Breaking Free from the Chains of Bitterness

Devotional

Day 1: Bitterness Corrodes the Soul

Bitterness is a corrosive force that eats away at our inner life and relationships. It can transform us into people we do not want to be, much like Gollum was transformed by the ring in "The Lord of the Rings." Holding onto bitterness can lead to a life filled with anger, resentment, and isolation. It is essential to recognize the destructive power of bitterness and take steps to address it before it takes root in our hearts. The gospel provides us with the tools to break free from bitterness and embrace a life of peace and forgiveness. [28:05]

Hebrews 12:14-15 (ESV): "Strive for peace with everyone, and for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord. See to it that no one fails to obtain the grace of God; that no 'root of bitterness' springs up and causes trouble, and by it many become defiled."

Reflection: Think of a situation or relationship where you have allowed bitterness to take root. How has it affected your inner life and relationships? What steps can you take today to begin addressing this bitterness and seek peace?

Day 2: Strive for Peace and Holiness

Hebrews 12:14-15 urges us to strive for peace with everyone and to be vigilant against any root of bitterness. Holiness is not something we can achieve on our own; it is a gift from Jesus, who lived the perfect life we could not. This passage reminds us that our pursuit of peace and holiness is intertwined with our relationship with Christ. By relying on His grace and strength, we can overcome bitterness and live in harmony with others. [31:51]

1 Peter 1:15-16 (ESV): "But as he who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct, since it is written, 'You shall be holy, for I am holy.'"

Reflection: In what areas of your life do you find it challenging to strive for peace and holiness? How can you rely on Jesus' strength and grace to help you overcome these challenges and live in harmony with others?

Day 3: Put Away All Bitterness

Ephesians 4:31-32 instructs us to put away all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and slander. Instead, we are to be kind, tenderhearted, and forgiving, just as God in Christ forgave us. This is not just a command but a privilege rooted in the gospel. By embracing kindness, tenderheartedness, and forgiveness, we reflect the character of Christ and create an environment of love and grace in our relationships. [39:14]

Colossians 3:12-13 (ESV): "Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive."

Reflection: Reflect on a recent conflict or disagreement you had with someone. How can you put away bitterness and instead show kindness, tenderheartedness, and forgiveness in that situation?

Day 4: The Justification Trap

One of the most insidious aspects of bitterness is that it often feels justified. However, even justified bitterness is corrosive and harmful. We must strive for peace and let go of bitterness, even if it feels justified. Holding onto bitterness, even when we believe we are right, only harms us and our relationships. The gospel calls us to a higher standard of love and forgiveness, following the example of Christ. [42:43]

James 1:19-20 (ESV): "Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God."

Reflection: Think of a time when you felt justified in your bitterness or anger. How did holding onto that bitterness affect you and your relationships? What steps can you take to let go of justified bitterness and seek peace?

Day 5: Daily Meditation on the Gospel

To break free from bitterness, we should daily meditate on the gospel. Reflecting on what God has done for us in Christ helps us realize that we have no leg to stand on when it comes to holding onto bitterness and unforgiveness. By focusing on the gospel, we are reminded of the immense grace and forgiveness we have received, which empowers us to extend the same to others. [55:11]

2 Corinthians 5:17-18 (ESV): "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come. All this is from God, who through Christ reconciled us to himself and gave us the ministry of reconciliation."

Reflection: How can you incorporate daily meditation on the gospel into your routine? What specific aspects of the gospel can you focus on to help you let go of bitterness and embrace forgiveness?

Sermon Summary

### Summary

Today, we concluded our series titled "Suitcase," which has been about the emotional and spiritual baggage we carry that holds us back. This final message focused on the corrosive nature of bitterness. Bitterness, like the Coke that can clean a car battery, corrodes our inner life and relationships. It eats away at us from the inside, much like how Gollum from "The Lord of the Rings" was transformed by the ring he couldn't let go of. The gospel provides us with the tools to break free from bitterness.

We explored Hebrews 12:14-15, which urges us to strive for peace and holiness, warning us to watch out for any root of bitterness that can cause trouble and defile many. This passage reminds us that holiness is unattainable on our own but is given to us through Jesus Christ. We also looked at Ephesians 4:31-32, where Paul instructs us to put away all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and slander, and instead be kind, tenderhearted, and forgiving, just as God in Christ forgave us.

Bitterness often feels justified, but it is still corrosive. We must strive for peace and let go of bitterness, even if it feels justified. This is not just a command but a privilege rooted in the gospel. Jesus commanded us to love one another as He has loved us, and this love is the mark of true discipleship.

For those who are hurting, it's crucial to start walking down a path of forgiveness. Holding on to bitterness is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. The gospel gives us the tools to break free from bitterness, and daily meditation on the gospel can help us let go of bitterness and embrace forgiveness.

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Key Takeaways

1. 15 urges us to strive for peace with everyone and to be vigilant against any root of bitterness. Holiness is not something we can achieve on our own; it is a gift from Jesus, who lived the perfect life we could not ([31:51]).
3. Put Away All Bitterness: Ephesians 4:31-32 instructs us to put away all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and slander. Instead, we are to be kind, tenderhearted, and forgiving, just as God in Christ forgave us. This is not just a command but a privilege rooted in the gospel ().

4. The Justification Trap: One of the most insidious aspects of bitterness is that it often feels justified. However, even justified bitterness is corrosive and harmful. We must strive for peace and let go of bitterness, even if it feels justified ().

