Aligning Our Hearts: The True Quest for God

 

Summary

In our journey through life, we often find ourselves on quests, much like the knights of King Arthur's realm, each seeking our own version of the Holy Grail. These quests reveal the true nature of our hearts and the motivations that drive us. Sir Percival sought spiritual enlightenment, Sir Gawain craved glory, and Sir Bors desired eternal life. Yet, it was Sir Galahad, whose heart was solely focused on the Grail itself, who came closest to finding it. His quest was not about power or fame but about transformation and drawing closer to Jesus.

Throughout history, each generation has pursued its own Holy Grail, from the quest for stability in the pre-industrial era to the pursuit of personal fulfillment in the late 20th century. Today, many seek balance in their lives, striving for a simpler, more intentional existence. However, the key question remains: What is the true motivation behind our pursuits? Are our hearts aligned with God's purposes, or are they distracted by lesser desires?

The teachings of Jesus and the biblical authors remind us that the disordering of our thoughts and desires can derail our best intentions. Proverbs 4 urges us to guard our hearts, for everything we do flows from them. Dallas Willard emphasizes the importance of keeping God before our minds, constantly redirecting our thoughts to Him. This practice helps us break free from burdensome habits and align our lives with God's will.

As we journey through life, we must be intentional about who we are becoming. The parable of the sower in Matthew 13 illustrates that the condition of our hearts determines the growth of the seeds of God's kingdom. Just as the knights' quests revealed their true selves, our pursuits shape us, often without our conscious awareness. Therefore, we must examine our motives and ensure that our hearts are set on Jesus, the true pole star of our lives.

In our church community, we are called to serve Jesus together, aligning our goals and dreams with His plans. We are invited to pray, participate, commit, serve, and give as part of the family. This journey is not about chasing our own Holy Grails but about laying them down and seeking God's will for our lives. Together, we strive to make His name known and His kingdom come on earth as it is in heaven.

Key Takeaways:

1. The Quest for the Holy Grail: Our personal quests reveal the true nature of our hearts and motivations. Like the knights of old, we must examine our desires and ensure they align with God's purposes, seeking transformation rather than power or fame. [01:12]

2. Generational Pursuits: Each generation has its own Holy Grail, from stability to personal fulfillment. Today, many seek balance, but we must question the true motivation behind our pursuits and align our hearts with God's will. [05:10]

3. Guarding Our Hearts: Proverbs 4 teaches us to guard our hearts, for everything we do flows from them. By keeping God before our minds, we can break free from burdensome habits and align our lives with His will. [07:08]

4. The Parable of the Sower: The condition of our hearts determines the growth of God's kingdom within us. We must examine our motives and ensure our hearts are set on Jesus, allowing Him to guide us through life's journey. [13:44]

5. Serving Together: As a church community, we are called to serve Jesus together, aligning our goals with His plans. By praying, participating, committing, serving, and giving, we lay down our own Holy Grails and seek God's will for our lives. [18:20]

Youtube Chapters:

- [00:00] - Welcome
- [01:12] - The Knights' Quest
- [02:39] - Generational Holy Grails
- [05:10] - Seeking and Motives
- [06:18] - Aligning Desires with God
- [07:08] - Guarding Our Hearts
- [08:33] - Practicing God's Presence
- [10:19] - Breaking Burdensome Habits
- [11:52] - The Pole Star of Our Lives
- [12:49] - Checking Our Motives
- [13:44] - The Parable of the Sower
- [15:24] - True Treasure in God
- [18:20] - Serving Jesus Together
- [19:38] - Discipleship Journey
- [23:18] - Joining the Family
- [27:07] - Serving and Giving
- [31:00] - Reordering Desires
- [32:41] - Prayer and Commitment

Study Guide

Bible Study Discussion Guide

Bible Reading:

1. Proverbs 4:23 - "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it."
2. Matthew 13:1-23 - The Parable of the Sower
3. Psalm 16:8 - "I have set the Lord always before me. Because he is at my right hand, I will not be shaken."

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Observation Questions:

1. What were the different motivations of the knights in their quest for the Holy Grail, and how did these motivations reveal their true hearts? [01:12]

2. How does Proverbs 4:23 relate to the idea of guarding our hearts against distractions and lesser desires? [07:08]

3. In the Parable of the Sower, what are the different types of soil, and how do they represent the condition of our hearts? [13:44]

4. How does the sermon describe the generational shifts in what people consider their "Holy Grail"? [05:10]

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Interpretation Questions:

1. How might the motivations of the knights in the sermon reflect the different pursuits people have today? What does this say about the nature of human desires? [01:12]

2. In what ways does the sermon suggest that our personal "Holy Grails" can distract us from God's purposes? How can we identify these distractions in our own lives? [06:18]

