Character and Integrity in Church Leadership

 

Summary

In today's gathering, we explored the profound significance of character, particularly in those who serve as leaders within the church. Reflecting on 1 Timothy 3, we delved into the qualities that are essential for anyone aspiring to be an overseer or deacon. These roles are not merely titles but are deeply rooted in the character and integrity of the individuals who hold them. The story of Jim George, who chose honesty over convenience, serves as a powerful reminder that character is who we truly are, even when no one is watching.

The Bible outlines specific character traits for church leaders, emphasizing that they must be above reproach, self-controlled, and hospitable, among other qualities. These traits are not just for leaders but are ideals for all Christians to strive toward. The role of a deacon, derived from the Greek word "diakonos," meaning servant, is a call to serve with humility and integrity. Deacons are not meant to be rulers but servants who meet the practical needs of the church while maintaining a spiritual purpose.

We also discussed the importance of sincerity and consistency in speech, avoiding the pitfalls of being double-tongued or pursuing dishonest gain. The example of Daniel Drew, who appeared religious but engaged in dishonest business practices, illustrates the dangers of lacking integrity. True greatness, as George W. Truitt noted, lies in unselfish service to others, not in talents, wealth, or social status.

The ordination of deacons is not just a call to higher service but an affirmation of those already serving faithfully. It is a recognition of their commitment to the work of God, both financially and sacrificially. As we ordain new deacons, we are reminded that the hallmark of Christian maturity is a servant's heart. The ultimate goal is for all Christians to embody the character of Christ, serving humbly and selflessly in His kingdom.

Key Takeaways:

- Character and Integrity: True character is revealed in moments of choice, as illustrated by Jim George's decision to uphold honesty despite potential loss. Our character is who we are when no one is watching, and it is crucial for those in leadership roles to embody integrity and truthfulness. [01:31]

- Biblical Qualifications for Leaders: The Bible provides clear guidelines for the character of church leaders, emphasizing qualities like being above reproach, self-controlled, and hospitable. These traits are not just for leaders but are ideals for all Christians to strive toward, reflecting the character of Christ. [04:47]

- The Role of Deacons: Deacons are called to serve with humility and integrity, meeting the practical needs of the church while maintaining a spiritual purpose. Their role is not one of authority but of service, exemplifying the biblical principle that greatness comes through servanthood. [09:01]

- Sincerity and Consistency: A deacon must be sincere, not double-tongued, and avoid pursuing dishonest gain. Consistency in speech and actions is vital, as illustrated by the story of Daniel Drew, who lacked integrity despite his religious appearance. [13:17]

- Servanthood as Greatness: True greatness lies in unselfish service to others, as noted by George W. Truitt. The ordination of deacons is an affirmation of those already serving faithfully, and the hallmark of Christian maturity is a servant's heart, striving to embody the character of Christ. [23:07]

Youtube Chapters:

- [00:00] - Welcome
- [01:31] - The Story of Jim George
- [03:53] - Importance of Character in Leadership
- [04:47] - Biblical Qualifications for Overseers
- [06:00] - Role and Character of Deacons
- [08:11] - Meaning of "Deacon"
- [09:01] - Servanthood in Scripture
- [10:09] - Spiritual Purpose of Service
- [11:41] - Qualities of a Deacon
- [13:17] - Sincerity and Integrity
- [15:23] - Avoiding Dishonest Gain
- [16:19] - Financial Integrity
- [17:37] - Women as Deacons
- [20:33] - Faithfulness and Monogamy
- [23:07] - Servanthood as True Greatness
- [25:10] - Encouragement and Prayer

Study Guide

Bible Study Discussion Guide

Bible Reading:
- 1 Timothy 3:1-13

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Observation Questions:

1. What specific character traits does 1 Timothy 3:1-13 highlight as essential for overseers and deacons? How do these traits reflect the character of Christ? [04:47]

2. According to the sermon, what was the significance of Jim George's decision regarding the sale of his boat trailer? How does this story illustrate the importance of character? [01:31]

3. How does the role of a deacon, as described in the sermon, differ from common misconceptions about church leadership roles? [09:01]

4. What examples from the sermon illustrate the dangers of lacking integrity, as seen in the story of Daniel Drew? [15:23]

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Interpretation Questions:

1. How does the requirement for church leaders to be "above reproach" and "self-controlled" in 1 Timothy 3:1-13 apply to all Christians, not just those in leadership? [04:47]

