Balancing Reverence and Inclusivity in Worship Attire

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Whether you dress to kill on Sunday morning or dress to kill those who just kill or whether you close your eyes earnestly while singing the doxology or casually sip your latte while singing holy holy holy or whether you sit with respectful posture or slouch with indifference or whether you keep your hands to yourself or rub the back of your boyfriend's neck while the pastor pours out his heart or whether you disdain a shabby visitor or rejoice that they are welcome all these things and many more are shaped and guided by your vision of what God is like in this service and what is at stake here what you believe should be happening here. [00:01:27]

Let our demeanor and dress reflect the transcendence and imminence of God the majesty and the intimacy of God, Isaiah 57:15 thus says the one who is high and lifted up who inhabits eternity whose name is holy, I dwell in a high and holy place and also with him who is of a contrite and lowly spirit so I would ask has the swing say in the last 40 years from formality in church to casualness in church captured a mature balance between transcendence and imminence. [00:03:22]

Let our demeanor and dress reflect the severity and kindness of God the Romans 11:22 behold the kindness and the severity of God, severity toward those who have fallen but God's kindness to you provided you continue in his kindness otherwise you too will be cut off now now God is not to be trifled with he is not mocked he is more severe and more kind than we can imagine and there is a demeanor that flows from a sober experience of the mingling of these two realities especially as we come into worship face to face corporately with this God. [00:04:33]

Let our demeanor and dress be shaped by the glad gratefulness and serious reverence that come from the firmness of the kingdom and the fire of God's holiness Hebrews 12:28 let us be grateful for receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken and let us offer to God acceptable worship with reverence and awe for our God is a consuming fire acceptable worship will have a strong taste of reverence and awe this is missing in many churches and it affects not only the kind of clothing we wear but the kind of souls we become. [00:05:27]

Let our demeanor and dress reflect the biblical call to self humbling rather than self exaltation Luke 18 14 everyone who exalts himself will be humbled but the one who humbles himself will be exalted now that's of course to be true of all Christians all the time everywhere but I'm arguing especially in corporate worship let every man and every woman think as he or she dresses Sunday morning something like this I want to be totally non distracting in my presence in worship today. [00:06:36]

I will not I will not as a man or a woman tried to stand out not by style not by expense not by cleverness not by offensiveness not by sexiness by what I reveal or how tight my clothing is or how elegant or trendy my hair is or how perfectly coordinated my colors are or how free from taboos I am or how solemn I am my aim will be to dress and act in a way that simply does not attract or distract from what should be happening. [00:07:59]

Let our demeanor and dress reflect the joyful readiness to embrace all comers who may not be able to dress the way we would like to or like them to James chapter two gets this pretty head on my brother's show no partiality as you hold the faith of our Lord Jesus Christ the Lord of glory for if a man wearing a gold ring and fine clothing comes into your assembly and a poor man with shabby clothing also comes in and you pay attention to the one who wears fine clothing and say you sit here in a good place while you say to the poor man you stand over there or sit at my feet have you not made distinctions among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts. [00:08:39]

Now the alternative to this judging partiality is not something as superficial as everybody dressing in shabby clothes that's ridiculous this is a matter of the heart it may be that the richest woman in the church dressed in very nice clothing the richest woman in the church will be the quickest to embrace the poor person in shabby clothes who walks in on Sunday morning her heart may be totally right while the cool dressed down quick don't pay any attention at all it's not a matter of the clothing at that point it's a matter of the heart. [00:09:52]

Let our demeanor and dress reflect the biblical truth that many things in life including worship life are decided not by what is commanded or forbidden biblically but what is fitting and proper biblically when when the father in the parable of the prodigal son tried to entreat his elder son to join the feast he didn't say get in here it's my command for goodness sakes I'm your dad he said son this is verse 32 of Luke 15 it is fitting to celebrate and be glad for this your brother was dead and is alive he was lost and is found. [00:10:31]

If you're married to the most wonderful woman the most patient most kind most forgiving most gracious woman in the world who loves you as you are accepts you as you are and you show up on your 25th wedding anniversary celebration at a nice restaurant where she has gone ahead of you because you've been at work and she has made some nice plans for you and you show up at this restaurant in t-shirt and tennis shorts cuz you just come straight from the tennis court she will accept you she will love you that's the kind of woman she is and you will have not done well because that was unfitting. [00:11:39]

All these things and many more are shaped and guided by your vision our vision of what God is like and what you believe should be happening in this service what is fitting before this God Amen yea it's a question of fitting this thank you John for the question thank you Pastor John for the response and thank you for listening if you haven't done so get our new episodes as we release them by subscribing to a spaz in your favorite podcast app and Spotify or by subscribing to DG's YouTube channel. [00:12:03]

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