Building a Legacy of Faith in Families
Summary
Today, we celebrated the gift of mothers and the irreplaceable role they play in shaping our lives, but we also turned our attention to the spiritual health of our families. In a world where children are facing unprecedented emotional and mental challenges, it’s clear that the home must be a place of intentional discipleship, not just a shelter or a place of provision. The foundation of a strong family is not built on material gifts or endless activities, but on time spent together, on love, discipline, and most importantly, on prayer.
We looked at the Shema in Deuteronomy 6, where God commands us to love Him with all our heart, soul, and strength, and to impress these truths on our children. This is not a passive process; it requires us to model reverence, love, and obedience to God in our daily lives. Our children learn far more from what we do than what we say. If we want them to love God, to serve others, and to pray, they must see us doing these things first.
The statistics are sobering: more and more young people are leaving the church, not because they stopped believing, but because they never truly saw faith lived out at home. The church is meant to support what happens in the family, not replace it. Faith is passed down most powerfully through genuine, daily practice in the home—through conversations, shared experiences, and especially through prayer.
We explored five essential principles for building a legacy of faith: teaching our children to fear God, to love God, to be mentored by us, to be bold in their faith, and to pray. Prayer is not just a ritual, but a relationship, and we broke it down into five parts: praise and thanksgiving, confession, petition, intercession, and meditation. Each of these is a way to draw our families closer to God and to one another.
Ultimately, the greatest gift we can give our families is not just church attendance or good behavior, but a home where Jesus is real, where prayer is central, and where faith is lived out every day. If we want to change our community, it starts with changing our homes—one family at a time.
Key Takeaways
- The Home as the Primary Place of Discipleship
God designed the family to be the first and most important place where faith is nurtured. While church is vital, it cannot replace the daily influence of parents and grandparents modeling love for God, reverence, and obedience. The spiritual legacy we leave is built in the ordinary moments—meals, conversations, and shared experiences—where faith is made real and tangible. [48:01]
- Modeling Faith is More Powerful Than Teaching Alone
Children absorb what they see far more than what they are told. If we want our children to love God, serve others, and pray, they must witness us doing these things authentically. Our actions—how we treat others, how we handle challenges, and how we prioritize God—become the blueprint for their own faith journey. [47:05]
- Prayer as a Multi-Faceted Practice
Prayer is not just about asking God for things; it is a holistic practice that includes praise, confession, petition, intercession, and meditation. Teaching our children to pray in this way helps them develop a deep, resilient relationship with God, rather than a transactional or superficial one. Each aspect of prayer shapes their hearts and minds to trust, depend on, and love God more fully. [01:02:46]
- The Power of Consistent Presence and Engagement
Quality time with our children is inseparable from quantity time. Spiritual formation happens in the context of consistent presence—being available, attentive, and engaged. When we are distracted or absent, we miss opportunities to mentor, correct, encourage, and disciple our children in the ways of Christ. [43:01]
- Boldness in Faith Begins at Home
If we want our children to stand firm in their faith in a challenging world, they must see us living boldly and unashamedly for Christ. This means sharing our faith, serving others, and making Jesus the center of our home life. When faith is visible and active in the home, it becomes a natural part of our children’s identity, equipping them to carry it into the world. [57:12]
Youtube Chapters
[00:00] - Welcome
[00:45] - Honoring Mothers and Family Memories
[03:30] - The Role of Mothers in Shaping Faith
[07:10] - The Silent Tragedy: Challenges Facing Children Today
[12:00] - Returning to the Basics of Parenting
[16:30] - The Importance of Social Interaction and Play
[20:00] - Building Healthy Family Routines
[24:00] - Parents as the Main Spiritual Influence
[27:00] - The Shema: God’s Blueprint for the Family
[31:00] - Five Principles for Discipling Our Children
[38:00] - Teaching Children to Fear and Love God
[43:00] - The Power of Mentoring and Modeling
[47:00] - Boldness and Authentic Faith at Home
[52:00] - Teaching Our Children to Pray
[57:00] - Five Elements of Family Prayer
[01:06:00] - Passing Down a Legacy of Faith
[01:11:00] - The Erosion of Faith in Families
[01:14:30] - The Call to Fathers and Families
[01:18:00] - Invitation to Family Prayer
[01:26:30] - Closing Prayer and Blessing
Study Guide
Bible Study Discussion Guide: Building a Legacy of Faith at Home
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### Bible Reading
Deuteronomy 6:1-25
(This passage, known as the Shema, was the main text for the sermon.)