2. In what ways does the sermon suggest that true greatness is found in servanthood, and how does this align with Jesus' teachings in Matthew 20? [10:09]

3. How does the sermon use the example of deacons to illustrate the importance of sincerity and consistency in speech and actions? [13:17]

4. What does the sermon suggest about the relationship between financial integrity and spiritual leadership, particularly in the context of deacons? [16:19]

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Application Questions:

1. Reflect on a recent situation where you faced a choice between convenience and integrity. How did you respond, and what might you do differently in the future? [01:31]

2. Consider the character traits listed in 1 Timothy 3:1-13. Which of these traits do you find most challenging to embody, and what steps can you take to develop them in your life? [04:47]

3. How can you practice servanthood in your daily life, following the example of deacons as described in the sermon? What specific actions can you take this week to serve others selflessly? [09:01]

4. Think about a time when you may have been "double-tongued" or inconsistent in your speech. How can you work towards greater sincerity and consistency in your communication? [13:17]

5. Reflect on your approach to financial integrity. Are there areas where you need to align more closely with biblical principles? What changes can you make to ensure honesty in your financial dealings? [16:19]

6. How can you support and encourage the deacons and leaders in your church, recognizing their commitment to serving with integrity and humility? [24:12]

7. In what ways can you strive to embody the character of Christ in your interactions with others, both within and outside the church community? [27:56]

Devotional

Day 1: Integrity in Solitude
Character is revealed in moments of choice, especially when no one is watching. The story of Jim George illustrates the importance of choosing honesty over convenience, highlighting that true character is not dependent on external validation but is an internal compass guiding one's actions. For those in leadership, embodying integrity and truthfulness is crucial, as it sets a standard for others to follow. This principle is not limited to leaders but is a call for all Christians to live authentically, reflecting the character of Christ in every aspect of life. [01:31]

"Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out." (Proverbs 10:9, ESV)

Reflection: Think of a recent situation where you had to make a choice without anyone watching. How did your decision reflect your character, and what would you do differently if given another chance?


Day 2: The Call to Exemplary Leadership
The Bible provides clear guidelines for the character of church leaders, emphasizing qualities like being above reproach, self-controlled, and hospitable. These traits are not just for leaders but are ideals for all Christians to strive toward, reflecting the character of Christ. Leadership in the church is not about holding a title but about embodying these virtues in everyday life. By aspiring to these qualities, Christians can better serve their communities and honor God in their actions. [04:47]

"Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach." (1 Timothy 3:2, ESV)

Reflection: Identify one of the biblical qualities of leadership that you find challenging. What practical steps can you take this week to develop this trait in your life?


Day 3: Servanthood as a Path to Greatness
Deacons are called to serve with humility and integrity, meeting the practical needs of the church while maintaining a spiritual purpose. Their role is not one of authority but of service, exemplifying the biblical principle that greatness comes through servanthood. This calling is a reminder that true leadership is about serving others selflessly, following the example of Christ who came not to be served but to serve. [09:01]

"But whoever would be great among you must be your servant, and whoever would be first among you must be slave of all." (Mark 10:43-44, ESV)

Reflection: Consider a way you can serve someone in your community this week without expecting anything in return. How can this act of service reflect the heart of Christ?


Day 4: Consistency in Speech and Action
A deacon must be sincere, not double-tongued, and avoid pursuing dishonest gain. Consistency in speech and actions is vital, as illustrated by the story of Daniel Drew, who lacked integrity despite his religious appearance. This serves as a warning against hypocrisy and a call to align one's words with their actions, ensuring that their life is a true reflection of their faith. [13:17]

"Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person." (Colossians 4:6, ESV)

Reflection: Reflect on your recent conversations. Is there an area where your words and actions have not aligned? How can you bring them into harmony this week?


Day 5: Maturity Through a Servant's Heart
True greatness lies in unselfish service to others, as noted by George W. Truitt. The ordination of deacons is an affirmation of those already serving faithfully, and the hallmark of Christian maturity is a servant's heart, striving to embody the character of Christ. This maturity is not measured by talents, wealth, or social status but by the willingness to serve others selflessly, reflecting the love and humility of Jesus. [23:07]

"Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves." (Philippians 2:3, ESV)

Reflection: Think of a person in your life who exemplifies a servant's heart. What qualities do they possess that you can emulate in your own journey toward spiritual maturity?