3. How does the practice of keeping God before our minds, as mentioned in Psalm 16:8, help us align our lives with His will? [08:33]

4. What does the Parable of the Sower teach us about the importance of the condition of our hearts in receiving and nurturing God's word? [13:44]

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Application Questions:

1. Reflect on your personal "Holy Grail." What are you currently pursuing, and how does it align with God's purposes for your life? [05:10]

2. Proverbs 4:23 emphasizes guarding our hearts. What specific steps can you take this week to protect your heart from distractions and align it with God's will? [07:08]

3. The sermon discusses the importance of community in serving Jesus together. How can you actively participate in your church community to align your goals with God's plans? [18:20]

4. Consider the different types of soil in the Parable of the Sower. Which type best represents the current state of your heart, and what changes can you make to cultivate a more receptive heart? [13:44]

5. The sermon encourages us to keep God before our minds. What practical habits can you develop to consistently focus your thoughts on God throughout your day? [08:33]

6. How can you contribute to the mission of your church by praying, participating, committing, serving, and giving? Identify one area where you can take a tangible step this week. [23:18]

7. Reflect on any burdensome habits or distractions in your life. What is one specific action you can take to redirect your focus towards God and His kingdom? [09:34]

Devotional

Day 1: The True Nature of Our Quests
Our personal quests in life, much like those of the knights of King Arthur's realm, reveal the true nature of our hearts and motivations. Sir Galahad's quest for the Holy Grail was not about power or fame but about transformation and drawing closer to Jesus. This serves as a reminder that our pursuits should be aligned with God's purposes, seeking transformation rather than worldly accolades. As we embark on our own quests, we must examine our desires and ensure they are rooted in a genuine longing for spiritual growth and closeness to God. [01:12]

"Examine yourselves, to see whether you are in the faith. Test yourselves. Or do you not realize this about yourselves, that Jesus Christ is in you?—unless indeed you fail to meet the test!" (2 Corinthians 13:5, ESV)

Reflection: What is one personal quest or goal you are currently pursuing? How can you ensure that your motivations align with God's purposes rather than personal gain?


Day 2: Generational Pursuits and True Motivation
Each generation has its own version of the Holy Grail, from the quest for stability in the pre-industrial era to the pursuit of personal fulfillment in the late 20th century. Today, many seek balance and a simpler, more intentional existence. However, the key question remains: What is the true motivation behind our pursuits? Are our hearts aligned with God's will, or are they distracted by lesser desires? By examining our motives, we can ensure that our pursuits are not just about personal satisfaction but about fulfilling God's purposes in our lives. [05:10]

"Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him." (1 John 2:15, ESV)

Reflection: Consider a pursuit or goal you have that seems noble on the surface. What deeper motivations might be driving it, and how can you realign them with God's will?


Day 3: Guarding Our Hearts
Proverbs 4 teaches us to guard our hearts, for everything we do flows from them. The disordering of our thoughts and desires can derail our best intentions. By keeping God before our minds, as Dallas Willard suggests, we can break free from burdensome habits and align our lives with His will. This practice of constantly redirecting our thoughts to God helps us maintain a heart that is pure and focused on His purposes, allowing us to live a life that reflects His love and grace. [07:08]

"Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life." (Proverbs 4:23, ESV)

Reflection: What is one habit or thought pattern that distracts you from focusing on God? How can you begin to guard your heart against it today?


Day 4: The Parable of the Sower and Our Hearts
The parable of the sower in Matthew 13 illustrates that the condition of our hearts determines the growth of the seeds of God's kingdom within us. Just as the knights' quests revealed their true selves, our pursuits shape us, often without our conscious awareness. We must examine our motives and ensure that our hearts are set on Jesus, allowing Him to guide us through life's journey. By doing so, we create fertile ground for God's kingdom to flourish in our lives. [13:44]

"And as for what fell among the thorns, they are those who hear, but as they go on their way they are choked by the cares and riches and pleasures of life, and their fruit does not mature." (Luke 8:14, ESV)

Reflection: Reflect on the current state of your heart. What "thorns" might be choking the growth of God's kingdom within you, and how can you address them?


Day 5: Serving Together in Community
As a church community, we are called to serve Jesus together, aligning our goals and dreams with His plans. By praying, participating, committing, serving, and giving, we lay down our own Holy Grails and seek God's will for our lives. This journey is not about chasing our own desires but about making His name known and His kingdom come on earth as it is in heaven. Together, we strive to be a community that reflects God's love and grace to the world around us. [18:20]

"And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near." (Hebrews 10:24-25, ESV)

Reflection: How can you actively participate in your church community this week to serve Jesus and align your goals with His plans? What specific action can you take to encourage others in their faith journey?