5. Daily Meditation on the Gospel: To break free from bitterness, we should daily meditate on the gospel. Reflecting on what God has done for us in Christ helps us realize that we have no leg to stand on when it comes to holding onto bitterness and unforgiveness ().

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Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[24:00] - The Corrosive Nature of Bitterness
[25:43] - Coke and Car Battery Illustration
[28:05] - Gollum and Bitterness
[29:00] - The Gospel's Tools Against Bitterness
[30:35] - Hebrews 12:14-15
[33:30] - Strive for Peace
[35:22] - Watch Out for Bitterness
[37:31] - Ephesians 4:31-32
[39:14] - Put Away All Bitterness
[42:43] - The Justification Trap
[46:15] - Jesus' Command to Love
[50:10] - Bitterness in Relationships
[52:15] - Advice for Teenagers
[53:01] - Path of Forgiveness
[54:06] - Tools to Let Go of Bitterness
[56:12] - Daily Meditation on the Gospel
[56:39] - Closing Prayer and Communion Instructions

Bible Study Guide

Observation Questions

According to Hebrews 12:14-15, what are we urged to strive for, and what should we be vigilant against?
In Ephesians 4:31-32, what behaviors does Paul instruct us to put away, and what attitudes should we adopt instead?
How does the sermon illustrate the corrosive nature of bitterness using the example of Gollum from "The Lord of the Rings"? ([28:05])
What does Jesus command in John 13:34-35, and how does this relate to our relationships with others?

Interpretation Questions

Why does the author of Hebrews emphasize striving for peace and holiness? How does this relate to the concept of bitterness? ([30:35])
How does Paul’s instruction in Ephesians 4:31-32 reflect the transformative power of the gospel in our lives? ([39:14])
The sermon mentions that bitterness often feels justified. Why is this feeling dangerous, and how can it affect our spiritual health? ([42:43])
How does daily meditation on the gospel help us let go of bitterness, according to the sermon? ([55:11])

Application Questions

Reflect on a time when you felt justified in your bitterness. How did holding onto that bitterness affect your relationships and inner life? ([42:43])
Hebrews 12:14-15 urges us to strive for peace with everyone. Is there someone in your life with whom you need to make peace? What steps can you take this week to begin that process? ([30:35])
Ephesians 4:31-32 calls us to be kind, tenderhearted, and forgiving. Think of a recent conflict you had. How could you have responded differently in light of this passage? ([39:14])
The sermon suggests that holding onto bitterness is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. How can you start walking down a path of forgiveness today? ([53:01])
Jesus commands us to love one another as He has loved us (John 13:34-35). Identify one person you find difficult to love. What specific action can you take this week to show them Christ-like love? ([46:15])
The sermon encourages daily meditation on the gospel. What practical steps can you take to incorporate this practice into your daily routine? ([55:11])
For those who are hurting, the sermon emphasizes the importance of starting the path of forgiveness. What support do you need from your church family to help you in this journey? ([53:01])

Sermon Clips

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "Bitterness is corrosive to our soul. Bitterness is corrosive to relationships, and this is why I have a two liter of Coke here. Have you ever seen the things, yeah, some of you know, like where, did you know you can, you can use Coke to clean your car battery? Who's tried that? Has anyone tried that? Yeah, I've done it too. And it works. Like, you pour it on there, and it all melts away." [24:00] (41 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "The gospel gives us the tools that we need to break free from bitterness. It does. The gospel, the good news of Jesus, the person of Jesus, gives us the tools that we need to break free from the corroding effects of bitterness." [29:00] (20 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "Strive for peace with everyone. That's important. Because it means no one's excluded. No one is outside of bounds of your responsibility and my responsibility to strive for peace." [35:22] (24 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | )

4. "Bitterness and unforgiveness and all of that is like drinking rat poison and expecting the rat to die. Like it's just poisoning you. It's just corroding your soul. It's just turning you into someone that 10 years from now you do not want to be." [53:01] (15 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | )

5. "Bitterness is corrosive to the soul, but you can break free from the hold of bitterness in your life. The gospel, it gives us the tools to break free from bitterness. So let's be people who refuse to be bitter." [56:12] (17 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | )

### Quotes for Members

1. "You never drift towards something good. Right? I mean, in every area of your life that matters, if you put it in neutral, you never just roll to a good place. Right? Oh, my gosh. Your marriage is incredible. You guys enjoy each other and you have fun and you're on mission together and you're challenging each other. How did you do that? Oh, we just stopped paying attention." [34:10] (27 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "See to it that no one fails to obtain the grace of God. Listen to this. That no root of bitterness springs up and causes trouble. And by it, many become defiled. This, for me, is a challenging passage of Scripture. It's like the writer is saying, hey, pay attention. You need to be checking. You need to be checking in on this. Make sure." [36:29] (29 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | )

3. "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another as God in Christ forgave. It's the same idea in Hebrews. Strive for peace. With everyone. Our default posture, listen, it's, our default posture toward people is to be, is peace and kindness and tenderheartedness. Even if they have been unkind to you." [42:43] (47 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | )

4. "The Apostle Paul's point is that what was given to you by God. You now have the responsibility. And honestly, the privilege. The privilege of giving that to others. Because we were lost in our sin. We were God's enemy. And yet Jesus came. And he lived the perfect life that we never could. And he gave his life on the cross to pay for our sins so that we can be forgiven." [45:23] (31 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | )

5. "I think the most universal thing that we can do to start walking toward letting go of bitterness is to daily meditate on the gospel. And meditate just means to think deeply about. And so I think as we take time every day to think about, to ruminate on, read a little bit. Here's what God has done for me in Christ." [54:38] (23 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | )

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