Identity in Exile: Choosing Jesus Over Culture

Jan 04, 2026

Devotional

Day 1: From goal to culture: seven days of service

It’s a new year, and the invitation is simple: turn serving from a resolution into a way of life. Our shared vision is to saturate Spartanburg, the Carolinas, and the world with the good news by showing up in love. Imagine fourteen thousand days where people give at least three hours to bless a neighbor, lift a burden, or partner with a local ministry. When service becomes normal, not occasional, the gospel rings credible and close. Start praying now about your seven days, and ask God to make your passion contagious beyond these walls. [39:38]

Matthew 5:14–16 — You are the light that the world needs; a city set high cannot be hidden. No one lights a lamp to cover it; they place it where its glow fills the house. In the same way, let the goodness of your life be seen so people notice and honor your Father in heaven.

Reflection: What specific three-hour block will you set aside this month, and with whom will you serve so that your light is not hidden?

Day 2: When the world renames you, remember yours

Babylon tried to rewrite Daniel’s story by changing his language, education, and even his name. Culture still tries to name and claim you, offering labels that sound flattering or freeing but slowly detach you from who God says you are. Messages stream through screens and conversations, nudging what once seemed unthinkable into what feels normal. Being in the world but not of it means noticing those nudges and refusing the names that deny your Father. Your true name is spoken by God, not awarded by trends. [52:37]

Daniel 1:6–7 — Among the young men from Judah were Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah. The chief official assigned them new Babylonian names—calling Daniel Belteshazzar, Hananiah Shadrach, Mishael Meshach, and Azariah Abednego—signaling an attempt to shift their identity toward Babylon’s gods.

Reflection: Which cultural label has most tugged at your heart lately, and what daily reminder could help you hear the name God speaks over you first thing each morning?

Day 3: Decide Beforehand: Lines You Won’t Cross

Daniel made a predecision: he would not defile himself with the king’s table. He settled the issue in the calm so he could stand firm in the storm. Convictions chosen in daylight keep you steady when pressure rises and compromise feels easier. Holiness is not about fear; it is about belonging—living as someone already claimed by God. Choose your line now, and let that choice shape a thousand smaller choices later. [01:02:21]

Daniel 1:8–12 — Daniel resolved not to make himself unclean by eating the royal food or drinking the royal wine. He asked the official for permission, and when concerns arose, he proposed a test: for ten days, give us vegetables and water; then compare us with the others and decide based on what you see.

Reflection: Name one “king’s table” in your week—an environment where compromise is expected. What boundary will you set, and who will you tell for gentle accountability?

Day 4: Invite Others to Test God’s Good Way

Instead of rebellion or withdrawal, Daniel offered a gracious experiment—ten days to try God’s way. He honored authority while holding conviction, trusting that obedience would bear visible fruit. God met that courage with favor, and Daniel and his friends flourished beyond their peers. People around you may be open to a simple “come and see” if you’ll extend the invitation. Let your life be a low-risk, high-grace test drive of the goodness of God. [01:05:34]

Psalm 34:8–9 — Try this for yourself: the Lord is good; those who run to Him find joy and safety. Honor the Lord, you who belong to Him, for those who live in holy awe do not miss out on what they truly need.

Reflection: Who is one coworker, neighbor, or family member you could invite this week to a small, specific “try it”—a service project, prayer over a need, or a ten-day habit of wisdom?

Day 5: Rest in Your True Identity in Jesus

Chasing an ideal self is exhausting; receiving your true self in Christ is freeing. In Jesus, you are adopted—named son or daughter—and not defined by performance, popularity, or perfection. He calls the weary to Himself and gives rest that striving cannot purchase. Start this year by laying down the labels you’ve worn and standing in the name He gives you. From that settled place, obedience becomes response, not desperation. [01:11:03]

Galatians 4:4–7 — When the moment arrived, God sent His Son, born under the law, to buy our freedom so we could be adopted into His family. God placed the Spirit of His Son within us, teaching our hearts to cry, “Father!” You are no longer a slave but a child; and as His child, you are also an heir through God.

