John’s letter opens with a staggering truth: God’s love isn’t measured or cautious. It’s poured out extravagantly, rewriting our identity. To be called “children of God” isn’t a metaphor—it’s a legal reality secured by Christ. The world’s confusion about believers stems from its blindness to this adoption. When we grasp the weight of being named heirs, it reshapes how we walk through airports, offices, and ordinary days. Gratitude for this identity sweetens even sour moments. [44:40]
“See how great a love the Father has bestowed on us, that we would be called children of God; and such we are. For this reason the world does not know us, because it did not know Him.” (1 John 3:1, NASB)
Reflection: What mundane moment today could shift if you whispered, “I am God’s child here”? How does your adoption challenge the world’s definitions of worth?
John insists believers are both “now” and “not yet.” We’re already God’s children, yet still under renovation. Sanctification isn’t optional decor—it’s the bulldozer breaking old foundations. Our irritation at slow growth proves the Spirit’s work. One day, resurrection will complete what grace began. Until then, we’re clay trusting the Potter’s hands, even when the wheel spins wildly. [56:13]
“Beloved, now we are children of God, and it has not appeared as yet what we will be. We know that when He appears, we will be like Him, because we will see Him just as He is.” (1 John 3:2, NASB)
Reflection: What rough edge in your character feels most frustrating? How might that very struggle signal God’s ongoing craftsmanship?
Paul’s jarring metaphor—slavery to righteousness—rebukes the lie of neutrality. Every moment chooses mastery: Christ or chaos. Sanctification means retraining kneejerk responses. Like airport meltdowns, our worst moments reveal undethroned kings. Surrender isn’t passive; it’s reporting for duty in the war against old patterns. [57:53]
“For just as you presented your members as slaves to impurity and to lawlessness, resulting in further lawlessness, so now present your members as slaves to righteousness, resulting in sanctification. […] But now having been freed from sin and enslaved to God, you derive your benefit, resulting in sanctification.” (Romans 6:19,22, NASB)
Reflection: What situation recently triggered your “old self”? What practical step could prepare you to respond differently next time?
Jesus’ post-resurrection body—solid enough to eat fish, permeable enough to walk through walls—hints at our future form. Limited bodies frustrate us, but they’re temporary prototypes. One day, we’ll operate outside time-space constraints, free from pain and passports. This hope isn’t escapism; it’s fuel for enduring delayed flights and deeper losses. [01:04:08]
“Then He said to Thomas, ‘Reach here with your finger, and see My hands; and reach here your hand and put it into My side; and do not be unbelieving, but believing.’” (John 20:27, NASB)
Reflection: What physical or circumstantial limitation most irritates you? How might eternity’s perspective soften that frustration today?
The China airport story exposes our default setting: circumstances dictate attitudes. John argues the reverse—identity dictates responses. Gratitude isn’t denial; it’s rebellion against letting temporal hiccups hijack eternal realities. Each irritation is a fork: complain or confess, “I’m still His child here.” [54:06]
“In everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” (1 Thessalonians 5:18, NASB)
Reflection: What “Guangzhou moment” did you face this week? How could thanking God for your adoption reshape that memory?
John turns the church’s gaze to two short lines in 1 John 3 and lets them recalibrate attitude from the ground up. 1 John 3 opens with a command to behold, not just glance. The text says, see how great a love the Father has lavished, that sinners now bear the name children of God. The Father’s love becomes the first attitude shaper. Adoption is not earned; it is bestowed. The world will not recognize this family resemblance, because it did not recognize the Son. That misunderstanding explains the friction but should not commandeer the believer’s tone. Gratitude for sonship ought to shape attitude.
John then presses the grammar of hope. Beloved, now we are children of God, and it has not yet appeared what we will be. The present is settled, the future is open, and the promise bridges the two. When Christ appears, the church will be like him, for it will see him as he is. That future sight fuels present sanctification. Scripture names the process. Freed from sin’s penalty and power, believers present their members to righteousness, resulting in sanctification. The doctrine refuses the lazy shrug of that’s just the way I am. Christ did not die to leave a person unchanged. He died to claim, cleanse, and conform a person. So the attitude is not outsourced to circumstances; it is stewarded under Christ’s lordship as a witness to grace.
