Bold and Persistent Prayer: Lessons from a Parable

 

Summary

### Summary

Today, we embarked on a new sermon series focusing on the parables of Jesus. We began by discussing the purpose and significance of parables, which are earthly stories with heavenly meanings. These stories are designed to reveal hidden truths and provoke a decision or response from the listener. We explored the parable of the friend at midnight from Luke 11:1-13, which is sandwiched between two teachings on prayer. This parable illustrates the importance of persistent and bold prayer.

In the story, a man goes to his friend's house at midnight to ask for bread because he has an unexpected guest. Despite the inconvenience, the friend eventually gives him the bread due to his persistent knocking. This parable teaches us that we can approach God with our needs at any time, and He will respond. It emphasizes that God is not inconvenienced by our requests and that we should pray with boldness and persistence.

We also discussed how our perceptions of prayer might need reevaluation. Many of us have been taught specific ways to pray, but Jesus encourages us to come to God with confidence and persistence. We should not be afraid to ask, seek, and knock, trusting that God will respond in His perfect timing and way.

Finally, we were reminded that we are children of the King, and just as a child can wake their parent in the middle of the night without fear, we can approach God with our needs and concerns. We closed with the Lord's Prayer, reflecting on its significance and taking a moment of quiet to bring our personal needs before God.

### Key Takeaways

1. Persistent Prayer: The parable of the friend at midnight teaches us the importance of persistent prayer. Just as the man kept knocking until his friend answered, we should continually bring our needs to God without fear of being a nuisance. Persistence in prayer demonstrates our faith and trust in God's timing and provision. [48:31]

2. Boldness in Asking: Jesus encourages us to approach God with boldness. The man in the parable was not ashamed to ask for help, even at an inconvenient hour. Similarly, we should not hesitate to bring our requests to God, no matter how big or small they may seem. God welcomes our boldness and responds to our faith. [46:07]

3. God's Unfailing Response: The parable assures us that God will respond to our prayers. While the friend in the story eventually gave in due to persistence, God is always willing and ready to respond to our needs. We can trust that He hears us and will provide what is best for us. [50:07]

4. Reevaluating Prayer Perceptions: It's essential to evaluate our perceptions of prayer. Many of us have been taught specific ways to pray, but Jesus shows us that prayer is about relationship and persistence. We should align our understanding of prayer with the teachings of Jesus, ensuring that we approach God with the right heart and attitude. [53:56]

5. Childlike Faith: We are reminded that we are children of the King. Just as a child can approach their parent without fear, we can come to God with our needs and concerns. This childlike faith and trust in God's goodness and provision should characterize our prayer life. [01:01:44]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[01:20] - Men's Bible Study and Bonfire
[02:41] - Upcoming Events and Announcements
[05:15] - Opening Prayer and Worship
[23:46] - Introduction to Parables Series
[24:12] - Purpose of Parables
[25:10] - Decision and Revelation in Parables
[26:06] - Mysteries Wrapped in Everyday Clothes
[27:13] - Greek Meaning of Parable
[30:17] - Jesus Explains Parables to Disciples
[33:23] - Hidden Messages and Spiritual Truths
[36:00] - Parable of the Friend at Midnight
[48:31] - Persistent Audacity in Prayer
[50:07] - God's Response to Our Prayers
[53:56] - Evaluating Perceptions of Prayer
[01:01:44] - Childlike Faith in Prayer
[01:07:15] - Closing Prayer and Reflection

Study Guide

### Bible Reading
1. Luke 11:1-13 - The Parable of the Friend at Midnight
2. Matthew 6:9-13 - The Lord's Prayer
3. Hebrews 4:16 - Approach God's Throne with Confidence

### Observation Questions
1. In the parable of the friend at midnight, why does the friend eventually give the bread to the man who is knocking? ([39:22])
2. What does Jesus teach His disciples to say when they pray, according to Luke 11:2-4? ([37:42])
3. How does Jesus describe the way we should approach God with our requests in Luke 11:9-10? ([40:30])
4. What comparison does Jesus make between earthly fathers and our Heavenly Father in Luke 11:11-13? ([41:29])

### Interpretation Questions
1. What does the parable of the friend at midnight teach us about the nature of persistent prayer? How does this persistence reflect our faith in God's timing and provision? ([48:31])
2. How does Jesus' teaching on prayer in Luke 11:1-13 challenge or affirm your current understanding and practice of prayer? ([53:56])
3. In what ways does the comparison between earthly fathers and our Heavenly Father in Luke 11:11-13 help us understand God's willingness to respond to our prayers? ([41:29])
4. How does the concept of approaching God's throne with confidence, as mentioned in Hebrews 4:16, align with the boldness encouraged in the parable of the friend at midnight? ([01:00:48])

### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you felt hesitant to bring a request to God. How does the parable of the friend at midnight encourage you to approach God with boldness and persistence? ([51:27])
2. Evaluate your current perceptions of prayer. Are there any misconceptions you need to address based on Jesus' teachings in Luke 11:1-13? How can you align your prayer life more closely with these teachings? ([53:56])
3. Think about a specific need or concern you have right now. How can you practice persistent prayer for this need, trusting in God's perfect timing and response? ([58:57])
4. How can you cultivate a childlike faith in your prayer life, approaching God with the same confidence and trust that a child has in their parent? ([01:01:44])
5. Identify one area in your life where you need to seek God's guidance or provision. What steps can you take this week to ask, seek, and knock persistently in prayer for this specific need? ([55:35])
6. How can you remind yourself daily that you are a child of the King and that God is always ready to listen and respond to your prayers? ([01:01:44])
7. Consider setting a specific time each day for persistent prayer. What practical steps can you take to make this a consistent habit in your daily routine? ([58:13])

Devotional

Day 1: The Power of Persistent Prayer
Persistent prayer is a demonstration of our faith and trust in God's timing and provision. The parable of the friend at midnight (Luke 11:1-13) illustrates this beautifully. In the story, a man goes to his friend's house at midnight to ask for bread because he has an unexpected guest. Despite the inconvenience, the friend eventually gives him the bread due to his persistent knocking. This parable teaches us that we can approach God with our needs at any time, and He will respond. It emphasizes that God is not inconvenienced by our requests and that we should pray with boldness and persistence. Persistence in prayer shows our reliance on God and our belief that He will provide for us in His perfect timing.

Jesus encourages us to come to God with confidence and persistence. We should not be afraid to ask, seek, and knock, trusting that God will respond in His perfect timing and way. This persistent audacity in prayer is a testament to our faith and trust in God's goodness and provision. [48:31]

Luke 18:1-8 (ESV): "And he told them a parable to the effect that they ought always to pray and not lose heart. He said, 'In a certain city there was a judge who neither feared God nor respected man. And there was a widow in that city who kept coming to him and saying, "Give me justice against my adversary." For a while he refused, but afterward he said to himself, "Though I neither fear God nor respect man, yet because this widow keeps bothering me, I will give her justice, so that she will not beat me down by her continual coming."'"

Reflection: Think of a prayer request you have given up on. Can you commit to bringing it before God persistently for the next week, trusting in His timing and provision?


Day 2: Boldness in Asking
Jesus encourages us to approach God with boldness. The man in the parable was not ashamed to ask for help, even at an inconvenient hour. Similarly, we should not hesitate to bring our requests to God, no matter how big or small they may seem. God welcomes our boldness and responds to our faith. This boldness in asking is a reflection of our trust in God's ability to provide for our needs and His willingness to listen to our prayers.

We often limit our prayers because we think our requests are too trivial or too grand for God. However, Jesus teaches us that no request is too small or too big for God. We should approach Him with confidence, knowing that He cares about every aspect of our lives. This boldness in prayer is a testament to our faith in God's power and His love for us. [46:07]

Hebrews 4:16 (ESV): "Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need."

Reflection: What is one bold prayer request you have been hesitant to bring to God? Can you bring it to Him today with confidence, trusting in His love and provision?


Day 3: Trusting in God's Unfailing Response
The parable assures us that God will respond to our prayers. While the friend in the story eventually gave in due to persistence, God is always willing and ready to respond to our needs. We can trust that He hears us and will provide what is best for us. This trust in God's unfailing response is a cornerstone of our faith and our relationship with Him.

God's response to our prayers may not always be what we expect or desire, but we can trust that He knows what is best for us. His timing and ways are perfect, and He will provide for our needs according to His will. This assurance of God's unfailing response gives us the confidence to bring our requests to Him, knowing that He will answer in the best way possible. [50:07]

1 John 5:14-15 (ESV): "And this is the confidence that we have toward him, that if we ask anything according to his will he hears us. And if we know that he hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests that we have asked of him."

Reflection: Reflect on a time when God's response to your prayer was different from what you expected. How did His response ultimately benefit you? Can you trust Him with your current needs, knowing that He will provide what is best?


Day 4: Reevaluating Our Perceptions of Prayer
It's essential to evaluate our perceptions of prayer. Many of us have been taught specific ways to pray, but Jesus shows us that prayer is about relationship and persistence. We should align our understanding of prayer with the teachings of Jesus, ensuring that we approach God with the right heart and attitude. This reevaluation of our perceptions of prayer helps us to deepen our relationship with God and to pray more effectively.

Prayer is not just a ritual or a set of words; it is a conversation with God. Jesus teaches us to come to God with confidence, persistence, and a heart that seeks a relationship with Him. By reevaluating our perceptions of prayer, we can ensure that our prayers are genuine and heartfelt, and that we are truly seeking God's will in our lives. [53:56]

Matthew 6:7-8 (ESV): "And when you pray, do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentiles do, for they think that they will be heard for their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him."

Reflection: Think about your current prayer habits. Are there any ways you can make your prayers more genuine and heartfelt, focusing on your relationship with God rather than just the words you say?


