Authenticity in Faith: Navigating Social Media's Influence

 

Summary

In today's youth-led service, we explored the theme of authenticity in our Christian walk, especially in the context of a world dominated by social media. We began by acknowledging the unchanging and unfailing nature of God, contrasting it with the fallibility of humans and the transient nature of societal trends. Reflecting on my own youth, I noted how much has changed over the years, from language to technology, and how these changes have influenced our lives, particularly through social media.

Social media, while a powerful tool for connection and outreach, has also created a culture of comparison and superficiality. We often present only the best parts of our lives online, leading to a distorted sense of reality and self-worth. This comparison game can steal our joy and distract us from our true identity and purpose in Christ. The app "Be Real" was highlighted as an example of the desire for authenticity, yet even it falls short as users still curate their posts.

The core of the message emphasized the importance of being genuine in our faith. Just as a counterfeit bill can look real but lacks the identifying marks of authenticity, so too can our outward appearances and actions be deceiving if not rooted in true spiritual fruit. We examined Matthew 7:15-23, which warns against false prophets and emphasizes that we will be known by our fruits. True Christianity is not about outward appearances but about the inward transformation and the fruits of the Spirit.

We must be cautious of the counterfeit and ensure that our lives reflect the genuine love and holiness of Christ. This involves more than just attending church or looking the part; it requires a deep, personal relationship with God and living out His teachings daily. Authenticity means being willing to stand up for our beliefs, even when it is unpopular, and being transparent about our struggles and imperfections.

In conclusion, we are called to examine ourselves and ensure that our lives bear the true marks of a follower of Christ. We must strive to be real Christians, not just in appearance but in our hearts and actions, allowing the fruit of the Spirit to shine through us.

Key Takeaways:

1. God's Unchanging Nature: Unlike humans and societal trends, God is unchanging and unfailing. We can trust Him completely because He has a proven track record of faithfulness. This provides a solid foundation for our lives in a world that is constantly changing. [0:00]

2. The Dangers of Social Media: While social media can be a powerful tool for connection and outreach, it also fosters a culture of comparison and superficiality. We often present only the best parts of our lives, leading to a distorted sense of reality and self-worth. True joy and contentment come from focusing on our identity in Christ, not on how we compare to others. [10:58]

3. Authenticity in Faith: Just as a counterfeit bill can look real but lacks the identifying marks of authenticity, our outward appearances and actions can be deceiving if not rooted in true spiritual fruit. True Christianity is about inward transformation and bearing the fruits of the Spirit, not just outward appearances. [21:44]

4. Examine Your Fruits: We must be cautious of the counterfeit and ensure that our lives reflect the genuine love and holiness of Christ. This involves more than just attending church or looking the part; it requires a deep, personal relationship with God and living out His teachings daily. [25:04]

5. Living a Real Christian Life: Authenticity means being willing to stand up for our beliefs, even when it is unpopular, and being transparent about our struggles and imperfections. We must strive to be real Christians, allowing the fruit of the Spirit to shine through us and living out our faith in every aspect of our lives. [28:34]

YouTube Chapters:

[0:00] - Welcome
[01:25] - Introduction and Personal Reflections
[02:41] - Changes Over the Years
[05:35] - The Rise of Social Media
[08:39] - Social Media's Impact on Relationships
[10:58] - The Dangers of Social Media
[12:19] - Authenticity in Our Faith
[14:09] - The Comparison Game
[16:29] - The Reality Behind Social Media
[18:31] - The "Be Real" App and Authenticity
[21:44] - Identifying True Christians
[25:04] - Examining Our Fruits
[28:34] - Living a Real Christian Life
[29:50] - Final Reflections and Call to Action
[32:23] - Closing Prayer and Altar Call

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1. Matthew 7:15-23 - "Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves. You will recognize them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thorn bushes, or figs from thistles? So, every healthy tree bears good fruit, but the diseased tree bears bad fruit. A healthy tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a diseased tree bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Thus you will recognize them by their fruits. Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?' And then will I declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.'"