The text keeps lifting the eyes. The world may call the cross foolish, but the gospel is the power of God. The Father’s love and the Son’s appearing anchor outlook when flights get missed, plans unravel, or criticism flies. Gratitude steadies the heart, not by denying hardship, but by remembering whose name the believer carries. Anticipation then stretches the heart. The church is a construction zone now, but it will be changed. John’s Gospel shows the pattern. The risen Jesus is flesh and bone, touchable and real, yet not bound by locked doors. The empty tomb stands as proof that transformation is not wishful thinking but God’s finished and future work. Hope like that is not escapism. It is the fuel for a Christlike attitude that is both God glorifying and good for the soul.
So it's only too fantastic if the god of the Bible does not exist. But if he does exist, it's quite rational to assume that he can can do that. And I I understand. I I mean, I might even have problem believing it myself except for one critically important piece of information, the empty tomb, that that great big hole in the ground. The empty tomb is proof positive that we will be changed. Every one of us that know Jesus Christ as our personal savior. We will be changed as a result of the the the proof positive the resurrection of Jesus Christ.
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#ResurrectionProof
It's understandable, but it wasn't commendable. It wasn't admirable because it wasn't Christlike. It wasn't Christlike. All I did was raise my blood pressure and lower my my witness to my team and maybe to others around me if they could understand me. I I probably helped to elevate that whole ugly American stereotype that that people have all over the world because, just because I let this thing get under my skin instead of instead of just stopping and saying, Clay, you're a child of God in Guangzhou or Timbuktu or anywhere else.
[00:52:43]
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#ChristlikeWitness
The the the plumber didn't show up when he was supposed to show up. Your boss, you thought he's getting a raise. He cut your pay. You you this or that or right? And in those moments, we've got to let gratitude direct our attitude because that's what honors Christ. Attitude. Doctor Steve Brown, who used to be on my staff in North Carolina, he used to put it this way. He said, god saved me, and I ain't got over it yet. That that's that's the way you approach this. It's appreciation for who we are because of him.
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#SavedAndGrateful
And the next flight to JFK I don't remember. Left sometime the next day. Sometime the next day. Yeah. and there we are. Right? We're we're we're we're just we're stuck in the airport, and I don't wanna be in the airport. I wanna be I wanna be home. Change your altitude. That's what I need to do. But I didn't. You know you you you you know in that moment, you'll find it hard to believe about your pastor, but gratitude was not shaping my attitude in that moment.
[00:50:26]
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#ChooseGratitude
last part of the verse, by the way, is just is just reminding us that the world, those outside of relationship with Jesus Christ, when they look at your life, they don't understand. They don't get it. They they don't understand why you would you would live for him and live to serve him and and learn learn to give for him and learn to and and desire to to go for him. They they they don't get that. They don't understand why you would choose a life that is oftentimes difficult, most times sacrificial, and should be all the time focused on and desiring to glorify God in our life. They don't they don't get it.
[00:44:47]
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#TheyDontGetIt
And John has made it clear that if if that process is not going on in my life, if if there's no desire to to mature in Christ and grow in Christ and become more like Christ and treat people like Christ and to you know, all those things that are that are part of being a follower of Jesus, if that is not evident, if there's no desire in my life for those things, then John has been been building this case throughout his letters that that is evidence that that person doesn't really know Christ no matter what they may say.
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#FruitOfFaith
Clay, you belong to the family of God in The United States or in China. Clay, you've been adopted. You've been redeemed. You've been born again. You've been purchased and paid for with the blood of Jesus Christ, and that makes you part of the family of God. That makes you a child of God no matter where you are, no matter what's going on.
[00:53:37]
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#AdoptedChildOfGod
And the reality is, ladies and gentlemen, all of our all of us are a work in progress. The reality is I am a construction zone, And so are you if you know Christ as your savior, and we will be a construction zone from now until Jesus comes back.
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#WorkInProgressInChrist
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