Bible reading
John 3:1-17 (ESV)
Now there was a man of the Pharisees named Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews. This man came to Jesus by night and said to him, “Rabbi, we know that you are a teacher come from God, for no one can do these signs that you do unless God is with him.” Jesus answered him, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God.” Nicodemus said to him, “How can a man be born when he is old? Can he enter a second time into his mother's womb and be born?” Jesus answered, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God. That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Do not marvel that I said to you, ‘You must be born again.’ The wind blows where it wishes, and you hear its sound, but you do not know where it comes from or where it goes. So it is with everyone who is born of the Spirit.” Nicodemus said to him, “How can these things be?” Jesus answered him, “Are you the teacher of Israel and yet you do not understand these things? Truly, truly, I say to you, we speak of what we know, and bear witness to what we have seen, but you do not receive our testimony. If I have told you earthly things and you do not believe, how can you believe if I tell you heavenly things? No one has ascended into heaven except he who descended from heaven, the Son of Man. And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, so must the Son of Man be lifted up, that whoever believes in him may have eternal life. “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him.
Observation questions
- What time of day did Nicodemus come to Jesus, and what might that detail tell us about his state of mind?
- What two things does Jesus say a person must be born of in order to enter the kingdom of God?
- What Old Testament story does Jesus reference to explain how He will bring life, and what was lifted up in that story?
- According to John 3:17, what was God's purpose in sending the Son into the world?
Interpretation questions
- Jesus compares the Spirit to the wind. What does this analogy reveal about how God's Spirit works in a person's life and why it can be difficult to understand or control?
- How does the story of Moses lifting up the serpent in the wilderness help explain the purpose of Jesus being lifted up on the cross? What is the connection between looking and living?
- The passage states that God gave his Son so that whoever believes in him will have eternal life. How can belief be understood as a gift that receives life rather than a work that earns it?
- Why do you think Nicodemus, a respected religious leader, felt the need to come to Jesus at night with his questions? What fears or curiosities might he have been wrestling with?
Application questions
- Curiosity and fear often surface in the dark; those moments become thresholds rather than failures. [34:32] What are the "nighttime" questions or fears that sometimes keep you awake? How can those anxious moments become a starting point for turning toward God in prayer rather than away into distraction?
- The Spirit meets restless hearts where they are, converting anxious curiosity into the soil of faith. [34:16] When has a time of personal worry or doubt unexpectedly become a moment where you felt God's presence or a nudge toward hope?
- Belief connects the wounded to God’s reconciling action, not to an audit of spiritual achievement. [36:52] How does understanding belief as a gift that receives grace, rather than a test we must pass, change the way you approach times of personal failure or doubt?
- The crucifixion emerges as God’s decisive presence amid human brokenness, acting to heal rather than to judge. [19:19] When you see suffering in the world—in the news or in your community—how can looking to the cross reshape your response from one of despair or judgment to one of hopeful solidarity and action?
- Collective generosity multiplies through channels to feed the hungry, support seminaries, and sustain disaster response; such stewardship refuses isolation and chooses global solidarity. [26:10] In what practical ways can we, as a community, continue to refuse isolation and choose solidarity with our local and global neighbors?
- Nicodemus’s journey does not end in secret: later advocacy for fairness and participation in an intimate burial preparation reveal transformation from curiosity to courageous devotion. [42:13] Where is God calling you to move from a private, curious faith into a more public, courageous expression of devotion and care for others?