#### Observation Questions
1. What does Matthew 7:15-23 warn us about, and how can we recognize false prophets? ([21:44])
2. According to the sermon, how has social media influenced our perception of reality and self-worth? ([10:58])
3. What example did the pastor use to illustrate the concept of authenticity in social media? ([18:31])
4. How does the pastor describe the difference between outward appearances and true spiritual fruit? ([25:04])

#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why is it important to recognize false prophets by their fruits, as mentioned in Matthew 7:15-23? How does this apply to our daily lives? ([21:44])
2. How can the culture of comparison fostered by social media impact our spiritual lives and relationship with God? ([10:58])
3. What does the pastor mean by saying that true Christianity is about inward transformation rather than outward appearances? ([25:04])
4. How can we ensure that our lives reflect the genuine love and holiness of Christ, beyond just attending church or looking the part? ([25:04])

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your own social media usage. How often do you find yourself comparing your life to others? What steps can you take to focus more on your identity in Christ rather than on social media comparisons? ([10:58])
2. Think about a time when you felt pressured to present a perfect image of yourself, either online or in person. How can you practice being more authentic in your daily interactions? ([18:31])
3. Examine the fruits of the Spirit in your life. Are there areas where you feel you are lacking? What specific actions can you take this week to cultivate these fruits more fully? ([21:44])
4. Consider the people you follow or look up to, both online and offline. How can you discern whether they are bearing good spiritual fruit? What changes might you need to make in who you allow to influence you? ([21:44])
5. Reflect on your personal relationship with God. Are there aspects of your faith that feel more like outward appearances rather than inward transformation? What steps can you take to deepen your relationship with God this week? ([25:04])
6. How can you be more transparent about your struggles and imperfections with your small group or close friends? What benefits might come from this transparency? ([28:34])
7. Identify one specific way you can stand up for your beliefs this week, even if it is unpopular. How can you prepare yourself to handle any potential backlash or criticism? ([28:34])

Devotional

Day 1: Trusting in God's Unchanging Nature
In a world where everything seems to be in constant flux, from societal trends to personal circumstances, it is comforting to know that God remains unchanging and unfailing. Unlike humans, who are prone to mistakes and influenced by the ever-shifting tides of culture, God’s nature is steadfast and reliable. This provides a solid foundation for our lives, allowing us to anchor our faith in something that is eternally stable. When we face uncertainties and challenges, we can find peace in the knowledge that God’s character and promises remain the same.

Reflecting on this truth can help us navigate the complexities of life with greater confidence and assurance. By focusing on God’s unchanging nature, we can develop a deeper trust in His plans and purposes for us, even when they are not immediately clear. This trust is not based on our circumstances but on the proven track record of God’s faithfulness throughout history. [0:00]

Psalm 102:25-27 (ESV): "Of old you laid the foundation of the earth, and the heavens are the work of your hands. They will perish, but you will remain; they will all wear out like a garment. You will change them like a robe, and they will pass away, but you are the same, and your years have no end."

Reflection: In what areas of your life do you need to trust in God's unchanging nature more fully? How can you remind yourself of His faithfulness today?


Day 2: The Dangers of Social Media
Social media has revolutionized the way we connect and communicate, offering unprecedented opportunities for outreach and relationship-building. However, it also fosters a culture of comparison and superficiality. We often curate our online personas to showcase only the best parts of our lives, leading to a distorted sense of reality and self-worth. This constant comparison can steal our joy and distract us from our true identity and purpose in Christ.

True joy and contentment come from focusing on our identity in Christ, not on how we measure up to others. By recognizing the pitfalls of social media, we can take intentional steps to guard our hearts and minds. This might involve setting boundaries on our social media use, being mindful of the content we consume, and reminding ourselves of our worth in God's eyes. [10:58]

Galatians 1:10 (ESV): "For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ."

Reflection: How has social media influenced your sense of self-worth? What practical steps can you take to focus more on your identity in Christ rather than on comparisons with others?


Day 3: Authenticity in Faith
Just as a counterfeit bill can look real but lacks the identifying marks of authenticity, our outward appearances and actions can be deceiving if not rooted in true spiritual fruit. True Christianity is about inward transformation and bearing the fruits of the Spirit, not just outward appearances. It is easy to fall into the trap of performing religious duties without genuine heart change, but God desires authenticity in our faith.

This means that our actions should flow from a transformed heart, reflecting the love and holiness of Christ. It involves a daily commitment to living out God's teachings and allowing His Spirit to work in us. By focusing on inward transformation, we can ensure that our faith is genuine and that our lives bear the true marks of a follower of Christ. [21:44]

Matthew 7:20-21 (ESV): "Thus you will recognize them by their fruits. Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven."

Reflection: In what ways can you cultivate genuine spiritual fruit in your life? How can you ensure that your actions are a true reflection of your inward faith?


