Building Genuine Community in the Church
Summary
In today's sermon, we explored the concept of community within the church, drawing inspiration from the early church as described in Acts 2:42-47. The early believers lived out a profound sense of community, not only knowing each other's names but sharing their lives, resources, and experiences of God's wonders. They met daily, broke bread in their homes, and praised God together, embodying a togetherness that went beyond superficial interactions.
We delved into the importance of participation and genuine relationships within the church, contrasting it with the lack of real connection often found in modern church experiences. The church is not merely a tool for our faith; it is the center of our faith, with Jesus as the foundation. We examined 1 Corinthians 12, where Paul addresses the Corinthian church's issues and uses the human body as a metaphor for the church. Each member of the body of Christ has a unique role, and God has placed us in the church for a reason.
We also discussed the upcoming community events, including a traditional Jewish meal for Christ our Passover and a community Good Friday service, emphasizing the importance of coming together as a church family.
Furthermore, we heard a poignant story about a biker who, after a life-changing encounter with the gospel, was disappointed by the lack of genuine community in the church. This story highlighted the need for real participation and relationships within the church, akin to the support found in groups like AA.
Finally, we were encouraged to spend time with God and with each other, to truly participate in each other's lives, and to be the body of Christ in action, not just in name. We were reminded that our relationship with God and each other requires active participation, and we were called to step up and play our part in the church.
Key Takeaways:
- The early church serves as a model for our community, demonstrating that sharing life together goes beyond mere acquaintance to a deep, resource-sharing, daily-meeting, God-praising fellowship. This is the kind of community we strive to create within our church, where our offerings reflect our commitment to one another in Christ. [33:52]
- Genuine relationships within the church are not about superficial greetings or using the church as a tool. Instead, the church should be the center of our faith, where we actively participate in each other's lives, supporting and caring for one another as a true family in Christ. [51:22]
- The metaphor of the body in 1 Corinthians 12 teaches us that every member of the church has a unique and God-ordained role. We are here because God wants us here, and we must embrace our part in the body, ensuring that we support and honor each other, regardless of our differences. [54:40]
- Our relationship with God is strengthened by spending time in His presence, just as our relationships with each other are deepened by spending time together. We must prioritize these relationships, not only in church settings but in our daily lives, to foster a strong and supportive community. [57:14]
- The story of the biker reminds us that the world is watching how we live out our relationships within the church. Our community should reflect the love and care that we profess, and we must ensure that our participation in each other's lives is genuine and meaningful. [49:17]
Study Guide
### Bible Study Discussion Guide
#### Bible Reading
- Acts 2:42-47
- 1 Corinthians 12:12-27
#### Observation Questions
1. According to Acts 2:42-47, what were some of the key activities that the early church devoted themselves to?
2. In 1 Corinthians 12, Paul uses the metaphor of the body to describe the church. What does he say about the different parts of the body and their importance? ([52:54])
3. The sermon mentioned a story about a biker who felt disappointed by the lack of genuine community in the church. What was his main concern? ([49:17])
4. What upcoming community events were highlighted in the sermon, and why are they important for fostering community? ([35:07])
#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does the description of the early church in Acts 2:42-47 challenge our modern understanding of church community?
2. Paul emphasizes that every member of the church has a unique role. How does this understanding affect the way we view our own contributions to the church? ([54:16])
3. The biker's story highlights a gap between expectation and reality in church community. What steps can be taken to bridge this gap? ([49:17])
4. The sermon stressed the importance of spending time with God and each other. How does this practice strengthen our relationships within the church? ([57:00])
#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your current participation in church activities. Are there ways you can be more involved in fostering genuine relationships within the church? ([49:17])
2. Think about the metaphor of the body in 1 Corinthians 12. What unique role do you believe God has given you in the church, and how can you embrace it more fully? ([54:16])
3. The early church met daily and shared their lives deeply. What practical steps can you take to create a similar sense of community in your small group or church? ([33:01])
4. The sermon mentioned the importance of spending time in God's presence. What specific actions can you take this week to deepen your relationship with God? ([57:00])
5. How can you contribute to the upcoming community events mentioned in the sermon, and why is your participation important? ([35:07])
6. The biker's story serves as a reminder that people are watching how we live out our faith. How can you ensure that your interactions within the church reflect genuine care and support? ([49:17])
7. Consider someone in your church or small group who may feel disconnected. What can you do this week to reach out and include them in your community? ([49:17])
Devotional
Day 1: Embracing True Christian Fellowship
The early church exemplified a model of fellowship that transcends the superficial. Believers shared their lives, resources, and experiences with a depth that forged a strong, resilient community. This profound connection was characterized by daily meetings, communal meals, and collective worship, creating a tapestry of lives interwoven by their faith in Christ. Such a community was not merely about knowing each other's names but truly participating in each other's lives. This level of fellowship requires a commitment to be present, both physically and emotionally, and to contribute to the well-being of the collective body of believers. It's a call to move beyond the comfort zone of casual acquaintance and into the vulnerability and richness of true Christian fellowship. [33:52]
Acts 2:44-46 (ESV): "And all who believed were together and had all things in common. And they were selling their possessions and belongings and distributing the proceeds to all, as any had need. And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they received their food with glad and generous hearts."
