Small Group Bible Study Guide: Shaped by God, Counting the Cost
Bible ReadingJeremiah 18:1-6 (ESV)> The word that came to Jeremiah from the Lord: “Arise, and go down to the potter’s house, and there I will let you hear my words.” So I went down to the potter’s house, and there he was working at his wheel. And the vessel he was making of clay was spoiled in the potter’s hand, and he reworked it into another vessel, as it seemed good to the potter to do. Then the word of the Lord came to me: “O house of Israel, can I not do with you as this potter has done? declares the Lord. Behold, like the clay in the potter’s hand, so are you in my hand, O house of Israel.”
Luke 14:25-33 (ESV)> Now great crowds accompanied him, and he turned and said to them, “If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple. Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple. For which of you, desiring to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost, whether he has enough to complete it? Otherwise, when he has laid a foundation and is not able to finish, all who see it begin to mock him, saying, ‘This man began to build and was not able to finish.’ Or what king, going out to encounter another king in war, will not sit down first and deliberate whether he is able with ten thousand to meet him who comes against him with twenty thousand? And if not, while the other is yet a great way off, he sends a delegation and asks for terms of peace. So therefore, any one of you who does not renounce all that he has cannot be my disciple.”
Psalm 139:13-16 (ESV)> For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them.
Observation Questions- In Jeremiah’s vision, what does the potter do when the clay becomes marred or spoiled? What does this show us about God’s approach to our mistakes? [[24:06]]
- According to Jesus in Luke 14, what are some things a person must be willing to let go of in order to be his disciple? [[18:15]]
- What does Psalm 139 say about how God knows and forms us? How does this connect to the image of the potter and the clay? [[13:36]]
- The sermon mentions that the potter never discards the clay, but patiently reworks it. What does this say about God’s persistence with us? [[24:06]]
Interpretation Questions- The sermon says that God’s reshaping is not a word of fear, but of hope. Why might it be hopeful to know that God keeps working with us, even when we falter? [[24:06]]
- Jesus talks about “counting the cost” of discipleship. What do you think it means to count the cost in your own life? Why does Jesus want us to be honest about this? [[29:06]]
- The clay does not get to decide its own form. What does it look like for us to surrender control to God, especially when it means letting go of our own plans or comfort zones? [[27:22]]
- The sermon says transformation is costly and may require us to leave behind old loyalties or securities. Why do you think real change often comes with a cost? [[31:00]]
Application Questions- The sermon asks, “Where is God reshaping me?” Take a moment to reflect: Is there an area in your life where you sense God is trying to mold or change you? What might it look like to be more open or “pliable” in that area? [[32:26]]
- Are there things—habits, relationships, attitudes, or comforts—that you are clinging to, which might be keeping you from being shaped by God? What would it take to loosen your grip? [[32:26]]
- Jesus says we must be willing to “let go of what we hold most dear” to follow him. Is there something you feel called to let go of, even if it’s difficult? How can you take a first step this week? [[18:15]]
- The sermon talks about discipleship not just being about “walking in the parade when the crowds are cheering,” but about faithfulness when the road is hard. Can you share a time when following Jesus put you at odds with others or required a sacrifice? How did you respond? [[29:06]]
- As a community, the sermon challenges us to let go of “the way we’ve always done it” to be vessels for God’s work now. Is there a tradition or routine in your life or in our church that might need to be re-examined or released? [[32:26]]
- The potter’s hands are always at work, even when the clay resists. When have you resisted God’s shaping in your life? What helped you finally surrender, or what might help you now? [[33:15]]
- The sermon says, “May we have the courage to say yes, trusting that God is crafting something beautiful in and through us.” What is one practical way you can say “yes” to God’s shaping this week? [[33:43]]
Closing Prayer Suggestion: Invite the group to pray for open hearts, courage to surrender, and trust in God’s persistent, loving hands.