrity and ensuring that our actions align with our long-term values rather than immediate gratification. [01:20]

"For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life—is not from the Father but is from the world." (1 John 2:16, ESV)

Reflection: What is one appetite in your life that often leads you to compromise your values? How can you begin to address this today?

Day 2: Integrity as a Guiding Principle

Integrity is the courage to do the right thing simply because it is right, even when it comes at a cost. It serves as a decision-making filter that encourages us to take the long view, resisting the temptation to succumb to immediate desires. By prioritizing integrity, we ensure that our actions are consistent with our values and beliefs, even when faced with challenges. This commitment to integrity helps us build a life that is not only fulfilling but also aligned with our deepest convictions. [05:07]

"Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out." (Proverbs 10:9, ESV)

Reflection: In what recent situation did you find it difficult to uphold your integrity? What steps can you take to ensure you choose integrity in similar situations in the future?

Day 3: The Cautionary Tale of Esau and Jacob

The story of Esau and Jacob illustrates the danger of allowing our appetites to dictate our decisions. Esau, driven by his immediate hunger, traded his birthright—his future and legacy—for a mere bowl of stew. This narrative serves as a powerful reminder of the consequences of prioritizing immediate gratification over long-term values. It challenges us to consider the potential impact of our decisions on our future and the lives of those we love. [19:09]

"See to it that no one is sexually immoral or unholy like Esau, who sold his birthright for a single meal." (Hebrews 12:16, ESV)

Reflection: What is your "bowl of stew"—something you are tempted to trade for short-term satisfaction? How can you remind yourself of the long-term consequences of such a decision?

Day 4: Identifying Personal Temptations

We must identify those things that tempt us to compromise our integrity for short-term satisfaction. By recognizing these temptations, we can take proactive steps to safeguard our future, relationships, and legacy. This process involves honest self-reflection and a commitment to aligning our actions with our values, even when it is difficult. By doing so, we protect what we value most and ensure that our lives reflect our deepest convictions. [30:48]

"Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life." (Proverbs 4:23, ESV)

Reflection: What specific steps can you take to guard against the temptations that threaten your integrity? How can you involve others in this process for accountability and support?

Day 5: Choosing Integrity Over Immediate Gratification

By choosing to uphold our integrity, even when it costs us, we protect what we value most. This decision benefits not only ourselves but also those who depend on us and love us. Upholding integrity requires courage and a willingness to prioritize long-term values over short-term desires. In doing so, we build a legacy of trust and faithfulness that impacts our lives and the lives of those around us. [33:32]

"Better is a poor man who walks in his integrity than a rich man who is crooked in his ways." (Proverbs 28:6, ESV)

Reflection: How can you remind yourself daily of the importance of integrity in your life? What practical habits can you develop to ensure you consistently choose integrity over immediate gratification?

Sermon Summary

In today's message, we explored the profound impact of appetites on our lives and integrity. We began by considering how appetites can dominate individuals, leading them to make irrational decisions that can be predicted by outsiders. These appetites, whether for acceptance, recognition, or material possessions, can dictate the direction and quality of our lives and those around us. They pose a significant threat to our integrity, often leading us to act contrary to our beliefs and values.

Integrity, as we discussed, is the courage to do the right thing simply because it is right, even when it comes at a cost. It's a decision-making filter that guides us to take the long view rather than succumbing to immediate desires. Our appetites, however, constantly challenge this resolve, tempting us to prioritize immediate gratification over long-term values.

We delved into the story of Esau and Jacob, which vividly illustrates this tension. Esau, driven by his immediate hunger, traded his birthright—his future and legacy—for a mere bowl of stew. This narrative serves as a cautionary tale about the dangers of allowing our appetites to dictate our decisions. It reminds us that what seems insignificant now can have profound consequences later.

The challenge for us is to identify our own "bowl of stew"—those things that tempt us to compromise our integrity for short-term satisfaction. We must recognize the potential impact of these decisions on our future and the lives of those we love. By choosing to uphold our integrity, even when it costs us, we safeguard our future, our relationships, and our legacy.