Reflection: How can you deepen your involvement in your church community to mirror the fellowship of the early church?
Day 2: Centering Faith in Communal Life
The church is not a mere backdrop for individual faith journeys; it is the heart of our collective walk with Christ. As members of one body, the importance of nurturing genuine relationships within the church cannot be overstated. These relationships are the sinews that bind the body of Christ, allowing it to function harmoniously and with purpose. The church should be a place where people find not only spiritual guidance but also the warmth of a family in Christ. This means looking beyond Sunday services and engaging with one another in a way that reflects the love and support that Jesus exemplified. It's about making the church the center of our faith, where every interaction is an opportunity to strengthen the bonds of our spiritual family. [51:22]
1 Thessalonians 2:8 (ESV): "So, being affectionately desirous of you, we were ready to share with you not only the gospel of God but also our own selves, because you had become very dear to us."
Reflection: What is one step you can take this week to transform your relationship with someone in your church from superficial to substantial?
Day 3: Honoring Our Unique Roles in Christ's Body
The metaphor of the body in 1 Corinthians 12 is a powerful reminder that diversity within the church is not only natural but essential. Each member has been given unique gifts and a specific role to play, and it is through the harmonious working of these different parts that the body of Christ thrives. God has placed each person in the church deliberately, with intention and purpose. It is crucial to recognize and honor the contributions of every individual, regardless of how different they may seem. Embracing our roles and celebrating the roles of others ensures that the church functions as a unified whole, reflecting the inclusive and multifaceted nature of God's kingdom. [54:40]
Romans 12:4-5 (ESV): "For as in one body we have many members, and the members do not all have the same function, so we, though many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another."
Reflection: What unique gift or role can you offer to your church community, and how can you encourage others to share theirs?
Day 4: Prioritizing Time with God and Each Other
The strength of our relationship with God and with our fellow believers is directly proportional to the time and effort we invest in them. Just as spending time in God's presence nurtures our spiritual growth, so does spending time with each other deepen our connections within the church. Prioritizing these relationships means making a conscious effort to be present, to listen, and to share life with one another. It's about creating spaces in our daily routines to encounter God and to be a source of support and encouragement to our brothers and sisters in Christ. This commitment to relationship-building is the bedrock of a vibrant and supportive community. [57:14]
Hebrews 10:24-25 (ESV): "And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near."
Reflection: How can you intentionally schedule time this week to deepen your relationship with God and someone in your church?
Day 5: Reflecting Christ's Love in Our Community
The story of the biker who sought genuine community within the church serves as a poignant reminder that the world is watching how we live out our faith. Our church community should be a reflection of the love, care, and authenticity that we profess. It's not enough to talk about Christian love; we must actively demonstrate it through our participation in each other's lives. This means being there for one another in times of need, celebrating each other's joys, and providing a safe space for spiritual growth and healing. When our community embodies these values, it becomes a beacon of hope and a testament to the transformative power of the gospel. [49:17]
1 John 3:18 (ESV): "Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth."
Reflection: What specific action can you take today to show genuine love and support to someone in your church community?
Quotes
1) "The early church was a community that truly lived out the essence of Cheers. They exemplified the heart of community, not just knowing each other's names but truly knowing each other, sharing life together, including their resources. And this morning as we come to a time of offering, let's remember that our tithes and offerings are more than just a financial transaction. They're a reflection of our community and togetherness in Christ." [33:52]
2) "The church shouldn't be a tool of our faith; it should be the center of our faith. Jesus is the foundation, but our faith should be centered around his body. Go ahead and turn your Bible to 1 Corinthians 12. Paul is talking to the Corinthian church, and he uses the metaphor of the body to explain that every member has a unique and God-ordained role." [51:22]
3) "God has placed the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be. If God has us here because He wants us here, it's a good reason to show up and be here and be part of each other's lives. The parts that we think are less honorable we treat with special honor, and the parts that are unpresentable are treated with special modesty." [55:42]
4) "Relationship equals participation. Let's not be the bobblehead church, just nodding along. James says to do what the word says. The word tells us to be the body, which means supporting each other, hurting when other members are hurting, and rejoicing when they are rejoicing. The body stays together, works together, and plays together." [01:09:54]
5) "Spend time with the body. At church, yes, that's a no-brainer. But it's more than that. We've got to spend time with the body outside of church as well. When Carrie and I were in Maryland, we were part of a community where people put each other first. And I've got to tell you, that was one of the most blessed moments and times in our life." [01:06:32]
6) "But in fact, God has placed the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be. If you think you're here because it's close by or for the worship, the Bible says no, you're here because God brought you here. He put you here. He brought you here because He wants you here." [54:40]
7) "How can we expect to have a real relationship with God if we only spend one hour a week in His presence? A little time with Him isn't going to make that relationship very strong. What's it like if you only spend an hour with your spouse a week, or your child a week? You probably feel the effects of not spending time in their presence." [58:14]
8) "There's a story of this biker who was part of this big biker gang. Through a series of events, he wound up hearing the gospel message and coming to the Lord. But after about two, two and a half months, he stopped coming to church. He was discouraged because he thought the church was going to be like his biker gang, where people really cared about each other." [49:17]