Life often brings seasons of brokenness—times when we feel pressed, crushed, or even undone by circumstances beyond our control. Yet, before any of us were formed, God knew us and ordained every moment, including our moments of pain and struggle. In these times, it’s tempting to hide behind masks, giving polished answers and presenting a facade of strength, but God sees beyond the surface. He knows the real us, the one behind the mask, and He loves us deeply in our brokenness.
Brokenness is not a sign of failure or abandonment; rather, it is a process God uses to purify, protect, and position us for greater purpose. Just as olives must be crushed to release oil and grapes must be pressed to become wine, we too are handpicked and refined through pressure. God’s breaking is intentional—He purges us of pride, jealousy, and hidden motives, transforming us into vessels that reflect His image. The refining fire is uncomfortable, but it is necessary for our development and for the anointing He desires to pour out through us.
Surrender is at the heart of this process. We often try to control our lives, forgetting that God is the one who opens doors, protects us from unseen dangers, and orchestrates our steps. Sometimes, what feels like rejection or isolation is actually God’s protection and consecration, setting us apart so we can hear His voice more clearly. He removes relationships and opportunities that would harm us, even when we don’t understand why.
Pain is not wasted in God’s hands. It is the birth canal of destiny, the means by which He positions us for promotion and multiplies our impact. The breaking is not for our destruction but for our construction—building us into the masterpiece He sees, even when we cannot. Like the bread in Jesus’ hands, we are taken, blessed, broken, and then given to the world for God’s glory. The oil produced in our crushing is precious and will not be wasted. In every season of brokenness, God is faithful, and He will restore.
Key Takeaways
- 1. God Sees Beyond the Mask: We are often skilled at hiding our pain behind smiles and churchy answers, but God sees the real us. He knows our struggles and brokenness, and He invites us to bring our authentic selves to Him. True healing begins when we allow ourselves to be seen and known by God, rather than hiding behind facades. [09:59]
- 2. Brokenness is Purification, Not Punishment: Like olives and grapes, we are handpicked and then crushed to release what is valuable within us. God’s breaking is a process of purification, removing pride, jealousy, and anything that doesn’t reflect His character. The refining fire is uncomfortable, but it is necessary for us to become vessels fit for His use. [15:11]
- 3. Surrender Unlocks God’s Work in Us: We often resist surrender, trying to manage life on our own terms. Yet, God calls us to let go and trust Him, knowing that He is working for our good even when we don’t understand. Surrender is not weakness; it is the gateway to transformation and the release of God’s anointing in our lives. [22:10]
- 4. God’s Protection Sometimes Looks Like Rejection: When relationships end or doors close, it can feel like rejection or loss. In reality, God is often protecting us from harm we cannot see, removing people and opportunities that would derail our purpose. What feels like isolation is sometimes God’s way of consecrating us for deeper intimacy with Him. [25:47]
- 5. Pain Positions Us for Purpose: The crushing and breaking we experience are not wasted; they are the means by which God positions us for greater impact. Pain is God’s tool for development, chiseling away what hinders us and preparing us for the weight of the calling He has placed on our lives. The oil produced in our brokenness is precious, and God will use it to bless others and bring glory to Himself. [32:48]
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