Reflection: Which false identity are you most tempted to reach for today, and what simple daily practice—like praying “Father, I belong to You” before you check your phone—could help you live from your adoption?

Sermon Summary

A bold invitation opens the year: move from goals to culture. Rather than just counting gospel conversations, the call is to embody the gospel through 14,000 days of service—each “day” being any focused, three-hour stretch of serving Jesus in Spartanburg, the Carolinas, and the world. From there, Daniel 1 frames how to live faithfully within a culture determined to reshape identity. Exile stripped Daniel and his friends of place, language, community, and even their names—an intentional strategy to detach them from the God who named them. The larger point is unmissable: the world still aims to name and claim, to catechize through constant messaging so that what once shocked becomes normal.

The turning point comes in Daniel 1:8: he resolves not to defile himself with the king’s food. That pre-decision made in the “cold light of day” governs every decision in the heat of pressure. With humility and wisdom, he proposes a ten-day test—embodied obedience, observable fruit. Faithfulness isn’t a bunker; it’s an invitation for skeptics to “test-drive” God’s way and see its goodness. God honors this resolve, granting favor, health, and unique gifts for witness.

Underneath every cultural debate sits the deeper issue of identity. Names changed in Babylon, but Daniel never called himself by the new label; he knew who he was. Today, the same tug-of-war persists between an exhausting “ideal self” built on performance and the “true self” received from God. The good news is not self-invention but adoption: in Christ, one is named son or daughter, loved before performing, secure before succeeding. That identity frees a person to be in the world—not of it—and to serve it with clarity, courage, and compassion. The invitation is clear: renounce borrowed labels, receive the name Jesus gives, and step into a year where faithful presence looks like measurable service, wise resistance, and open-handed witness.

Key Takeaways

1. Refuse culture’s renaming of you The world offers labels that feel plausible because they promise belonging or power, but they detach the soul from the God who names in love. Daniel models a quiet refusal to internalize imposed identities, even when everyone else complies. A Christian identity is not self-made; it’s received. Only the name God speaks can bear the weight of a life. [52:14]
2. Decide your decisions in advance Moral clarity is rarely forged under pressure; it’s prepared in prayer before the moment arrives. Daniel’s pre-decision set a nonnegotiable line that freed him from panic and consensus. Naming your boundary with God now makes courage possible later. Conscience trained early becomes ballast in cultural crosswinds. [1:02:21]
3. Offer a ten-day “test-drive” Faithfulness need not be combative to be courageous. Daniel proposes a limited, concrete experiment—obedience you can see, outcomes you can weigh. Inviting others to witness God’s way in real life often speaks louder than arguments. Testable obedience makes God’s wisdom visible and compelling. [1:04:19]
4. Turn vision into embodied service Grand vision becomes credible when it takes shape in time, place, and practice. Fourteen thousand days of service invites an entire church to translate conviction into calendars, presence, and love. Measurable service doesn’t cheapen spirituality; it deepens it by aiming our lives outward. Holiness and helpfulness belong together. [39:38]
5. Root identity in Christ alone Performance-built identities eventually collapse—there’s always another standard or stage. In Jesus, identity is adoption: beloved before achievement, secure beyond failure. That gift liberates from the tyranny of image and empowers resilient faithfulness in any culture. Live from the name God gives, not from the names you chase. [1:10:13]

Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[38:16] - Vision: gospel saturation focus
[39:38] - Goal: 14,000 days of service
[40:01] - Defining a “day” of service
[41:33] - Trends, anxiety, and fitting in
[43:52] - In the world, not of it
[44:33] - Daniel 1:1–7 read aloud
[46:41] - Exodus to exile: why it happened
[49:24] - Babylon’s re-education and identity loss
[52:14] - The world wants to name you
[59:47] - Daniel’s resolve not to defile
[1:02:21] - Make decisions before the pressure
[1:03:50] - The ten-day test of obedience
[1:06:42] - Identity: what truly defines you
[1:11:17] - Call to receive Christ’s identity

Bible Study Guide

Bible reading

Daniel 1:1–21

In the third year of the reign of Jehoiakim king of Judah, Nebuchadnezzar king of Babylon came to Jerusalem and besieged it. And the Lord delivered Jehoiakim king of Judah into his hand, along with some of the articles from the temple of God. These he carried off to the temple of his god in Babylonia and put in the treasure house of his god.

