Choosing Forgiveness: Overcoming Evil with Good

 

Summary

In today's reflection, we explored the profound and challenging call to resist the human inclination toward revenge, as outlined in Romans 12:17-21. The world often glorifies the idea of revenge, suggesting that it brings satisfaction and justice. However, the Bible presents a radically different perspective, urging us to leave vengeance to God and instead respond to evil with good. This teaching is not just a suggestion but a command that reflects the heart of the Gospel and the example set by Jesus Christ Himself. Jesus, who suffered the greatest injustice, chose forgiveness over retaliation, demonstrating the power of love and grace.

The passage from Romans reminds us that revenge is not only sinful but also destructive. It perpetuates cycles of violence and bitterness, whereas justice seeks closure and restoration. Revenge is driven by emotion and personal vendettas, while justice is rational and impartial. As followers of Christ, we are called to trust in God's ultimate justice, believing that He will set things right in His perfect timing. Our role is to live at peace with others, as much as it depends on us, and to be known as peacemakers.

Moreover, the passage challenges us to maintain our Christian witness by doing what is right in the eyes of everyone. This means living in a way that reflects the high standards of the Gospel, even when provoked or wronged. The world is watching, and our actions can either draw people to Christ or push them away. By choosing to overcome evil with good, we not only obey God's command but also demonstrate the transformative power of His love.

In a world that often encourages retaliation, let us be countercultural by embodying the principles of forgiveness, peace, and love. May we be reminded that our ultimate goal is not to seek revenge but to reflect the character of Christ in all that we do.

Key Takeaways:

1. Revenge vs. Justice: Revenge is driven by emotion and personal vendettas, while justice is rational and seeks closure. As Christians, we are called to trust in God's ultimate justice and leave vengeance to Him. This trust reflects our faith in God's righteousness and His promise to set things right. [12:09]

2. The Example of Jesus: Jesus, who suffered the greatest injustice, chose forgiveness over retaliation. His response to His enemies exemplifies the power of love and grace, teaching us to pray for those who wrong us and to overcome evil with good. [04:58]

3. Living as Peacemakers: Romans 12:18 encourages us to live at peace with everyone, as much as it depends on us. This means taking responsibility for our actions and striving to be peacemakers, reflecting the heart of the Gospel in our relationships. [17:43]

4. Maintaining Our Witness: Our conduct is constantly under scrutiny, and we must be careful not to betray the high standards of the Gospel. By doing what is right in the eyes of everyone, we maintain our Christian witness and draw others to Christ. [14:54]

5. Overcoming Evil with Good: The call to overcome evil with good is a powerful testament to the transformative power of God's love. By choosing to respond to evil with acts of kindness and forgiveness, we reflect the character of Christ and bring glory to God. [19:41]

Youtube Chapters:

- [00:00] - Welcome
- [02:27] - Introduction to Romans 12:17-21
- [04:58] - The Call to Forgive
- [07:42] - Trusting God's Justice
- [10:16] - Revenge vs. Justice
- [12:09] - Differences Between Revenge and Justice
- [14:54] - Maintaining Our Christian Witness
- [17:43] - Living at Peace with Everyone
- [19:41] - Overcoming Evil with Good
- [23:00] - A Modern Example of Grace
- [25:50] - Final Reflections and Prayer

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
- Romans 12:17-21

#### Observation Questions
1. What specific instructions does Paul give in Romans 12:17-21 regarding how we should respond to evil? [02:27]
2. How does the sermon describe the difference between revenge and justice? [12:09]
3. What example from Jesus' life is highlighted in the sermon to illustrate forgiveness over retaliation? [04:58]
4. According to the sermon, what is the significance of living at peace with everyone, as mentioned in Romans 12:18? [17:43]

#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why does the sermon emphasize the importance of leaving vengeance to God, and how does this reflect our trust in His justice? [07:42]
2. How does the sermon suggest that our actions can either draw people to Christ or push them away? [14:54]
3. In what ways does the sermon suggest that overcoming evil with good can demonstrate the transformative power of God's love? [19:41]

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you were tempted to seek revenge. How might trusting in God's justice have changed your response? [07:42]
2. The sermon mentions the importance of maintaining our Christian witness. What are some practical ways you can ensure your actions reflect the high standards of the Gospel? [14:54]
3. Consider a current conflict in your life. How can you strive to live at peace with everyone involved, as much as it depends on you? [17:43]
4. Think of someone who has wronged you. How can you actively choose to overcome evil with good in that relationship? [19:41]
5. The sermon highlights the example of Jesus praying for His enemies. How can you incorporate prayer for those who have wronged you into your daily routine? [04:58]
6. Identify a situation where you can be a peacemaker this week. What steps will you take to promote peace in that context? [17:43]
7. How can you use your personal experiences of forgiveness to share the message of God's love with others? [19:41]

Devotional

Day 1: Trusting in God's Ultimate Justice
In a world that often glorifies revenge, the Bible calls us to a higher standard of justice. Revenge is driven by personal vendettas and emotions, leading to cycles of violence and bitterness. In contrast, justice seeks closure and restoration, reflecting God's righteousness. As Christians, we are called to trust in God's ultimate justice, believing that He will set things right in His perfect timing. This trust is not passive but an active faith in God's promise to bring about true justice. By leaving vengeance to God, we demonstrate our faith in His sovereignty and righteousness. [12:09]

"For the LORD loves justice; he will not forsake his saints. They are preserved forever, but the children of the wicked shall be cut off." (Psalm 37:28, ESV)

Reflection: Is there a situation in your life where you are tempted to seek revenge? How can you actively trust in God's justice instead?