Key Takeaways

1. The Power of Appetites: Our appetites, whether for acceptance, recognition, or material possessions, can dictate the direction and quality of our lives. They pose a significant threat to our integrity, often leading us to act contrary to our beliefs and values. [01:20]
2. Integrity as a Decision-Making Filter: Integrity is the courage to do the right thing simply because it is right, even when it comes at a cost. It guides us to take the long view rather than succumbing to immediate desires. [05:07]
3. The Story of Esau and Jacob: Esau's decision to trade his birthright for a bowl of stew illustrates the danger of allowing our appetites to dictate our decisions. It serves as a cautionary tale about the consequences of prioritizing immediate gratification over long-term values. [19:09]
4. Identifying Our "Bowl of Stew": We must identify those things that tempt us to compromise our integrity for short-term satisfaction. Recognizing these temptations helps us safeguard our future, relationships, and legacy. [30:48]
5. Choosing Integrity Over Immediate Gratification: By choosing to uphold our integrity, even when it costs us, we protect what we value most. This decision benefits not only ourselves but also those who depend on us and love us. [33:32]
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Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[00:10] - The Power of Appetites
[00:28] - Unquenchable Thirst
[01:11] - Appetites and Integrity
[02:43] - Defining Integrity
[03:39] - Personal vs. Private Integrity
[04:21] - The Posture of Integrity
[05:07] - Integrity as a Decision-Making Filter
[06:24] - The Challenge of Appetites
[07:20] - Types of Appetites
[08:24] - The Nature of Appetites
[10:27] - Integrity vs. Achievement
[12:31] - The Story of Esau and Jacob
[19:09] - Trading the Future for a Bowl of Stew
[30:48] - Identifying Your "Bowl of Stew"
[33:32] - Choosing Integrity Over Immediate Gratification

Sermon Clips

"Appetites are extremely, extremely powerful. In fact, our appetites had the potential to determine the direction and certainly the quality of our life. They have the potential to determine the direction and quality of the lives of the people closest to us. The people that we love the most, the people that love us the most. And we rule them or they rule us. You rule them or they will rule you." [00:01:25]

"Integrity is the resolve or the courage to do the right and virtuous and noble thing just because it's the right virtuous and noble thing to do, even when it costs us, even when there's a price tag attached. So we're just gonna do the right thing because it's the right thing, regardless of the consequences." [00:02:52]

"Integrity is something we celebrate and others. In fact, we actually expect it in others. The fact that we expect it and others points to this big ought to that kind of hangs out over all of us. An ought to that we didn't create, an ought to we can't seem to shake, an ought to that we hold other people accountable to this is what they ought to do." [00:03:07]

"Appetites are never fully and finally satisfied, right? In fact, appetites just have a one word vocabulary. Does anybody know what the one word vocabulary of an appetite is? More. It's more, which obviously fuels our discontentment and we see people who live better, drive better, marry better, better educated, have better opportunities, and we think to ourselves, well, gosh, if I had that or if I accomplished that, or if I accumulated that, or if I had gone to that school, or if I dated that, or if I, you know, I would be content." [00:08:36]

"Appetites always whisper now. They never whisper later, right. An appetite never says, let's just wait 'til tomorrow. That's not your appetite talking, right, that's something else. The appetites are not a fan of delay gratification. They're not a fan of delayed gratification. They tempt us to opt for immediate over ultimate. They attempt us to opt for now over later." [00:09:41]

"Maintaining your integrity could become an obstacle to achieving things as fast as you wanna achieve them. Your integrity could become an obstacle to advancing as quickly as you want to advance, doing the right thing may actually slow things down because as many of us have learned the hard way. Oftentimes the most direct route, the most direct route, isn't always the most ethical route." [00:11:01]

"Who would trade their integrity for a bowl of stew? Who would trade their self-respect for a bowl of stew? Who would trade their relationship with their kids or their future kids for a bowl of stew? Who would trade a valuable, valuable relationship that you hope to go the distance with for a bowl of stew? Who'd trade their reputation, their profession, their opportunity, the future for a bowl of stew?" [00:19:13]

"Esau decided it's not that big of a deal. Esau decided I don't care. If you'd walked up to Esau after he set the bows back down, he's walking off. He's like, ah, it's not a big deal, I don't care. This is exactly what we do. We decide we don't care when it's too late to care. We decide it really wasn't all that valuable after the fact when we've discounted the value through what we've done and now there's nothing we can do." [00:23:55]

"Your appetite, my appetite, our appetites, they will compete with our integrity. We will be forced to say no to one, either to satisfy the other or maintain the other. As concerning our appetites, compete for our future. We either rule them or they rule us. We rule them or they ruin us. And at some level we will all be tempted to trade our future for what amounts to a bowl of stew." [00:26:52]

"What is your bowl of stew? Not in the past, right now. What is competing right now with your integrity? What's competing for your preferred future. You know what I mean by a preferred future? Preferred future is if I were to say to you, hey, what do you see, where do you see yourself in five years, 10 years? Where do you see yourself relationally, financially, spiritually?" [00:30:39]

"We have no idea, we have no idea what or who hangs in the balance of our decision of whether or not we choose to trade our future for something that's here now, and now and now and now and now it's gone. We have no idea, you have no idea what hang, you see, you think you do, I think I do, but the reason Esau wasn't concerned is because when he thought about what he was giving up, everything was just right here in front of him." [00:32:23]

"Would you be willing to stand up straight, sit up straight and decide once and for all now that you know what's at stake. I will not, I will not trade what I value most for something I have an appetite for now. I am not gonna trade what I value most, my preferred future, I'm not gonna trade what I value most, what I know God has for me in the future." [00:33:12]

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