Then the king ordered Ashpenaz, chief of his court officials, to bring into the king's service some of the Israelites from the royal family and the nobility— young men without any physical defect, handsome, showing aptitude for every kind of learning, well informed, quick to understand, and qualified to serve in the king's palace. He was to teach them the language and literature of the Babylonians. The king assigned them a daily amount of food and wine from the king's table. They were to be trained for three years, and after that they were to enter the king's service.

Among those who were chosen were some from Judah: Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael and Azariah. The chief official gave them new names: to Daniel, the name Belteshazzar; to Hananiah, Shadrach; to Mishael, Meshach; and to Azariah, Abednego.

But Daniel resolved not to defile himself with the royal food and wine, and he asked the chief official for permission not to defile himself this way. Now God had caused the official to show favor and compassion to Daniel, but the official told Daniel, "I am afraid of my lord the king, who has assigned your food and drink. Why should he see you looking worse than the other young men your age? The king would then have my head because of you."

Daniel then said to the guard whom the chief official had appointed over Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael and Azariah, "Please test your servants for ten days: Give us nothing but vegetables to eat and water to drink. Then compare our appearance with that of the young men who eat the royal food, and treat your servants in accordance with what you see." So he agreed to this and tested them for ten days.

At the end of the ten days they looked healthier and better nourished than any of the young men who ate the royal food. So the guard took away their choice food and the wine they were to drink and gave them vegetables instead.

To these four young men God gave knowledge and understanding of all kinds of literature and learning. And Daniel could understand visions and dreams of all kinds.

At the end of the time set by the king to bring them into his service, the chief official presented them to Nebuchadnezzar. The king talked with them, and he found none equal to Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael and Azariah; so they entered the king's service. In every matter of wisdom and understanding about which the king questioned them, he found them ten times better than all the magicians and enchanters in his whole kingdom.

And Daniel remained there until the first year of King Cyrus.

Observation questions

From Daniel 1:3–7, what specific steps did Babylon take to reshape the exiles’ identity? Which of these steps most directly targeted their sense of belonging?
In Daniel 1:8–10, how did Daniel express his resolve not to defile himself? What tone do you see in his approach to the chief eunuch?
What exactly was the ten-day test in Daniel 1:12–16, and what were the results?
How is a “day” of service being defined for our church’s goal this year? [40:01]

Interpretation questions

Daniel “determined” not to defile himself (1:8). What does this teach about forming convictions before pressure hits, and how might that differ from making decisions on the fly? [01:02:21]
Why is Babylon’s renaming strategy (1:6–7) spiritually significant? Where today do people most feel the pull to accept new labels and scripts about who they are? [53:34]
Daniel proposes a test rather than a protest (1:12–13). What does this reveal about a wise, humble posture in a hostile culture? How could “testable obedience” make God’s wisdom visible to skeptics? [01:03:50]
Identity received from God (adoption) versus identity achieved by performance: why does one lead to rest and the other to exhaustion? [01:10:13]

Application questions

Refuse culture’s renaming: What label or script have you felt pressured to accept lately (at work, online, among friends)? Name it. What would it look like this week to quietly refuse to internalize it and to live from the name God has given you instead? [52:14]
Decide your decisions in advance: Identify one clear boundary you will hold in the next month (media, dating, finances, integrity at work, substances, etc.). What is it, why that line, and who will you tell for accountability? [01:02:21]
Offer a ten-day test-drive: Who in your life could you invite into a short, concrete “trial” of God’s way—reading Scripture together for ten days, praying at lunch for two weeks, or practicing a Sabbath evening? What’s your plan and start date? [01:04:19]
Turn vision into embodied service: Pick one three-hour block in the next 30 days to count as a “day” of service. Where will you serve, with whom, and who will benefit? Put it on the calendar before you leave group. [39:38]
Resist quiet catechism: What practical guardrails will you set around media so your heart is shaped more by Scripture than by algorithms (time limits, fasting days, content filters, choosing long-form over short-form)? [53:34]
Root identity in Christ: When anxiety rises, what simple practices help you rehearse your adopted name—son/daughter—before any performance (a short prayer, a Scripture you speak aloud, a trusted friend who reminds you)? Share one you will use this week. [01:11:03]