Day 2: The Power of Forgiveness
Jesus Christ, who suffered the greatest injustice, chose forgiveness over retaliation. His response to His enemies exemplifies the power of love and grace. By choosing to forgive, we follow Jesus' example and demonstrate the transformative power of God's love. Forgiveness is not a sign of weakness but a testament to the strength of grace. It allows us to overcome evil with good and to pray for those who wrong us. This radical approach to forgiveness challenges us to reflect Christ's character in our interactions with others. [04:58]

"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:32, ESV)

Reflection: Think of someone who has wronged you. How can you begin to extend forgiveness to them today, following Jesus' example?


Day 3: Living as Peacemakers
Romans 12:18 encourages us to live at peace with everyone, as much as it depends on us. This means taking responsibility for our actions and striving to be peacemakers in our relationships. As followers of Christ, we are called to reflect the heart of the Gospel by promoting peace and reconciliation. Living as peacemakers requires humility, patience, and a commitment to resolving conflicts in a Christ-like manner. By doing so, we become ambassadors of God's peace in a world often marked by division and strife. [17:43]

"Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God." (Matthew 5:9, ESV)

Reflection: Is there a relationship in your life that needs peace and reconciliation? What steps can you take today to be a peacemaker in that situation?


Day 4: Maintaining Our Christian Witness
Our conduct is constantly under scrutiny, and we must be careful not to betray the high standards of the Gospel. By doing what is right in the eyes of everyone, we maintain our Christian witness and draw others to Christ. This requires us to live with integrity and authenticity, even when provoked or wronged. Our actions can either attract people to the Gospel or push them away. Therefore, we must strive to reflect Christ's love and truth in all that we do, maintaining a consistent witness to the world. [14:54]

"Keep your conduct among the Gentiles honorable, so that when they speak against you as evildoers, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day of visitation." (1 Peter 2:12, ESV)

Reflection: How can you ensure that your actions today reflect the high standards of the Gospel and maintain your Christian witness?


Day 5: Overcoming Evil with Good
The call to overcome evil with good is a powerful testament to the transformative power of God's love. By choosing to respond to evil with acts of kindness and forgiveness, we reflect the character of Christ and bring glory to God. This countercultural approach challenges us to rise above the world's standards and embody the principles of the Gospel. Overcoming evil with good requires courage, faith, and a deep reliance on God's strength. It is through these acts of love and grace that we can truly make a difference in the world. [19:41]

"Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." (Romans 12:21, ESV)

Reflection: What is one practical way you can respond to a challenging situation with goodness and grace today?

Quotes


But the Bible tells us not to seek revenge at all, not to serve revenge, hot or cold, or any temperature in between. In fact, it tells us in no uncertain terms that human vengeance is evil. It is sin. It is wrong. So why is it that so many Christians get seduced by it? We hold grudges. How many Christians? So why? [00:00:53]

The Bible says, Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath. For it is written, It is mine to avenge, I will repay. [00:02:21]

Jesus suffered the greatest injustice that anyone has ever suffered in the annals of all of human history. He was an innocent man who was nailed to a cross to die. And He tells us that He could have called down 12 legions of angels to avenge Him, to rescue Him, to obliterate His enemies. But what did He do? He prayed for them. Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do. [00:06:07]

To disobey this instruction is to repeat the very same sin committed in the Garden of Eden. It is to doubt God and to believe the tempter instead. And at its most elemental, it is, as verse 21 says, to be overcome by evil. To surrender to the vindictive impulse to get even is to let evil consume us and to be overcome by it. [00:08:45]

Revenge is primarily emotional. Justice is primarily rational. The second, revenge is personal by nature. Justice is impersonal and impartial. The third, revenge is an act of vindictiveness. Justice is an act of vindication. Those are two very different things. If you aren't aware of what the differences are, take the time to look them up. [00:11:28]

That's why verse 19, quoting from Deuteronomy, tells us to leave it to God to exact justice. Because God is just. Even His wrath is righteous. I wrote a paper in my Ph .D. program on the wrath of God. Even when God is enacting the wrath of God, it is just. It is called for. It is qualified. It is righteous. It is righteous. [00:13:30]

Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. That doesn't mean do what everybody by consensus agrees is right, because there really isn't anything that everyone will agree on in that respect. No. What it means, I think New Testament scholar Everett Harrison is right when he says it means, and I quote, that believers are constantly under the scrutiny of unsaved persons as well as fellow Christians. [00:15:12]

If it is possible, because it's not always possible. There are a lot of factors and variables involved in relationships. But if it is possible, as far as it depends on you, you can't control other people. But you can control yourself. As far as it depends on you, it says, live at peace with everyone. [00:17:43]

And instead of repaying evil for evil, it says at the last there in verse 21, overcome evil with good. Paul had just given an example of that with an Old Testament quote from Proverbs in verse 20. He recites, if your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head. [00:18:52]

In Luke chapter 6, Jesus said, I tell you who hear me, love your enemies. Talk about it and take a moment. Do good to those who hate you. Bless those who curse you. Pray for those who mistreat you. He says, do to others as you would have them do to you. That's the golden rule. Do to others as you would have them do to you. [00:19:41]

And the burning coals that's referenced here, there's been a lot of talk about what could that possibly mean. Well, I think it almost certainly refers to, as C .E .B. Cranfield in his commentary says, the burning pangs of shame and contrition that are so clearly revealed in light of the other's good turn toward their enemy. Shame, shame, that the other has. [00:20:40]

Now, let me ask you, if an irreverent, unbelieving, profane comedian, who is completely ignorant of what our text says that we ought to do, if he, in that ignorance, obeys the instructions that we find in our text, well, then don't you think that we Christians ought to be ashamed if we don't? I do. Let me finish by rereading those instructions one last time before I pray. [00:24:36]

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