Every day, the circumstances of life and the environments you choose are shaping you into someone new. Whether it is the teams you join or the habits you form, you are constantly being molded by what you prioritize and where you spend your time. It is important to recognize that no matter where you are in life, you are still in the process of being formed. You have the opportunity to consider what influences are currently defining your identity and how they align with your faith. By placing yourself in the hands of God, you allow Him to be the primary architect of who you are becoming. [00:22]
And he said to all, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.” (Luke 9:23)
Reflection: When you look at your current daily habits and the people you spend the most time with, what kind of person are they shaping you to become?
To move in the direction God intends for you, there is a necessary requirement of letting go. You cannot fully embrace the new life Christ offers while still clinging tightly to your old ways, habits, and personal desires. This process of surrender is not a one-time event but a daily decision to prioritize His path over your own. It involves a conscious rejection of the things that keep you tethered to a version of yourself that God is trying to transform. As you release your grip on the past, you find the freedom to walk forward in faith. [02:18]
For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will save it. (Luke 9:24)
Reflection: What is one specific "old way" of thinking or acting that you feel God is gently asking you to set aside so you can follow Him more freely?
It is natural to want a clear map for the future and a detailed plan for how to achieve your goals. However, following Jesus often means doing the next right thing even when you cannot see exactly where the path leads. You may find yourself in seasons where the next stepping stone isn't visible, requiring you to give up the illusion of control. Trusting God involves doing your current work with excellence and integrity, regardless of the immediate benefit to yourself. When you surrender your need to know the whole plan, you open yourself up to His divine guidance. [08:51]
For what does it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses or forfeits himself? (Luke 9:25)
Reflection: In an area of your life where the future feels uncertain, what is one "next right thing" you can do today to honor God, even without knowing the final outcome?
Just as a gardener must prune a vine to keep it healthy, God often removes things from your life to make space for new growth. Cutting away parts of your schedule or certain attachments can be painful and difficult to navigate in the moment. Yet, this process is essential for you to thrive and bear fruit in your relationship with Christ. God does not ask you to empty yourself just to leave you void; He intends to replace what you release with His peace and purpose. By allowing Him to prune what is dead, you create room for fresh life to flourish. [20:07]
Every branch in me that does not bear fruit he takes away, and every branch that does bear fruit he prunes, that it may bear more fruit. (John 15:2)
Reflection: What is a "dead branch" in your life—perhaps a commitment, a grudge, or a distraction—that might be preventing you from experiencing new spiritual growth?
True discipleship is found when you begin to desire Jesus more than the riches, comforts, or status of this world. Like the wealthy man who struggled to give up his possessions, you may find things that have a strong foothold in your heart. God invites you to examine what you are clinging to for security or normalcy and to offer it back to Him. Surrendering your life is an identity change that makes you more like Christ rather than conforming to the world's expectations. As you seek Him with all your heart, He provides new passions and a deeper sense of belonging. [19:02]
For whoever is ashamed of me and of my words, of him will the Son of Man be ashamed when he comes in his glory and the glory of the Father and of the holy angels. (Luke 9:26)
Reflection: If Jesus were to ask you to give up the one thing that currently brings you the most comfort or status, what would your honest reaction be, and what does that reveal about your heart's priorities?
People are always in the process of becoming—shaped by past events, the communities they join, and the choices they keep making. Identity forms not only from inner desire but from the rhythms of life: teams, jobs, friendships, schedules. To follow Christ toward the life God intends requires a repeated, intentional letting go: surrendering control, resigning from comforts that compete for devotion, and choosing the difficult daily acts of obedience that have no guaranteed outcome. Clinging to old habits, possessions, or self-definitions blocks transformation; true discipleship repeatedly calls for a renunciation of the self that seeks security in what the world offers.
The gospel text from Luke is central: following Jesus means giving up one’s own way, taking up a cross daily, and accepting that apparent loss can be true gain. Real surrender is not an emptying into nothingness but a reordering—God replaces what is laid down with new loves, new purposes, and freedom to bear fruit. Practical stories—and honest confessions about wanting control, failing to help when convenient, or overcommitting to schedules—illustrate how easy it is to choose self-preservation over sacrificial obedience.
The challenge is both individual and communal. The rich man who could not part with his possessions shows how attachments define allegiance more than moral effort does; pruning imagery underscores that growth requires cutting away the dead or distracting branches. Surrender is an identity change—from whatever team culture, habit, or pleasure once defined a person, toward a Christlike shape of life where God becomes the orienting center. The call is not to a bland asceticism but to a transformed life where desires are reformed, actions are steady, and the ordinary next right thing becomes faithful service. The final appeal is pastoral and practical: name what must be laid down, take steps to remove it, and make space for what God intends to plant and cultivate in its place.
``He thought he had surrendered his life, but truly, this man couldn't give up the wealth that he had attained. This man could not give up the things of this world that he so desired, that had such a strong foothold in his life. And his response wasn't, well, could I keep some? No. He he went away sorrow. Because the things of his this world that he so desired overpowered his life with Jesus.
[00:18:06]
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#ChooseChristNotWealth
So ultimately, have to make decisions for myself, but I also have to give up that control in my life. I don't have the next stepping block that that clearly ascends myself into the next thing. What I can trust is that the things that I'm asked to do, I can do them and I can do them a 100% well even if I don't know if it will lead anywhere. That's such a great analogy for what life is like.
[00:08:26]
(30 seconds)
#TrustTheNextStep
We've talked about the fact that we're all becoming something. It doesn't matter where you are in life, you're still being shaped by the circumstances we find ourselves in. We're shaped by the events that we've had in our past. But we're all becoming something. And what are the things in our lives that are that are shaping who we are? Where are we putting ourselves in that makes us become who we are becoming?
[00:00:22]
(31 seconds)
#BecomingOnPurpose
The analogy of of keeping a tree healthy. When you have a vine a vineyard or you have a grove, what you have to do to keep this this grove or vineyard healthy on the long term, you can leave anything to just kind of do its own nature thing for a while. But in order to keep a tree healthy, you have to prune off what's dead.
[00:19:41]
(34 seconds)
#PruneForLife
Cliff said, when I was a child, I see it with my own children right now, when I was a child, I was playing with a truck. When I was playing with that truck, someone came over to me and they took it from my hands. My response was I went and took the truck back and I hit him on the head with it. That's the way that I was born. That felt right. That's not what God desires for us.
[00:12:39]
(44 seconds)
#GrowBeyondInstincts
I must become more less. You must become more. How do I become less in my own life and you become more today? Ask that you plant those seeds in our hearts.
[00:23:28]
(17 seconds)
#LessOfMeMoreOfYou
Am I willing to surrender my life, all of my life? When we surrender, when we give up control of the things that are in our life, It opens a path to life. It opens a path to freedom.
[00:14:42]
(33 seconds)
#SurrenderOpensFreedom
To surrender something is truly an identity change. Not that you're more like the hockey team, not that you're more like the football team, not that you're more like the soccer team, whatever that is, but that you're more like Christ. That's who he is calling us to be.
[00:21:17]
(22 seconds)
#IdentityInChrist
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