Sermon Clips

32s

#TestDriveFaith

“Which means that if we wanna be the kind of people who change culture, not simply endure it, we have to be willing to invite the unbelieving world to test how good God really is. We have to be willing to say, hey, come come join me in this journey. Come see the struggle with me. See what it looks like to follow Jesus. Come with me and see how good God is. And that's what it means to follow Jesus. It's not just us going on a walk. It's inviting people to walk with us to see how good God really is.”

31s

#IdentityInChrist

“And it wasn't until Jesus came and changed my life forever I realized my thing is that I am a son of the God of the universe. Because he's declaring an identity over me that's not based on what I do, or how popular I am, or how good I am at the things I'm involved in. It's based on the fact that God looked at me and said, I am adopting you into my family and your mind. And and understanding that is critical to knowing what it looks like to navigate the world that you're in.”

30s

#ResistWorldlyLabels

“And the point to all of this is that the world wants to name you and claim you. It wants to name you. It wants to define your identity, and it wants to claim you for itself. That is the tug of war that you're found in on a daily basis where the world around you will attempt to create a new identity for you that is different than the identity that God has spoken over you.”

26s

#StandOutNotBlendIn

“So like often we we can marry the spirit of the age and then find ourselves orphans later on. There's this there's this real danger in being just like the world. And so we have to find a way to distinguish ourselves to live within the world, but then also not just be consumed by it. Because the most dangerous thing is actually fitting in and just being like a godless population.”

29s

#ObedienceOutperforms

“And at the end of those ten days, what they find is Daniel and his friends outperform everybody else in the academy. They look healthier than everybody else, and they find that nobody else has the same gifts and abilities. In fact, Daniel's been given the opportunity to interpret dreams, is something that only God can give. And so you find God using this test drive to bring an idea of faith to a man who's never heard the name of God, this chief eunuch, because of Daniel and his three friends' obedience.”

36s

#ExodusAndExile

“In fact, in the story of God's people, there are two huge events that really rise above almost everything else in the biblical storyline. So there's the the bringing of the people into the promised land through the exodus where they're brought out of captivity in Egypt and they take the promised land. That's a massive event. Another massive event is the exile. So you have exodus and exile. Exile was when God brought his judgment on the people of God because they continue to chase after the idols in the nations around them.”

31s

#TenDayFaithTrial

“Come get us. You know? He could have been like, hey, let's start a revolution with all the people who've been like outcasts brought out from like their nations. This is like started like a guerrilla movement. Like, could have done a lot of different things. Right? What does he do? He says, I'm going to invite my boss to have a test drive on what it means to follow God. And the way that's gonna work is for ten days, we're just gonna eat vegetables and water and we're gonna do things God's way and let's just see if God blesses it. What an interesting way to interact with the world. Right?”

39s

#LoyaltyOverLuxury

“You see, the king's food was actually an honor. Eating the steak and the the meat, the the the opulent food that was offered to them meant that they were eating better than anybody else in the kingdom. It also meant that they were making a commitment to the king. When you receive the king's food, it meant that you're choosing to be underneath his leadership and his authority, that you're choosing to be underneath his his vision for the world. But it also meant that Daniel would be living a life where he was no longer keeping the kosher laws of what it meant to be a Jewish man.”

27s

#CourageToFollowGod

“Because here's the thing that we find out about the way that we want to live our lives as people in submission to the scriptures, is that we believe that the way God set up marriage is what really works. The way that God set up personal identity really works. The way that God created men and women to interact with the world really works. God knows what he's doing. We just have to have the courage to follow him.”

