Social media is a huge addiction today. And that also ties in even with the people pleasing. I think we get on social media and we try to please our followers or please, you know, it's like we want instant gratification. And so we have this overwhelming need to feel like I've got to post my entire life and post every day or twice a day. And, oh, you know what? I didn't do my story today, so I better do that real quick. And then I need to put a reel out. Then I need to check the comments. Then I need to check the likes. Oh, I need to take a picture of myself eating a salad. And now here's me at the gym. And it just becomes a never ending cycle where how are you focusing on breaking other cycles when you're spending all your time on one thing or one addiction or one problem, you know, in your life.
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Here's the thing, spending one time or all the time on one problem, but not addressing it. You're just completely going around the same bush, the same cycle. You're always dwelling on this financial situation. How do I fix this? What do I do? And it's always this constantly going through the repeated cycle in your mind and the negativity of it. And you're not addressing it. It's just like people going on social media. Like I said, they're always sitting around scrolling, scrolling, scrolling, scrolling, scrolling, and an hour, hour and a half has passed and you can't get that back. And that time could have been used to address or change or at least like 14 of them you don't even know what whose number who is who is like who gave my number yeah who is this person leaked my information yeah you know and time so where was god in this where was family where was your own self -reflection all of that you nailed it that i don't see any time for that now prioritized materialistic things that don't even matter we just go down the list all right so
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To break the cycle of depression or whatever cycle. What are we doing to put positivity and the right things into our heart and into our minds? If you're going to be around people that mope around, you know, I think an example my parents always used to share with me about moping around. You're not going to mope around when you don't get your way in this, that and the other is don't be. They always say, Matthew, Jonathan, don't be Eeyore. Don't be an Eeyore from Winnie the Pooh, right? Everything was this dark, depressed day. It was walking around, never seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. We cannot live like that as humans.
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God sees you as good. Therefore, how we need to have ourselves looking at who we are is good. We need to see ourselves as good. God saw us as good. But he initiated that.
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Let me get that straight. God cares for you. Meaning he cares about what you care about what you care about. Oh, that's a huge one. God cares about you. Therefore, what is important to you, God finds that important. Now, that doesn't mean go out and find importance in sinful things. That's not what we're talking about. What we're talking about is the things that you are desiring, the things that you want to see breakthrough in your life, the things that you're believing for, you know, even the finances, right? Maybe it's that new car you're, you're believing for, or that new home, or how am I going to pay for, you know, uh, my kids going to college or whatever it is, right? Believing for those things and those things that you care about. God is the ultimate carer. That's right.
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He is the one that ultimately cares about what you care about. He created you. Therefore we can cast our cares as first Peter five, seven says. And also it even talks about on the Bible that, you know, by Jesus stripes, we're healed that listen, he took our infirmities. He took the punishment. Therefore we do not have to live depressed in torment, sickness, disease, destruction, depression, you know, all of those things on a daily basis, health wise, that's all in the same conundrum. We can let go of that and cast our cares upon him. And then we can also declare ourselves healed of the Lord.
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You know, sometimes when you're at your breaking point, you're just. are giving is when god outlifts you and there can be a shift and a change and we have to believe that because here's the thing look at the mindset of the woman in the bible that gave all she had those two little oh the two mites yeah yeah coins and she gave all she had and jesus said she gave more than all those other people that were bringing bags of money and dumping it and everything and it looked on the outside right like they're just giving all this crazy amount of money but to them that was nothing man you know what i mean and she gave all she had and the bible talks so much about your heart and your money or your heart or your treasure go together and what you give your time money resources energy to is what will come back what you sow to will be what you reap back
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What are we investing our time in you know everyone talks about investing today stocks oh well i put all this money and crypto and this and all that into these different stocks and nothing blossomed well what were you sowing into and how much did you sow you know and so people want to blame the spiritual stock market of god and say well god's not working today stock market crashed and god's stock market and heaven is crashed and then the next day they're like oh it's booming it's like and then they give a simple like well i just want to thank the man upstairs no honor exactly but then they want to blame god or jesus himself when it doesn't go right that is the biggest slap in the face that we can ever do to god himself and and and our father and you know jesus is our advocate he's our lawyer to go to the father
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We may make our own plans, but God has the ultimate say. Why? Because he created us. That's why, hey, we can sit here all day and say all these terrible things about ourselves. And we're just doing exactly opposite of what God had already established when he created us. God already said it. Why are we going our own way? You know, why are we trying to do our own thing?
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The people that really do what Jesus said to his disciples, take up your nets and come, you know, I'll follow me, put your, you know, uh, fish and stuff aside. I'll make you fishers of men, take up your cross, come follow me. You know, it was all about, uh, the net and the cross, the symbolic thing behind it was, it was something that they desired to do, but you had to guess what, put the net aside, take up your cross. Basically it was, Hey, I'm willing to lay down my life. The cross that Jesus was talking about is, Hey, I laid my life down in a sacrifice. Now we need to do the exact same thing. Meaning that guess what? Everything we desire in our life needs to be laid down at the cross. Everything that comes before God that we desire, the social media scrolling, trying to be somebody we're not trying to go our own way.