Day 5: Embracing Childlike Faith
We are reminded that we are children of the King. Just as a child can approach their parent without fear, we can come to God with our needs and concerns. This childlike faith and trust in God's goodness and provision should characterize our prayer life. Embracing this childlike faith allows us to approach God with confidence and trust, knowing that He cares for us deeply.

A child approaches their parent with complete trust and confidence, knowing that their parent will provide for their needs. Similarly, we should approach God with the same trust and confidence, knowing that He is our loving Father who cares for us. This childlike faith is a testament to our belief in God's goodness and His willingness to provide for us. [01:01:44]

Matthew 18:3-4 (ESV): "And he said, 'Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.'"

Reflection: Reflect on your relationship with God. Do you approach Him with the trust and confidence of a child? How can you cultivate a more childlike faith in your prayer life, trusting in God's goodness and provision?

Quotes

1. "One of the things that we're going to see within these parables is that they are meant to draw us into a decision. They're meant to reveal things, hidden things, that maybe we might not know or understand. But they're also, a lot of them, Jesus uses them within the context of the conversation that's going on and the other people that he's talking to. And then for us today as well, he draws them into a conclusion and a decision based on what they've seen." [24:40] (30 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "The purpose of them is to...they're mysteries wrapped in everyday clothes. I thought that was a good way to put it. You know, another way to say it is that it's Jesus revealing heavenly truths about an earthly reality using an earthly reality. And so God using, or Jesus using stories that we're familiar with, things that we do here. You know, in the New Testament, a lot of them, they deal with farming or sheep or other things that people were familiar with." [26:06] (27 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "If you just hear the story, then you miss out on the heavenly truth part. Does that make sense? And so that's the part where it's this wrap, this mystery wrapped in everyday clothes. And if you're not familiar, there's these two Greek words. And in Greek, para is the first part. It means to come alongside. So you think about a paralegal, somebody who comes alongside an attorney. They're next to them. Or a parachurch organization, they come alongside the church and help the church in its midst." [26:50] (31 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "So the parables, they have a way of doing that for us. And so as we go through these, so today and the coming weeks, that's kind of how I want us to be thinking of, okay, I want to hear the story and then understand the meaning behind it and then how do I apply that truth to my life today. And so there's a, you know, there's that, the purpose behind it." [29:46] (23 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "So the question for us as we jump in this morning and as we look at these parables and whenever you study parables is to think about these things. Do I, am I having the spiritual, am I having the spiritual eyes and ears to understand what Jesus is actually saying? And the great thing is, is that when we accept Christ and he opens our eyes to these things, right? The Amazon, man, that was telling this morning, right? Like, did you see it? And then all of a sudden you're like, oh, I get it now. I never would have known that before, but now I understand, now I see." [35:13] (34 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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6. "So the friend in the house, he gets his whole house woken up and he shows up and he comes out and, you know, it takes a while for him. It's a lot of knocking for him to finally get up because, you know, in those days you typically had a normal house, Israelite house. The bottom was where all the animals stayed. And so you have all the animals on the bottom and then you and all of your family, it was like one big giant room. And so, you know, it's where you lived, it's where you cooked, it's where you hung out. And then you throw your mats down and that's where you all slept." [47:06] (26 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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7. "So the friend in the house, he gets his whole house woken up and he shows up and he comes out and, you know, it takes a while for him. It's a lot of knocking for him to finally get up because, you know, in those days you typically had a normal house, Israelite house. The bottom was where all the animals stayed. And so you have all the animals on the bottom and then you and all of your family, it was like one big giant room. And so, you know, it's where you lived, it's where you cooked, it's where you hung out. And then you throw your mats down and that's where you all slept." [47:06] (26 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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8. "And so the parables, they have a way of doing that for us. And so as we go through these, so today and the coming weeks, that's kind of how I want us to be thinking of, okay, I want to hear the story and then understand the meaning behind it and then how do I apply that truth to my life today. And so there's a, you know, there's that, the purpose behind it." [29:46] (24 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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9. "So the question for us as we jump in this morning and as we look at these parables and whenever you study parables is to think about these things. Do I, am I having the spiritual, am I having the spiritual eyes and ears to understand what Jesus is actually saying? And the great thing is, is that when we accept Christ and he opens our eyes to these things, right? The Amazon, man, that was telling this morning, right? Like, did you see it? And then all of a sudden you're like, oh, I get it now. I never would have known that before, but now I understand, now I see." [35:13] (34 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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10. "So the friend in the house, he gets his whole house woken up and he shows up and he comes out and, you know, it takes a while for him. It's a lot of knocking for him to finally get up because, you know, in those days you typically had a normal house, Israelite house. The bottom was where all the animals stayed. And so you have all the animals on the bottom and then you and all of your family, it was like one big giant room. And so, you know, it's where you lived, it's where you cooked, it's where you hung out. And then you throw your mats down and that's where you all slept." [47:06] (26 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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