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### Observation Questions
1. According to Deuteronomy 6, what are parents and grandparents specifically commanded to do with God’s words?
2. In the sermon, what are the five essential principles for building a legacy of faith in our families? ([49:50])
3. What are the five parts of prayer described in the sermon, and how are they explained? ([01:02:46])
4. What does the sermon say is the difference between the church’s role and the family’s role in passing down faith? ([01:11:14])
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### Interpretation Questions
1. Why does God command parents to “impress” His words on their children in everyday life, not just during formal times? What might happen if this is neglected? (Deuteronomy 6:6-9)
2. The sermon says, “Children absorb what they see far more than what they are told.” Why is modeling faith more powerful than just teaching it? ([47:05])
3. The Shema calls for loving God with all our heart, soul, and strength. What does this kind of love look like in a family setting, according to the sermon? ([49:50])
4. The sermon mentions that many young people leave the church because they never saw faith lived out at home. What does this suggest about the importance of daily spiritual practices in the family? ([01:11:14])
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### Application Questions
1. The sermon says, “The foundation of a strong family is not built on material gifts or endless activities, but on time spent together, on love, discipline, and most importantly, on prayer.” What is one practical way you can spend more intentional time with your family this week? ([40:52])
2. Think about your own home growing up or your home now. What are some ways faith was (or wasn’t) modeled for you? How did that impact your view of God? ([47:05])
3. The Shema instructs us to talk about God’s commands “when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” What is one ordinary moment in your daily routine where you could naturally bring up faith or prayer with your family? (Deuteronomy 6:7)
4. The sermon breaks down prayer into praise and thanksgiving, confession, petition, intercession, and meditation. Which of these do you find easiest, and which is hardest for you or your family? How could you grow in the area that’s hardest? ([01:02:46])
5. The pastor shared that “if we want our children to love God, serve others, and pray, they must witness us doing these things authentically.” What is one specific action you can take this week to model faith for your children or those around you? ([47:05])
6. The sermon says, “If we want to change our community, it starts with changing our homes—one family at a time.” What is one change you feel led to make in your home to make Jesus more central? ([01:18:05])
7. For those who feel like they missed opportunities in the past, what encouragement or next step did you hear in the sermon for starting now, no matter your family’s stage or situation? ([01:17:12])
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Closing Prayer Suggestion:
Invite the group to pray together, using the five parts of prayer discussed in the sermon: praise and thanksgiving, confession, petition, intercession, and meditation. Consider praying specifically for the spiritual health of each family represented.
Devotional
Day 1: Teach Our Children to Fear God
To fear God is not to be terrified of Him, but to hold Him in deep reverence and respect, much like the healthy respect a child has for a loving parent. This kind of fear shapes our actions, our words, and our choices, and it is something that must be modeled in the home. When children see their parents living with a genuine awe for God—honoring Him above all else, making decisions that reflect His holiness, and speaking of Him with respect—they learn that God is not just a distant idea, but the very center of life. The things we struggle with in ourselves often show up in our children, so let us be intentional in showing them what it means to honor and revere the Lord in all we do. [49:50]
Deuteronomy 6:1-2 (ESV)
“Now this is the commandment—the statutes and the rules—that the Lord your God commanded me to teach you, that you may do them in the land to which you are going over, to possess it, that you may fear the Lord your God, you and your son and your son's son, by keeping all his statutes and his commandments, which I command you, all the days of your life, and that your days may be long.”
Reflection: In what specific ways can you model a reverence for God in your home this week, so that your children or those around you see that God is truly honored above all else?
Day 2: Teach Our Children to Love God
Loving God is more than a feeling; it is a commitment that involves sacrifice, obedience, and a willingness to put Him first in every area of life. Children learn to love God by watching how we love Him—by seeing us make time for Him, obey His Word, and speak of Him with affection and gratitude. Love for God is shown in the choices we make, the priorities we set, and the way we treat others. If we want our children to love God deeply, we must show them that loving God is worth every inconvenience and every act of obedience, even when it is not easy or popular. [51:30]
Deuteronomy 6:4-7 (ESV)
“Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.”
Reflection: What is one way you can demonstrate your love for God today that your children or family can see and learn from?