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Every single person that has an encounter with the Lord has that Jonah in the belly of the whale moment, or that Saul to Paul transformation where you're knocked off your high horse, because ultimately God has to allow you to fall, to bring you back up. He's got to knock you down to bring you back up. Why? Because pride's got to go. And then guess what? As you get raised up now, it's humility. That's raised up. The pride's got to fall in order for humility to be raised up.
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I think people get addicted to what they're just used to and comfortable with. And so they don't want to go through the change that's necessary to get their destiny to come. They're so afraid of the growing pains that are required in growth that they don't want to try. So they stay the same and they go through the same cycle. Children of Israel for 40 years. Okay. Perfect example. There are so many people that live in the same rut or issue cycle problem because they refuse to take a step. They dip their toe in the water and then they turn back and they complain. water's too cold. I don't want to jump in. I don't want to live my life as just a toe dipper. Come on.
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Change is scary, but so is staying the same. And honestly, it's even worse staying the same because then you're forever adding an additional problem of what could have been had I tried. Oh man. And now you realize your blessing passed you by. Now you realize a generation was lost. How do you think the children of Israel felt when they realized some of their ancestors or people, siblings, family died off and never reached the promised land? And they're like, man, had mom and dad just maybe done what we're doing here and marching to Jericho, maybe they could be joining me right now. Choices that you make don't just affect yourself. They affect those around you and they affect generations.
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The fields are ready and they're ripe for harvest. Take something like a stand and do something different. Don't wake up and do the same thing every day and expect change in your life. Again, we say this all the time. We've got to learn to be comfortable in being uncomfortable. Every risk has a reward attached or at the end of it okay every reward has a risk that's required at the beginning of it okay and we have to understand that
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We have to understand that our father God wants the best for us and he loves us so good but so many people miss their destiny their career sit around and beat around the bush and allow fear to grip them because of what i just said people pleasing about surrender and i think that's a big thing because i think the lack of surrender causes rebellion and this victimization mindset that we've seen today
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We care so much about what everyone on our social media thinks what our co -workers think what naysayers and outside people say um our peers all this stuff it's why a lot of people get into peer pressure and all of these things growing up because people forget the god factor and they're so worried about what people think about them that people live trying to be something they're not on social media in classrooms in you know occupations or workplaces um and then they lose their their their identity and they lose themselves but then they also have this level of blaming god which causes rebellion and then by not surrendering to god all the things that we just described around them continue to just get worse worse and worse and worse and worse because you've never surrendered to god so therefore you have god's not backing you and the holy spirit's not backing you because you've butted your nose to god when he's tried to walk in help you etc so now you have no spiritual covering so now everything you walk around talk to have acquainted acquaintance with or interaction with um feels like a cycle or it feels like it's never interaction with
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God still loves and cares about you even when people stomp on his heart man he's still there waiting for your surrender every morning every morning every day every night god is waiting for that moment that encounter paul was saul beforehand killed christians and still god was waiting there for him and encountered him but it took the surrender not the victimization mindset okay we do not have time to play the victim role so good and there's so many people that don't reach their destiny because they sit on the mountain of victimization okay going back to the children of israel they did it for 40 years they sat around trying to outdo god they built a golden calf they gave up on the lord and generations were lost because of it
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There are people that say that scientifically people do die of stress and a broken heart where they allow themselves to just sit broken, sit in bitterness and they die from it because they don't deal with the unforgiveness in their heart or what hurt them, the traumatic stuff. And they sit there and let years of their life go because they don't deal with the broken pieces in their heart.
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There's too many people who want to try to fix the problem with fleshly mindsets as opposed to getting in their Bibles. They call it, like you said earlier, this mythical book and they don't want to put it to use. So they want to read every single book about life and how to conquer life and all these like, you know, simple little reads that everybody does today, or they find that they want to find that meme on social media and dome see what my friends posting because maybe it relates to me, you know, or they search their issue on chat GBT or AI and say, and then people have a conversation. How should I text this person back? I hate that you hit this up on the, at the very end of the show, dude. Yeah, really. But it's a real thing though. It's like people neglect the Holy spirit and what he can do for your life.
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If we are using things to replace God, what are we doing or challenge God? That's the other thing. If we're trying to sit here and challenge God or put God to the test. See, there's two types of prayers. You can sit here and say the whole prayer of shaking your fist at God. Like you're not coming through for me. So I'm blaming you in my prayers. Or you can pray and say, no, I believe what the word of God says. I believe the words of the Lord. I believe Jesus. You are my advocate. You came, you died, you rose again. You took the keys of death, hell in the grave. You put your blood on the mercy seat. Therefore, I'm going to you as my lawyer to go to your father over this thing in my life. And I refuse to let the devil creep in, crowd my mind with negativity, bad thoughts, things that speak of doom and gloom. But Jesus, you are my advocate. It may look opposite on the outside right now, but I know you're putting in something and you're working behind closed doors right now.
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God is not the root of all evil. No. You know how many times that the root of all evil, yeah, that's the devil, but it's also ourselves. That we're causing the issue by who we connect with, how we talk, what we listen to, what we see. My dad always says the noun, people, places, and things carry so much weight in our lives.
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Stop trying to be a people pleaser or a self -pleaser and start taking self -accountability of who else are you affecting that you may not even realize.
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