49s

#FreedomInTrueIdentity

“It's who you really are. And when you can live in your true identity of being somebody that God said, I love you so much that went to the cross for you. Man, that's really freeing. It's the most freeing decision you can make. Say, I am going to be somebody who my identity is found and who Jesus says that I am. Not what the world says, not what culture says, not what my friends say, not what my parents said, but who Jesus said I am. That's enough. Then your life changes. Jesus said, come to me all who are weary and I'll give you rest. I think it's tied up in this idea of trying to be somebody rather than being who God wanted you to be.”

29s

#ShiftTheOvertonWindow

“And then we put policy behind it. Here's the thing with the Overton window is you can shift it. Things that at one point were unthinkable or radical, you can start bringing those things into the world, into a place where you're like, that's just normal now. Things that at one point were like, man, that that should be criminalized or that should be something no one would ever think about. As you begin to expose people to radical ideas, eventually they become normal ideas, popular ideas, and policy that our country adopts.”

36s

#BeSaltAndLight

“And so we have to find a way to distinguish ourselves to live within the world, but then also not just be consumed by it. Because the most dangerous thing is actually fitting in and just being like a godless population. God has called us to be salt and light. And sometimes we're swimming upstream and it's very difficult and painful. The headwinds push against us, but we still must remain faithful to our identity of being people called out by Jesus and point people to what God wants us to do, the way that God's created the world. So how do we do that?”

32s

#IAmDaniel

“Daniel has lost everything. He's got a Babylonian identity that's being put upon him. He makes a decision. And his decision is, you don't own me and you don't name me. You never find him refer to himself as Belteshazzar throughout the book. Other people do. Daniel continues to call himself Daniel through the entire book. He never embraces this other identity. And it comes to this decision where he says, I'm not gonna eat the king's food. Now why is that significant?”

35s

#MediaShapesWorldview

“I just wanna put in front of you that the the world that we live in is saturated with messaging that is trying to create systems in the way that you think that are contrary to the narratives of scripture. And if you don't know that, you need to open your eyes. Because every bit of media that you see out there is trying to tell you something, and it's often not the thing that they're telling you that it's all about. It's something else that's within that messaging to make you believe that the world is different than the worldview that's expressed in the scriptures.”

27s

#CulturalAssimilationCosts

“They're forced to learn the Chaldean language. They no longer speak Hebrew. They no longer live as Hebrews. Their families, they'll never see them again. Their entire experience of being a young Jewish boy has been changed. They are probably made eunuchs, so they have no further ambitions to have a family for themselves. Everything's changed around them. They even changed their names.”

46s

#CovenantOverConvenience

“You see, God has set up a whole list of things that they couldn't eat because he said, you're gonna be my covenant people. You're gonna be different than everybody else. You can't eat bacon, which is too bad. Right? But there's a whole list of other things that they couldn't eat. But if Daniel ate the king's food, he would be leaving behind the the the ordinances that God had put in front of him. So he and his friends decide they're not gonna eat the the king's food. They're actually only gonna eat fruit and vegetables and water. They're not gonna enter into what everybody else is doing. And this moment is a key decision moment in Daniel's life because he makes a decision about all the rest of his decisions. He says, I'm gonna not defile myself. I'm not gonna enter into it.”

50s

#TrueSelfInGod

“Because here's the thing, all of us face this tension between our ideal self and our real self. What I mean by that is like, we're all trying to be our ideal self. Like, what does it look like to be the best version of my life? And so we try to be what everybody wants us to be, and that's exhausting. Trying to be the best dad, the best kid, the best best employee. Because what we're trying to do is we're trying to get somebody to say, you're lovable. At the end, if you try to be your ideal self, your perfect self, you're gonna break and fall apart because there's nobody perfect other than Jesus. But you can be your true self, which is not, hey, do thy own self be true and I'm just gonna go find my own fulfillment. Your true self is who God says you are.”

25s

#MoreThanANationality

“there weren't a whole lot of Americans there. Why? Because it was the most dangerous place in the world for Americans. So I was like the only white kid walking around in every other, like, environment. Like on the street, people are like, Gringo. Right? I mean, literally stood out. So that became my identity. Who am I? I'm the American. What happens when the American moves to America? You have nothing that makes you different.”

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