Day 3: Never Stop Mentoring Our Children
Mentoring our children in faith is not a one-time conversation, but a daily, ongoing journey. It happens in the car, at the dinner table, during chores, and in quiet moments before bed. True mentoring requires our presence, our attention, and our willingness to share not just our successes, but also our struggles and lessons learned. When we intentionally repeat God’s truths, share stories of His faithfulness, and walk alongside our children through life’s ups and downs, we help them build a faith that is real and lasting. [53:30]
Deuteronomy 6:6-9 (ESV)
“And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.”
Reflection: How can you create intentional moments today to share your faith journey and God’s truth with your children or those you mentor?
Day 4: Be Bold with Your Faith at Home
Our children need to see that our faith is not something we hide or keep private, but something we live out boldly and joyfully. When we talk about Jesus openly, serve others in His name, and make our homes places where God’s Word is visible and honored, we show our children that following Christ is the most important thing in our lives. Bold faith is contagious; when children see their parents unashamed to share the gospel and serve others, they are far more likely to carry that faith with them into the world. [57:12]
Deuteronomy 6:8-9, 13 (ESV)
“You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates... It is the Lord your God you shall fear. Him you shall serve and by his name you shall swear.”
Reflection: What is one way you can make your faith more visible and bold in your home or neighborhood this week?
Day 5: Teach Our Children to Pray
Prayer is the heartbeat of a home where Jesus reigns. Teaching our children to pray means showing them how to praise God, confess their sins, bring their needs before Him, intercede for others, and meditate on His Word. When families pray together, they invite God’s presence into their daily lives and model dependence on Him. Even young children can learn to thank God, ask for help, and listen for His voice. The greatest investment we can make is to teach our children to pray, for it is through prayer that faith becomes real and personal. [01:02:46]
Deuteronomy 6:13-25 (ESV)
“It is the Lord your God you shall fear. Him you shall serve and by his name you shall swear. You shall not go after other gods, the gods of the peoples who are around you—for the Lord your God in your midst is a jealous God—lest the anger of the Lord your God be kindled against you, and he destroy you from off the face of the earth. You shall not put the Lord your God to the test, as you tested him at Massah. You shall diligently keep the commandments of the Lord your God, and his testimonies and his statutes, which he has commanded you. And you shall do what is right and good in the sight of the Lord, that it may go well with you, and that you may go in and take possession of the good land that the Lord swore to give to your fathers by thrusting out all your enemies from before you, as the Lord has promised. When your son asks you in time to come, ‘What is the meaning of the testimonies and the statutes and the rules that the Lord our God has commanded you?’ then you shall say to your son, ‘We were Pharaoh’s slaves in Egypt. And the Lord brought us out of Egypt with a mighty hand. And the Lord showed signs and wonders, great and grievous, against Egypt and against Pharaoh and all his household, before our eyes. And he brought us out from there, that he might bring us in and give us the land that he swore to give to our fathers. And the Lord commanded us to do all these statutes, to fear the Lord our God, for our good always, that he might preserve us alive, as we are this day. And it will be righteousness for us, if we are careful to do all this commandment before the Lord our God, as he has commanded us.’”
Reflection: How can you lead your family in prayer today, making space for praise, confession, petition, intercession, and meditation on God’s Word together?
Quotes
The statistics above are actually representative of the fact, listen to this, that genuine faith in Christ passed through family homes from parent to children more so than through the churches and institutions. What am I saying? That our faith is passed through the home and the family more than it is through the church and institutions. [01:12:04] (19 seconds)
Love requires sacrifice love requires inconvenience inconvenience is more than just getting up on Sunday morning it is the inconvenience of loving God so much that we are not ashamed to share him with someone else to love him. [00:56:31] (17 seconds)
How are parents to pass down a legacy of faith if we don't spend time with our children? So here's our belief. I believe this, that spending time with our children and engagement with our parents and the discipleship of their children is the tipping point that will flip these percentages and bring homes back to where God wants them. [01:14:16] (28 seconds)
We must teach our children to pray. To pray. He says, when the Lord, your God, brings you into the land, he swore, Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. He goes on down. He says, be careful not to forget the Lord who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the place of slavery. In other words, as you continue to pray the Shema, as you keep going through that, remember what God has given you. [01:02:17] (28 seconds)
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