Quotes

"Back in 2003, a man named Jim George published a book entitled, God's Man of Influence, Living a Life of Lasting Influence. In the book, he tells about a time when he was trying to sell a used boat trailer, but it was the middle of winter. It was 30 degrees outside. No one was boating, but a potential buyer did contact him. He was even willing to pay the asking price, but there was one catch. He wanted George to put on the bill of sale. He wanted George to sell half of the actual sales price." [00:44:43]

"he wouldn't have to pay half of the state sales tax which amounted to several hundred dollars i really want to sell that trailer was my first thought he says but if i say no he might back out and i might not find anyone else who will pay my asking price if i agree i'll be lying not to mention breaking the law but who would know i knew what i should do but still i was having this inner struggle he says finally he said i told him i was a christian and couldn't do anything illegal the man went ahead and bought the trailer anyway and i declared the full amount on the bill of sale but i was prepared to lose the sale to be obedient to god's standards does being truthful matter anymore does character count in this day and age it seems most americans prefer the lies they like to the truth that they don't but i would maintain that character does count particularly in those who are our leaders and examples as we're going to see in our sermon text this morning character counts because our character is who we really are the legendary ucla basketball coach" [00:93:64]

"Now the overseer must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife, temperate, self -controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not given to drunkenness, not violent, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him with proper respect." [00:296:39]

"Deacons, likewise. Are to be men worthy of respect, sincere, not indulging in much wine, and not pursuing dishonest gain. They must keep hold of the deep truths of the faith with a clear conscience. They must first be tested, and then, if there is nothing against them, let them serve as deacons." [00:344:99]

"Deacon is the same kind of word. It's a Greek word, and the derivation of that word is uncertain. Many have pointed out it has something to do with dust, through the dust, or to raise dust, which is taken as a metaphor for menial service. As a servant would stir up the dust in their acts of service. And so it really means one who serves or one who ministers." [00:491:02]

"They did the table waiting, but the spiritual purpose was in order to preserve peace in the fellowship. to safeguard the unity of God's people that's why deacons should have a certain character about them and remember that in God's scheme of things it is the servants who are great the Christian steps up in the kingdom of God by stepping down to serve here's how Jesus put it in Matthew chapter 20 he said you know that the rulers of the" [00:630:47]

"Julian Lennon is the son of John Lennon, the Beatle, the famous musician who was murdered in 1980. But in a later interview after he had grown up, he said this about his father. He said, I felt the same way about my father. I felt the same way about my father. I felt the same way about my father. I felt the same way about my father. I felt the same way about my father. He was a hypocrite." [00:817:92]

"Back in the 19th century, a wealthy stock trader named Daniel Drew was the founder of Drew Seminary, now a part of Drew University in New York. Mr. Drew also served on several religious boards and committees. Publicly, he was a very religious man, but his business dealings told a different story. When he was in the cattle business, he reportedly fed his cattle." [00:935:81]

"screened if you will the ordination of a person to the role of deacon should be less of a call to a higher level of service than it is an affirmation of a person who is already serving giving the servant the title that befits what it is that they are already doing and now verses 11 and 12 probably spark some questions in verse let me just read them for you again from the niv it says in the same way that's likewise using that same word again likewise meaning all of the the previous stuff just like all of that uh that must be carried forward to these others the niv says their wives are to be women worthy of respect not malicious talkers but temperate and trustworthy in everything now the niv at least has a marginal note that says in the place of wives it says it could be deaconesses because the greek word is the same for both wife and woman so and there the the the word there is not in the greek text either so what i sincerely believe is actually being said here is that the women who are deacons must likewise do these things in fact the first" [00:1057:23]

"Servanthood isn't just the mark of maturity either. As we said earlier, it's the mark of greatness. George W. Truitt, the late Baptist statesman, for whom the seminary at Baylor University is named, longtime pastor of First Baptist Church of Dallas, Texas, the first half of the 20th century, a hallmark. Statesman in Baptist life." [00:1356:54]

"True greatness, consists in the use of all the talents one has. has an unselfish ministry or service to others. A deacon has a servant's heart. And notice that the last verse of this section of Scripture, verse 13, it says that those who serve well gain an excellent standing, or a high status, if you will. What do you do if a table waiter gives you excellent service?" [00:1407:38]

"The Bible says character counts in church leadership, and it counts in all of life. A .W. Tozer said, As the excellence of steel is strength, and the excellence of art is beauty, so the excellence of humankind is moral character. What about you? Does your character measure up to some of these characteristics that we've seen in the text this morning?" [00:1626:00]

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