Quotes

"But here's the thing that so often comes forth when we go on a noble quest, on a venture forth. Into the unknown. Their very motivations revealed their true hearts. And one by one, they became distracted or consumed by their ideas. We think of Sir Gawain, whose hunger for fame led him astray into endless battles that had no end." [00:01:22]

"And yet there was one knight, Sir Galahad, the one knight whose heart sought only the grail itself. And he was the one who came closest to finding it. For him, the grail wasn't about power. It wasn't about illusions of grandeur. It wasn't about glory and fame. It was about transformation. It was about coming close to the very thing. That the grail was all about in the first instance. It was Jesus." [00:01:58]

"Shifting to the late 20th century, after the post-war boom subsided, society became more economically stable. And the holy grail shifted from external achievement to personal fulfillment. And so the late 20th century saw the rise of individualism, the self-help movement, people increasingly seeking self-actualization, finding one's true self became the goal. And now we find ourselves in the 21st century, and there's one word that has kind of come to define much of who we are right now, and it's the word balance, like the holy grail for many, many books that are sold now with greater volume, many works that are written is about balance, having a good, healthy balance, having a healthy work-life balance, a good, it's not about so much now about what you work. It's actually about the rest that you enjoy." [00:04:04]

"And we see this in the words and the teachings of Jesus. And the biblical authors have this long established view that the disordering of our thoughts, the misalignment of our heart's desires, has the ability to disrail our best motives. And so we come to the teachings that we find in scripture. And we jump down to say Proverbs 4. Where it says, Another translation talks about it being the wellspring of life. Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." [00:06:34]

"The first and most basic thing we can and must do is to keep God before our minds. In our waking, in our sleeping, in our working, in our driving. What does our mind do? Does it shift towards the things of God, the plans and purposes that God has for us? Or does it shift into something else? Keep God before us. Our minds. He goes on. This is the fundamental secret of caring for our souls. Our part in this practicing the presence of God is to direct and redirect our minds constantly to him." [00:08:11]

"Before becoming a Christian, and even once becoming a Christian, there are things... There are things that your mind will drift towards which, in the language of Dallas Willard, are burdensome habits of dwelling on the things of the past. That could be sins that you are entangled in. That could be thoughts that you have towards other people. Maybe bitterness that is dredged deep in your heart towards somebody else. It may be anger at something that went on years ago and it just still sits with you. It might be anxiety and fear. It could be any of those things. Those can become burdensome habits." [00:08:52]

"And so as Willard says, we must constantly direct and redirect our thoughts back to God. Because as I said last week, I quoted from the great hymn, Prone to wonder, Lord, I feel it. Prone to leave the God I love. Like we have this proclivity within us to wander away from the things of God and get caught up in those things. That are less than God." [00:09:46]

"Constantly returns to the north. If God is the great longing of our souls, he will become the pole star of our inward being. I just think there's something. Something so beautiful and rich in that very quote. What is a pole star? It's the north star that for hundreds of years became the guiding light in the sky that helped people to keep in the right direction when out traveling. Where is the pole star? Where's the north star? That will keep me going in the right direction. When all else begins to fail. When I'm out on a rocky sea, where's the pole star? When life just feels messy and whoa, what's going on? Where's the pole star? I'm keeping my eyes. Fixed on Jesus." [00:10:46]

"And this brings us to what Josh read to us earlier in Matthew 13. Because in Matthew 13, Jesus here is telling this parable. Jesus told these parables, these stories, which was so right for the time. People would have understood this language. And in this moment, Jesus is saying that he's telling this parable to the people of Israel. He's telling this story of a farmer scattering seeds. But what we see from this parable and what determined the growth of the seed wasn't the seed itself, but it was the condition of the soil." [00:13:33]

"Some of us, like those knights, have hearts cluttered. Some of us have hearts cluttered with thorns, desires for glory, wealth, comfort. And these things choke out the good seeds of the kingdom. But just like the parable of the sower, what matters isn't just the goal of the quest, of like the end point, where you're going to get to. But what matters is what happens along the way and what's happening to your heart along the journey. Is your heart becoming softer to those around you? Is your heart becoming more pure?" [00:14:22]

"Last week, I reminded us that we're on this journey of prioritizing the presence of God, of being transformed into the likeness of Jesus, of being empowered by the Holy Spirit to partner with God on his mission. Those words of presence, transformation, and mission are key. They're our kind of missional framework for what we're doing here. And we're going to talk about that in a minute. But this radical call to serve alongside one another is something which is woven all through the scriptures. We are called to serve the Lord." [00:16:07]

"And that's where our goals and our ideals and our dreams and our longings, become aligned to his plans and purposes for our lives. It's not about the Holy Grail that we're chasing, but it's about laying that down and going, God, what do you want us to do? This is us. We're a church who serve Jesus together and we love Jesus together. We're on his plans and purposes together. We're following after him together. And we want to do all that we can to focus on that very notion that we are better together." [00:18:20]

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