Day 4: Examining Your Fruits
We must be cautious of the counterfeit and ensure that our lives reflect the genuine love and holiness of Christ. This involves more than just attending church or looking the part; it requires a deep, personal relationship with God and living out His teachings daily. Authenticity means being willing to stand up for our beliefs, even when it is unpopular, and being transparent about our struggles and imperfections.

By examining the fruits of our lives, we can assess whether we are truly living in alignment with God's will. This self-examination helps us identify areas where we may be falling short and need to seek God's guidance and strength. It is a continuous process of growth and transformation, rooted in a sincere desire to honor God in all that we do. [25:04]

James 1:22-24 (ESV): "But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves. For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks intently at his natural face in a mirror. For he looks at himself and goes away and at once forgets what he was like."

Reflection: What specific fruits of the Spirit are evident in your life? Are there areas where you need to seek God's help to produce more genuine spiritual fruit?


Day 5: Living a Real Christian Life
Authenticity means being willing to stand up for our beliefs, even when it is unpopular, and being transparent about our struggles and imperfections. We must strive to be real Christians, allowing the fruit of the Spirit to shine through us and living out our faith in every aspect of our lives. This involves a commitment to integrity, honesty, and a willingness to be vulnerable with others.

Living a real Christian life means that our faith is not confined to Sunday services but permeates every area of our daily lives. It is about being consistent in our walk with God, whether we are at home, work, or in our communities. By living authentically, we can be a powerful witness to others and draw them closer to Christ. [28:34]

1 Peter 2:12 (ESV): "Keep your conduct among the Gentiles honorable, so that when they speak against you as evildoers, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day of visitation."

Reflection: How can you live out your faith more authentically in your daily life? What steps can you take to ensure that your actions align with your beliefs, even in challenging situations?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "We serve a God who has never failed, and we serve a God who will never fail. Is anybody thankful for that today? Amen." [01:25] ( | | )

2. "Comparison truly is the thief of joy. And comparison will do only one of two things. It will make you feel like you are inferior. Like you're not good enough. Like you will never measure up. It will make you feel altogether worse about yourself after you've done all the comparison. And that's not healthy." [14:09] (60 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "We cannot build a relationship with God off of something that is not even based in reality. Social media can be a tool, but it was never meant to be our primary source of daily bread. It was never meant to replace... Our devotion or to replace our assembling of ourselves together. It was never meant to replace real worship. And it was never meant to replace real praise." [13:21] ( | | )

4. "If God had wanted you to be... Anybody else. Then he would have created you to be somebody else. If God had wanted you to have anybody else's ministry. He would have put you in that ministry. God made you and put you exactly where you are today for a purpose. You are here today for a reason. God made you in his image. And anything less than who God made you to be is outside of the will of God." [15:27] ( | | )

5. "Being a Christian means to be a follower of Jesus Christ, to live by his example and to live by his teachings. And Jesus lived a holy and a sinless lifestyle. And I understand today that we are not Jesus. Jesus was God robed in flesh. He was fully man and fully divine. He was fully man and he was fully God. So you and I can never be sinless. We can never be perfect, but we can certainly strive to be as. As close to Jesus as we can possibly be." [28:34] ( | | )

### Quotes for Members

1. "We need a real relationship with God. And we need real relationships with each other. And we live... We live in a world that is driven by self-image. This has always been an issue. Self-image has always been an issue that we've dealt with. But I believe that it has been heightened by the rise, the popularity of social media." [13:21] ( | | )

2. "You can have on the longest sleeves, though. And you can have on the longest dress. And you can have your hair all put together and still miss the mark. Because that's not truly what identifies us as Christians. You can dress nice, but if you are harboring bitterness in your soul, then you have missed the mark." [26:40] ( | | )

3. "We should all always ask ourselves this question. Am I doing enough? Am I truly living up to what I could do as a Christian? Is there is there a root that's that's deep that I need to dig out? Is there there's something that needs to come up so the fruit of God's spirit can truly work through me?" [32:23] ( | | )

4. "We are known by our our fruits today that is what identifies us as Christians and if you don't have those things if you don't have the fruits of the spirit living on the inside of you then nothing else that you do really matters all that much the clothes that you wear the way that you dress none of that matters if you were not bearing the fruit of the spirit because this truly is what identifies us as Christians." [21:44] ( | | )

5. "How am I supposed to reach lost souls if I am one thing on Sunday, but I'm a totally different thing at Walmart on Monday? How am I supposed to win the lost if I can't even set a good example of what it truly means to be a Christian?" [29:50] ( | | )

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