Build Thriving Familes- Week 1

Most of fam most of the problems in society are rooted in the breakdown of the family. But then I felt like the Lord just kinda corrected me because I began to think about what problems aren't connected to the breakdown in the family. And to be honest with you, I can't find one. I couldn't find one. There there isn't a problem that I'm aware of that is in some way connected to the family. [00:05:34] (25 seconds)  #FamilyRootCause

The cure for gender barriers, the differences between men and women, are we are equally different. Understanding that a man is made and wired for a man's world, and a woman is made for a woman's world. And that they're not either one of them messed up or dysfunctional or bad. They're just equally different for each other. So that whenever they come together, they complement each other, and they don't compete against each other. Am I making sense, everybody? [00:41:54] (25 seconds)  #ComplementNotCompete

But but it is amazing. Here's the next thing you need to know. So security is number one. If there was one thing I could teach every young man to old man of how to make their marriage better, provide security for her. Do not make her compete with your hobby. Don't make her compete with your friends. Do not make her compete with your mother. A man shall leave his mother and his father and cleave to his wife. [00:33:26] (27 seconds)  #ProvideSecurity

God's original design was to complement and and complete one another, not to compete against each other. Culture pins it as men are better than or women are better than, and then you have this reverse racism, reverse women versus men thing going on, which is so dysfunctional and so corrupt and so wrong. It was never the way God intended it. Can I get an amen on that? Amen? Listen. [00:28:15] (29 seconds)  #DesignedToComplement

Every man and every woman on the planet have the same need in the sense of every man, every woman, every man has a need. It's called honor. Every woman has a needs need, and it's called security. This is the way they're made. This is the way God designed them. Alright? And watch this. When you when you short circuit this, it gets all funky. [00:29:47] (27 seconds)  #HonorAndSecurity

So so even in that, it could be a challenge. Okay? So try and get people on the same page, especially if you're out there dating. Be smart. Don't be silly. Don't think you're gonna change anybody. You're not gonna change anybody. The only way people change is is Jesus changes them. Amen? And if they're not saved, well, you gotta start from scratch. K? So here's the next barrier I think you need to know. [00:20:44] (25 seconds)  #DontTryToChangeThem

I'm telling you, every dude, every day, baby, check this out. I'm gonna take out the trash. Alright? I'm gonna take out the trash. I'll do it twice today because every man listen. There's something about men you need to understand, ladies. There's the one thing that a man can't give himself, honor. The only person that can transfer that to him is you. And when he hears it, it's on. It is on. [00:36:24] (27 seconds)  #GiveHimHonor

Sin, shame, and selfishness came as a part of the fall. You were not designed that way. That's a part of your fallen nature. Alright? Get this. Sharing turned into shame. This is what happened in the Garden of Eden. In the Garden of Eden, they were made to fellowship with God. After the fall, they hid themselves from God. And notice this, everybody. [00:13:26] (22 seconds)  #ShameHidesFellowship