Care begins with the church’s mission to “live out God’s love everywhere that we go.” God’s love cannot stay bottled up as doctrine in people’s heads or as something said correctly about Jesus. God’s love has to get lived out with hands and feet, in work, school, neighborhoods, families, and all the places that fill the rest of the week.
Care also names one of the holy things that never really shows up as a line item in a church budget. A changed life, a person finding where they belong, or somebody learning in the middle of an incredible struggle that God is with them cannot be measured by a building, a renovation, or average worship attendance. The church’s staff can help set up ministry, but God’s love calls the whole body of Christ to be the ministry everywhere it goes.
Jesus’ story of the Good Samaritan gives care a face. The legal expert wants to know exactly who counts as a neighbor, and Jesus makes the shocking enemy figure, the Samaritan, the one who stops. The Samaritan sees the beaten man, is moved with compassion, goes to him, pays for his care, and promises to return. Care refuses to walk by what it sees.
The Samaritan’s care also happens spontaneously. Care does not wait for an Outlook calendar appointment or a perfectly planned moment to be available. Busyness, fear, and the assumption that nothing can be done can all move people to the other side of the road. Compassion moves toward the need that is right in front of it.
Henri Nouwen’s picture of care deepens that call. Care means to lament with, to cry with, and to share in another person’s pain. Care means being with someone even when there is no fix and no cure. The difference between care and cure matters, because Christ’s people are not the saviors who arrive with all the answers.
Kinship also has to come before caregiving. Every person is first a beloved child of God, before being unhoused, divorced, addicted, wounded, or labeled by any other part of life. Judgment creates distance, but compassion sees a neighbor, family, and someone precious in God’s sight. The blessing then comes back through the person receiving care, because the face of Jesus meets those who truly see and stay present.
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Key Takeaways
- 1. Care refuses to walk by Care begins when compassion sees a need and moves toward it rather than finding a reason to pass on the other side. The Samaritan does not first decide whether the wounded man deserves help. Care makes room for interruption because another person’s pain has become real. [40:39]
- 2. Being with is not fixing Care does not require a cure before it can be faithful. Presence beside grief, loss, illness, or struggle can say, “You are not alone,” even when nothing can be reversed. The need to fix everything can keep people from offering the quieter and holier gift of staying. [46:37]
- 3. Kinship comes before caregiving Caregiver and care receiver belong to one another as beloved children of God. Judgment turns people into categories and keeps compassion at a safe distance. Kinship sees the person before the label, the need, the mistake, or the circumstance. [49:44]
- 4. Those in need can bless Care becomes exhausting when it is built on the idea that one person has everything and another has nothing. The face of Jesus meets those who serve when they receive the dignity, gifts, and humanity of the person before them. Blessing is not earned through service but received through holy connection.
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Youtube Chapters
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [27:48] - Living Out God’s Love Everywhere
- [28:28] - What a Church Budget Cannot Measure
- [30:22] - Stewardship Beyond Financial Giving
- [31:44] - Love Beyond Sunday Morning
- [33:22] - What Does Care Mean?
- [33:59] - The Good Samaritan’s Shock
- [38:37] - Care That Is Ready and Available
- [40:39] - Refusing to Walk By
- [42:44] - Henri Nouwen and the Spirituality of Caregiving
- [45:32] - Care Is Being With
- [47:14] - Kinship Without Judgment
- [51:20] - Receiving Blessing Through Care
- [54:19] - Living Out God’s Love Through Care